Lucky for you, I got all these daddy issues: Queer Summer, 2021 (LGBTQQIAAP+++)

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put it here, baby cakes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rb5s15LOHPI

(and watch that)

surm, Thursday, 12 August 2021 22:48 (one month ago) link

hi surm! i have no idea but i'd appreciate a gif

― Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Monday, August 2, 2021 9:18 PM (one week ago) bookmarkflaglink

i'll hit ya up soon bb

surm, Thursday, 12 August 2021 23:01 (one month ago) link

Gay bar murder mysteries:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgAHn3SilhQ

edited for dog profanity (cryptosicko), Thursday, 12 August 2021 23:43 (one month ago) link

O God - I'm on my way to a date and I feel like this is a bad sign!

surm, Thursday, 12 August 2021 23:58 (one month ago) link

so like i've always been curious, i don't think i know what most people mean by 'daddy issues.' personally i always take it to mean internalized patriarchy i.e. self-hate. not to get too serious about it or anything.

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Friday, 13 August 2021 01:35 (one month ago) link

i have a dj gig tonight and if i have the guts i'm going to play this

https://music.apple.com/bw/album/aww-s-t-single/1039958757

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Friday, 13 August 2021 01:37 (one month ago) link

tumblr deleted my porn pic account :(

end of an era that stretches back to downloading pics via irc in the 90s

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Friday, 13 August 2021 01:40 (one month ago) link

we watched some olympic wrestling clips yesterday.

this serial post brought to you by nervous jitters

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Friday, 13 August 2021 01:41 (one month ago) link

The 🎞️ is thelma & louise & the actress's name is thelma

Dexter Holland's Opus (Deflatormouse), Friday, 13 August 2021 04:38 (one month ago) link

Saw it on reel 13 because of course i am home watching pbs on sat nites

Dexter Holland's Opus (Deflatormouse), Friday, 13 August 2021 04:41 (one month ago) link

If by "daddy issues" you mean old issues of Daddy - The Magazine, then yes.

Hideous Lump, Friday, 13 August 2021 05:41 (one month ago) link

lol

The 🎞️ is thelma & louise & the actress's name is thelma
ding ding ding ding ding!

you win.
https://monophy.com/media/MRGtpcq4o8uOMJHHEy/monophy.gif

surm, Friday, 13 August 2021 22:07 (one month ago) link

this one's for you mappy
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/a2/c3/b9/a2c3b9cb7e33b38d9dc01ecf48b790bc.gif

surm, Friday, 13 August 2021 22:07 (one month ago) link

wuuuuut

*wicka wicka*

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Friday, 13 August 2021 22:10 (one month ago) link

<3

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Friday, 13 August 2021 22:10 (one month ago) link

it'll be great!

i'm at home, we're both stoned as hell listening to Low.

heyy nineteen, that's john belushi (the table is the table), Saturday, 14 August 2021 01:47 (one month ago) link

Mrrraow hi kitty cat ... Hope no one has insomnia tonight

surm, Saturday, 14 August 2021 05:10 (one month ago) link

Just sayin'

surm, Saturday, 14 August 2021 05:10 (one month ago) link

ding ding ding ding ding!

you win.

That's very generous considering I don't have a clue who the actress is <3

But I recognize the drag queen in Murder She Wrote as Bobby Wheeler from Taxi, a dead weight who was wisely dropped from the cast early on and whose friends knew him as Jeff Conway.

(Taxi being probably my 2nd favorite tv series ever after Eerie, Indiana)

Dexter Holland's Opus (Deflatormouse), Saturday, 14 August 2021 06:46 (one month ago) link

I've met all the living cast members randomly in NYC over the years except Danny Devito.

One day I was having dinner at a pizza bar by Lincoln ctr and Tony Danza walked in and sat down next to me.

One day I walked in a midtown bar to find Christoper Lloyd holding court in the center of the room

Etc etc

Dexter Holland's Opus (Deflatormouse), Saturday, 14 August 2021 06:51 (one month ago) link

That's funny because I've met Danny DeVito. He spilled wine on me at an art show lol.

heyy nineteen, that's john belushi (the table is the table), Sunday, 15 August 2021 10:31 (one month ago) link

:)

Hope he at least offered to pay for the dry cleaning!!

How was the DJ gig, map?

Dexter Holland's Opus (Deflatormouse), Sunday, 15 August 2021 17:16 (one month ago) link

it was rad as hell! thanks for asking. i had the place with me for a few tracks near the end. always a good feeling.

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Sunday, 15 August 2021 18:26 (one month ago) link

yall give us your weekend updates.

it's smoky as fuck outside so i am gladly going to be indoors with the plants and the cat all day

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Sunday, 15 August 2021 18:28 (one month ago) link

i was in l.a. for a few years but the only real celeb encounter i had, probably because i am clueless as hell, was that i am pretty sure i sat across the bar from jake gyllenhall in chinatown

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Sunday, 15 August 2021 18:30 (one month ago) link

Deflatormouse, I was wearing all black, and plus it seemed like we were both pretty drunk— we ended up just talking about It's Always Sunny, as I did an interview with everyone *except* him during the show's first season.

heyy nineteen, that's john belushi (the table is the table), Sunday, 15 August 2021 20:31 (one month ago) link

other than dinner with my nieces and folks yesterday, I've done nothing but hang out on the patio of our local bookstore reading Elena Ferrante and writing.

I need to get laid.

So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 15 August 2021 20:45 (one month ago) link

Alfred: the new ferrante? got it sitting on my coffee table right now

slow boring weekend. went on a nice hike yesterday though it was more strenuous than we anticipated. currently putzing around on Serato and maybe making a mix later. but also feeling kinda insecure about my actual abilities/range as a DJ ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

donna rouge, Sunday, 15 August 2021 20:54 (one month ago) link

Alfred: the new ferrante? got it sitting on my coffee table right now

The Lost Daughter.

So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 15 August 2021 21:02 (one month ago) link

It's the husband's birthday weekend, so it was dinner and cards at my mom's last night, and tonight we're BBQing and having about ten friends over (I'm making a playlist for that right now).

edited for dog profanity (cryptosicko), Sunday, 15 August 2021 21:13 (one month ago) link

"Rad as hell" sounds great, good to hear that. What kind of space/crowd? Sorry if you already said elsewhere.

Drunk Danny Devito encounter sounds good too!

I was in fact home watching PBS on Saturday night, true to my earlier post. Spent the day yesterday on my favorite seculded beach in Long Island, wish I was there now.

Dexter Holland's Opus (Deflatormouse), Monday, 16 August 2021 20:13 (one month ago) link

Which beach?? I hail from the island.
Y'all sound good, I'm getting a peaceful vibe all around which i love!
Last weekend was pretty decent in my world. I enjoyed the date i went on, he's super lovely. I think I'd like to see him again but not sure. I kinda deferred when he asked me. No kiss goodnight but i think there MIGHT be a breath issue... might need to just kiss him to find out!

surm, Wednesday, 18 August 2021 23:40 (one month ago) link

Garvies Point. I know all the north shore spots as far east as Callahan's in Fort Salonga. Probably better than any other human who can't drive. Love the crazy geology, Garvies is the craziest of all.

Where in LI do you hail from? Lived in Sea Cliff for a couple of years in my mid 20's.

Super lovely guys deserve a second date, if you ask me. Which of course you didn't.

;)

Marcos Marcos-Valle (Deflatormouse), Thursday, 19 August 2021 03:08 (four weeks ago) link

I took so many dates to that beach, all year round. I'll never forget their gratitude.

Marcos Marcos-Valle (Deflatormouse), Thursday, 19 August 2021 03:15 (four weeks ago) link

Ha! 🤍 I started out in Stony Brook and then moved to Cold spring Harbor which is right next to Huntington. Stony Brook had some amazingly unique terrain.

I think you're right about the date. Since this is all somewhat foreign to me in this moment, I'm not so good at how to navigate things if the chemistry isn't right. Guess I'll have to figure that out sooner rather than later

PS I also can't drive! Wrestling with whether or not to try and learn in nyc...

surm, Thursday, 19 August 2021 20:49 (four weeks ago) link

I didn't realize that about the chemistry. It's definitely tricky to navigate, sometimes it can be dormant until you start making out or w/e other times it just isn't happening. It's all very foreign to me as well, has been for years <3

I know Cold Spring Harbor intimately well, of course. I was just there a couple of weeks ago en route to Caumsett. Had a bunch of friends scattered around Huntington at one time (it's huge!!) but I've still gotta make it out to Stony Brook/Pt. Jeff area.

Marcos Marcos-Valle (Deflatormouse), Thursday, 19 August 2021 21:05 (four weeks ago) link

I'm too nervous to learn to drive actually. I am a space case with a slooow reaction time. Someone once told me if I can walk around without bumping into stuff, i should be ok to drive. But like, I've broken my nose 3 times walking into walls.

Marcos Marcos-Valle (Deflatormouse), Thursday, 19 August 2021 21:08 (four weeks ago) link

Omg. No I totally hear you, I'm deathly scared because I'm such a nervous nelly. But honestly nothing would make me feel more liberated than to be able to get the f*** out of the city. You're also right about the chemistry, I really don't know if it's there or not yet. I think I just have to figure out how to move forward if it isn't.

Port Jeff is actually pretty beautiful. It's charming over there, without being fussy.

surm, Thursday, 19 August 2021 22:52 (four weeks ago) link

my favorite hang buddy is back in town after a long time - i have to tell u I'm honestly not sure when the last time I had sex is and i think I'm def ready lol

I had a fun night the other night going out to the local bar and hanging with a really cool trans lady I met there. we came back to my place after and just talked and hung out for the rest of the night it was super nice. sometimes you just meet somebody who's flow goes with your flow ya know?

surm, Sunday, 29 August 2021 20:04 (two weeks ago) link

Had my first hookup with a young feller; we'd danced around each other since late June, a friend of friends. He's quite young, and for the first time ever in this sort of thing I sense the differences

So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 29 August 2021 20:43 (two weeks ago) link

I sense the differences

uh, vive la différence?

it is to laugh, like so, ha! (Aimless), Monday, 30 August 2021 02:48 (two weeks ago) link

go away

Linda and Jodie Rocco (map), Monday, 30 August 2021 02:54 (two weeks ago) link

I've given this a lot of thought and here's a broomstick. Go fuck yourself.

it is to laugh, like so, ha! (Aimless), Monday, 30 August 2021 03:56 (two weeks ago) link

Wtf

The 25 Best Songs Ever Ranked In Order (Deflatormouse), Monday, 30 August 2021 05:05 (two weeks ago) link

Flagged

The 25 Best Songs Ever Ranked In Order (Deflatormouse), Monday, 30 August 2021 05:05 (two weeks ago) link

omg what's happening in here!

surm, Wednesday, 1 September 2021 16:39 (two weeks ago) link

Alfred what's he look like? good chemistry?

surm, Wednesday, 1 September 2021 16:44 (two weeks ago) link

Fight, fight, doesn't anyone eat anymore?

i carry the torch for disco inauthenticity (Eric H.), Wednesday, 1 September 2021 16:47 (two weeks ago) link

i'll tell you what i'm gonna be eating is popcorn when i go see CANDYMAN tonight

surm, Wednesday, 1 September 2021 18:21 (two weeks ago) link

I'm going to be eating candy when I go to Popman tonight!

i carry the torch for disco inauthenticity (Eric H.), Wednesday, 1 September 2021 18:25 (two weeks ago) link

what is popman??

surm, Wednesday, 1 September 2021 19:03 (two weeks ago) link

ok candyman was good y'all

surm, Friday, 3 September 2021 01:14 (two weeks ago) link

I ate candy last Friday night!

So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 3 September 2021 01:21 (two weeks ago) link

what kind?? i'm also here to tell u that if u come across a twizzler alternative called RED VINES - run, don't walk, away!

i think me and a fb have set a date for Saturday - it's been a minute i hope i remember how it's done

surm, Friday, 3 September 2021 12:39 (two weeks ago) link

The hairy moist kind. It tasted good.

So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 3 September 2021 13:05 (two weeks ago) link

Red Vines are really good

Kind regards, Anus (the table is the table), Saturday, 4 September 2021 00:12 (two weeks ago) link

omg

surm, Sunday, 5 September 2021 04:00 (one week ago) link

lol! i respect this opinion my friend.

surm, Sunday, 5 September 2021 04:01 (one week ago) link

my thing fell throughhhhhgggg grrrrr 😶😶😶 although i did bring home an amazing human the other night, a trans chicka who i met at the pool table ( she was kicking ass ). we had a great time but there was no sex. it definitely fed my mind tho.

surm, Sunday, 5 September 2021 04:11 (one week ago) link

um SO - i talked to another man this weekend who loves red vines. i honestly think this might be like a missing taste bud issue for me. wassup y'all. give me the late summer updates. i want it all.

surm, Wednesday, 15 September 2021 00:07 (three days ago) link

red vines are ok, just think of the mention of them as sexual come-ons

Dan S, Wednesday, 15 September 2021 00:18 (three days ago) link

just that that kind of banter sounds flirtatious to me

Dan S, Wednesday, 15 September 2021 00:22 (three days ago) link

hey so i went on a date with a costume designer with a mustache - i think there might be a second date - he's real sweet. tall and handsome, thinks i'm cute. not mad about it.

surm, Friday, 17 September 2021 01:01 (yesterday) link


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