xpost yeah exactly
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 May 2022 21:23 (two years ago) link
Tbh I had the same reaction, although I guess it's annoying if you have to fly to Australia and Abu Dhabi for one-off shows. Also surprised at:
-The stage fright/anxiety, which is very relatable, although I would think it would dissipate a few songs into the set, and someone who has been a professional musician their whole life would be used to that? But I can definitely understand not wanting to have a job that requires you to tour, and him feeling like he couldn't quit the band.
-The physical concerns, which shouldn't be that bad as long as you're not hurting yourself with bad technique, and as far as I can tell he had good technique (and Matt Cameron has excellent technique)? 50 is not that old, but I have no idea how history of drug abuse changes things.
xxxp
― change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 17 May 2022 21:24 (two years ago) link
i agree the piece does sorta paint grohl as bad or uncaring by association -- or i guess directly in some places -- but i don't think anyone would say that their schedule was objectively overly taxing for one of the biggest rock bands in the world. instead it just seems that hawkins had some real anxiety issues w/ performing -- he had done hundreds and hundreds of arena shows w/ foo fighters and still said that the day leading up to performing at MSG was "hell" for him -- and possibly performing/playing specifically w/ or for dave grohl. there's bands full of older guys who tour as much or more than this and play shows as long, but it's also easy to grasp why some ppl just wouldn't be built for that life especially as they get older.
the feeling that i got reading it was that he was trying to fight thru his anxiety, looking at things other ppl around him were able to do and pushing himself to get to that level even tho it was breaking him, privately telling ppl that he shouldn't be doing all of it but perhaps not really putting himself out there enough just to say "i'm done." maybe grohl & the band are lying about their interactions w/ him but i find it believable that he may have privately been saying one thing but then turning around and instead trying to live up to the expectations of ppl in/around the band who depended on him, that strikes me as something you do when you're fighting your own anxiety. then you add in the isolation of travel esp at that level of fame, whatever past addiction stuff he may have still been dealing with, in general it seemed like he was battling himself both mentally and physically, it's a bad alchemy. i wish he had found it w/in himself to just quit the band but it can be hard enough to let your anxiety win out to the point of, like, not going to a friend's birthday party or something let alone to quit your job as the drummer of the foo fighters.
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 17 May 2022 21:33 (two years ago) link
yeah it sounds like maybe the anxiety became more of an issue for him post-lockdown which is understandable
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 May 2022 21:36 (two years ago) link
great post jordan.
i will only add that i don't care how rich you are, long-distance international travel absolutely sucks and takes a significant physical toll.
― call all destroyer, Wednesday, 18 May 2022 00:56 (two years ago) link
the foos play really long shows, idk that schedule seems grueling to me but i am an amateur with bad technique
― flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 01:12 (two years ago) link
Chad Smith has also released a statement saying the RS story was misleading: https://www.instagram.com/p/CdrTtTavKbK/
― Bob Dylan's iconic Ray Ban sunglasses (morrisp), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 03:08 (two years ago) link
great post Jordan.
I wondered when Taylor passed how much of a factor the return to the game post-lockdown was. Returning to that lifestyle, all sides of it, after two years off would be a considerable strain. And the loneliness of being on tour, away from your family, can't be ignored. A couple of years back I remember watching Interstellar on a tourbus with a guitarist overnight to the next gig, and I was missing my kid (and I was only on the tour for a week or so), and he was missing his kids (and he was away from them for several weeks), and the bits where McConaughey's daughter is expressing her anger that he was never there for her, he was off saving the world... We both got really choked up (and we weren't saving the world, he was playing rock shows and I was writing about him). Then factor in the availability of things that can take your mind off that loneliness, and then factor in how you've maybe not touched that stuff for a while and haven't considered how your resistance may have changed (not that I know shit about what killed Taylor that night). It's really bleak - I've worried for a lot of friends returning to the touring life after the lockdown layoff and how hard they'll throw themselves into stuff, and what dark spaces they'll find themselves in.
I'm not surprised Chad and Matt are walking back their quotes - they seem harsh, almost like they were off the record, or they didn't know how they would look on the page.
― politics is about vibes and the vibes are off (stevie), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 08:39 (two years ago) link
some beautiful glimpses of the relationship they had with Taylor though
some people really love performing and get off on it, for others it's not the best thing in the world - but seems like in general in the music biz it's expected that everyone performs a lot and that it should be enjoyable for them
― corrs unplugged, Wednesday, 18 May 2022 08:42 (two years ago) link
I'm guessing that Chad Smith and Matt Cameron don't really think their quotes were taken out of context or that the story was misleading. They probably just didn't realize that the band would officially deny that Hawkins ever talked about being burned out and wanting an easier tour schedule, and don't want to get in the middle of any dispute about that.
― JRN, Wednesday, 18 May 2022 19:16 (two years ago) link
Also, the fact that Smith and Cameron both said that Hawkins DID approach the rest of the band about being burned out suggests to me that this did happen, and that the band's management is officially denying it for self-preserving legal reasons. I can't be certain, of course, but that's what I would bet on.
― JRN, Wednesday, 18 May 2022 19:20 (two years ago) link
I think it's more they were giving quotes about someone they loved and also sharing what they knew about his struggle because they wanted people to know what pain he was in, but they didn't realize it would be used as Exhibit A to potentially suggest Grohl or the band were negligent, which wasn't their intent.
― Deez NFTs (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 21:12 (two years ago) link
as a sidebar, i liked when Cameron talked about how Hawkins tried to get him into Collins-era Genesis <3
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 21:24 (two years ago) link
I feel like Grohl called them and was like, “You know I’ve gotta hire someone for the next tour, right? Why you out here poisoning the well? I thought we were bros…”
― but also fuck you (unperson), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 22:07 (two years ago) link
The writer probably was writing a story about the end of life, calling around, getting color and quotes - and realized a through line was revealing itself, and that became the trust of the story. (I’m guessing here.)
― Legalize Suburban Benches (Raymond Cummings), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 22:36 (two years ago) link
Agreed that most of the quotes here were probably given in good faith not realizing the band would respond by getting out in front of a potential wrongful death suit.
― von kelson, Wednesday, 18 May 2022 22:43 (two years ago) link
haven't read the article and i suppose one could claim that it's for seo reasons, but Inside Taylor Hawkins’ Final Days as a Foo Fighter *really* doesn't need the last four words
leaving the band isn't the story here
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 18 May 2022 22:50 (two years ago) link
yeah i thought that too
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 18 May 2022 22:56 (two years ago) link
― Legalize Suburban Benches (Raymond Cummings), Wednesday, May 18, 2022 6:36 PM (fifty-four minutes ago)
^^
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 18 May 2022 23:30 (two years ago) link
yesss that was the best!
― corrs unplugged, Thursday, 19 May 2022 08:38 (two years ago) link
For our dear friend, our badass bandmate, our beloved brother…Foo Fighters and The Hawkins family bring you the Taylor Hawkins Tribute Concerts. https://t.co/8gNTw2uxWl pic.twitter.com/N8mDZgJ2kk— Foo Fighters (@foofighters) June 8, 2022
― Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 8 June 2022 14:06 (one year ago) link
"Studio 666" was a fun watch. "Ghoulies" plot mixed with surprisingly visceral Italian horror movie-level decapitations, bisections, etc. Funnest for me when the band was doing a send-up of themselves (Dave as a control freak driving the others, Pat with his constantly bemused expression, the pressure of making the next record, etc). Maybe could have stuck the last third's landing better?
― the body of a spider... (scampering alpaca), Wednesday, 8 June 2022 18:15 (one year ago) link
Foo Fighters and the Hawkins family have announced the first wave of performers for the Taylor Hawkins tribute concert in London this September. Liam Gallagher, Joshua Homme, Chrissie Hynde, Queen’s Brian May and Roger Taylor, Rush’s Geddy Lee and Alex Lifeson, Supergrass, and Mark Ronson are on the bill, among others. Dave Chappelle is billed as a special guest. The show takes place September 3 at Wembley Stadium, before another tribute concert, with an as-yet-unannounced lineup, at Los Angeles’ Kia Forum on September 27.
uh, Dave, can we maybe do without the trans hating asshole here?
― a superficial sheeb of intelligence (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Wednesday, 15 June 2022 15:28 (one year ago) link
Watching the Taylor TributeViolet Grohl singing Jeff Buckley covers for Taylor is breaking my brain on many levels but god she’s doing such an amazing job
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 16:55 (one year ago) link
Skipping back, but Violet the best thing yet, the rest a bit of a hot mess so far. And Chappelle can get fucked obv
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 17:57 (one year ago) link
kesha was dope
― flamenco drop (BradNelson), Saturday, 3 September 2022 17:58 (one year ago) link
hahaha omg james gang
― flamenco drop (BradNelson), Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:04 (one year ago) link
Getting better, TCV and Pretenders, the long gaps are a bit awks.
Feels like when I was younger and they had those endless Prince's Trust gigs on TV with the same 15 people, Clapton, Knopfler, Sting, Ure, and that bald guy on percussion.
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:07 (one year ago) link
james gang fkn rules <3
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:13 (one year ago) link
jim fox is such a killer drummer STILL
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:14 (one year ago) link
xpost I almost bought tix to go see that Cleveland benefit show, because ^^^
― Josh in Chicago, Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:14 (one year ago) link
violet <3 the crowd singing along & her shyly smiling was so beautiful
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:30 (one year ago) link
Gaz!!!!
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:55 (one year ago) link
lol that he brought out his own mike?
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 18:58 (one year ago) link
I think this is the first time I've ever heard Rami's keyboard
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:00 (one year ago) link
Crowd thought they were getting Roger & Brian
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:08 (one year ago) link
FUCK YES
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:10 (one year ago) link
Holy shit is that Omar Hakim?
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:17 (one year ago) link
yep!!
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:20 (one year ago) link
Dave must have been like YYZ? Nah bruv
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:21 (one year ago) link
Geddy Lee & Geggy Tah, together at last
― Vance Vance Devolution (sic), Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:24 (one year ago) link
that was incrediblealso i love that geddy and alex barely break a sweat cycling through three songs w two drummers who are both exerting themeselves to the fullest extent <3 same when they did “let there be rock” w brian johnson - foos are like half the age of acdc & everyone including lars were already gassed by the bridge lol
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:26 (one year ago) link
My theory about Lars is that he has a really, really bad back but it's not common knowledge, he's always up off the drum stool as soon as there's a break in a song.
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:36 (one year ago) link
Wouldn't it be great if they've flown in Kiss Guy, to do Monkey Wrench
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:47 (one year ago) link
sam ryder owned that stage like he was born in wembley stadium holy shit
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:49 (one year ago) link
Oh damn, now that looks amazing
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:53 (one year ago) link
Years ago, I saw Queen + Paul Rodgers do a gig at the terrible Wembley Arena (Roger even apologised for the sound halfway through) and Brian came to the front alone to do LOML and I had an involuntary meltdown, it was so lovely.
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 19:56 (one year ago) link
Nandi should just be their drummer going forward :)
― MaresNest, Saturday, 3 September 2022 20:28 (one year ago) link
Missed the first 30 minutes but from what I've seen I don't think there's been anything wrong tonight. The long gaps between acts maybe.
― you can see me from westbury white horse, Saturday, 3 September 2022 20:32 (one year ago) link
Paul :))
― you can see me from westbury white horse, Saturday, 3 September 2022 20:46 (one year ago) link