rolling #metoo thread for sexual harassment in the music industry so no one misses out when artists we don't give a fuck about like Tim Westwood and Bassnectar get caught

I apologized for being glib and I meant it. I’m sorry!

I’m just responding to accusations about my intentions

Thomas Middleditch pressured a girlfriend into getting breast implants, and then asked for her to pay him back for them when they broke up. Dude's been a known creep for years.

I don't think anyone is at all shocked by Richard Middledouche being called out

the nerdy dude from silicon valley huh

Oh my god that breast implant story

She's deleted the post, but my recollection is that the woman had to remove the implants years after they broke up, due to them being (badly done? too large? affecting her chest muscles?). I don't recall when or whether him asking to be paid back came into it, but she put the implants on display at the Museum Of Broken Relationships in Hollywood.

Midnite Vultures is good

shhhhh

No, I meant it sucks that the director’s career is dunzo, not his business relationship with some blu-ray company.

Dogg, please believe me when I say I wasn’t even getting in the weeds of his specific relationships with any company or business

I haven’t read the allegations yet

(btw I still don't follow this at all. how is his career even "dunzo" in any way, let alone it being "weaksauce" that it's dunzo, in that context?)

I don't know why we are going round and round with this, nor what you're trying to do here but

1. I was assuming he was heretofore "cancelled" i.e., persona non grata in the industry, i.e. basically finished and unable to make movies anymore at least in the way that we know them, i.e., having a career that is over at least in the way that we know them a.k.a. done a.k.a. dunzo. Yes, I'm fully aware that this something that is more common with smaller/niche figures than bigger people like Mel Gibson or whatever. Yes, I'm fully aware that, in fact, may not be end up to be true because, in many, many cases, like Aziz or Morgan Wallen, your career really only gets a timeout or a speedbump, and I was rushing to assume that Stanley was "cancelled" in the traditional sense. I did not -- and still have not -- read the actual allegations, but I assume they are legit and horrible.

2. I have established that “It is very good this creep got cancelled” and “It sucks that this guy can’t make anymore movies because I liked them” are not mutually exclusive thoughts. Yes, putting the former in front of the latter is glib, especially on a board where people can be sensitive to such matters. I have admitted that and have apologized twice now. The first thought (“It is very good this creep got cancelled”) should be assumed and should go without saying. The second thought (It sucks that this guy can’t make anymore movies because I liked them”) was what I posted. "Weak" in that scenario is synonomous with "this sucks" which is something that poster Austin has done in this very thread ("unrelated, but over the last week there have also been allegations thrown at london singer songwriter cosmo pyke which sucks because i genuinely like his music."), which went without such a thorough examination.

maybe because i'm not an insufferable blowhard?

(this post is 100% in jest, just fyi. i just can't resist a dogpile on you, chris. let's try to stay focused tho.)

haha, appreciated

"Midnite Vultures is good"

I don't know how that album got into this discourse but it was certainly the first Beck album I hated.

don't know how that album got into this discourse

"underpants R&B minstrel show"

Is Midnite Vultures cancelled

Is Midnite Vultures cancelled too??? Man, I hated Midnite Vultures, then grew to like it, and now there's something worse about it?

beck is too boring to cancel

The only good thing about Midnite Vultures is the cover art.

https://www.discogs.com/Various-Shock-City-Shockers/master/457451

https://img.discogs.com/p8hkP9K9W_PrVZNvQcJOduSnhaQ=/fit-in/488x425/filters:strip_icc():format(jpeg):mode_rgb():quality(90)/discogs-images/R-2163996-1386138499-9655.jpeg.jpg

There is a book called Ongaloo that all those paintings were culled from:

https://www.google.com/search?q=ongaloo&tbm=isch

are the boredoms cancelled

Can we not conflate artistic crimes with actual ones in this thread? Har Mar isn't getting canceled for making r&b.

Midnite Vultures is fun shit, like it was welded together from a stack of '70s records that normally weren't played together (Sly & the Family Stone, Kraftwerk, etc.) "Sexx Laws," "Get Real Plaid," "Beautiful Way" (psychedelic folk-blues)...I think Beck openly expressed his reservations about singing "Debra" when he toured in 2002, like it was some embarrassing track he cut in his "youth" (IIRC it was kicking around before Odelay). Coming from a guy who's now singing songs from Hank Williams and Big Star's 3rd, it would be insipid, but I eventually came around to the idea that it's a snapshot of juvenile idiocy and enjoy it as a novelty.

the most embarrassing track on midnite vultures is "hollywood freaks"

mixed business or whatever is so fucking horrible, he should be shot because of that, imo

this is such a weird conversation to be having in this thread

agreed

take it here
midnite vultures

Not to mention fucking weird to say a musician should be "shot" for recording a song, especially given current events.

beck sucks you nerds

take it to the beck thread ffs

Not to mention fucking weird to say a musician should be "shot" for recording a song

period

#onethread

take it to the scientology thread!

chaki!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Further reconfirmation on this person

https://pitchfork.com/news/sun-kil-moon-mark-kozelek-accused-of-sexual-misconduct-by-seven-more-women/amp/

tip of the iceberg, surprised it took this long for another 7.

I can't tell whether it's his straight white male overconfidence, or knowing he's absolutely fucked, to think it was a good move to just recycled his previous denial.

Have you considered that he might be dumb?

"who says yes to that?" the most otm thing in there, what a deeply repulsive individual he is

xpost - Well, yeah.

tip of the iceberg, surprised it took this long for another 7.

I know this is intended to express contempt for the abuser, but it might help to think in terms of how difficult it can be to speak out about abuse and assault on a personal level, and the fact that these seem to be women who have specifically sought Zimmerman as a trustworthy ear, and that she has a) diligently reported out the incidents as far as possible, and b) assessed that it would have greater impact to go to print with the weight of multiple accusations at once, not dripfeeding one by one.

Not to mention fucking weird to say a musician should be "shot" for recording a song, especially given current events.

You are going to seriously double down on that? Christ this board is a mess.

I feel like I've said this before but -- there is SO MUCH of the talk about this stuff especially among non-young people where there's a palpable anxiety among men about "o no if I tell someone I liked their dress am I going to jail" and when you read the actual accounts it is always, every single time...... NOT THAT

Yeah it's like... there is a non-trivial, obvious difference between "Oh, I like your dress" and "Oh, I like your dress; here's my penis" and if you can't comprehend that difference, then yes you should be locked up

If you're pining for the days when you used to be able to spank women in the office, I have a lovely subpoena here waiting for you, is how I break it down to an extent.

that undeniable sensation that someone is testing one's boundaries to see how far they can push it is one of the most potent warning bells/alarms i can think of. if nothing else these accounts give examples of what to beware of while interacting with potential predators.

xp DJP -- i think it would depend on whether the gift penis is attached to the man's body or in a Russell Stover heart shaped box, completely severed. ... like that would determine where the dude would be locked up

also la lechera otm!