Um, I am not certain that's a fair reading of "Beeswing," either the song or the book.Every bit of criticism in the song is self-criticism. ("You foolish man"
/ "Like a fool I let her run" / "and I miss her more than ever words can say.")
The book is almost as wistful, and I would not classify it as self-exculpatory. He seems at least as critical of himself as most of us would be in his shoes.
That's what I'm saying! They both seem self-critical, and depicting a certain kind of boho nostalgia shared especially with other young men of the 60s and early 70s, also the struggles with consequences of that, not that it didn't happen in earlier decades, like
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― dow, Sunday, 21 May 2023 21:26 (ten months ago) link