Bashir's Michael Jackson circus......

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I climbed a mountain recently (the base of it, anyway). Why is one acceptable and the other not?

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:07 (twenty-one years ago) link

(Once again, he didn't actually say he slept in the same bed with the kids.)

Yes he did. I have the tape. Shall we go over it together?

Oops (Oops), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

How about you just transcribe it for me? Thanks.

Ben Williams, Friday, 7 February 2003 16:15 (twenty-one years ago) link

(As far as the Culkin thing goes, as I said earlier, he said they were over one time with a bunch of other kids and they slept on either side of him. Leastways, that's how I remember it. I was admittedly burning vinyl onto my computer during the documentary.)

Ben Williams, Friday, 7 February 2003 16:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

I don't think he's a model parent--not sure what a model parent is, mind you--and of course I think he's very odd. It's just that the relentlessly interrogatory, shocked tone that Bashir took was obnoxious. It would have been far more effective to show, not tell.

Ben Williams, Friday, 7 February 2003 16:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Ya gotta admit......it's pretty fuckin' weird though, eh? When was the last time *YOU* climbed a tree?"

"I climbed a mountain recently (the base of it, anyway). Why is one acceptable and the other not?"

Lots of adults regularly climb mountains therefore it's seen as acceptable behaviour for an adult. Relatively few adults regularly climb trees therefore (unless they happen to be tree surgeons) it tends to be seen as a bit weird.

I'm not saying it's right; I'm certainly not saying it's logical; I'm not even saying that the world mightn't be a better place (hey, isn't there a song in there somewhere?) if a few more adults learned to lighten up a bit and climb the ocasional tree; but nevertheless I do think you'll find it's the current "norm." in our society.

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

If MJ was a child molester, how come Jordy Chandler was the only kid (and wasn't it really his father rather than the boy itself) ever to press charges against such a high profile, rich man?

JoB (JoB), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

Lest we forget: http://www.mlp.cz/space/opatrilp/Pulp/the_Brits_96.html

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

"If MJ was a child molester, how come Jordy Chandler was the only kid (and wasn't it really his father rather than the boy itself) ever to press charges against such a high profile, rich man?"

How generous can Mr Jackson be to his little friends and their parents, I wonder?

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

hang on, is child molesting legally only a crime if the abused and their parents choose to press charges? but like fine if the parents say, fine i'll take the money, help yrself?

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

>Ya gotta admit......it's pretty fuckin' weird though, eh? When was the last time *YOU* climbed a tree?

Maybe 4 months ago. Its kinda fun, mainly just to see if you are limber enough to still do it.

What is weird about MJ is that he actually makes a point of regularly climbing trees, which few adults do. And he clearly does't do it for the physical challenge like mountain climbers.

fletrejet, Friday, 7 February 2003 16:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

Look, clearly the man is very severely in need of help (the type of psychiatric help which he'll invariably never own up to needing, much less get). I'm not saying he should be taken out back and shot (although...), but how people can continually fawn over him and turn a blind eye to his ever increasing burden of rather chilling eccentricities truly mystifies me. I mean, he is deteriorating before our eyes!!!! HE IS DR.PHIBES!!! Yes, it's tragic, and yes he needs help, but he's taking innocents with him in his descent (how his poor children will ever adjust to any semblance of a normal life is virtually inconceivable).

Also, how about comin' up with some new dance moves, eh?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

"hang on, is child molesting legally only a crime if the abused and their parents choose to press charges? but like fine if the parents say, fine i'll take the money, help yrself?"

Absolutely not - it's merely infinitely less likely to reach a prosecution

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

this is from the article i linked to above:
"And what became of the massive investigation of Jackson? After millions of dollars were spent by prosecutors and police departments in two jurisdictions, and after two grand juries questioned close to 200 witnesses, including 30 children who knew Jackson, not a single corroborating witness could be found. (In June 1994, still determined to find even one corroborating witness, three prosecutors and two police detectives flew to Australia to again question Wade Robson, the boy who had acknowledged that he'd slept in the same bed with Jackson. Once again, the boy said that nothing bad had happened.)"

"Deteriorating before our eyes" I buy completely: the child molesting stuff I just don't. It basically boils down to "He climbs trees: burn the witch!"

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

He climbs trees......and sleeps with children....and consorts with mannequins.....and has daily plastic surgery....and dangles babies out of windows.....and accuses record executives of racism when his albums don't sell....

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

This thing about his children not having a--shock, horror--"normal" life: whatever he does, there is absolutely no way they are going to have a "normal" life. Given the generally held opinion of MJ as a circus freakshow, I think protecting the identity of his kids is pretty understandable. They would go through hell in a regular school.

Ben Williams, Friday, 7 February 2003 16:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

yes alex i know, but only one of those suggests he's a danger to children — the windows thing, maybe — and it's not bcz of molestation

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:58 (twenty-one years ago) link

Would you be comfortable allowing your own children to sleep in the same bed with him, Mark?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:15 (twenty-one years ago) link

rather that than taking lessons in ethics from martin bashir

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

and anyway, that's a real lame argument, alex:
"everyone i wouldn't want my kids spending the night with is a child molester who should have their kids taken away"

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

Fwiw (very little, I know) I'm not at all convinced that MJ has been sexually abusing any of these children; I tend to agree with Jody Beth that MJ's probably far too sexually confused at this point; although I also acknowledge the point Vic makes above out the significant risk of MJ's emotions becoming sexualised.

I DO believe he is suffering from a number of personality disorders; not least of which is the fact that he's emotionally retarded and trying to live out a Peter Pan fantasy (complete with delusions of invulnerability and immortality).

This does mean that he is in any way *intellectually* retarded however - it seemed significant to me that, when he was playing in the fun fair with all his little friends, he actually looked every bit as awkward as most single 44 year old men would under those circumstances.

I believe that he's fully aware that much of his behaviour will be regarded as unacceptable; and I am absolutely convinced that all the stuff he came out with about the abuse he suffered as a child was planned and rehearsed in order to play on our sympathies and try to excuse his behaviour.

That doesn't mean I believe he didn't suffer abuse as a child, because I do; I just think he was using those revelations in a very calculated manner - in fact the way he came out with some of that was so bloody hammy that it almost led me to suspect that there was some sort of complex double-bluff going on.

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Given the generally held opinion of MJ as a circus freakshow, I think protecting the identity of his kids is pretty understandable. They would go through hell in a regular school."

Then why keep buying more of them?

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

"This does mean that he is in any way *intellectually* retarded however...."

D'OH!

s/be "This does NOT mean...." obv.!

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

Mega-celebrities are allowed to want kids too.

Ben Williams, Friday, 7 February 2003 17:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

".... but only one of those suggests he's a danger to children...."

I watched the programme with my partner who's a State Approved Social Worker who specialises in clients with learning disabilities and psychologigal problems; and she didn't seem to be in any doubt whatsoever that there was more than enough evidence to have MJ's children taken into protective custody under UK law.

She did, however, make it abundantly clear that she wouldn't like to be the poor little Social Worker who had to take responsibility for doing so, jnowing that she'd end up having to deal with Mr Jackson's lawyers - and I'm sure she wouldn't be alone in feeling like that!

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:36 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Mega-celebrities are allowed to want kids too."

Absolutely, although they should be subjected to exactly the same scrutinies as the rest of us before they're allowed to adopt / purchase one.

I don't believe any single man who had previously been accused of sexually assaulting a minor and who clearly raised a significant number of unanswered questions about his sexuality and mental stability wouldn't stand a snowball's chance in hell of doing so in the UK at least.

Also, I believe you'll find most celebrities send their kids away to school in order to try and make their lives as normal as possible, rather than locking them away in some fairytale castle and only letting them go out waering masks!

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

i was responding to alex's specific stated list there, not the evidence of the programme (and i think he anyway slightly misunderstood my earlier point, which was that the leap some people are making, from VERY STRANGE, AND YES, POSSIBLY DISTURBED MAN to CLEARLY A CHILD MOLESTER, is not justified)

part of the problem i guesds i have with a situation like this is that if media intrusion is a major factor in causing — or anyway exacerbating — someone's psychological disturbance, is trial-by-TV really the fairest way to gather evidence about their fitness to whatever

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:47 (twenty-one years ago) link

Thread Summary: He means well

Oops (Oops), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oops summary: he reads badly

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

"the leap some people are making, from VERY STRANGE, AND YES, POSSIBLY DISTURBED MAN to CLEARLY A CHILD MOLESTER, is not justified"

I agree absolutely Mark; and neither is the leap some other people (not yourself, I hasten to add) seem to be making, from NOT NECESSARILY / NOT PROVEN TO BE A CHILD MOLESTOR to PERFECTLY SUITABLE PERSON TO BE AROUND / LEFT ALONE WITH / BRING UP CHILDREN

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

Thread re-summary: most think he is deranged and in his own distorted reality, means well. Others don't think he means well. Hope that covers everyone.

mark s. summary=assumptive twit

Oops (Oops), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:02 (twenty-one years ago) link

"and anyway, that's a real lame argument, alex: 'everyone i wouldn't want my kids spending the night with is a child molester who should have their kids taken away'"


You didn't answer the question, Mark.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

yeah cz it's witch-hunting mccarthyite bullshit

mark s (mark s), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

Nice dodge.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

I don't know whether he's a good person to be left around children or not. I do know that trial by television isn't going to make up my mind for me.

Ben Williams, Friday, 7 February 2003 18:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

I don't think Vic's analysis was "witch-hunting mccarthyite bullshit" - and that kind of analysis definitely suggests this is someone who is a danger to children, including his own, any specific charges of molestation aside.

And why isn't an out-of-court settlement an admission of guilt, again?

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 7 February 2003 18:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

Innocent until proven guilty, not innocent until settled out of court

Oops (Oops), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:22 (twenty-one years ago) link

I would like to think that anyone who would be prepared to allow one of their kids to spend the night in the bed of a 44 year old single male who: has previously been accused of and tried for sexually assaulting a minor; who likes to surround himself with children; whose treatment of his own children has recently been the subject of police and social services enquiries; and whose sexual predelictions, mental health and stability are all subject under question; would very rapidly find those kids taken into care while some extremely thorough investigations were carried out.

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

I didn't say guilt was PROVEN (certainly not in a legal sense) I said it was ADMITTED. There is a difference.

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 7 February 2003 18:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

Why isn't an out-of-court settlement an admission of guilt?

Because the concept of justice is often farcical in the American court system for public figures.

And, Alex... thou doth protest too much. Again, empathy for Jackson isn't apologizing for his eccentricities. Every one of your conclusions are mediated through the lens of the program's selective editing and Bashir's prefacings and postscripts. While I may share your view of Jackson as mindnumbingly weird, I don't believe that he is a criminal of any sort.

maria b (maria b), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

"and anyway, that's a real lame argument, alex: 'everyone i wouldn't want my kids spending the night with is a child molester who should have their kids taken away'"

You didn't answer the question, Mark.

It's hardly the point. I wouldn't want Michael Jackson looking after my son, but then again I wouldn't want any of you lot doing it either. No offence, I don't think any of you are child molesters, but you only leave your kids with someone you know really well and can trust. Doesn't mean anyone else is necessarily dodgy.

Having said that, his attitude to kids still disturbs me. As much the commodification of them as anything. The surrogate mother situation and his comments about wanting to buy, sorry adopt, two kids from every continent seemed to me a little too close to the attitude he displayed while walking round the shop.

James Ball (James Ball), Friday, 7 February 2003 18:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

I agree w/Maria re: the legalities of all his behavior. I both pity Michael Jackson and am disgusted that no one is really capable of taking him to task for his behavior (except the media - who are obviously not adequate or trustworthy. I found Bashir to be patently self-serving and slimy as well).

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 7 February 2003 18:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

From Yahoo! News:

Record stores in Britain reported a surge in sales of Jackson's records. Virgin Megastores said sales of his 1982 Thriller album were up 473 percent from last week, while the greatest hits package HIStory was up 383 percent — sending both albums into the lower reaches of the chain's Top 100 chart.

Not bad, eh?

hstencil, Friday, 7 February 2003 19:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

no such thing as bad press...?

I wonder if Gary Glitter's records saw a similar spike in sales.

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 7 February 2003 19:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

Up 473 percent from 1 unit sold?

Oops (Oops), Friday, 7 February 2003 19:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

Why isn't an out-of-court settlement an admission of guilt?

Because juries have recently been inflating damages out of all proportion. I recently sat on a federal jury in a sex harassment case. Eventually the plaintiff was awarded $750,000 in punitive damages. The "crimes" of which the defense were accused were, by universal agreement of the jury, not major, but despite this realization my fellow jurors felt the need to inflate the damages to a number that none of us had likely seen in our lives.

I can see how a defendent, would balk and simply offer a lower figure to save themselves months or years of trouble and the potential for spuriously high damages being awarded by a jury. This is something other than an admission of guilt, in my opinion.

Amateurist (amateurist), Friday, 7 February 2003 19:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

"I can see how a defendent, would balk and simply offer a lower figure to save themselves months or years of trouble and the potential for spuriously high damages being awarded by a jury. "

This defeats your own argument - if he wasn't afraid of being found guilty, he wouldn't be worrying about the dollar amount a jury might award. But he feared he *would* be found guilty, on some level. Now think about that: one of the richest, most powerful entertainers in the world, who has watched people like OJ openly *buy* their freedom and innocence when they were obviously guilty, fearing that he would actually be convicted/have to pay a settlement/reveal things he'd rather not in a courtroom.

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 7 February 2003 19:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

You must have an extraordinary faith in the justice system (not necessarily a bad thing, depending) to think that the fear of being judged guilty = being guilty.

Amateurist (amateurist), Friday, 7 February 2003 19:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

Fearing you would be found guilty does not mean you're guilty. This would only be so if it was impossible to convict an innocent person.

Oops (Oops), Friday, 7 February 2003 19:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

This defeats your own argument - if he wasn't afraid of being found guilty, he wouldn't be worrying about the dollar amount a jury might award. But he feared he *would* be found guilty, on some level. Now think about that: one of the richest, most powerful entertainers in the world, who has watched people like OJ openly *buy* their freedom and innocence when they were obviously guilty, fearing that he would actually be convicted/have to pay a settlement/reveal things he'd rather not in a courtroom.

Shakey, lots of people and corporations and institutions and whatnot settle out of court to save them the time and legal fees involved in litigation, regardless or not of whether they'd win the suit. It's not always an admission of guilt (although it can be, sometimes). And a civil suit is much different from a criminal investigation and subsequent trial. F'instance, O.J. was found innocent in the criminal trial, but guilty in the civil trial. The latter just meant that he had to pay money to the victims of the crime, but didn't establish criminal guilt (i.e. he's still free to run over manatees with speedboats in Florida).

hstencil, Friday, 7 February 2003 19:47 (twenty-one years ago) link


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