iyo did facebook ruin the internet?

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hell yeah

is right unfortunately (silby), Wednesday, 9 December 2020 19:57 (three years ago) link

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howls of non-specificity (sleeve), Wednesday, 9 December 2020 20:10 (three years ago) link

wow.

early-Woolf semantic prosody (Hadrian VIII), Wednesday, 9 December 2020 20:50 (three years ago) link

Wow, that's actually quite shocking!

healthy cocaine off perfect butts (the table is the table), Wednesday, 9 December 2020 23:59 (three years ago) link

FB stock down only 2%, I wonder if investors think the whole is not greater than the sum of the parts here.

lukas, Thursday, 10 December 2020 23:51 (three years ago) link

um

Facebook told employees on Tuesday that it’s developing a tool to summarize news articles so users won’t have to read them.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ryanmac/facebook-news-article-summary-tools-brain-reader

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Monday, 21 December 2020 10:27 (three years ago) link

congratulations facebook, you invented headlines

||||||||, Monday, 21 December 2020 10:29 (three years ago) link

lmao

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Monday, 21 December 2020 10:33 (three years ago) link

two weeks pass...

On Facebook, protesters had openly discussed what they aimed to do in Washington on a Facebook page called Red-State Secession for weeks. The page had asked its roughly 8,000 followers to share addresses of perceived “enemies” in the nation’s capital, including the home addresses of federal judges, members of Congress and prominent progressive politicians.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/06/technology/violence-election-capitol-hill-social-media.html

stet, Wednesday, 6 January 2021 23:05 (three years ago) link

two months pass...

One of my friends had her account hacked. The hacker then changed the profile pic to....a pic of someone else. Then wrote my friend (who created a new profile) demanding a payment of a large sum to get the profile back.

Then attempted to make a ton of purchases using Facebook Pay (which were blocked).

A bunch of us reported the profile.

Their trained goons stated this was not a case of fraud/impersonation and didn't violate community standards.

...

Red Nerussi (Neanderthal), Monday, 8 March 2021 17:57 (three years ago) link

So apparently the reason the request was declined was because my friend needed to report her account as hacked, which is a separate flow that isn't advertised, that takes two or three clicks to find.

And my friend, who is computer illiterate, refuses to do it because she insists she can't because she doesn't have access to her account, she's locked out.

Beyond the fact that it wouldn't make any design sense to require you to log into an account to report that it's been hacked and that you can't get into it, friends can't report on her behalf, so her account is going to stay hacked because she's stubborn and computer illiterate, plus FB's security is awful.

Red Nerussi (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 10 March 2021 18:17 (three years ago) link

(she doesn't have to be able to log in but like that Stuwall thread, no way we explain that to her works).

Red Nerussi (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 10 March 2021 18:18 (three years ago) link

I've got half a dozen FB friends with two or more accounts because they didn't know how to recover a hacked or lost login. Sometimes I get notifications to send a birthday message to three versions of the same person.

There must be millions of similar accounts floating around.

Tomatoes are good for sperm count – not if you play like me (onimo), Friday, 12 March 2021 10:05 (three years ago) link

I opened one up a FB account 10 years ago just to harvest votes for my entry in a NAS photography competition, never really used it since. Although when I went back on it one day to contact an old friend there was a 3 year old unread message from him asking if I fancied going for a drink.

calzino, Friday, 12 March 2021 10:13 (three years ago) link

the murky world of vote swapping/purchasing for online competitions was quite an eye-opener. Some cheating fuckers pay click factories for votes by the thousand.

calzino, Friday, 12 March 2021 10:16 (three years ago) link

and once I did a vote swap with someone where the link they sent me was a trojan, then my laptop slowed down considerably and they started describing the pic on my wallpaper to me in detail and what browsers I used to terrorise me. Things like that and realising most the people I know from work at the time generally just post bigoted memes about eastern European people and benefit scroungers, it made realise that it wasn't for me.

calzino, Friday, 12 March 2021 10:35 (three years ago) link

Like many of you, I hate Facebook. I never post anything there and I basically only keep my account to keep some sort of connection with people that live far outside my other circles.

For example, yesterday I noticed that I hadn't heard from an old (~20 yrs) IRL friend of mine for over 3 months. She was living across the world (8500 miles) from me where Facebook is a bigger deal and part of her social circle. So I click on her FB profile and notice on her most recent post that there had been a an unusally large amount of comments... 100+ where there normally would be ~10.

In the comments was the announcement of her death (sudden yet natural causes) and her funeral which had occurred in November, and dozens of tributes and memorials.

I spent most of yesterday afternoon & evening very confused and sad as my friend was in her early 40s and pretty healthy.

But the fact that the only way I would have found out about this in real time was if I had happened to be online around the time of these announcements and the FB algo made sure to ping me that something was up, for all of that to happen and me to luck into it by chance, it absolutely infuriates me.

Anyways my point besides Facebook being terrible, is to also check in on your friends who FB is your major connection with and find an alternate way to keep tabs on each other.

Jersey Al (Albert R. Broccoli), Thursday, 18 March 2021 23:31 (three years ago) link

Sorry to hear about that.

This is not anything like that, but I'm spooked these days by what seems like diminished activity by almost everyone I know. Is anyone else experiencing this? Common sense tells me it's the pandemic--people are tired, worried, etc. The paranoid part of me worries about I'm not even sure what. It's not just that my own posts don't get much response--I'm used to that. It's that hardly anybody I know posts anymore. Used to be I'd go out for an hour or two and there'd be a message or two when I got back and five notifications of new posts. Hardly anybody posts anymore. Maybe it's something to do with my settings or algorithms or something else--I know Facebook has its own inscrutable system. But it's unnerving.

clemenza, Thursday, 18 March 2021 23:47 (three years ago) link

This thread is about Facebook, not ILX.

pplains, Friday, 19 March 2021 01:46 (three years ago) link

"This thread is about Facebook, not your whole life" would have worked just as well for me.

clemenza, Friday, 19 March 2021 02:42 (three years ago) link

This ain't the Truth Bombs thread either!

pplains, Friday, 19 March 2021 02:57 (three years ago) link

(by that I mean, "same")

pplains, Friday, 19 March 2021 02:58 (three years ago) link

Personally, I’m posting more than ever. I’d guess lots of people are stepping back and recovering from a time when they felt the need to confront others perhaps more ever before

Zach_TBD (Karl Malone), Friday, 19 March 2021 03:28 (three years ago) link

I pretty much only post "hey this music is great" or "hey i made this thing" posts, don't engage with anyone else's posts, don't care to.

it's like edging for your mind (the table is the table), Friday, 19 March 2021 17:32 (three years ago) link

most of my postings are Jack Handy-wannabe misdirections and i'm much happier than I was prior to my 30-day timeout.

"Salvation Army FUCK!" (Neanderthal), Friday, 19 March 2021 17:41 (three years ago) link

Clemenza, I experience the same thing on Facebook. My personal reasons for posting less, and mostly inconsequential things is partly out of dread of who will interact with it. By that I mean various things - I post something innocuous so set the post to public or all friends (a list 500+ now), but then a closer friend or relative will obliviously drop my kids names or other private info in the comments. Or my mother in law will barrage me with questions or apologies. Or there’s the possibility of being publicly linked with someone who posted toxic shit elsewhere. Local acquaintances who just see me as middle aged suburban mom x, seem to distance themselves if I post anything outside that box. Other people that actually are outside of that box also distance themselves if I hedge and post too much bland stuff. Feels like ever diminishing returns to put oneself out there at all, and I’m sure I’m not unique to think so. That said, I’m still on the thing far too much browsing practical info group content and just doomscrolling. Pandemic hasn’t helped.

Kim, Friday, 19 March 2021 18:07 (three years ago) link

I pretty much only post "hey this music is great" or "hey i made this thing" posts, don't engage with anyone else's posts, don't care to.

― it's like edging for your mind (the table is the table), Friday, March 19, 2021 10:32 AM (two hours ago) bookmarkflaglink

oh, you mean on Facebook

Canon in Deez (silby), Friday, 19 March 2021 19:34 (three years ago) link

lol yes, i mean on facebook.

Kim, I also mostly stopped posting anything remotely...provocative, I'd say, because anytime I would post *anything* that wasn't related to music or some endeavor of my own, people would start shit in the comments. And always the same people! It seems like a lot of the people who are still using Facebook actively are some of the most angry, depressed people I know, and I just don't care to interact with them in such a way.

it's like edging for your mind (the table is the table), Friday, 19 March 2021 21:06 (three years ago) link

the biggest thread escalation I ever caused was saying "who cares if Ben Affleck is gonna play Batman".

"Salvation Army FUCK!" (Neanderthal), Friday, 19 March 2021 21:29 (three years ago) link

I think my Facebook experience is different than a lot of people's. I've almost never gone through the arguments and pestering that seems common. In all honesty, I've had more confrontation here--not constant or anything, but more than on Facebook. In the 10+ years I've been on there, there was a couple of minor flare-ups with a cousin this past election, and one over one of those pick-your-favourite-album things; I picked a Byrds album that someone else didn't think was a real album. It was over and deleted within about three posts. That's literally it--I can count them on three fingers. The general political stuff on my wall is more or less in sync with me, and the only politics from teacher friends has to do with teaching, and of course we're in sync there.

The worst annoyance for me was always people who over-posted--like constantly, 10-15 times a day. Some I unfollowed, some I let it go. Now it's just dead. I'm missing what I don't even like.

clemenza, Saturday, 20 March 2021 03:13 (three years ago) link

Honestly I'm praying for the death of Facebook.

Bruno Ganz and Babaloo Mandel (Boring, Maryland), Saturday, 20 March 2021 18:19 (three years ago) link

facebook finished the job ilx started

doo rag, Sunday, 28 March 2021 07:44 (three years ago) link

facebook seems kind of quaint and old fashioned now.

treeship., Wednesday, 7 April 2021 17:59 (three years ago) link

You find a better forum for organizing a takeover of your state Capitol l.

In on the killfile (Boring, Maryland), Wednesday, 7 April 2021 20:23 (three years ago) link

something feeling really desperate about them throwing friend recommendations of utterly random people in the notifications. HEY HEY HI HI MAYBE YOU KNOW THIS PERSON??? YOU SHOULD BE FRIENDS :D :D :D THEY ARE ONE OF SEVEN HUNDRED PEOPLE WHO IS FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVEN'T INTERACTED WITH IN OVER A DECADE!!!!

sgt. pepper's one-and-only bobo honkin' band (Doctor Casino), Saturday, 17 April 2021 19:45 (three years ago) link

Hasn't that been around for a while?

The thing that was bothering me two or three weeks ago--lack of anything on FB in the way of activity--has started to subside. To paraphrase George Costanza, it's not me (I was worried that it was), it's Facebook. It just seems to be fading in general among the people I interact with--maybe pandemic-related (it's a particularly bad time where I am), or maybe more permanent.

clemenza, Saturday, 17 April 2021 21:32 (three years ago) link

I only signed up for Facebook last year so I could see Satoko Fuji and Natsuke Tamara perform concerts. I don’t know how anyone can use this garbage site. The UI is actively repellent and confusing. I know their shtick is trying to drag you in for hours but everything about it makes me run away within minutes.

In on the killfile (Boring, Maryland), Sunday, 18 April 2021 01:31 (three years ago) link

That feature really just inspires creepy doodz to friend request friends of friends so they can mack and claim "FB said we should say hi!"

P-Zunit (Neanderthal), Sunday, 18 April 2021 01:47 (three years ago) link

two weeks pass...

Facebook’s whining pop-up about Apple hampering ad tracking is about ‘keeping Facebook free.’

I think Facebook should institute a monthly subscription fee immediately just to see how funny the result would be.

Joe Bombin (milo z), Thursday, 6 May 2021 18:06 (two years ago) link

three weeks pass...

The top-performing link posts by U.S. Facebook pages in the last 24 hours are from:

1. Franklin Graham
2. Fox News
3. Franklin Graham
4. Sean Hannity
5. Ben Shapiro
6. Ben Shapiro
7. Ben Shapiro
8. Ben Shapiro
9. Dan Bongino
10. Ben Shapiro

— Facebook's Top 10 (@FacebooksTop10) May 25, 2021

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Saturday, 29 May 2021 05:37 (two years ago) link

cancel culture has gone TOO FAR

assert (matttkkkk), Saturday, 29 May 2021 08:23 (two years ago) link

Imagine going on Facebook and clicking on a Ben Shapiro link followed by a Dan Bongino link. Like wtf are you even doing with your life at that point

Karl Malone, Saturday, 29 May 2021 14:56 (two years ago) link

dong banino

class project pat (m bison), Saturday, 29 May 2021 15:35 (two years ago) link

i had to fucking check his name like 5 times before typing it here. don bangino? dan bongano? fucking idiots

Karl Malone, Saturday, 29 May 2021 15:38 (two years ago) link

i only trust an angry white guy who yells at me!

Karl Malone, Saturday, 29 May 2021 15:39 (two years ago) link

bong danelectro

class project pat (m bison), Saturday, 29 May 2021 15:44 (two years ago) link

danilo bongalinari

class project pat (m bison), Saturday, 29 May 2021 15:45 (two years ago) link

dung bandito

class project pat (m bison), Saturday, 29 May 2021 15:45 (two years ago) link

Ben Bagingo

class project pat (m bison), Saturday, 29 May 2021 15:50 (two years ago) link


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