Dr. Morbius (Bill Weber) RIP

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I know I antagonized him like anybody on this board did, but there was one point I posted here at a very low point where I'd woken up in a hospital after a night of drinking, really upset and freaked out about my loss of control, and he posted calming, kind words of encouragement with anecdotes from his own life. was incredibly sweet and helped at a time where I needed any encouragement. and considering my attitude towards him, not something he had to do/say.

rest well,Bill.

Neanderthal, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:48 (three years ago) link

bill was the first ilxor i ever met in real life, at a mets game in 2009. he was sweet and funny in person. he was easy to talk to, especially if the conversation shifted to baseball or movies. life didn't deal him a very good hand over the past several years but i know how many people here loved him and i hope at the end he felt it was a life well lived.

call all destroyer, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:48 (three years ago) link

Gutted.

Had been hoping that getting out to CT with his family and recent discharge meant a turn for the better.

This place will never be quite the same.

error prone wolf syndicate (Hadrian VIII), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:50 (three years ago) link

Ah, fuuuck. Rest in fury, you lovable asshole. So glad that he decided, and then was well enough to, get out of the city and end surrounded by love and family.

Un-fooled and placid (sic), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:51 (three years ago) link

xp I thought he had implied that when I asked him about it a few months ago. awful news

Dan S, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

I loved this guy too even though we ripped into each other so many times here. I’m really sad. God, fuck this year.

sound of scampo talk to me (El Tomboto), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

Fuck

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

Fuck

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

Fuck

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

Fuck

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

Sad he’ll never get to see Georgie Minifer get his comeuppance. RIP loved reading his movie commentary.

Boring, Maryland, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

i didn't cry like this when my dad died

mookieproof, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:52 (three years ago) link

such an asshole on the board and such a sweetheart irl

lol xpost

Un-fooled and placid (sic), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:53 (three years ago) link

this is hard news. i only lived in brooklyn for a couple years, but Bill was a reliable friend. he would reach out to me, and ask if I wanted to see a movie (we watched several together, including a full viewing of Andrei Rublev) or catch a Mets game with him at Citi Field (especially when the Cardinals were in town). he was a good friend, very warm, very attentive, and always very witty. i think he would surprise a lot of you who never got to meet him, with his gentleness. i really valued his friendship. and he was really, really generous in listening to me go on at length about all sorts of naive thoughts on art and film and music, and taking me seriously. i hate to emphasize our age difference, but i always thought he was fatherly, in a way. like the way i would want someone to listen and care for me. crying a bit now, sorry.

RIP Bill.

president of my cat (Karl Malone), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:53 (three years ago) link

Mookie I was seriously thinking about messaging you here to ask how he was just a couple hours ago !!!

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:54 (three years ago) link

I’m just really glad I got to tell him how I felt in an email before he passed. I think I’d be even more of a mess right now if I didn’t. I wish we had some old FAP pictures from back in the day to share. I’m going to miss him.

sound of scampo talk to me (El Tomboto), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:54 (three years ago) link

crying a bit now

me too

it bangs for thee (Simon H.), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:54 (three years ago) link

Reading this post is tough b/c for reasons I can't explain I got a premonition early this morning.

I met Bill seven or eight times, often in the company of KJB. In 2017 he came down to Miami for a baseball conference, and we enjoyed drinks and dinner and spent several fabulous hours together.

He's my movie sparring buddy and I'll miss him terribly.

Patriotic Goiter (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:55 (three years ago) link

i didn't cry like this when my dad died

yeah, i don't expect to either

president of my cat (Karl Malone), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:55 (three years ago) link

xps yeah i was about to email him because he'd been unusually silent on the subject of the world series

ffs

mookieproof, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:55 (three years ago) link

i think he would surprise a lot of you who never got to meet him, with his gentleness.

this cannot be emphasized enough

call all destroyer, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:56 (three years ago) link

OK the tears are coming now

sound of scampo talk to me (El Tomboto), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:57 (three years ago) link

I always had a soft spot for this dude no matter what.
Just gutted right now

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:57 (three years ago) link

Bill Weber was an example of Catholic dialectical grace: fight tooth and nail, offer words of comfort you wouldn't think are possible.

Patriotic Goiter (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:57 (three years ago) link

really sad news, sorry to all who knew him irl

superdeep borehole (harbl), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:57 (three years ago) link

bill was one of the first ILXors i met IRL, we met up for drinks at beauty bar (he carried an anthology calendar so i'd know it was him). my last weekend before i left NYC for LA we went to see 'uncle boonmee' at NYFF together. i'm pretty sure the last time i saw him he, kevin, get bent and i went to a jack smith show in soho, then we all got drinks in a mostly empty irish pub afterwards and it was such a fun afternoon - it made me miss living in new york. i loved his sense of humor and his strong opinions about politics and i always wanted to know what he thought about new and repertory films that were out (we agreed more often than not). i'm heartbroken and i'm really gonna miss him. RIP buddy.

donna rouge, Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:57 (three years ago) link

Very sad. I didn’t know him at all outside ILX, but I loved talking Jerry with him. And his politics were spot-on. I’ll miss him.

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:59 (three years ago) link

RIP you loveable crank.

rb (soda), Thursday, 22 October 2020 00:59 (three years ago) link

RIP :-(

brimstead, Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:01 (three years ago) link

damnit

Give me a Chad Smith-type feel (map), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:01 (three years ago) link

fuck fuck fuck. privileged to have met him in person and slightly guilty that I'm behind on czech new wave films he nagged me about.

Elvis Telecom, Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:02 (three years ago) link

we never met irl but we bonded over arguing whether Maddie in True Grit was a cunt or not (morbs for the affirmative, me for the negative), standup comedy & our shared love for Krassner’s JFK assassination hitpiece (who doesnt love the image of LBK skullfucking JFK’s eyesocket) ... i was so very fond of that kindly old cynic & will be over here crying for a while

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:02 (three years ago) link

xp elvis,

haha yeah, looking through my emails with him, i was laughing at

Feb 20 at the Walter Reade... I'm not crazy about the two Zukawski films I've seen, but all the Cool Kids like him.

https://www.filmlinc.org/films/on-the-silver-globe/

president of my cat (Karl Malone), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:03 (three years ago) link

he was one of the first people I took notice of on ilx. he had a memorable screen name and was willing to engage earnestly with my naive film opinions

Dan S, Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:04 (three years ago) link

A truly unique individual I’m glad to have met and kept in touch with outside the board. Even when he was being insufferable here, I could never really be mad at the guy. He was who he was... I’m honestly surprised by this news, I would have thought him too stubborn to die.
RIP

FRAUDULENT STEAKS (The Cursed Return of the Dastardly Thermo Thinwall), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:05 (three years ago) link

RIP Bill – I will miss him a lot. I've typed and deleted a lot more, but -- I will miss him a lot.

(show hidden tics) (WmC), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:05 (three years ago) link

Ah, fuck. I was just thinking about him the other day since he'd been noticeably absent from some threads he usually popped in on. RIP Bill.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:06 (three years ago) link

arguing whether Maddie in True Grit was a cunt or not (morbs for the affirmative, me for the negative)

I'm with the good doctor on this one

it bangs for thee (Simon H.), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:08 (three years ago) link

that’s so sad, rip dr. morbius and condolences to everyone who loves him and will miss him

estela, Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:08 (three years ago) link

Oh shit. I was hoping he would live to see the donor restrictions on The Day the Clown Cried expire. I'm going to miss him on the film threads.

Infanta Terrible (j.lu), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:08 (three years ago) link

I just saw the news and I’m so bummed out

jjjusten, Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:09 (three years ago) link

This is really fucking me up

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:10 (three years ago) link

a great, maddening, valuable and deeply, unseriously human presence. will be badly missed.

spruce springclean (darraghmac), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:11 (three years ago) link

ah geez, Morbz was one of my fave people to hate Ronald Reagan with ... not that I'm in any way religious or believe in heaven or anything, or whether one has the ability to punch other dead people in the face, or communicate your belief that they are fucking pieces of shit ... but Bill, if you can read this, feel free to punch Ronald Reagan in the face and/or tell him that he is a fucking piece of shit.

sarahell, Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:12 (three years ago) link

Bill Weber was an example of Catholic dialectical grace: fight tooth and nail, offer words of comfort you wouldn't think are possible.

― Patriotic Goiter (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, October 21, 2020 8:57 PM (fifteen minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

i love this alfred

call all destroyer, Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:12 (three years ago) link

xpost cosign sarahell

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:14 (three years ago) link

Your posts, especially on film, were always a highlight ever since I started lurking here. Rest easy.

knowing for certain the first touch of the light will finish you (fionnland), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:14 (three years ago) link

Hope there's some justice wherever you are, buddy.

it bangs for thee (Simon H.), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:14 (three years ago) link

only knew him from here on ILX, but will miss him very much all the same... sincere condolences to his friends and family, RIP.

avellano medio inglés (f. hazel), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:15 (three years ago) link

deems said it better than I could have said it. RIP.

the unappreciated charisma of cows (Aimless), Thursday, 22 October 2020 01:15 (three years ago) link

Killing time in Dante Park until I’m ready for my closeup.

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Friday, 13 October 2023 22:11 (six months ago) link

Thinking about when the Iridium used to be across the street. Ah Morbius, ah humanity!

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Friday, 13 October 2023 22:15 (six months ago) link

Not to mention the City Opera.

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Friday, 13 October 2023 22:23 (six months ago) link

I wish I were there.

J Edgar Noothgrush (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Saturday, 14 October 2023 01:53 (six months ago) link

i’m making a pancake breakfast plan for tomorrow morning <3

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2023 02:01 (six months ago) link

same here! blueberry buttermilk pancakes w/ maple syrup.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Saturday, 14 October 2023 02:10 (six months ago) link

I miss you people

hat trick of trashiness (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 14 October 2023 02:11 (six months ago) link

This was really good.

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Saturday, 14 October 2023 02:39 (six months ago) link

i had to leave the service early to catch the last amtrak upstate for a close friend’s wedding. sorry i wasn’t able to hang out with some of you guys after

i also regret not being able to thank Cathy after for putting this together and sharing the story of Bill’s life, it was wonderful to hear

i felt a lot of sadness honestly but i was very happy to be at lincoln center amid the film fest, it felt like the proper atmosphere to send Bill off. love ya pal

J0rdan S., Saturday, 14 October 2023 14:43 (six months ago) link

I saw your name in the register but didn't know what you looked like so didn't introduce myself.

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Saturday, 14 October 2023 15:30 (six months ago) link

I'm sorry I didn't get to know him. He's obviously missed.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Saturday, 14 October 2023 20:13 (six months ago) link

A beautiful event last night. His sister Cathy organized a fitting tribute to an ultimately cuddly curmudgeon. Lots of reminiscing. Bill's niece sang three songs during which I had the most difficult time keeping it together. I finally got to meet James Redd and the Blacks and Ian! Not sure if this will work. But here's the cover of the program.
https://scontent-lga3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t39.30808-6/391746033_10120694681728800_728178855284367773_n.jpg?stp=cp6_dst-jpg

Kevin John Bozelka, Sunday, 15 October 2023 00:40 (six months ago) link

Ugh ok. I'll try when I'm back home. :(

Kevin John Bozelka, Sunday, 15 October 2023 00:41 (six months ago) link

Second time worked

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 15 October 2023 00:47 (six months ago) link

I got a bit teary whilst Cathy was speaking but tried to keep it closer to the Ozu level.

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 15 October 2023 02:21 (six months ago) link

Watching Transit now and started to think of him, partly because I know he liked Petzold and this film in particular, but mostly because the scene of Franz Rogowski fixing the kid’s radio reminded me of Cathy’s story about him taking apart the turntable with the screwdriver.

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 15 October 2023 04:46 (six months ago) link

Thanks to everyone who was able to go. I only met Bill in person once and don’t live anywhere nearby, but it’s good to hear things went well

ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Sunday, 15 October 2023 14:40 (six months ago) link

very sad to have missed this too. i love the choice of venue.

donna rouge, Sunday, 15 October 2023 17:42 (six months ago) link

Yes. Cathy said Bill “used his library card a lot.”

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 15 October 2023 17:53 (six months ago) link

And I namedropped you in my speech.

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 15 October 2023 17:54 (six months ago) link

Very nice to hear how things went well.

xyzzzz__, Sunday, 15 October 2023 17:55 (six months ago) link

https://imgur.com/Al8Ab4C

I'm sorry I couldn't be there.

Was anyone here besides Morbs anticipating the donor restrictions on The Day the Clown expiring in 2024? I recently spoke to a Library of Congress employee about their plans for making this material available for viewing.

Infanta Terrible (j.lu), Sunday, 15 October 2023 23:29 (six months ago) link

Guess tomorrow is the day

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Friday, 20 October 2023 22:38 (five months ago) link

Pancake Rollcall!

<No syrup here tho>

an icon of a worried-looking, long-haired, bespectacled man (C. Grisso/McCain), Saturday, 21 October 2023 12:05 (five months ago) link

I’m in!

Smike and Pmith (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 22 October 2023 14:15 (five months ago) link

just had some myself!

donna rouge, Sunday, 22 October 2023 16:42 (five months ago) link

pcakes happening in the Veg household ✔️

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 22 October 2023 17:48 (five months ago) link

one month passes...

Bruno Walter mention in MAESTRO made me think of the memorial.

Blecch’s POLLero (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 14 December 2023 18:34 (four months ago) link


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