thread to get over a breakup

i'm not even 25 and tbh i am jaded & bored by sex 90% of the time.

^this, tbh

well, i'm not even 30, but the same sentiment

sorry ian and darraghmac: we just arent meant to be imo

i am meant to be with my cat so it's cool.

its a shame the law won't recognise your love

;_; for ian's forbidden cat love and for roxy's callous rejection of my jaded libido.

http://www.housepetscomic.com/comics/2008-08-08-i-swear-its-platonic.png

not two ships passing, two people at sea for years suddenly landing on the same island together, completely shocked at how utterly perfect they are for each other, for the first time suddenly things like home and family seeming like real possibilities instead of alien concepts. but both knowing that island was not a real home for anyone, and one of them dutifully holding back. until the other one got the point, and swam away.

ahhhhhhhh

that's sad.

yes. i am sad now. well, more sad.

harshin my mellow, milton, sheesh

is this recent or an older thing?

aw man. :-( sad.

People don't talk about this enough. The almost arbitrary resistance to or dissolution of relationships between people who are pretty well worth being married.

the thing that sucks about not being jaded and still like believing in people and things is that you kind of get let down a lot so you know what kudos to jaded dudes, you know the score

That's not really true, or at least I don't get let down "a lot". I trust most people are decent folks, and so far I haven't been proven wrong. Of course there's a minority of assholes out there, but I don't see why I'd have to become jaded because of them.

but u live in candyland.

Do you have Reese's Peanut Butter Cups in candyland? Er, Finland?

Of course there's a minority of assholes out there

ah, the crux of the matter.

You could be the goddamn sweetest person for a moment. I would earnestly appreciate the ground you walk on. But the moment I'd disagree, or I'd want to be warm and at home instead of drinking out with friends, you'd act like I was the most judgmental shit on the planet and that I wasn't worth spitting on. All I really wanted to do was love, and be loved, by you. And you, and me, and the circumstances of the world at large turned it all into a paranoid mess and I didn't feel like there was any warmth left. And I'm gone.

Sorry, ^^^ vague melodrama!

that's what thread's for, tbf.

btw

I would earnestly appreciate the ground you walk on

girls don't appreciate you holdng back like this. 'earnestly appreciate', my ass. you think quezcoatl is gonna accept your 'earnest appreciation'? tch.

I think that was my drunk talk version of "you could get me to do about anything because I am a pushover for you"

<3s to mh thats what this thread is for, emo away your grief incrementally.

the guy i started this thread about came to black metal show that he knew i was playing at last night. i havent laid eyes on him since february. tbh it was incredibly awkward for both of us i think.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IC_teUwEhE

i think she looks like a girl whiney might like to drown! :D

lolll

She's talking and holding up notecards with numbers. That's all I gather.

she sounds a little like sarah palin

So, still not able to hear her, I would guess that she's talking about how she's a commitment-phobe, and dates a lot of men who fall in love with her, and then she breaks their hearts, and this is her self-analysis about how exactly she does that.

wow, you're very wrong!

i think she sounds like a flatlander tbh

What is she talking about?

And was she broken up with, or vice versa?

The video is one that is to be sent to someone you are breaking up with. So, she's delivering a list of possible breakup reasons.

It's a hilarious video, actually.

If I ever go out with anyone ever again, I will use this video to break up with them.

In fact, I might look for a relationship just to have an excuse to use this as a breakup tool!

(I am joking of course)

"i think she sounds like a flatlander tbh"

about me

Hi. Since July of 2006, I've officially been a full-time freelance writer, podcaster and online video producer. After high school, I studied creative writing for a couple years but no, didn't come away from the University with a degree in English or Journalism, or anything for that matter (yes I'm one of those). ;)

After growing up mostly in Nebraska I've just moved to California. It's an adjustment but so far I love the ocean and all the creative people.

I keep discovering new favorite things, but they usually have something to do with art, music, or writing...or coffee. I like the process of trying to make my own art and music, but so far the end results have been nothing I'd share.

I love people, and my favorite people are always the ones who need some time alone with themselves. People, in general, should probably spend more time staring out windows on rainy days.

i am really good at telling where people are from

http://img30.imageshack.us/img30/4083/brashbragging.jpg
http://img30.imageshack.us/img30/3337/punishment20for20braggi.jpg
http://img14.imageshack.us/img14/3985/fe143183be4a6c4e0b8bb7f.jpg

would plow her prairie tbh

haha i know that manga!! xp

where am i from

new jersey?

i didnt say "im jaymc"

quebec

lol

queens

south que-rolina