Stonewall the QUEER SUMMER 2019

btw Happy Roundnumber Birthday, Eric!

The only thing I remember about the summer of '79 is I saw a double bill of Animal House and Putney Swope at my hometown theater.

Round number and rounder midsection!

all part of the otter to bear transformation

I'm having Jake over tonight
There's a real spark there!
He's adorable and sexy af and I'm a little bit pinching myself
!!!!

Jake Ryan?

Lol nooooo
Jake with the floppy hair who lives on my street and wants to watch horror movies with me!!!!!

damn, see what I miss by hating horror movies

:P he let me top and now I want a burger

Horror movies, topping and burgers?! Keep that one!

Omg right

hooked up with a dude at a wedding I attended -- Brooklyn's good for that sort of thing

Lol Brooklyn is so slutty. What did he look like?! Give us the deets

I don't get nuthin in Brooklyn

I feel lost that I haven't had my fill of Manhattan gays ever
Am I missing much?
This guy I was seeing recently gave me a dispassionate goodbye and I figured we came to parting ways but he texted last night
I'm gonna make him wait a few days before I respond.

I shaved my balls while listening to The Hidden Cameras this morning. Don't really care for the song that much but I really like the lyrics:

Hunting hair to find emotional grace
I am scared you'll see my body and know
That removing hair has taken over my life
And I don't know how to stop

I want another enema, nema, nema
Good waste is an oxymoron, moron, moron
My body is an exit wound, oh my wounds, oh my wounds
I want another enema, nema, nema

hairless balls make me sad

they also make you itch

I flip-flop on whether or not I'm a man who is crotch-hairy or crotch-shaven but usually it's just a once-a-year thing when it gets hot. I am rollerblading a lot these days, speaking of gay. I went 13 km yesterday, with my shirt off.

video or it didn't happen

when I had my stem-cell transplant my crotch hair fell out and frankly it was traumatic

Omg
That so is
I had a traumatic incident with hair removal last summer so this year I'm committed to being a total caveman beard and all

It doesn't need to be shaved to the skin for me, but I am no fan of a briar patch down there.

Ok admittedly I did trim yesterday

But like just the essentials

but Eric, it adds so much mystery

Save that bush for Jessica Fletcher.

Baahhhahhahhahahahhhhahahahahaha
She was (obv) just on my TV today

I find that pouring gin over the pubes causes them to gasp and self-immolate.

I love my boyfriend so much! We watched the pilot for Pose over dinner at his suggestion and it was weird and sad and beautiful and cheesy and I kissed him after dinner and it was so nice

We are going to Berlin for a vacation at the end of the month, what should we do? A friend is putting us up in Mitte

Yesss we have been watching pose too
It's a v strong show

you guys
i did not feel strong about my sensual encounter yesterday

Last night I watched the Press Your Luck reboot with my BF and it seemed like the right thing to be doing.

how long have you guys been together?

More than 3 years, somehow! (We were friends for 7+ years before that though.)

<3 :+) :+)

The real bummer about this set-up, and one which has set up a fairly big potential landmine up for us both, is that we respect each other too much as friends to actually go through with some of the fights that I think it's necessary to have with a significant other. (Not all of them; we have fought. Just not with the id fully unsheathed.)

necessary fights = why i have avoided having a S.O.

No Drama Morbama

You'll note I've started a tad fewer pointless fights on ILX these last few years.

i do know what u mean
conflict avoidance can backfire
but honestly sounds lovely!

Possibly controversial belief alert, but relationship fights, I think, are a useful tool in helping people better themselves.

they take a huge toll on me,
but admittedly
sometimes they have made me grow
(in a big way)
currently reading "why buddhism is true"
i like it!!!

i like to grow alone

lol
you can grow your own way!

Play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness

like a heartbeat
drives u mad
in the stillness of remembering...

hey, i haven't posted this in years!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoEJQ6ZDzIo

What a mixtape we could all make.

Five songs in: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5HSbx72tmvR7QNK2233wcs?si=GcIkMYT-RlOmbuAEosXLPw

excited!!! now if only spotify's web player would work

When it does, it's a collaborative playlist so add whatever gives you life this summer.

so amped, i will work on it from my phone too

ha that would be the day

summer is over, queers

THANK GOD

Do not accept.

are you saying we need a new thread morbzy?

i have a really unpopular title ready, so beat me to it

No please share.

Hurry up and make the thread I have sumthin to say

https://66.media.tumblr.com/d1b2b986c8e1ef88e9f1f57f29725a01/tumblr_p542ecSrAK1tstd16o2_250.gif

Oh no, I was posting that in a Jazmine Masters voice

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Canceling Ellen and the NFL: QUEER FALL of 2019