This is a thread for ILXORS IN THEIR 50's

Not quite 50 yet, but I started doing a similar thing last year, reading old essays I had written at university. The ideas were dubious but the writing was quite well-done; for some reason, I had expected the opposite.

I knew this existed. Search needed the apostrophe.

I can never find.

Although I suppose I won’t need in a few years

Last year I turned 50 and hosted a pub quiz to celebrate. It was so much fun. I think it might even have been fun for other people too. I haven't seen my brothers since. Stupid covid.

hi y'all

things are great so far, tbh

Almost there, lurking in this thread with interest and trepidation

Welcome!

Soon. (Eight days.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x1q2F_18cjg

hello all. it's nifty for now (53) but there will be some uh, tests v soon because uh, ppl have questions.

heh yeah I had a chunk of appendix and related area removed around a year ago due to polyps, my first major surgery (pretty minor as far as full anesthesia operations, but still)

Ah thete it is. I searched 'fifties'

A few more months and I will trade this thread for another. One non-COVID health scare this year, but I think I'm the clear for the near future, at least.

Wondering if somebody should use their magical mod powers to add (fifties/50s) to the thread title, or if we should leave it de-indexed as it were.

We should also have a thread for people stuck in the '50s, sitting around all day watching Happy Days reruns and listening to doo-wop.

ayyyyy *thumb up*

Only HOOS
Can make this world seem bright
Only HOOS
Can make his steen drive right

Happy Days was about the 70s; so was MASH (non controp)

I'm still not yet 50, but I remember having a discussion with someone whether they preferred the "70s 50s" e.g. Happy Days or the "80s 50s" e.g Stray Cats.

Lol

Only HOOS
Can make this world seem bright
Only HOOS
Can make his steen drive right

Saw someone who may now be in their 60s tweet about how he used to feel like the “weird uncle “ here when he was posting more here circa 2004 I guess

The day after my 50th late last year, I had to deal with a Rû$$iän R@ns0mwäre attack, then a couple months later a HBP event that sent me to the the ER, and then a month after that, I slipped on the ice and broke my radius/ulna, putting my drumming/guitar playing home fun therapy on hiatus for a while. That 'ol 'check engine' light comes on at 5-O, can't ignore it anymore.

3 years into the 50s.
3 years of unemployment.
no complaints as not having to worry re job/commute/office chaos in last 12 months have been an absolute blessing.
that and having mk2 (17 yrs, nearly 18) at home all this time has meant we have had a very different last era of my parenting groove than normal.

Hi!

could you repeat that Ned? my tinnitus is acting up

I said NICE WEATHER WE'RE HAVING

Aw, seeing Bimble and Morbs in this thread :(

One thing about being in my 50s is the accumulating weight of all the people I miss who are no longer here. I am aware that this becomes more and more of a thing, the presence of absence. I don’t like it.

Hello to the same decade as me, Ned.

For all of one week.

i have cancer now, as of last thursday. nobody knows but my partner and one friend and uh, now the internet. just don't let my 90 y/o mom find out, srsly. i'm good.

(i keep thinking of teh room when the mom says "it's official-- i definitely have breast cancer"

tbf, i don't have breast cancer.

So sorry to hear that. Hopefully there will be good treatment.

ty. this one is not so bad usually. 🤷🏻‍♂️

good luck Hunt3r

All the best. I'm sure it's a super stressful thing, but glad it's a not-so-bad one.

Indeed, hoping all turns out well!

All the best of luck, Hunter, I hope you'll get good treatment and get through this <3

oh hunt3r! good luck with your treatment - hope you're through it all as quickly as possible and hope you're not laid up for too long in the meantime!

srsly i don't know why i would ever do blurt that, but i do appreciate very very much.

*considers personal history*

i think i'm destined to crash out, ridiculously. doing something else. it think i've got plenty of time. it'll never get me.

*envisions cancer-tombstone (carved in old.css: Original ILX2 Live Stylesheet)*

"damn. it got me. :-("

Did my warranty just expire? I pulled a muscle in my chest, which makes coughing XTREEMLY painful. And last week my dentist put a temporary filling in one of my molars; she can't do a permanent filling until I get my wisdom teeth extracted. The first available consultation date won't be until the end of this month.

*jaw starts hurting again LAMF*

40th High School Reunion coming up next month. Pinch me.

Yikes. That’s me next year.

This is my 40th h.s. year too, but I haven't been to any reunions since the 10th. Hate those things.

I went to the 50th for my middle school four years ago. At least one strange experience too inside-baseball to detail here.

I don’t per se hate reunions but like WmC only ever attended my 10th. 33rd is this year.

Something is compelling me to go. Pandemic? My own kids in HS? In any case, recently waded into our designed friendbook page. One guy had a picture of himself with Scott Miller, because he was in a band with Miller’s wife at the time!

I just turned 50. Feel about the same as I did last week.

The only reunion I went to was the 20th. 30th didn't happen, either because of apathy or COVID. (I graduated in 1989, but I think no one got anything started in 2019; there was some talk about doing a range of adjacent classes. Then the world stopped.)

Because I already talk to my actual HS friends with some frequency, there's not a lot of urgency to meet up with the people who hated me (or vice versa)

I'm now older than Roy Orbison ever got to be.

Schoolfriends... I guess I'm in vague social media contact with one or two, but none who stayed in my hometown. Never went to a reunion, never even heard about one, though I suppose Xmas Eve at the Hotel Vic in New Brighton in '90s was almost that :) Still pals with a couple of undergrad-era ppl. But it's mostly another world.

I don’t mind HS people, am always happy to run into them, but was never that friendly with them to begin with, had a long commute so didn’t hang out too much after school, except on the subway! Also my high school was huge, so much so that I only know a fraction of the people who were in my class, even forgetting about someone in my neighborhood who went. Actually know a lot more people from my rival high school and socialize with them regularly. College is yet another story. I didn’t remain friends with most of the people I knew when I was actually in college, although I did start hanging out with and talking to my old roommate in recent years. But, due to one or two other friends, especially one I knew before college, I know lots of other people who were there at the same time that I hadn’t known.