if an ilx beef threatens to take over a perfectly innocent thread you can politely direct people here.

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you never know. it might work. hug it out. strangle each other. here. just for future reference. for when people are just looking for a fight and the victim is everyone else who doesn't care that much. hahahaha! just kidding. love you all. except that one guy.

scott seward, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:12 (six years ago) Permalink

BTE/trainwreck.jpg/FirstPost!.gif etc.

My Elusive Memes (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:13 (six years ago) Permalink

this is much nicer than the thread I started so many years ago

I see you, Pineapple Teef (DJP), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:14 (six years ago) Permalink

(was this one for those wondering)

I see you, Pineapple Teef (DJP), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:16 (six years ago) Permalink

(jesus I did this a lot, huh)

I see you, Pineapple Teef (DJP), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:17 (six years ago) Permalink

this is bullshit and will never work btw

congratulations (n/a), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:18 (six years ago) Permalink

come @ me :P

Mordy, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:19 (six years ago) Permalink

lol at the idea that the beef on the rolling standup thread was disrupting an otherwise civil and productive conversation

congratulations (n/a), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:21 (six years ago) Permalink

People beef a lot, huh.

Never translate Dutch (jaymc), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:22 (six years ago) Permalink

also some people seem to be claiming "beef" as the cause of an argument as a way of dismissing the points being made in the argument

congratulations (n/a), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:23 (six years ago) Permalink

this is for beef not meta cluster analysis. get it RIGHT.

bnw, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:25 (six years ago) Permalink

"this is bullshit and will never work btw"

lol are you beefing with my beef beef? yeah it will never work probably. but that's why i said this is for future reference. in case of fire...

scott seward, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:33 (six years ago) Permalink

i am not beefing with you but i am not crazy about some of the thoughts behind this thread concept

congratulations (n/a), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:37 (six years ago) Permalink

I like the sandy vagina thread

hot sauce delivery device (mh), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:37 (six years ago) Permalink

beefy beefy beef

Mr. Que, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:38 (six years ago) Permalink

if an ilx beef threatens to take over a perfectly innocent beef thread you can politely direct people here.

Mr. Que, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:39 (six years ago) Permalink

i hope no one beefs on my sandy vagina

congratulations (n/a), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:40 (six years ago) Permalink

lol

bnw, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:41 (six years ago) Permalink

the beef side stays beef and the vagina side stays sandy

perry en concrète (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:43 (six years ago) Permalink

the McBlV

I see you, Pineapple Teef (DJP), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:44 (six years ago) Permalink

we used to have the rolling clusterfuck threads but they always went downhill. naturally enough

deems irreverent (darraghmac), Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:44 (six years ago) Permalink

http://forgifs.com/gallery/d/192237-1/Hockey_fight.gif

pplains, Thursday, 12 July 2012 21:55 (six years ago) Permalink

::struts into room, blows kisses at the crowd::

straight up now tell me will I be a fucking lump forever? (some dude), Friday, 13 July 2012 02:45 (six years ago) Permalink

everybody hold tight I'm uploading my cover of "Ether" to YouTube, it's real swell

perry en concrète (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Friday, 13 July 2012 02:47 (six years ago) Permalink

now do you two have something you would like to say to christopher? keep it civil. we are all of us human.

scott seward, Friday, 13 July 2012 02:50 (six years ago) Permalink

ha oh man i'm getting out of here. this was a really bad idea...

scott seward, Friday, 13 July 2012 02:51 (six years ago) Permalink

kevin: i wasn't equating. i said that she was out of order and he was way fucking out of order. what he did was far worse. but that doesn't make what she did right.

Legendary General Cypher Raige (Gukbe), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:20 (six years ago) Permalink

RIP Achewood ;_;

all kinds of wounds in this thread

Legendary General Cypher Raige (Gukbe), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:21 (six years ago) Permalink

achewood is not dead

Mordy, Friday, 13 July 2012 18:22 (six years ago) Permalink

isn't it, though? isn't it?

Legendary General Cypher Raige (Gukbe), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:23 (six years ago) Permalink

Yeah ;_;

hot sauce delivery device (mh), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:24 (six years ago) Permalink

standup comedy discussion in here pls.

i read like cookie monster eats (darraghmac), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:46 (six years ago) Permalink

yeah maybe we should switch. beefing in the comedy thread, comedy in the beefing thread and then we'll all reconvene at 4 for tea and biscuits

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:47 (six years ago) Permalink

those guys are being beef jerkies imo

i read like cookie monster eats (darraghmac), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:48 (six years ago) Permalink

i tried, but i'm just beefing on my own

Legendary General Cypher Raige (Gukbe), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:49 (six years ago) Permalink

appreciate yr efforts tho

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:51 (six years ago) Permalink

wtf's up with ilx lately

srsly considering full retreat to ilf tbh

i read like cookie monster eats (darraghmac), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:52 (six years ago) Permalink

alright, who's got a problem

frogbs, Friday, 13 July 2012 18:52 (six years ago) Permalink

frogs, how do you feel now that you've been otm'd so goddamn much? are you going to let it get to your head?

coat news for people who love boat shoes (how's life), Friday, 13 July 2012 18:57 (six years ago) Permalink

by who???

frogbs, Friday, 13 July 2012 19:00 (six years ago) Permalink

by who???

― frogbs, Friday, July 13, 2012 3:00 PM

otm

Mordy, Friday, 13 July 2012 19:01 (six years ago) Permalink

thanks, Mord

frogbs, Friday, 13 July 2012 19:02 (six years ago) Permalink

wtf's up with ilx lately

Summer got too hot too quickly. At least for those of us in the northern hemisphere.

Johnny Fever, Friday, 13 July 2012 19:04 (six years ago) Permalink

ahem

sorry i'm tumblr white (Noodle Vague), Friday, 13 July 2012 19:06 (six years ago) Permalink

at this point neither of the people involved in the specific beef being discussed are actually posting here or trying to work out their issues with each other so I'm not sure what function this conversation is serving beyond "AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH"

― The Owls of Ja Rule (DJP), Tuesday, October 16, 2012 11:49 AM (5 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

It's not which is what I was trying to say. The whole reason I posted earlier was AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH but sometimes you can only read this stuff so many times before resorting to that, you know?

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 15:57 (six years ago) Permalink

mh- ilxor user mordy was outed a misogynist bully on tweets from wcc's twitter. AF seems to think that

i) This is fine
ii) mordy shouldn't call this out, tho it's a public forum
iii) other ilxors shouldn't be talkin about this because of the poster involved

the oft-posited third fisherman (darraghmac), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 15:57 (six years ago) Permalink

There are enough people who either enjoy a pile-on or like to provoke known-to-be-sensitive posters in an inflammatory way. Not calling anyone out in particular here but to act like it's just a problem with one poster and that poster alone is kind of disingenuous. Without wanting to give anyone a free pass.

Otherwise I'm not sure what benefit these sort of trial-by-ILX threads serve really.

Matt DC, Tuesday, 16 October 2012 15:58 (six years ago) Permalink

fwiw if anyone was complaining about me publicly on twitter/facebook/whatever and i found out about it, i would probably go retweet the offending tweet or "like" the facebook post (god kill me now) just to acknowledge that i saw it. because bringing it beyond ilx is lame. no apologies

down w/ obana...he is the reson were in dept (Z S), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 15:58 (six years ago) Permalink

matt i acknowledge that, but seriously you're advocating 'ignore the twitter-ilx meta because it's wcc'

the oft-posited third fisherman (darraghmac), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:01 (six years ago) Permalink

http://i.imgur.com/yrbb5.png

(╯︵╰,) RIP (am0n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:02 (six years ago) Permalink

http://i.imgur.com/I6GSf.gif

but really just wanna say that even though ENBB doesn't think much of me, she has been pretty gd otm itt

HAPPY BDAY TOOTS (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:03 (six years ago) Permalink

amon otm

jon and kate catch h8 (k3vin k.), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:03 (six years ago) Permalink

tbrr i have never found it difficult to avoid getting into fights w/ wcc on ilx or off ilx, not that i dont understand what people are complaining about but at the same time its like

max, Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:04 (six years ago) Permalink

yeah, i mean, don't engage - agreed

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:05 (six years ago) Permalink

but sometimes that's not that simple

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:05 (six years ago) Permalink

ilx is clearly not good for wcc

--bob marley (lag∞n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:06 (six years ago) Permalink

*waits for the rest of max's post*

(╯︵╰,) RIP (am0n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:07 (six years ago) Permalink

WCC's diktat that people not talk about suicide on a thread about ending your own existence was stupid.

Mordy fucking with her over that was pointlessly aggressive and condescending

those two apparently hate each other

so, here we are.

there is no dana, only (goole), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:08 (six years ago) Permalink

xp

(✿◠‿◠) (╯︵╰,) RIP

did the flower die?? :(

I want to know where Mordy started 'mansplaining' mostly. Because he is a man, talking to a woman, is that always mansplaining? Did goole just mansplain to all of us? It's a dumb term anyway but using it for every instance you don't agree with just makes all women look bad.

she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:10 (six years ago) Permalink

matt i acknowledge that, but seriously you're advocating 'ignore the twitter-ilx meta because it's wcc'

I said 'without wanting to give anyone a free pass'.

Matt DC, Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:10 (six years ago) Permalink

yr posts failure to put said beef in well known larger context renders it fairly meaningless, goole, sir

--bob marley (lag∞n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:10 (six years ago) Permalink

mordy: "all women *are* bad"

iirc

the oft-posited third fisherman (darraghmac), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:11 (six years ago) Permalink

sometimes i think wcc really comes from a good place and rightfully and deservingly calls people out for being genuinely misogynist or sexist. but then she turns around and posts threads fetishizing yorke before flipping out when someone dares to refer to a female musician as "attractive".

HAPPY BDAY TOOTS (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:11 (six years ago) Permalink

but i have a penis so i'm just mansplaining here, sorry guys

HAPPY BDAY TOOTS (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:12 (six years ago) Permalink

? i said they hate each other!

xp oh jon don't even

there is no dana, only (goole), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:12 (six years ago) Permalink

Are we done here? Can we please be done here? Especially now with the popcorn.gifs coming out.

WmC, Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:12 (six years ago) Permalink

oh i'm sorry for calling a bullshit double standard

HAPPY BDAY TOOTS (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:14 (six years ago) Permalink

xp oh yeah, there is genuine misogyny, I believe that. But when you find it everywhere I get such a 'boy who called wolf' vibe that drives me insane, because it undermines all of us.

she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:14 (six years ago) Permalink

mansplaining? has this turned into another thread about shaving your balls?

sorcery is in the gutter (how's life), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:14 (six years ago) Permalink

? i said they hate each other!

http://i50.tinypic.com/69f3mh.png

Mordy, Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:14 (six years ago) Permalink

but sorry for my gifing, lets let this thread die awhile before new beef curtains

HAPPY BDAY TOOTS (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:14 (six years ago) Permalink

fuck why did i even

there is no dana, only (goole), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:15 (six years ago) Permalink

? i said they hate each other!

― there is no dana, only (goole), Tuesday, October 16, 2012 12:12 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

them hating each other is prob a. not even true b. not v informative as far as understanding what happened!

--bob marley (lag∞n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:15 (six years ago) Permalink

mansplaining? has this turned into another thread about shaving your balls?

when a male poster says something wcc doesn't like, she asks them to stop "mansplaining" things to her

HAPPY BDAY TOOTS (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:16 (six years ago) Permalink

i agree with jon that men's rights are under attack and it isn't fair

jon and kate catch h8 (k3vin k.), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:16 (six years ago) Permalink

Beef curtains is literally the worst euphemism in all the world. Let's just move on if only to prevent anyone else from using it. PLEASE?!

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:16 (six years ago) Permalink

OH KEVIN GTFO

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:16 (six years ago) Permalink

sorry but I don't really think that's what he was saying

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:17 (six years ago) Permalink

i don't know how helpful it is to chime in here, neither do I really want to stand around not saying anything, so... Anyway, I've had similar confrontations with WCC in only the last couple of weeks - ones which have escalated extremely rapidly from polite thread conversation > assumed insinuation > belligerent and wilful misunderstandings > aggressive accusations > seeing myself being bitched about on Twitter, and while it's frustrating and upsetting to be accused of advocating misogyny/sexual abuse/and more because of some minor incompatibility of views on some band or other, seeing it aired in places outside of ILX is, well it's pretty shocking when you come across it.
What I'm more concerned about is why this seems to be happening so often. I've met and gotten along very well with WCC in the past (several years ago now) - she's a thoroughly nice person IRL and I'm therefore alarmed at the way some of these beefs appear to escalate. It's never been my intention to cause pile-ons or act like (too much of) a dick on this board, and somehow I still end up in that maelstrom - being called out for pretty much anything I post that doesn't quite jibe with the poster's particular point of view. I love a heated and healthy debate, but when labels and accusations are thrown around in a personal manner, it goes from fun to sad very very quickly. When a poster's genuine attempts to make peace and get back on track with a thread are immediately thrown back in their face with even uglier accusations, that's the tipping point where the issue has to be addressed (as on this thread) - especially when it's not only disrupting the flow of conversation but actively upsetting other people and even putting a mark on their character, usually undeserved.

where is el airoporto? (dog latin), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:17 (six years ago) Permalink

I love that mordy is trying to defend himself about not being a misogynist when his twitter avatar is a CRYING WOMAN

Mary Ty$ Band (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:17 (six years ago) Permalink

i do not however agree with jon's previously stated advocacy of race war

jon and kate catch h8 (k3vin k.), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:18 (six years ago) Permalink

eh look it was my impression that mordy didn't like or respect WCC very much before this and they had bad history here.

but this isn't even something i should be butting into, in my opinion, so i'm going to drop it.

there is no dana, only (goole), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:18 (six years ago) Permalink

xxp it's alice, u illiterate

Mordy, Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:18 (six years ago) Permalink

; )

jon and kate catch h8 (k3vin k.), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:19 (six years ago) Permalink

oh dear god

The Owls of Ja Rule (DJP), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:19 (six years ago) Permalink

I am so sorry.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:19 (six years ago) Permalink

PLEASE LOCK THIS THREAD

The Owls of Ja Rule (DJP), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:19 (six years ago) Permalink

To be clear, I stand by my original point! I'm just sorry for wherever this is about to go.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:20 (six years ago) Permalink

plz lock this thread people are talkin abt stuff!

--bob marley (lag∞n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:20 (six years ago) Permalink

omg we have offended dans delicate sensitivities again

--bob marley (lag∞n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:20 (six years ago) Permalink

maybe he should just not read the thread

--bob marley (lag∞n), Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:20 (six years ago) Permalink

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v296/WilliamCrump63/shoddop.jpg

Everybody go find something better to do with your lives for a while.

WmC, Tuesday, 16 October 2012 16:21 (six years ago) Permalink


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