how do you feel about dreamers/excellers?― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, October 7, 2021 9:15 AM (thirty-nine minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink
― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, October 7, 2021 9:15 AM (thirty-nine minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink
I don't see how this question has anything to do with the frankly unhinged behavior of Dorland.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 16:56 (two years ago) link
It boggles my mind that anyone can see this any other way, actually!
― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, 7 October 2021 16:58 (two years ago) link
It's so hard to pick a side to champion for when both sides are clearly people you'd quickly learn to shun in real life.
― more difficult than I look (Aimless), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:00 (two years ago) link
the author is being disingenuous af though
― Gardyloominati (Neanderthal), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:04 (two years ago) link
but legally? idk that Dornan has any case at all
It boggles my mind that anyone can see this any other way, actually!― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, October 7, 2021 9:58 AM (five minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink
― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, October 7, 2021 9:58 AM (five minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink
Still doesn't answer my response to your question— how does Dorland being a needy vampire translate into being a "dreamer" or an "exceller"? Nothing about the way I've characterized her would put her into the camp of "dreamer" or "exceller," but instead into the camp of "socially inept, unhinged, needy weirdo." Sorry, but that isn't the same thing.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:07 (two years ago) link
But to answer your question, I have no problem with dreamers or excellers, I would even consider myself to be one— but I also don't act like Dorland, and think that it's a disservice to dreamers and excellers to associate them with someone who is so clearly unwell.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:09 (two years ago) link
I’m talking about how both sides of the Viking debate cannot see how anyone could possibly disagree with them
― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:10 (two years ago) link
Dorland's definitely the exceller, Larson the dreamer.
― jmm, Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:11 (two years ago) link
See, my take is that none of this would have happened if Dorland hadn't made a worthy but private act of sacrifice into a public spectacle and something that she deserves accolades for, accolades which she went out of her way to solicit and harangue people about when she didn't feel she was getting enough attention.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 16:13 (forty-nine minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink
yeah i think this really gets to whats going on, where its about larson/grub st very brutally upholding a strongly bourgeois aesthetics (of the self/of writing) which dorling desires but fails at. So there is a correct way to write the short story (show don't tell), a correct way to be a professional writer (MFAs, prestigious workshop programs) and discrete ways of comporting yourself in public/online. There is a real horror I think in the way they all respond to Dorling, that seemingly comes earlier than her targeting them individually. They seem quite literally disgusted by her and fascinated by their disgust and what deeply bores me about the story is how it seems to leave the assumptions about those prescriptive norms very much intact. Everyone in this story buys into quite a rigid, bourgeois ideal of 'success' and are very willing to be judged by it, which is why everyone comes across as equally pathetic.
― plax (ico), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:11 (two years ago) link
Agree with tabes here and the dreamers/excellers parallel doesnt rly imo fit
In dreamers/excellers its only one side who are awful and wrong
― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:13 (two years ago) link
Lol
― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:14 (two years ago) link
The Viking Debate? Please.
Dorland started this whole thing by acting unhinged af, inviting the mockery and scrutiny of those whom she erroneously considered colleagues. The resulting situation sucks for her, and exposes the meanness and pettiness of those supposed colleagues but it also is of her own making.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:17 (two years ago) link
And I should mention that I agree with plax— these people are all much too much invested in "mainstream" literary success, whatever that means, instead of focusing on their art, which should be the point of all of this anyway.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:18 (two years ago) link
Well except that 'focusing on their art' does seem one of the most normative ideals that gets trotted out (by Larson)
― plax (ico), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:20 (two years ago) link
Whatever, it's the truth, as normative as it might be. Most people who say it don't actually practice what they preach.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:26 (two years ago) link
Exactly. These kinds of commonplaces have to be arbitrated in more or less fine-grained ways to delineate correct, respectable kinds of conduct.
― plax (ico), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:35 (two years ago) link
Totally— here, Larson is using it as shorthand for "don't pay attention to the sources for my work, just focus on the messages that I would like to be inhered in the work."
My point is that many, many artists and writers, myself included on occasion, would do well to ignore gossip and drama and interpersonal BS and just focus on the work that they are making or trying to make.
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:38 (two years ago) link
maybe “the kindest” is more interesting than the gossip behind it.. but i seriously doubt it
― Tracer Hand, Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:43 (two years ago) link
Yes exactly! it's the same kind of Protestant acetic ideal of the artist (solitary, unmotivated by material reward or recognition) that informs their discomfort with her kidney story
― plax (ico), Thursday, 7 October 2021 17:45 (two years ago) link
is dreamer/exceller some malcolm gladwell pop psych shit?
― mens rea activist (k3vin k.), Thursday, 7 October 2021 18:05 (two years ago) link
some would say that, but they are wrong
― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, 7 October 2021 18:06 (two years ago) link
oh dear
― mens rea activist (k3vin k.), Thursday, 7 October 2021 18:08 (two years ago) link
It's from a debate about a Simpsons joke. I only brought it up because table's statement that it boggled his mind that someone could see things differently is a sentiment that came up about 1000 times on that thread
― St. Twel'mo, or the Cuneiform Cyclopedist of Chattanooga (President Keyes), Thursday, 7 October 2021 18:11 (two years ago) link
Oh boy, the New York Times Magazine! That's where I'm a Bad Art Friend!
― jaymc, Thursday, 7 October 2021 18:21 (two years ago) link
Hate to cross the streams but one last time until the next last time
Ppl are alarmed and appalled that the excellers think they might be right
Not that they think can see something different if they squint
― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 October 2021 18:27 (two years ago) link
how many dreamers does it take to screw in a lightbulb?
only one, because that's where they're a viking, and that means they're excellent at changing lightbulbs
― Gardyloominati (Neanderthal), Thursday, 7 October 2021 19:27 (two years ago) link
everyone invoking that stuuuuuupid viking thread should be fp’d
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 7 October 2021 19:52 (two years ago) link
why did I imagine VG yelling that at the thread out of a car window
― talkin' about his flat tire (DJP), Thursday, 7 October 2021 20:16 (two years ago) link
Jesus lets not
― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 October 2021 20:19 (two years ago) link
oh great now I'm going to have to read a thread about vikings, too?
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Thursday, 7 October 2021 20:41 (two years ago) link
only if you will follow it up by dousing your eyes with acid, which is the only known antidote to that thread
― Gardyloominati (Neanderthal), Thursday, 7 October 2021 20:42 (two years ago) link
xp Yeah otherwise a lot of the references here will read like norse code
― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 October 2021 20:42 (two years ago) link
imma douse my eyes with acid after that quip, dmac
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Thursday, 7 October 2021 20:43 (two years ago) link
humour
Thats where im an eyesting
― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 October 2021 20:57 (two years ago) link
Oh boy, a stranger's body, that's where I'm a kidney!
― Guayaquil (eephus!), Thursday, 7 October 2021 21:33 (two years ago) link
u_u
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 7 October 2021 22:57 (two years ago) link
quincie that thread is about vikings the way larson thinks moby dick is about whales
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 7 October 2021 22:58 (two years ago) link
that thread will form the capstone of my ilx novel cycle, deems is the villain as usual
― mark s, Thursday, 7 October 2021 23:10 (two years ago) link
Cast aspersions
― fix up luke shawp (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 October 2021 23:14 (two years ago) link
Dorland started this whole thing by acting unhinged af, inviting the mockery and scrutiny of those whom she erroneously considered colleagues. The resulting situation sucks for her, and exposes the meanness and pettiness of those supposed colleagues but it also is of her own making.― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, October 7, 2021 1:17 PM (seven hours ago) bookmarkflaglink
― I'm a sovereign jazz citizen (the table is the table), Thursday, October 7, 2021 1:17 PM (seven hours ago) bookmarkflaglink
good take on bullying
― treeship., Friday, 8 October 2021 00:29 (two years ago) link
dorland is certainly narcissitic in a way that feels needy and lacks self awareness. she is cringe. but larson and her friends seem mean. i have no view on the lawsuit—seems frivolous, but still
― treeship., Friday, 8 October 2021 00:32 (two years ago) link
I hate to have to spell this out but at root the issue is about being cool, and dorland is not cool. larson is bad too but this all started with dorland being weird and not cool
― mens rea activist (k3vin k.), Friday, 8 October 2021 01:27 (two years ago) link
donated a kidneyand seeks acclaimyou give writersa bad name sorrytruly i am
― terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 8 October 2021 01:47 (two years ago) link
real-life lol at that
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Friday, 8 October 2021 01:56 (two years ago) link
brilliant. truly.
― sknybrg, Friday, 8 October 2021 01:58 (two years ago) link
Lol, also where is this viking thread, cannot find
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Friday, 8 October 2021 02:04 (two years ago) link
just don't do it. srsly
― mookieproof, Friday, 8 October 2021 02:14 (two years ago) link
kudos VG
― Guayaquil (eephus!), Friday, 8 October 2021 02:18 (two years ago) link
lol this was my relatable take too. It's the awkward dork wanting to sit at the cool kids table.
― a man often referred to in the news media as the Duke of Saxony (tipsy mothra), Friday, 8 October 2021 04:37 (two years ago) link