i did not get to meet surm or tape store but i got to hang with lou and brainwasher
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 26 March 2012 19:18 (twelve years ago) link
my innards ruin everything
surm, i finally bought a film membership over there.
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 March 2012 19:20 (twelve years ago) link
hahaha here you are in my computer database :D
forgot they were playing the house of mirth yesterday, wanted to see that on the big screen again
― surm, Monday, 26 March 2012 19:29 (twelve years ago) link
plz do not share any of my info with my stalkers :)
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 March 2012 19:50 (twelve years ago) link
<3 house of mirth
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 March 2012 20:03 (twelve years ago) link
Me too but I can't watch it often
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 26 March 2012 20:05 (twelve years ago) link
just watched it a few weeks ago, actually. ugh, that bertha is SUCH a horrible bitch, it gets me every single time
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 March 2012 20:07 (twelve years ago) link
I highly recommend Tom Hiddleston's butt in The Deep Blue Sea
(it's a good film too)
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 March 2012 20:09 (twelve years ago) link
i won't morbzy
yeah the house of mirth was really terrific, if incredibly sad
― surm, Monday, 26 March 2012 20:29 (twelve years ago) link
haven't seen it, book is all-time tho
― althea and (donna rouge), Monday, 26 March 2012 20:31 (twelve years ago) link
oh donna, you have to
if only for gillian anderson and eric stoltz and their tragically thwarted ginger love
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 March 2012 20:35 (twelve years ago) link
tape store sleep on my couch
i am in bed with the sound machine on meadow, the fan on low, Ryan at my side and melrose place on
and i have tomorrow off
i'm pretty much set
― surm, Tuesday, 27 March 2012 07:14 (twelve years ago) link
that sounds perfect/adorable.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 14:01 (twelve years ago) link
things have been a little off with the boy lately - he's stressed with school and a few other things and fixating on like...tiny trivial stuff that i do that bothers him. i was contemplating whether we needed a bit of space and then he woke me up this morning in bed with 'i think we should take a break'
so... there's that.
I'm not even sure if it's a bad thing? Except he got really upset once he proposed it and didn't know if he wanted to. part of me feels like the only way to break out of the dynamic we've been in recently is to have a few weeks apart. but i'm not even sure if it's possible to shift the dynamic at this point.
do breaks ever *actually* work? or are they just sort of delusional?
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 14:03 (twelve years ago) link
in my very humble opinion, alex, i don't know if taking a break will 'work' in the absence of frank, open dialogue, which i think is what's needed. i mean, just the fact that he has been fixating on minor annoyances says (to me) that he could be harboring some kind of resentment or holding on to some hurt and it's spilling over into your daily interactions. some time apart might make things easier but it doesn't really solve any of the underlying issues of your relationship. trust me, "state of the union" type relationship conversations are never fun and can be v scary but they are absolutely necessary in my experience.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:21 (twelve years ago) link
but maybe you've already had those conversations. i don't know, and i don't want to pry into your private life like that. i know it sounds like lame advice but sometimes you gotta talk it out until you're blue in the face and then keep talking.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:24 (twelve years ago) link
just remember to stick to "I-statements" :)
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:26 (twelve years ago) link
so otm
― desk calendar white out (Matt P), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:27 (twelve years ago) link
yeah, fair enough. there have been text messages exchanged to that effect, including a rescinding of the 'break' and i think we're going to have a state of the union conversation in a day or two. i think i just need a day or two to figure out where i'm at.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:27 (twelve years ago) link
xp
Any time I've admitted to tension between a lover or friend I became aware of it from my own snippy remarks about stupid shit, so I sympathize. elmo otm.
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:28 (twelve years ago) link
i don't have any advice but i hope things work out alex!
― lex pretend, Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:32 (twelve years ago) link
ditto
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:36 (twelve years ago) link
haha, i hope i don't come off like some self-appointed relationship guru, just want to share my perspective.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:36 (twelve years ago) link
sounds true enough. have nearly had relationships implode on me because we didn't have that talk.
― althea and (donna rouge), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:40 (twelve years ago) link
the best part is that sometimes you realize that you're having the same conversation over and over again!
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:46 (twelve years ago) link
He talked me into lunch today and we had a bit of the conversation. Tentatively, going well, especially compared to the totally distanced un-presence I've been getting for a few weeks. Acknowledgment of issues happened, which is new. Clearly, I'm waiting on follow through to some extent but it was nice just to feel validated about certain things. Allowing each other to ha e a bit more space is going to be key, and navigating criticism vs. defensiveness, but I think we're good?
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:06 (twelve years ago) link
Sorry for bombarding y'all with unnecessary drama, I guess.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:11 (twelve years ago) link
'I' statements we're useful. Thanks, Elmo.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:13 (twelve years ago) link
We're here to let you know you're (not just) in this knee deep, Alex.
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:14 (twelve years ago) link
no worries, alex! drama happens, no use apologizing. i'm glad you got to talking & i wish you & yr man many more productive 'i' statements as you hash it out.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:46 (twelve years ago) link
unrelated: i was watching dune last night and was idly pondering how awesome it would be to see a queen done up in bene gesserit drag.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 21:20 (twelve years ago) link
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, March 27, 2012 5:20 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
HOLY SHIT. I wish there was a drag-queen-costume equivalent of Rule 34.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 22:46 (twelve years ago) link
In the previous gay thread Corey mentioned the preacher in front of Old Navy on State St. (ya can't get to heaven if you're a homosexual (also, smokin' them cigarettes, smokin' dope, lookin' funny)).
https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/526217_3259471399517_1049107064_3150585_211817982_n.jpg
If that fella is there later tonight I'm going to give him a dollar.
― free societies must let drunken gay Texans have sex (Je55e), Thursday, 29 March 2012 20:25 (twelve years ago) link
I wanna give preacher dude the Judas kiss and see his reaction
― tanuki, Thursday, 29 March 2012 20:39 (twelve years ago) link
well, maybe not me personally but I'd like to see someone do it.
that's too good for him, handsome
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 29 March 2012 21:08 (twelve years ago) link
;)
― tanuki, Thursday, 29 March 2012 21:16 (twelve years ago) link
Like someone else said, I hope he gets to heaven and it's like 3 a.m. at The Eagle there.
― free societies must let drunken gay Texans have sex (Je55e), Thursday, 29 March 2012 22:06 (twelve years ago) link
lollll
― y'tulip, y'pea-brained earwig (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 March 2012 22:09 (twelve years ago) link
new favorite comic
http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1p11oQ8e31qc1sduo1_400.jpg
― tanuki, Friday, 30 March 2012 13:37 (twelve years ago) link
they are having a "why didn't you call me?" scene
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Friday, 30 March 2012 14:50 (twelve years ago) link
"you went to delhi AND india?"
― desk calendar white out (Matt P), Friday, 30 March 2012 19:21 (twelve years ago) link
"yep. i sure did!"
― desk calendar white out (Matt P), Friday, 30 March 2012 19:22 (twelve years ago) link
What's good, ladies?
http://v.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0r7yq2XY21qf09eb_r1.mov
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 4 April 2012 06:16 (twelve years ago) link
whatt up i'm tippin
― TALiB KWELi SODMG (The Reverend), Wednesday, 4 April 2012 06:18 (twelve years ago) link
Ph is visiting his family in Shreveport for his grandfather's 90th birthday and apparently his so-called xtian sisters are taking the occasion to tell him his "lifestyle" is "wrong." Fucking fuck fuck.
― tanuki, Saturday, 7 April 2012 01:51 (twelve years ago) link
I'm done w/ this country
― tanuki, Saturday, 7 April 2012 01:52 (twelve years ago) link
is it legal to shoot Christians in Alabama?
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 7 April 2012 01:55 (twelve years ago) link
if they're black
― The Reverend, Saturday, 7 April 2012 02:08 (twelve years ago) link
you're running out of time, the solstice is Wednesday (?) and I ain't waitin'.
Only saw one paddling at Folsom East; fair was penned in to let CONDO OWNERS get to their buildings (kill kill kill), so I suspect that was my last year.
Also was amused by someone wearing this shirt:
http://blog.urbanoutfitters.com/files/RIHANNAFROWN.jpg
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 18 June 2012 15:37 (eleven years ago) link
CONDO OWNERS (kill kill kill)
I assure you, many condo owners who bought before the crash want to kill themselves more.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Monday, 18 June 2012 16:23 (eleven years ago) link
condo owners in Chelsea aren't going anywhere, I'm pretty sure.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 18 June 2012 16:27 (eleven years ago) link
(NYC real estate back to 'booming')
Shoulda bought there, I guess.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Monday, 18 June 2012 16:32 (eleven years ago) link
And rented at a steep profit.
It's been playing for 8 days at the West Village theater where all the amateurish gay movies run, and I'd never heard of it. Hardly anyone reviewed it.
which theater, chelsea clearview? if so, to be fair the non-amateurish ones like Weekend end up there also, and it's not really surprising that a minority-cast gay film isn't getting huge press.
that said, i knew i was going to pass on seeing "The Skinny" based on the trailer/writer/director alone.
ugh i'm dying for a non-terrible stateside gay movie to come about, i can't even remember what the last one i liked was past the 90s
― fauxmarc, Monday, 18 June 2012 19:09 (eleven years ago) link
Would put money on Armond actually being right this time around.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Monday, 18 June 2012 19:15 (eleven years ago) link
Of course, I thought Noah's Arc was merely OK comfort food TV (+ eye candy).
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Monday, 18 June 2012 19:17 (eleven years ago) link
fauxmarc: No, the Quad on 13th St.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 18 June 2012 19:18 (eleven years ago) link
comparing patrik-ian polk to gus van sant kills any trust i have in the rest of that article
the quad seemed like it had a lot of random stuff playing i always wanted to check out but never did
― fauxmarc, Monday, 18 June 2012 19:20 (eleven years ago) link
smallest screens in Manhattan. usually worst 'arthouse' films too.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 18 June 2012 19:21 (eleven years ago) link
I haven't seen any PIP work outside of the TV series explicitly developed for cable TV gay ghetto, which is why I'm not rushing to dismiss yet.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Monday, 18 June 2012 19:27 (eleven years ago) link
The days are getting shorter now.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:46 (eleven years ago) link
morbs started a summer thread
Should I go fishing or get a friend to hang around? Celebrated GAY Summer 2012
― radical ferry (donna rouge), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:47 (eleven years ago) link
Way to leave a forwarding address, Morbs.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:47 (eleven years ago) link
"You want an address? 2541!"
http://content9.flixster.com/photo/13/91/93/13919371_gal.jpg
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Friday, 22 June 2012 20:12 (eleven years ago) link
EXIT!
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Friday, 22 June 2012 20:16 (eleven years ago) link
http://www.vice.com/read/the-vice-guide-to-being-gay?Contentpage=-1
― fauxmarc, Thursday, 28 June 2012 17:49 (eleven years ago) link
nope
― J0rdan S., Thursday, 28 June 2012 17:52 (eleven years ago) link