thread to get over a breakup

be my guest. i've moved on.

tuomas, if anyone ever SB's you again i'm going to their house and fighting them.

this thread is like herpes - the gift that keeps on giving!

benefits of younger guys, as i see it are they're not jaded and still act enthusiastic about stuff (and almost everything is new to them, so...) and also want to and can have sex all the time

and also want to and can have sex all the time

my bf is like this and he is 36 ...

yeah see if i could find a 30+ who had those two benefits (and most importantly the not being a jaded boring snoozefest) i would delight in him

lack of jadedness is harder to come by in the 30+ age group ...

but when they get old and jaded they might be jaded about YOU

xp

I just turned 30 but I'm not jaded at all, and I can have sex all the time, so it's not impossible.

yeah, this is real great news.

accents, roxy! accents!

^^ seriously, was that an intentional or unintentional zing?

maybe the dudes over 30+ are jaded because of back problems, just sayin imo

or male pattern baldness ...

35, not jaded, can have sex all the time (but only exciting sex some of the time, lazy sex the rest of the time...bad knees)

xp yeah but you can't trace that back to overdoing the sex in your 20's, to be fair.

i'm not even 25 and tbh i am jaded & bored by sex 90% of the time.

^this, tbh

well, i'm not even 30, but the same sentiment

sorry ian and darraghmac: we just arent meant to be imo

i am meant to be with my cat so it's cool.

its a shame the law won't recognise your love

;_; for ian's forbidden cat love and for roxy's callous rejection of my jaded libido.

http://www.housepetscomic.com/comics/2008-08-08-i-swear-its-platonic.png

not two ships passing, two people at sea for years suddenly landing on the same island together, completely shocked at how utterly perfect they are for each other, for the first time suddenly things like home and family seeming like real possibilities instead of alien concepts. but both knowing that island was not a real home for anyone, and one of them dutifully holding back. until the other one got the point, and swam away.

ahhhhhhhh

that's sad.

yes. i am sad now. well, more sad.

harshin my mellow, milton, sheesh

is this recent or an older thing?

aw man. :-( sad.

People don't talk about this enough. The almost arbitrary resistance to or dissolution of relationships between people who are pretty well worth being married.

the thing that sucks about not being jaded and still like believing in people and things is that you kind of get let down a lot so you know what kudos to jaded dudes, you know the score

That's not really true, or at least I don't get let down "a lot". I trust most people are decent folks, and so far I haven't been proven wrong. Of course there's a minority of assholes out there, but I don't see why I'd have to become jaded because of them.

but u live in candyland.

Do you have Reese's Peanut Butter Cups in candyland? Er, Finland?

Of course there's a minority of assholes out there

ah, the crux of the matter.

You could be the goddamn sweetest person for a moment. I would earnestly appreciate the ground you walk on. But the moment I'd disagree, or I'd want to be warm and at home instead of drinking out with friends, you'd act like I was the most judgmental shit on the planet and that I wasn't worth spitting on. All I really wanted to do was love, and be loved, by you. And you, and me, and the circumstances of the world at large turned it all into a paranoid mess and I didn't feel like there was any warmth left. And I'm gone.

Sorry, ^^^ vague melodrama!

that's what thread's for, tbf.

btw

I would earnestly appreciate the ground you walk on

girls don't appreciate you holdng back like this. 'earnestly appreciate', my ass. you think quezcoatl is gonna accept your 'earnest appreciation'? tch.

I think that was my drunk talk version of "you could get me to do about anything because I am a pushover for you"

<3s to mh thats what this thread is for, emo away your grief incrementally.

the guy i started this thread about came to black metal show that he knew i was playing at last night. i havent laid eyes on him since february. tbh it was incredibly awkward for both of us i think.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IC_teUwEhE

i think she looks like a girl whiney might like to drown! :D

lolll

She's talking and holding up notecards with numbers. That's all I gather.

she sounds a little like sarah palin

So, still not able to hear her, I would guess that she's talking about how she's a commitment-phobe, and dates a lot of men who fall in love with her, and then she breaks their hearts, and this is her self-analysis about how exactly she does that.

wow, you're very wrong!

i think she sounds like a flatlander tbh