You waited too long.
So the awesome first-time hookup I had a couple weeks ago won't return calls or email. Does this ever NOT happen with gays?
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 19 June 2012 18:58 (11 months ago) Permalink
btw he did email me back the first time, saying "hey I don't feel like dating but let's hang out and be FBs." Then he went to New Jersey, apparently, and fell silent.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 19 June 2012 19:08 (11 months ago) Permalink
I have some disturbing news - I like a Train song.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Tuesday, 19 June 2012 21:02 (11 months ago) Permalink
It's ok. I'm sure you're just going through a phase.
― to welcome jer.fairall, pie is served. (jer.fairall), Tuesday, 19 June 2012 21:11 (11 months ago) Permalink
what do I bring to a gay housewarming in NJ? At minimum I need the name of a not-crazy-expensive wine that will gain me plaudits.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 June 2012 17:24 (11 months ago) Permalink
a Mark West pinot noir is about $10 and will have everyone thinking they're tasting dick.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 20 June 2012 17:35 (11 months ago) Permalink
btw Morbs I don't remember the title in any P-Funk lyric
I went w/ pudgy gay indie
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 June 2012 17:36 (11 months ago) Permalink
love this thread title. anyone know how to fish? is there much to know?
― Impetuous hybrid (Matt P), Wednesday, 20 June 2012 17:38 (11 months ago) Permalink
Hüsker?
As for your first point: I sympathize because I did the same after three dates with the Croat.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 20 June 2012 17:38 (11 months ago) Permalink
i'm going here in a few weeks w/ my man (3 years):
― Impetuous hybrid (Matt P), Wednesday, 20 June 2012 17:39 (11 months ago) Permalink
lol hueg
― Impetuous hybrid (Matt P), Wednesday, 20 June 2012 17:40 (11 months ago) Permalink
Um, what are you talking about? You don't remember the George Clinton classic You Shouldn't-Nuf Gone Fishing?
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 20 June 2012 18:07 (11 months ago) Permalink
hi gays/happy summer
just got back last night from a SF/big sur trip with bf. he lived in SF for a decade so i got to meet a bunch of his really close friends and ate a lot of delicious food and went camping for the first time ever(!) and went to these insane baths overlooking the coast
we've only been "official" for ~four months but this feels really special, to me
(/corn)
― radical ferry (donna rouge), Thursday, 21 June 2012 17:30 (11 months ago) Permalink
we saw the ACT/UP doc which was improbably playing at 11am on a tuesday (wtf frameline), i recommend (and bring tissues)
― radical ferry (donna rouge), Thursday, 21 June 2012 17:31 (11 months ago) Permalink
xoxo, sweetie
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 21 June 2012 17:37 (11 months ago) Permalink
so much coffee
― Impetuous hybrid (Matt P), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:48 (11 months ago) Permalink
You Shouldn't-Nuf Gone Fishing
Think that's Get Yo Ass In The Water And Swim Like Me.
I like fishing and I like friends but somehow this thread title doesn't sit right with me.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:49 (11 months ago) Permalink
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:50 (11 months ago) Permalink
"get a friend to hang around" is my goal like %60 of the time
― Impetuous hybrid (Matt P), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:50 (11 months ago) Permalink
sorry, i believe that should be 60%
― Impetuous hybrid (Matt P), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:51 (11 months ago) Permalink
that woman has a collar bone
― Impetuous hybrid (Matt P), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:52 (11 months ago) Permalink
i encourage the posting of jane kerkovich .gifs on this and all threads
― radical ferry (donna rouge), Friday, 22 June 2012 19:52 (11 months ago) Permalink
i'm nursing a brutal crush right now. pretty sure it's a dead end. please send help.
― boss & toss (lou), Friday, 22 June 2012 20:06 (11 months ago) Permalink
This is your periodic reminder of the existence of Rula Lenska.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Friday, 22 June 2012 20:07 (11 months ago) Permalink
― Kevin John Bozelka, Saturday, 23 June 2012 05:08 (11 months ago) Permalink
Hi guys! Last night I hung out with Tabes and his bf and their friend and we went to a very crowded queer party. I left the place with a cute 19-year old and made out and swapped bjs with him on the not-as-secluded-as-we-thought roof of a garage while we got covered in mud and his sister periodically interrupted to call him a slut. I lost my socks!
― fanute gingrich (The Reverend), Saturday, 23 June 2012 23:40 (11 months ago) Permalink
:D
― bitch I'm on the 242 (lex pretend), Sunday, 24 June 2012 09:40 (11 months ago) Permalink
apart from the mud
OMG REV
― Natalie Portmanteau (Stevie D(eux)), Sunday, 24 June 2012 13:04 (11 months ago) Permalink
WOAH REV YOU WHORE
CONGRATULATIONS
― i'm a housewife, an artist, and a snow leopard (The Brainwasher), Sunday, 24 June 2012 13:10 (11 months ago) Permalink
jeez Rev, that's what happens when you hang around with that sprite, honey.
somehow this thread title doesn't sit right with me.
Give props to yr Twin Cities gay punk heritage!
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 24 June 2012 14:08 (11 months ago) Permalink
should I go fisting or get a hung friend to hang around?
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Sunday, 24 June 2012 14:40 (11 months ago) Permalink
Maybe ya shoulda gotten a Rip Taylor tat?
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 24 June 2012 14:46 (11 months ago) Permalink
woooow rev
― radical ferry (donna rouge), Sunday, 24 June 2012 17:09 (11 months ago) Permalink
reeeeeeeeeeev!!!!1
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 24 June 2012 17:25 (11 months ago) Permalink
Yay rev! That sounds fun! Garage roof seems precarious and ballsy.
― twinkin' and drinkin' and ready to fly (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 24 June 2012 22:33 (11 months ago) Permalink
I really have to thank Tabes' bf, who insisted I stick around until I could hook up.
― fanute gingrich (The Reverend), Monday, 25 June 2012 00:51 (11 months ago) Permalink
Cool, though if I were you the sister woulda freaked me out a bit. Course, if I were him, the sister woulda freaked me out even more...
― to welcome jer.fairall, pie is served. (jer.fairall), Monday, 25 June 2012 01:24 (11 months ago) Permalink
top 5 celebrity look dopplegangers seen at pride 2k12:
5. gay al doyle4. gay danny brown3. white, lesbian lil wayne2. lesbian russell westbrook1. gay riff raff
top 3 shirts seen at pride 2k12:
3. CALL ME MAYBE?!2. I'M SO GAY I SHIT RAINBOWS1. ALL YOU CAN EAT *rainbow arrow pointing at woman's crotch*
top song heard from a float at pride 2k12:
"save a horse, ride a cowboy"
best thing caught from a float at pride 2k12:
buy one, get one free card at chipotle
three most offensive floats seen at pride 2k12:
3. chicago cubs2. chase bank1. bank of america
― J0rdan S., Monday, 25 June 2012 01:35 (11 months ago) Permalink
Things I was told at pride by drunk strangers:
1. Love your ink2. Love your ink3. You've got a cute nose4. Love your ink5. Love your ink
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Monday, 25 June 2012 01:50 (11 months ago) Permalink
Thirteen years after coming out I still haven't attended a single pride event. I did hook up with a bloke on OKCupid last night though.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 25 June 2012 01:52 (11 months ago) Permalink
In what capacity do you have to be at pride to have attended it? Meaning, I've been in Toronto as its happening, seen bits of parades and even once got a porn star's autograph while shopping on Church St, but I still never really feel like I've BEEN to Pride in an actual participating kinda way.
― to welcome jer.fairall, pie is served. (jer.fairall), Monday, 25 June 2012 01:59 (11 months ago) Permalink
You need to get head and muddy/
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 25 June 2012 02:00 (11 months ago) Permalink
You need to make yourself available and receptive to an astonishing amount of advertising.
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Monday, 25 June 2012 02:38 (11 months ago) Permalink
That happens to be your particular abnormality.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 25 June 2012 02:43 (11 months ago) Permalink
boycotted today
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 25 June 2012 02:50 (11 months ago) Permalink
however YESTERDAY I went to my friend's condo housewarming in my native NJ territory, and aside from the residing couple talked mostly with friend's 82-year-old retired Irish cop dad and cartoonist niece who just graduated middle school.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 25 June 2012 04:29 (11 months ago) Permalink
― bitch I'm on the 242 (lex pretend), Sunday, June 24, 2012 2:40 AM Bookmark
no, the mud made it way hotter
― fanute gingrich (The Reverend), Monday, 25 June 2012 04:55 (11 months ago) Permalink
― to welcome jer.fairall, pie is served. (jer.fairall), Sunday, June 24, 2012 6:24 PM Bookmark
hahaha no, the sister was gay as fuck too and very obviously just giving her bro a hard time. it was like, just a couple times over the course of the session where it was like.... *mysterious voice* "SLUT!" *both of us shove our penises back into our pants, look around like prairie dogs for second, then laugh and go right back at it*
― fanute gingrich (The Reverend), Monday, 25 June 2012 05:04 (11 months ago) Permalink
http://www.avclub.com/articles/paris-hilton-launches-new-awareness-campaign-for-d,85226/
― this is the dream of avril and chad (jer.fairall), Friday, 21 September 2012 04:27 (8 months ago) Permalink
guys i just went to a bar to sing "baby baby" karaoke by myself
― gwenguthrie gwen ross (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 September 2012 05:51 (8 months ago) Permalink
i think i just peaked
also not to be a bitch but it's kind of difficult for me to get worked up over anything that comes out of Paris Hilton's mouth.
― gwenguthrie gwen ross (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 September 2012 05:53 (8 months ago) Permalink
or into it, et al
― Ham Lushbaugh (Eric H.), Friday, 21 September 2012 05:58 (8 months ago) Permalink
two dinner parties this week. the first was with the boy's sister, her partner and another of his friends; the second was with four of my friends. i like this "showing your man off to your social circle" phase
― lex pretend, Friday, 21 September 2012 13:43 (8 months ago) Permalink
^^ that's the unnerving part for me. As a hypocrite in good standing, I refuse to receive the hypercriticism I've inflicted free of charge on others.
― taking tiger mountain (up the butt) (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 September 2012 13:45 (8 months ago) Permalink
i've always loved introducing different parts of my social circle to each other - i love watching how people get on with each other. some people are a bit obsessive about keeping different circles distinct, i've never got that at all.
― lex pretend, Friday, 21 September 2012 13:50 (8 months ago) Permalink
in this case there may be an element of "look how fucking hott he is"
anyway he made a good impression on my friends.
oh I thought you meant "introducing dates to the group." I love introducing friends from different circles.
― taking tiger mountain (up the butt) (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 September 2012 13:52 (8 months ago) Permalink
Ooh exciting!
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Friday, 21 September 2012 13:53 (8 months ago) Permalink
I reunite with my own paramour tomorrow afternoon after a two-week interval (both of us out of town consecutive weekends) for a cocktail date at Miami's oldest hotel. I love hotel bars.
― taking tiger mountain (up the butt) (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 September 2012 13:54 (8 months ago) Permalink
Since my bf has been out of town (like, all bloody year) I've lost touch with his circle of friends, who are the ones in my life that, like, "go dancing" and "drink beers". I'll call them up when I get bored and want to have a night out, but it still feels like I'm having to introduce myself to them, after ten years of knowing everybody
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:00 (8 months ago) Permalink
(My circle of friends are mostly 'hard working parents' and/or 'creative professionals')
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:01 (8 months ago) Permalink
the day after my bday party, when he first met lots of my friends, he was like...you know a LOT of people who work in the media, or indeed who don't seem to have "proper" "jobs". yupppp
(by this point my social circle is basically a vast interlinked web anyway, very few completely separate areas)
― lex pretend, Friday, 21 September 2012 14:10 (8 months ago) Permalink
why the fuck would anyone want a proper job?
― this is the dream of avril and chad (jer.fairall), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:16 (8 months ago) Permalink
Health insurance. #USA
i've always loved introducing different parts of my social circle to each other
I don't like this AT ALL and go out of my way to make sure it almost never happens. (Understanding that this never involves "paramours" or less icky synonyms, cuz I don't acquire them.)
― kizz my hairy irish azz (Dr Morbius), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:22 (8 months ago) Permalink
c'mon – you acquire icky synonyms all the time.
― taking tiger mountain (up the butt) (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:23 (8 months ago) Permalink
I am always extremely anxious when friend circles of mine merge. I don't know whether I'm worried they won't get along or whether they'll all wonder why I'm friends with this or that person.
― Ham Lushbaugh (Eric H.), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:28 (8 months ago) Permalink
I am always extremely anxious
― surm, Friday, 21 September 2012 14:30 (8 months ago) Permalink
jkjk
― surm, Friday, 21 September 2012 14:31 (8 months ago) Permalink
It was kind of hard to keep it from happening at my mom's funeral, wehen one of my oldest Brooklyn friends said after meeting my sister that she was a pleasant surprise "because I expected some shrew."
― kizz my hairy irish azz (Dr Morbius), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:31 (8 months ago) Permalink
it was awesome to see so many people from all walks of life commingling at my birthday party a few weeks ago - film nerd/archivist pals and ilxors and my bf's writer friends and even someone from my hometown
i was thrilled to introduce my friends to my guy, and i'm pretty sure his friends like me too (i've met most of the ones who live here and in SF). maybe this sounds weird but i honestly wouldn't want to date someone my friends didn't like
― TOP FEMALE LAWYER & CARTOONIST FOR 2011: (donna rouge), Friday, 21 September 2012 14:46 (8 months ago) Permalink
if you wanna be my loveryou gotta get with my friends
― lex pretend, Friday, 21 September 2012 14:57 (8 months ago) Permalink
it's true though, my friends mean more to me than any lover, and there's something repellent about the kind of people who cocoon themselves away from their social circle once they find a partner
― lex pretend, Friday, 21 September 2012 14:58 (8 months ago) Permalink
It's a truism that friends get more jealous than lovers.
― taking tiger mountain (up the butt) (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:02 (8 months ago) Permalink
what are... friends?
― clouds, Friday, 21 September 2012 15:04 (8 months ago) Permalink
oh right those things that disappear when you work and go to school full-time
― clouds, Friday, 21 September 2012 15:05 (8 months ago) Permalink
a fabulous Jody Watley-Eric B & Rakim collaboration.
― taking tiger mountain (up the butt) (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:05 (8 months ago) Permalink
― TOP FEMALE LAWYER & CARTOONIST FOR 2011: (donna rouge), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:08 (8 months ago) Permalink
i still say "how many of us have them" when i think of the word "friends" on its own
― clouds, Friday, 21 September 2012 15:10 (8 months ago) Permalink
there's something repellent about the kind of people who cocoon themselves away from their social circle once they find a partner
Well, I hope that's the broadest judgement I read today. I can only think of one such example that I've found 'repellent', most of the other examples are like "cool you have kids now, that's awesome" or "you made the right decision when you moved with your boyfriend to the country, I will come and visit you"
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:13 (8 months ago) Permalink
Sorry that wasn't meant to sound so harshI thought I added a caveat along the lines of "oh you and your superlative negative adjectives"
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:20 (8 months ago) Permalink
Straight couples are more apt to go pupal.
― taking tiger mountain (up the butt) (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:21 (8 months ago) Permalink
I can't really ~complain~ about it, but I do get a little sad when I get "come to my DJ night!" FB invites from friends who haven't actively made any effort to hang out in years aside from invitations to their DJ nights. I need to start having more dinner parties, I guess
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:29 (8 months ago) Permalink
i <3 dinner parties and not just cuz i get fed
― lex pretend, Friday, 21 September 2012 15:45 (8 months ago) Permalink
i would have way more dinner parties if i didn't have the world's tiniest kitchen (stevie can attest)
― TOP FEMALE LAWYER & CARTOONIST FOR 2011: (donna rouge), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:46 (8 months ago) Permalink
My house got real hot in the summer and we didn't have A/C but there are definite dinner parties in my future
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:49 (8 months ago) Permalink
xp it is a v tiny kitchen.
― gwenguthrie gwen ross (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 September 2012 15:53 (8 months ago) Permalink
introducing boy to friends is A++ fun. even more fun is boy + his friends coming out dancing with you + yr friends, which after two years has finally happened!
last night i talked him into joining us as this awesome loft afterparty thing with jacques greene and mykki blanco and folks (although the cops busted it before physical therapy's set, sigh) but he came and he was dancing (!) and apparently I have a boyfriend who is 'social' now. this is the life.
― twinkin' and drinkin' and ready to fly (Alex in Montreal), Friday, 21 September 2012 16:24 (8 months ago) Permalink
I went to see Elite Gymnastics and Grimes last night. I got there early because lol I don't know what time shows start any more, and had a bunch of glasses of wine with the 50s-ish gay bartender at Lee's. He talked a lot about Genet! I talked a lot about Mishima. We fantasized about moving to Portugal. After the second glass of wine met the anti-biotics I started feeling Really Really Loopy. I sat through half of Elite Gymnastics set and then... I don't remember! I was feeling really loopy. I checked my phone this morning and apparently, on my way home, I convinced my bf and my best female friend to have a child together. (This is a common theme for me when I'm drunk, playing "who can we knock up"). I also texted my bf that "the opening band kinda sucked" and he said "sucks is a popular genre these days" ha ha.
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:10 (8 months ago) Permalink
Oh, also, it's fall, non?
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:12 (8 months ago) Permalink
i'm in brighton for the lib dem conference. it's definitely fall. fucking pissing it down. i'm massively hungover and i want to die
― lex pretend, Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:22 (8 months ago) Permalink
"elite gymnastics" and "grimes" bother me. because i love gymnastics and i love grime but i DO NOT LIKE THOSE ACTS. there's a shitty indie band called tennis, too. can these awful people stop encroaching on my aesthetic please?
― lex pretend, Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:23 (8 months ago) Permalink
ha ha that complaint is so hilarious and petty. I'm going to start a shitty band called Takeaway Menu
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:26 (8 months ago) Permalink
i have no emotional attachment to the takeaway menu, go right ahead!
― lex pretend, Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:34 (8 months ago) Permalink
~foiled~
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:38 (8 months ago) Permalink
Following the grand tradition of shitty bands named after your favourite album, my new band is called Beyoncé 4
― whiter than... this? (Ówen P.), Sunday, 23 September 2012 13:39 (8 months ago) Permalink
Babygirl, unpack yr sweaters and get FABULOUS in FALL gay homo queer &c 2012
― gwenguthrie gwen ross (Stevie D(eux)), Sunday, 23 September 2012 14:12 (8 months ago) Permalink
lol fantastic
― clouds, Sunday, 23 September 2012 14:13 (8 months ago) Permalink