ws of shame

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTUIajGQLD8

Whoa, NSFW, which I didn't notice when I posted.

*work absolutely explodes as a woman's nipple briefly appears*

everybody go home! we're going to get through this, you will get a follow-up soon, just go home and try to forget about what happened

*a shirtless burt ives appears*

*work continues as if nothing happened at all*

the shame element is a crucial part of the thread, but I think "I find this person unattractive for this list of aesthetic reasons" is probably more objectionable than "I find this person attractive for this list of aesthetic reasons".

*a shirtless burt ives appears*

<In Burl Ives voice> "I love it when you call me 'Big Daddy'"

Shirtless burt_stanton

ws of shame

I think enforcing a strict prohibition on saying women are attractive is unhealthy to be honest, even if it’s necessary. I understand why there is thus taboo—we are trying to avoid objectification, and reproducing the oppressive beauty expectations women live under, the sense that they are always under a gaze—and I think this is a noble motive. And maybe the only way to accomplish this is to put some conversation topics off limits. But doing so has its own consequences, driving these feelings underground, creating less candor between people of different genders and sexualities, more suspicion.

Map as always captured the weirdness of these contortions better than i could xps. Like there is a disingenuousness to all of this

Expressing attraction is fine, and I even agree that the idea of finding someone morally repellent attractive is interesting, but dissecting and rating the appearance of a complete stranger across a dozen posts protected by anonymity, crosses a line for me.

Back on topic: flies.

Map as always captured the weirdness of these contortions better than i could xps. Like there is a disingenuousness to all of this

― treeship., Friday, August 6, 2021 3:09 AM (thirty-nine minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

*bows*

though honestly i'm on the side of just not talking about it because heterosexuality grosses me out personally

fair enough for sure

i reserve the right to talk about riding d all i want in literally every conversation on this board though, cheers

And i reserve the right to my shame

I don't know who that woman is but I can't certainly see why people would find her attractive. I notice her surname is Dutch and she looks very Dutch.

https://assets.iceland.co.uk/i/iceland/Truckle_Brothrs_100g_Red_Hot_Dutch_Cheese_61114.jpg

Can't believe we've got an entire thread devoted to shameless kinkshaming.

what if your kink is being shamed?

I would shame wood-smashers, I'm a tree lover.

Kyrsten Sinema

― Mr. Cacciatore (Moodles), Thursday, July 29, 2021 2:38 PM (two months ago)bookmarkflaglink

ughhhhh

― k3vin k., Thursday, July 29, 2021 2:39 PM (two months ago)bookmarkflaglink

terrible politician, but I'm a sucker for that crazy energy

― Mr. Cacciatore (Moodles), Thursday, July 29, 2021 2:41 PM (two months ago)bookmarkflaglink

shame! shame!

― Z_TBD (Karl Malone), Thursday, July 29, 2021 2:59 PM (two months ago)bookmarkflaglink

you are bringing shame upon this family

― criminally negligible (harbl), Thursday, July 29, 2021 3:10 PM (two months ago)

I can fix her

the shame is real

i'm afraid to ask this, but

w you still s, after all that has happened here

was she obviously less shameful 2 months ago?

oh that's a total smash then, lol! the commitment is strong :D

i'd say she actually was a bit less shameful a couple months ago. what's happening this week was pretty foreseeable - people have been warning each other about what a total fuckup she is for the last year, leading up to this - but i do think the shame meter ticks up juuuuust a bit when she does the actual thing everyone was warning each other about. it is at code red level, very top

feel like we’re eventually gonna learn that she doesn’t actually need glasses — they’re just accessories

omg, that be so Sinema

https://eastof8th.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/screen-shot-2016-11-10-at-9-32-09-am.png

I'd Pompla That Moose.

nataly dawn's attractiveness is something like 75% of the band's popularity

The shame rarely is about a person being physically unattractive

True dat

Gina Carano *sigh*

If you ever doubt that you can change your path in life, just remember that this person went on to become the Senate's top defender of hedge funders and private equity #inspiring #inspiration pic.twitter.com/dG7li95DqZ

— Dan Amira (@DanAmira) August 8, 2022

real life Charlize Theron as Mr. F

would: Diamond
wouldn't: Silk

― frogbs, Thursday, February 11, 2021 9:49 PM (one year ago) bookmarkflaglink

Guilty lolz that anytime D & S come up, I immediately think of this post.

wait **checks Twitter for the 5th time** ahhh fuck

related to a fgti post from a while ago, i also would totally s Gregg Alexander during the “You Get What You Give” era. also makes me feel shame.

proper way of saying that is "I'd be his Hitler"

Oh great, Mr. Britney Spears is back on the market!

I mean, come on

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/c/c8/Kyrsten_Sinema_%28cropped%29.jpg/1200px-Kyrsten_Sinema_%28cropped%29.jpg

Did not even need to click, nope

Can’t even

I'm not proud of it

I love how Sinema has become a hetero avatar of this thread.

And how the ILX gays have, iirc, yet to mention a politician

Sinema doesn’t appeal to me, she looks like, as someone else said, a kindergartner teacher who wants to fuck one of her students.

I can see that. I had a few teachers who fit that mold, or at least they did in my fevered adolescent brain.

Something a student wrote reminded me of Coldplay's "Yellow," so I queued up the video, only to remember that young Chris Martin is exactly one of my types, what a smokeshow.