Y'all should check out Being 17.
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:48 (two years ago) link
Thanks, will search it out.
I never would have watched "Love, Simon" but I was hungover on a flight from Vancouver to Montreal and it was free to watch in-flight, so...
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:48 (two years ago) link
Being 17 is another good one, yes. Ditto The Way He Looks.
― Les hommes de bonbons (cryptosicko), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:49 (two years ago) link
Tho Stranger by the Lake is an all-time favorite, I get and kind of agree with tabes here? At least in the sense that nothing's quite as fun, rich and dramatic in a gay timeline as the act of coming out.
― Milm & Foovies (Eric H.), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:50 (two years ago) link
It was my favorite film of that year, but I get why it might bore.
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:51 (two years ago) link
Oh, definitely will search it out. "Wild Reeds" is all-time gay film for me.
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:51 (two years ago) link
Another favorite, Pink Narcissus, arguably depicts self-actualization as a dead end.
― Milm & Foovies (Eric H.), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:51 (two years ago) link
I mean, I legit fell asleep the first two times I tried to watch "Stranger.." And I like a lot of boring movies!
I love Pink Narcissus.
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:53 (two years ago) link
But part of that is also that it's *actually* sexy.
"Wild Reeds" is all-time gay film for me.
Mine too.
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 December 2021 17:57 (two years ago) link
Gotta watch that one again. Saw it on Canadian television back in the 90s when it aired late in the evening on one of our "arts" channels. The circumstances (though not the movie) made me feel like I was sneaking out of bed to watch porn.
― Les hommes de bonbons (cryptosicko), Monday, 6 December 2021 18:06 (two years ago) link
coincidentally the only kind of gay film i like
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Monday, 6 December 2021 18:14 (two years ago) link
Canadian television?
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 December 2021 18:18 (two years ago) link
I know, I was surprised, too! I thought in Canada, the entertainment was hockey, moose turds, and placing oil pipelines through treaty lands.
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Monday, 6 December 2021 18:57 (two years ago) link
My impression of the finest in Canadian cinema:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XlMq0809SI
― Milm & Foovies (Eric H.), Monday, 6 December 2021 18:59 (two years ago) link
(I wish I lived in Canada, tbh).
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Monday, 6 December 2021 19:10 (two years ago) link
xp porn lol
i'm very basic
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Tuesday, 7 December 2021 17:30 (two years ago) link
persimmons have a distinct aftertaste of cum
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Sunday, 12 December 2021 02:39 (two years ago) link
lolhisorry I've been travelingI'm staying with my aunt in St Louisfamily triggers are in overdrive I'm on new meds -and they might actually be helping? i dunno2nd doctor I've had in my life suggest tms have y'all heard of this? low level ect i thinki meannnnnnnnnn I'm thinking about it
― surm, Sunday, 12 December 2021 07:30 (two years ago) link
oh god, take care. sending you positive and peaceful ish.
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Sunday, 12 December 2021 13:24 (two years ago) link
we'll see - i probably won't go through with it but it's gaining a lot of traction in the field.
heading back to NYC soon after an insane trip to St Louis. almost winter! time for the shining!
― surm, Tuesday, 14 December 2021 09:32 (two years ago) link
had the best t4t afternoon-into-late-night date yesterday! we were both nomadic genderfucky basement show art faguettes in our 20’s before fully coming out as pan trans around 30. she was telling me ridiculous stories of running a noise venue/label during her Coke Year; turns out we both really like fixing old electronics (cameras for me, synths for her) and we had some amazing sex while smoking a ton of weed and listening to her doom metal records. really hoping we can become besties with benefits!then, this morning I got brunch with my wonderful nb stripper metamour and dished all about it over strong bloodies. (they’re 9 years younger than me so they call me mom! despite the fact that they are 100% my sugar daddy wrt brunches and the like. they’re buying me a latex dress for Christmas!) then they pulled off the slickest “hitting on a hot stranger at the bar” I’ve ever seen! I’m so intensely proud of how they’ve found their power these past few months.It’s been almost five years but I’m still amazed on almost a daily basis at how much better being out is!
― nicole, Wednesday, 15 December 2021 21:12 (two years ago) link
your excitement and positive energy radiate from that post, i love it
amazing sex while smoking a ton of weed and listening to her doom metal records
i hope i'm not overreaching by saying that i, a cis person, also find doom metal really sexy, and i guess it's just cool to hear that someone else does too.
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Wednesday, 15 December 2021 21:24 (two years ago) link
Oh, I definitely have had many orgasms listening to doom metal and related genres, everything from Sunn 0))) to Fall of Efrafa. Also once had very intense sext to Tim Hecker's Ravedeath, 1979, lol.
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Wednesday, 15 December 2021 21:51 (two years ago) link
But I mean, T and I are also aging punks, so listening to lots of doom metal isn't too weird.
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Wednesday, 15 December 2021 21:52 (two years ago) link
"had the best t4t afternoon-into-late-night date yesterday! we were both nomadic genderfucky basement show art faguettes in our 20’s before fully coming out as pan trans around 30. she was telling me ridiculous stories of running a noise venue/label during her Coke Year; turns out we both really like fixing old electronics (cameras for me, synths for her) and we had some amazing sex while smoking a ton of weed and listening to her doom metal records. really hoping we can become besties with benefits!"
i want to have your life!
love Tim Hecker
― surm, Friday, 17 December 2021 12:08 (two years ago) link
back to bk after a month or sogeez y'all i love nyi didn't realize how imperative it is for me to be here as a non driver and general weirdo
― surm, Saturday, 18 December 2021 18:19 (two years ago) link
ran in our very own Stevie D at the farmers market yesterday. it was really nice.
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Sunday, 19 December 2021 16:21 (two years ago) link
aww love that
― surm, Sunday, 19 December 2021 17:20 (two years ago) link
what's the weekend like everyone?
― surm, Thursday, 23 December 2021 02:14 (two years ago) link
lol
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 23 December 2021 02:16 (two years ago) link
Merle Haggard wrote and sang a song called "If We Make It Through December."
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 23 December 2021 02:17 (two years ago) link
Yaknowwwww i get that
u still living it up p diddy? who's on the dance card?
― surm, Thursday, 23 December 2021 02:18 (two years ago) link
we’re in florida at my in-laws for the holidays, they live in a 55+ community that has a clubhouse with a pool and hot tubs. spent a little time chatting with a sweet elder gay couple in one of the hot tubs. the older of the men has three children from his previous marriage, but after his wife died he met and fell in love with his current partner, who have been together as long as B and i have. the younger man has Parkinson’s and didn’t talk as much but he was very funny when he did. the older man’s sister also lives in that community and i guess when they visited her they liked it so much they ended up moving there too. was heartening to see an older gay couple faring well and happy in what is otherwise an extremely hetero living environment. they asked us if we’d ever consider moving to a place like that and…honestly idk. i could see myself getting into it if there were other homos around maybe.anyway hope alla u gayz are having a happy, or at least tolerable, holiday season so far
― donna rouge, Monday, 27 December 2021 04:03 (two years ago) link
❤️💜🖤🤍 great updateI would think about it tbhi enjoy the idea of a residential community - just has to be the right kind of ppl. they can b chock full of Karens.love always having people around though. i love people.
― surm, Thursday, 30 December 2021 04:51 (two years ago) link
donna, that's sweet.
Where in Florida?
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 December 2021 10:33 (two years ago) link
Now that I'm in my 40s, I kind of just want to fast forward to my late 60s.
― Max Hamburgers (Eric H.), Thursday, 30 December 2021 13:38 (two years ago) link
alfred: they’re in lakeland. we spent last night in ybor city bcz we had an early flight out of tampa. ate outside in a cloud of cigar smoke then popped over to a gay bar for a nightcap.
― donna rouge, Thursday, 30 December 2021 16:19 (two years ago) link
oh weird my entire mom's side of my family is from lakeland
hi y'all
― clouds, Thursday, 30 December 2021 22:08 (two years ago) link
!!!
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 December 2021 22:09 (two years ago) link
hi alfred i live in fl now
― clouds, Thursday, 30 December 2021 22:22 (two years ago) link
practically a golden girls episode up in here
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Thursday, 30 December 2021 22:25 (two years ago) link
Thank you for being my fiends!
― So who you gonna call? The martini police (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 December 2021 23:12 (two years ago) link
clouds!!! so good to see u pop back up 💜 how's it been?winter thread? any themes of note?
― surm, Sunday, 2 January 2022 23:38 (two years ago) link
;_; at the explicit Golden Girls ref just a day before Betty White’s passing
― Max Hamburgers (Eric H.), Monday, 3 January 2022 00:04 (two years ago) link
o fuck yes. 100 years old and what a goddamn gift to the world.
― surm, Monday, 3 January 2022 01:00 (two years ago) link
i want to make a motion that we just do a single rolling thread with the next one.
we had four days in a row of a full social calendar over the weekend, including dinner with one couple and a hook-up with another. it was really nice.
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Monday, 10 January 2022 17:24 (two years ago) link
agree with map
― we need outrage! we need dicks!! (the table is the table), Monday, 10 January 2022 18:39 (two years ago) link
sweet suggestsh and sorry for the delayI'll think of namesin the meantime regail me please
― surm, Friday, 14 January 2022 23:20 (two years ago) link
hiii
― Nedlene Grendel as Basenji Holmo (map), Friday, 14 January 2022 23:22 (two years ago) link