rolling #metoo thread for sexual harassment in the music industry so no one misses out when artists we don't give a fuck about like Tim Westwood and Bassnectar get caught

(^this is one ppl actually do give a f*ck about, and it's being discussed at Marilyn Manson: Classic or Dud?)

A band called McCafferty, who have only been mentioned once on ilxor on a rolling emo thread, has an abusive frontman. Many of the original members have just left the band. The google doc below contains many screenshots of social media posts and text chains. I get the feeling that this band is not big enough that the abuse will ever get any actual media attention.

https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/1qvPOwZI2BStB7Rjh0IR9JvOnGgZ2QgZbfKb_AhWiA7I/mobilebasic

they should probably just preemptively arrest all emo frontmen

I was like "didn't we do this already" then realized I was thinking of the smith street band so you might be onto something

All this Burger Records stuff came out like mid-2020— but I guess I am just an aging punk with connections to Oakland, so I've known about it for a long time. (Also, I mean, Burger Records has always kind of sucked? Their whole thing is like one big shtick)

<3 table!

Yeah Burger Records and all related bands have always sucked & rubbed me the wrong way, though that was always for aesthetic reasons I can't say I was particularly surprised when victims where coming forward with tales of abuse.

White people cosplaying as 60s-era garage pop musicians was cute for a few years, 2009-2010 or so. That it went on for another decade is truly bizarre and pathetic to me— my empathy and solidarity, as ever, with the survivors, but the whole thing has been creepy and weird since its nascent stages.

This is grim

https://pitchfork.com/news/lawyer-seeks-criminal-investigation-of-ti-and-tiny-who-are-accused-of-sexual-abuse-and-assault/

yeah, i was deeply sad to see that

didn't TI once say he took his teenage daughter to the doctor regularly to check if she was still a virgin? sadly not surprising at all

yeah that was him, he's said a lot of suspect shit over the years

jeeesus

https://www.thedailybeast.com/nicki-minaj-and-husband-kenneth-pettys-campaign-to-silence-his-sexual-assault-victim

Yesterday the ex-wife of the musician Michael “Rhye” Milosh posted several Instagram posts detailing allegations against him. She said that he groomed her from the age of 16, described a previous incident that he was part of that she described as rape, and was physically violent. pic.twitter.com/X6X0P3v3V1

— Benjamin Goggin (@BenjaminGoggin) March 14, 2021

(Rhye's own thread revived but figured here too as an accounting.)

Oy fuck

I really do not like how that CoS article introduces the phrase “anal play,” which is never said in any of the lengthy Instagram posts

James Levine died today

sounds like 3 women have talked about harassment/assault by Har Mar Superstar, seen a screen grab of one, someone I know on Twitter (who would know) says 2 others...still only in private Facebook posts right now but I wouldn't say that I'm shocked.

I follow him on Twitter and he's talked about getting sober in recent memory. Wonder if that had something to do with it.

sorry, that's obviously just speculation. as someone who has struggled with substances myself, I feel kinda shitty about posting that.

Between Har Mar and Rhye, it really seems like there is some kind of almost pathological thread in between being a white dork who makes R&B

the whole schtick especially early was way more edgy, almost assaultive. i think i saw one of his first shows by chance, he was opening for Trans Am and Arcwelder (those were the type of shows he was getting because in those days he was "the guy from Calvin Krime"), but yeah he came out in his underwear and only a boombox then proceeded to walk around the audience (given that it was Trans Am there may have not been any women there) and grinding on dudes, one kid almost punched him and pushed him away

but the vibe was way more andy kaufman than loveable R&B scamp

yeah, I thought of Har Mar as less of white dork who makes R&B and more like ... a hipster

he's kind of the uber minneapolis hipster, has connections throughout everything, from his noise rock/punk/amphetamine reptile days to indie rock when he was sean na na, to connections to hipster R&B, local indie hip hop with har mar to neo-soul type respectable NPR new har mar stuff

I literally don't think I've ever heard him aside from his guest spot on the first neon neon album, but yeah he's been weirdly omnipresent

xp - does he have a dog?!!!!

All that plus he served as a random unexpected Minnesota connection to the MST3K revival (he's the vocalist/'leader' of the skeleton band, sings most of the theme song).

Between Har Mar and Rhye, it really seems like there is some kind of almost pathological thread in between being a white dork who makes R&B

― bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 17 March 2021 17:10 (forty-three minutes ago) link

How To Dress Well better watch his (their?) back

I def remember being skeeved out by those Rhye album covers + interviews

I'm sad about Rhye tbh, i have been a fan of his work for years and that series of instaposts are just painfully detailed and ugly.

I know Har Mar's brother-in-law, I wonder if he's heard about this yet

it's been percolating on Twitter but not really outside of a small bubble, apparently his fiance is going in people's dms to do damage control

I don't know if it could really be reported properly because everything substantial is on the victims' private Facebook posts

How it started How it's going pic.twitter.com/3OrLhVeBxu

— jgarcia (@jasoncomix) March 17, 2021

I def remember being skeeved out by those Rhye album covers + interviews

― change display name (Jordan), Wednesday, March 17, 2021 11:02 AM (one hour ago) bookmarkflaglink

I'm sad about Rhye tbh, i have been a fan of his work for years and that series of instaposts are just painfully detailed and ugly.

― G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, March 17, 2021 11:04 AM (one hour ago) bookmarkflaglink

both of these otm

Time for Britt Daniels to dig the White Stripes.

??

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8nF8L5Fgzc

I still don't understand what that means.

I don't dig the stripes but I'll go for har mar

lol I'm slow

bloke from She Wants Revenge and Crazy Town (and DJ for Obama) and a producer pal ran a goth club in Hollywood, hit on every employee, and told patrons they were mistaken if they reported dancefloor harassment from fame-os.

https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/music/story/2021-03-21/cloak-and-dagger-goth-nightclub-closed-sexual-misconduct-claims

Fucking Thomas Middleditch.

Har Mar has lawyered up and has sent cease and desist notices to at least one victim

Bandmate doing damage control

Another day, another reminder that @HarMarSuperstar (who has recently UNblocked me, welcome back Sean) is accused of assaulting multiple women in Minneapolis. His bandmates have said there will be a statement from him soon. They also believe Har Mar and Laura over survivors. pic.twitter.com/IYL0cOdoRQ

— jgarcia (@jasoncomix) March 20, 2021

Middleditch and his fucking Silicon Valley idiot bros were called out for creating a toxic environment some time ago. This doesn’t surprise me at all.

method acting must be stopped

"Sean has a lot to apologize for" does not seem a promising start from a person ostensibly defending Har Mar.

Middleditch def. seems like he's into a lot of wild sex stuff,

"Sean has a lot to apologize for" does not seem a promising start from a person ostensibly defending Har Mar.

It also seems potentially shitty to publicly share a private text from (and name) someone who sounds like they absolutely will not defend Har Mar publicly, and is prepared to denounce him once he hears the other side of / some more accusations, and is responding to someone going 'ayo bro looks like pitchforks are out for anyone who's ever "sexualised a chick",' and specifically asked for this not to be shared while he waits to hear from / speak to more people. He's not typing "yah shit's fucked bro, you can't even honk a titty anymore," he's saying "out of respect for [HMSS's] fiancee as a survivor and my friend I am standing by her privately for now, with multiple caveats."

"I've texted with a bandmate of Har Mar's who doesn't want to say anything on the record but is choosing to believe [Sean and fiancee], which I think is pissweak" would be more than fair as a way of expressing disdain.

#1 it wasn't a text they are just DMing random people on social media