I'm Only Happy When It's Gay // LGBTTQQIAAP+ // Fall 2021

we'll see - i probably won't go through with it but it's gaining a lot of traction in the field.

heading back to NYC soon after an insane trip to St Louis. almost winter! time for the shining!

had the best t4t afternoon-into-late-night date yesterday! we were both nomadic genderfucky basement show art faguettes in our 20’s before fully coming out as pan trans around 30. she was telling me ridiculous stories of running a noise venue/label during her Coke Year; turns out we both really like fixing old electronics (cameras for me, synths for her) and we had some amazing sex while smoking a ton of weed and listening to her doom metal records. really hoping we can become besties with benefits!

then, this morning I got brunch with my wonderful nb stripper metamour and dished all about it over strong bloodies. (they’re 9 years younger than me so they call me mom! despite the fact that they are 100% my sugar daddy wrt brunches and the like. they’re buying me a latex dress for Christmas!) then they pulled off the slickest “hitting on a hot stranger at the bar” I’ve ever seen! I’m so intensely proud of how they’ve found their power these past few months.

It’s been almost five years but I’m still amazed on almost a daily basis at how much better being out is!

your excitement and positive energy radiate from that post, i love it

amazing sex while smoking a ton of weed and listening to her doom metal records

i hope i'm not overreaching by saying that i, a cis person, also find doom metal really sexy, and i guess it's just cool to hear that someone else does too.

Oh, I definitely have had many orgasms listening to doom metal and related genres, everything from Sunn 0))) to Fall of Efrafa. Also once had very intense sext to Tim Hecker's Ravedeath, 1979, lol.

But I mean, T and I are also aging punks, so listening to lots of doom metal isn't too weird.

"had the best t4t afternoon-into-late-night date yesterday! we were both nomadic genderfucky basement show art faguettes in our 20’s before fully coming out as pan trans around 30. she was telling me ridiculous stories of running a noise venue/label during her Coke Year; turns out we both really like fixing old electronics (cameras for me, synths for her) and we had some amazing sex while smoking a ton of weed and listening to her doom metal records. really hoping we can become besties with benefits!"

i want to have your life!

love Tim Hecker

back to bk after a month or so
geez y'all i love ny
i didn't realize how imperative it is for me to be here as a non driver and general weirdo

ran in our very own Stevie D at the farmers market yesterday. it was really nice.

aww love that

what's the weekend like everyone?

lol

Merle Haggard wrote and sang a song called "If We Make It Through December."

Yaknowwwww i get that

u still living it up p diddy? who's on the dance card?

we’re in florida at my in-laws for the holidays, they live in a 55+ community that has a clubhouse with a pool and hot tubs. spent a little time chatting with a sweet elder gay couple in one of the hot tubs. the older of the men has three children from his previous marriage, but after his wife died he met and fell in love with his current partner, who have been together as long as B and i have. the younger man has Parkinson’s and didn’t talk as much but he was very funny when he did. the older man’s sister also lives in that community and i guess when they visited her they liked it so much they ended up moving there too. was heartening to see an older gay couple faring well and happy in what is otherwise an extremely hetero living environment. they asked us if we’d ever consider moving to a place like that and…honestly idk. i could see myself getting into it if there were other homos around maybe.

anyway hope alla u gayz are having a happy, or at least tolerable, holiday season so far

❤️💜🖤🤍 great update
I would think about it tbh
i enjoy the idea of a residential community - just has to be the right kind of ppl. they can b chock full of Karens.
love always having people around though. i love people.

donna, that's sweet.

Where in Florida?

Now that I'm in my 40s, I kind of just want to fast forward to my late 60s.

alfred: they’re in lakeland. we spent last night in ybor city bcz we had an early flight out of tampa. ate outside in a cloud of cigar smoke then popped over to a gay bar for a nightcap.

oh weird my entire mom's side of my family is from lakeland

hi y'all

!!!

hi alfred i live in fl now

practically a golden girls episode up in here

Thank you for being my fiends!

clouds!!! so good to see u pop back up 💜 how's it been?
winter thread? any themes of note?

;_; at the explicit Golden Girls ref just a day before Betty White’s passing

o fuck yes. 100 years old and what a goddamn gift to the world.

i want to make a motion that we just do a single rolling thread with the next one.

we had four days in a row of a full social calendar over the weekend, including dinner with one couple and a hook-up with another. it was really nice.

agree with map

sweet suggestsh and sorry for the delay
I'll think of names
in the meantime regail me please

hiii

shall i tell the story of our couples hook-up?

it was ok, not as hot as i thought it would be, based on hooking up with these guys like 5 years ago.

very excited to be getting out to the desert this weekend, even though it's cold, because clean air and quiet.

I rejected a hookup with a known commodity on Wednesday b/c I wasn't sure of his COVID status.

How are y'all dealing with it? He's a good fellow whose job requires, he says, weekly tests, but I got nervous being in my apartment potentially inhaling his delicious mephitic fumes.

omg wtf is a known commodity
like a journalist
yes mappy

Uh, we had a wild time last night

uh oh yo
so that's the the drill huh just allude to the time
but share no details

lol, it involved some barleywine, dancing, and something similar to these

Okay now _I_ want details

Seconded

We had been smoking weed and casually making dinner a few weeks before Xmas and T asked me, "what if I had big breasts," and I said, "probably kind of hot," and then he got a deal on a pair from some Chinese retailer that caters to Asian drag queens.

Anyway, we just had some fun with them.

egg foo fun!

lolol

what a riveting life don't we think

honestly boobs are pretty rad

Steve Martin in Roxanne: "If I were a woman, I'd play with my breasts all day."

i would look really good with boobs

only had mine for a few years and I loooooooooooove them so much

i would look like a helga tbh. my inner woman is a ponytailed, bespectacled horse girl.

I would look like a Slavic prostitute, based on my experiences in drag.

I wish I had the guts to refer to myself as an aging dickgirl in public, because that's the image of my perfect self. (But there's a non-zero possibility of my ending up as a gay man at the end of my gender journey.)

as a confirmed aging dickgirl myself, fkn go for it