thread to get over a breakup

he sounds like a keeper, tbh. call him.

and like i said, he's basically a child. he'll improve. this is just a THREAD TO GET OVER A BREAKUP

xpost haha already called tbh but it was not that kinda call imo there will be no more calls

yeah i figured your character assassination focused on certain incidents rather than the whole...you certainly have a way of knocking 'em though! guess most accusations of deep-seated flaws are to be taken as a hint rather than an outright denouncement xxxxp

yeah, well put like that everything falls into perspective...i wonder if a companion thread 'say something nice about an ex' could be started... xxp

but he does sound slightly immature. a lot of these flaws/plus points remind me of myself a year or so back

Speaking of positive things, I just saw my most recent ex after a long break, and it was really nice, I think we may become friends again. So in the end we got over the breakup better than I thought.

but he does sound slightly immature. a lot of these flaws/plus points remind me of myself a year or so back

lj you need to write a book, ur game is A++ dawg

srsly

(i.e. being a bit solipsistic, showy, not always listening, complimenting on looks all the time, being all OMG about music...after my break-up at the start of this year, things have been reevaluated xp)

he is immature. he is 22 years old.

:-/

just sayin', there are faint echoes of the fallout from when i dated an older lady last year

an older lady huh!!!!

>:|

you sound like you mean elderly lady

well she was 25, i was 21...not much in it i guess...age ought to be irrelevant but i am trying to make my relative immaturity more explicable

i was gonna say "hey 22's plenty mature" but then i remembered i'm not 22 in 28 when the fuck did that happen ;__;

anyway here is something else about this guy. he did not enjoy cute things!!!! he hated cute things. i remember watching some cat video or another and him acting SOOOOO put out by it. i know now unequivocally i can never date another person who is too concerned with his keeping up his antifaggotish or otherwise masculine exterior to say "aw" over a cat eating sushi. fuck that kind of LIFE, imo. i remember once he was annoyed that someone had posted "<3" on my favebook page like that was just the uncoolest thing ever, in fact this person was grady. haw.

Roxy has one of those knockoff social networking pages that over 50s accidentally get sucked into.

i was readin through this tryin to figure out what this guy's deal was and then you posted that he's 22 and i got it.

yeah, tbh. dude's 22 and in a band.

<3 rox

i will be marrying an older lady

fuck him Roxy -- I know plenty of badass metal and noise dudes that do not feel it compromises their badass-dudeness to think cats eating sushi are cute.

^^ in fact, one of these guys had his cat die recently, and he was totally heartbroken, and was not concerned in the least that that implied he was a f@ggot

"fuck him Roxy"

:O

Dispense with the dude.

what the fuck does that even mean and what is its relevance at the moment bryce

thing is gear, lovely and committed as it doubtless is, you didn't meet her when you were in your early twenties...at such ages, although a gap may not seem like anything (and we stressed it wasn't, especially as i was her first serious partner too - something which probably caused more problems than the age), it may have influenced some of our decision-making, or at least given us mindsets that were in need of calibrating (something that didn't ultimately happen to a sufficient extent)...sustaining such a relationship at that age is an achievement and testament to precocious levels of commitment imo

also this was NOT NOT NOT a metal dude btw. he is the one that only like the locust

so he has a badass inferiority complex?

favebook favebook favebook God touchy

re age differences -- almost every guy I've gone for has been two years older than me ... it's as if there was some sort of hormonal signal communicating "I was born in 1972" that I respond to.

ive always dated guys my age or 32 year olds

tbf there are some real benefits to dating a younger guy. there are drawbacks too, obviously. i wonder if i got a less selfabsorbed/ridiculous one if it coulda been great, actually.

What are the benefits of dating a younger guy, better erections?

I've never cared that much about the age of the people I date, except that I usually avoid girls who are too young (more than 5 years younger than me), because their life situations and expectations towards a relationship often tend to be different from mine. I'm tired of being with girls who just want a bit of fun and some good sex with little commitment, these days I want something deeper from a relationship. Of course there are people like that among older girls/women too, but it's still rarer among folks in their late 20s/early 30s than those in their early 20s.

o m g

If we're talking purely about sex though, older girls/women are obviously more likely to have more experience in that, which means they're generally better in bed, and that's always a plus. Give me sluts over virgins anyday!

hero. fucking hero.

TOO. MANY. SCREENNAMES. YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRGGHHHHHHHH.

I don't get it, did I write something funny?

i couldn't fit in the 'tired of being with' so now it looks creepy. will not last.

that's better

you should remove the word 'sex' from that first username and keep it

be my guest. i've moved on.

tuomas, if anyone ever SB's you again i'm going to their house and fighting them.

this thread is like herpes - the gift that keeps on giving!

benefits of younger guys, as i see it are they're not jaded and still act enthusiastic about stuff (and almost everything is new to them, so...) and also want to and can have sex all the time

and also want to and can have sex all the time

my bf is like this and he is 36 ...

yeah see if i could find a 30+ who had those two benefits (and most importantly the not being a jaded boring snoozefest) i would delight in him

lack of jadedness is harder to come by in the 30+ age group ...

but when they get old and jaded they might be jaded about YOU

xp

I just turned 30 but I'm not jaded at all, and I can have sex all the time, so it's not impossible.

yeah, this is real great news.