rolling #metoo thread for sexual harassment in the music industry so no one misses out when artists we don't give a fuck about like Tim Westwood and Bassnectar get caught

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Let's just say the one with a (possibly) unfortunately titled track #7 on a breakthrough record.

I don't know any more than that, or what the specific accusations are, but I'm confident I saw the same "source is rock solid" note as birdistheword.

a superficial sheeb of intelligence (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 20:02 (one year ago) link

another forum? I'm not buying it

maf you one two (maffew12), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 20:02 (one year ago) link

omg the speculation can it stop?!

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 20:06 (one year ago) link

This is starting to feel disturbingly like an anticipation thread

Paul Ponzi, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 20:24 (one year ago) link

Put it in 77 you lame

Histoire de BradNelson (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 20:52 (one year ago) link

assuning paulie has some terrible opinions on this subject i'd prefer were not elaborated

Left, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 20:54 (one year ago) link

Not at all. I'm disgusted every time these stories break, whether I care about the artist or not. I'm just not giddy about the prospect of hearing about more of them.

Paul Ponzi, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 20:58 (one year ago) link

The first time I saw Neko Case, opening for Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, she said, from the stage, she would make out with the first person who bought merch.

Allen (etaeoe), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:00 (one year ago) link

CBC spokesperson confirms in a statement that CBC Music is pulling Arcade fire music. 'In light of the recent allegations against Win Butler, CBC Music will pause on playing Arcade Fire's music until we learn more about the situation.' BG: https://t.co/EyUy5Hjjkm
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— CBC News Alerts (@CBCAlerts) August 30, 2022

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:07 (one year ago) link

xp what's your point

Left, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:11 (one year ago) link

Please don't be Dan Bejar

✖✖✖ (Moka), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:20 (one year ago) link

My point is that speculation is absurd.

Allen (etaeoe), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:31 (one year ago) link

Clues above obviously referring to BSS... guess we'll see what happens

Evan, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:35 (one year ago) link

I was momentarily afraid that we were talking about a totally different Kanadian* band with a fluctuatingly large number of members.

brain (krakow), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:39 (one year ago) link

Please don't be Dan Bejar

― ✖✖✖ (Moka)

my one rule for life

Kate (rushomancy), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:41 (one year ago) link

Nope, don't you worry the Freedom Convoy is still going strong!

xp

Evan, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:42 (one year ago) link

my one rule for life

― Kate (rushomancy)

lol

✖✖✖ (Moka), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:47 (one year ago) link

If we're naming Canadian bands with many members it could also be Godspeed You! Black Emperor or Library Voices

✖✖✖ (Moka), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:50 (one year ago) link

*winces*

The Triumphant Return of Bernard & Stubbs (Raymond Cummings), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:52 (one year ago) link

Let's just say the one with a (possibly) unfortunately titled track #7 on a breakthrough record.

― a superficial sheeb of intelligence (jon /via/ chi 2.0)

Anthems for a Seventeen Year-Old Girl. Yeesh...

The Ghost Club, Tuesday, 30 August 2022 21:56 (one year ago) link

I LOATHE an unsolicited dick pic, your boner can wait the minute it takes to ask "can I send an explicit picture" and receive a reply, and anyone who isn't willing to do that work is someone I will assume is bad at consent and should stay away from.

― boxedjoy,

A guy I've been seeing intermittently for months will send private Instagram messages of his cock and rim jobs and -- it grosses me out? He's also much younger, probably unaware of the impression he makes. It's partially my fault for tolerating it.


Alfred, as another fag, I will honestly agree— tho my old dating profile pics were often highly suggestive, that’s because i was shooting porn and doing sex work and had sex in public numerous times in front of cameras. Even then, the idea of sending out a dic pic seemed bizarre— not just because it was already out there, but because by finding it “out there” the viewer consented to seeing it. On a dating website, that is not the case.

broccoli rabe thomas (the table is the table), Tuesday, 30 August 2022 22:09 (one year ago) link

Ok I have to know. What’s this other forum mentioned? I want to go there.

✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 04:57 (one year ago) link

it is pretty fucked up to post ‘well, i don’t want to straight-up name an abuser, but here are several hints’

do you want props for being ‘in the know’? well, kudos

mookieproof, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 05:08 (one year ago) link

grab that clout i guess

mookieproof, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 05:12 (one year ago) link

Well kudos to your cheap cynicism for feeding a smug sense of superiority.

But regardless of original intent, it did set off a lot of unhelpful speculation so yeah I wish I held off on posting.

birdistheword, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 06:19 (one year ago) link

I don't know if calling out blind item nonsense is cheap cynicism.

papal hotwife (milo z), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 07:45 (one year ago) link

Clearly the social environment, or scene I suppose, is in need of repair.

Evan, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 10:30 (one year ago) link

“Ok I have to know. What’s this other forum mentioned? I want to go there.”

Me too.

Kim, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 12:50 (one year ago) link

Request Access to 77 Borad

imago, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 12:54 (one year ago) link

Not that anyone is speculating on there, or that they should, but that's where you ask to join the private board

imago, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 12:54 (one year ago) link

That’s not the forum in question afaik

Evan, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 12:56 (one year ago) link

Oh I thought it was another music forum and got interested. No intention to join the ilxorminatti.

✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 12:59 (one year ago) link

Wait there’s a secret/elite ILX board?? holy shit lol

Porcine-lina of the Pig Oceans (morrisp), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 13:34 (one year ago) link

better to think of it as the ungoogleable board, also what a fuckin derail

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 13:48 (one year ago) link

There’s a new Velvet Rope-style industry board? I’d love to go there.

beamish13, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 14:18 (one year ago) link

There’s a new Velvet Rope-style industry board? I’d love to go there.

― beamish13

Wait, by "Velvet Rope" do you mean the Portland swingers' club or something else?

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 14:34 (one year ago) link

Wait there’s a secret/elite ILX board?? holy shit lol
― Porcine-lina of the Pig Oceans (morrisp), Wednesday, August 31, 2022 3:34 PM (one hour ago) bookmarkflaglink

Probably where all ILM poll results are decided by the arbiters of good or sometimes not-so-good taste

Nabozo, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 14:55 (one year ago) link

why are we doing a round of misplaced 77 outrage on this thread?

rob, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:04 (one year ago) link

bc by and large the men on this board don't know how to fuckin act

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:10 (one year ago) link

I'd join a secret Janet Jackson Velvet Rope thread tbh

Malevolent Arugula (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:11 (one year ago) link

It’s pretty well known at this point, but back to the topic:

https://www.disasterserum.com/your-favorite-rockstar-is-probably-a-creep

✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:23 (one year ago) link

I mean, if those are your favourite rockstars, sure

imago, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:26 (one year ago) link

I had never seen that video of RHCP before. They continue unscathed even when Kiedis himself admits to sleeping with an underage girl in his bio. I’m pretty sure there’s a bunch of shit to be dug out.

✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:27 (one year ago) link

A guy I worked with told me he was once in a record store when two of the Peppers came in, bouncing up and down--groped every woman in the shop and then bounced out.

You can't spell Fearless without Earle (President Keyes), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:30 (one year ago) link

He's one of the skeeziest presences in music history. I find it absurd when people handwavingly go on about how all rockstars are basically at it, as though this means you either have to condemn them all or tolerate their shitty behaviour. Even when it isn't practically on the surface (hello Kiedis), it isn't endemic. Whether through luck or judgement, virtually no artist I really like has ever, to public knowledge, been an abuser, groomer, pest. Scott Kelly in fact is among the very first, and see the uncompromising way the rest of the band have rightly treated him! We shouldn't EXPECT male musicians to be creeps imo. If we do, there's more of a chance they'll live down to those expectations.

imago, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:35 (one year ago) link

But then I am an innocent lamb who couldn't possibly conceive of why someone would send an unsolicited dick pic, both for moral and aesthetic reasons, so idk

imago, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:37 (one year ago) link

Public condemnation and legal action should deter them from being creeps.

If we continue celebrating the life and music they create without consequence there’s a chance they’ll live down to those expectations.

✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:40 (one year ago) link

I had never seen that video of RHCP before. They continue unscathed even when Kiedis himself admits to sleeping with an underage girl in his bio. I’m pretty sure there’s a bunch of shit to be dug out.

― ✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, August 31, 2022 11:27 AM (thirteen minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

Which Chi-Peps video?

peace, man, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:41 (one year ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7i_22PrQsp8

✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:42 (one year ago) link

Relevant assholery and creepiness 2min onwards.

✖✖✖ (Moka), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 15:43 (one year ago) link


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