thread to get over a breakup

we moved around a lot, so I'm not really "from" anywhere, but spent time in MA, VA, VT, NC, DC, etc.

and now i've ruined this awesome breakup thread with boring facts about me

i'm white too

is anyone else white?

i'm white btw

This is supposed to be the breakup thread, not a KKK meeting.

bit harsh

yeah, coming from a white guy from Scandinavia

(i think it was a tuomas wisecrack, no backlash)

Well one never knows with white Scandinavian guys now do we?

(I'm white btw)

oh yeah, i'm totally white btw

http://images.travelpod.com/users/maplefanta/europe2006.1155880800.dsc_0429.jpg

In Finland you could visit these supermarkets.

But Finland is not in Scandinavia, guys!

not only anti-racist but hates the scandinavians as well. nice.

so

is your ex-girlfriend still reading this thread, hoos?

might be an ex-ex by now ;_;

hoos r u

srs

i can not keep up with this one

play on playas?

xp - i had trouble keeping up with who had which awful freshman roommate in the sexile thread.

i can't keep up either tbh idk whats going on but its not dope and happiness for sure xxp

:( sry man. drama sucks, tbh

Had a minor freakout last night when a friend stupidly mentioned that the ex updated her relationship status on facebook to say she was with someone. Of course, it doesn't in any way matter and isn't really relevant to my life anymore, but still kind of burns a little. Doesn't seem like it's been long, but it's been a couple months I guess?

In any case, still happy I'm outta there.

I miss my ex a ton.
Still.
I feel like I really blew it and am never gonna meet anyone else I will be happy with. I don't have the guts to check her facebook; she's probably happy in a relationship right now. I have my cat, and he's not even particularly affectionate.

tough break on the cat. how long has it been since you broke up?

ian :(

Early summer iirc.

I called her tonight and am pretty glad she didn't pick up. I don't even know what I would have said--"I miss you and think about you everyday" does't seem like the kinda thing someone wants to hear. I'm not drunk btw.

I really know how you feel right now tbh dude :/

I feel like I really blew it and am never gonna meet anyone else I will be happy with.

Man, I feel for you. I went through this for so long after my last breakup. Thought I'd never be the same again, that I'd never be able to really feel that way about someone and that nobody could ever possibly love me again. That I wasn't even worth it if they did. And that I'd have this hurt for the person who left me in me for the rest of my life.

Eventually I met someone else. I like her now instead. I almost never think about my ex at this point. It can and will happen, bro. Eventually you'll be better.

Havin' a cat helps iirc.

I feel like I really blew it and am never gonna meet anyone else I will be happy with.

^^^that was me today.

I hate to say it, Sara(h? still not clear on this), but you'll probably feel that way for a long time :\ I know I've felt this way before--after both of the other 'serious' relationships i've had in my life--and it takes a long time to go away. In fact, it usually doesn't go away until you meet someone new, in my experience. but tbh I don't even really want to meet anyone new? I kinda have this snobbish thing going on where I think most of my peers are shallow & naive.

I guess that's why I always date older women.
And clearly that hasn't worked out so well.

Sarah with an "h"

I kinda have this snobbish thing going on where I think most of my peers are shallow & naive.

are these the ones you know or just in general?

i guess just the ones i know? though tbh the average twenty-something i overhear on the street yapping into his or her cell phone does not inspire much hope.

early, mid, or late 20-something?

which is not to say that i despise my friends or ilxors or co-workers or anything. i think they're good ppl overall. but i can't remember the last time i was introduced to someone at bar or a party who seemed worth keeping in touch with.

mid.

i see a lot of people in their mid-20s through the course of one of my jobs, and my perception is kinda like yours, but then i'm just seeing them at shows and parties, and i think the environment might be a significant part of that.

There are many fish in the sea, it's a shame so many of them come with toxic levels of mercury. :(

or else they're bland, boring, or you're pretty sure that they won't agree with your stomach - to continue the metaphor.

okay enuff self-pity for me tonight, trying to get some rest.
I hope your situation plays out in a way that's not absolutely miserable for you Sarah. Good luck.

goin thru biggest breakup of my life iirc; broke up with the 3 coolest dudes ever :(

band breakup? me too

si

harder than i thought it would be. been with em longer than ive been in any relationship, or any job, or anything

that sucks. :(

like all of my relationships though, i quit

:( sorry dude. ours isn't too dramatic since sarah and i are still married obviously and drummer is our friend and we'll see him around and i think we're all ready for a break but it's still kinda sad sometimes