Stigmatizing of bpd people sucks
― COVID and the Gang (jim in vancouver), Saturday, 9 May 2020 22:04 (three years ago) link
that is very true and i despise that such a book exists; nonetheless i feel that of the two eponymous personality disorders, that might not be the one in play
― imago, Saturday, 9 May 2020 22:50 (three years ago) link
this is definitely an art project on how people perceive men and women in breakups
― maura, Sunday, 10 May 2020 00:24 (three years ago) link
good call and i will owe you five dollars when the performance is named
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Sunday, 10 May 2020 02:44 (three years ago) link
It's named "Can I have five dollars?"
― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 10 May 2020 08:04 (three years ago) link
i despise that such a book exists
why? people with BPD and/or narcissism are often really damaged/damaging in relationships and do not take break ups well -- like that's part of the disorder. Considering there are books with helpful advice for partners/former partners of depressed people, alcoholics, victims of childhood sexual abuse ... it isn't saying "people with these issues are evil" just that their mental health problems often make the already difficult task of ending relationships even more difficult.
― sarahell, Sunday, 10 May 2020 17:23 (three years ago) link
going to be really funny if he left a kindle linked to his account behind in nz and it was her reading it
― mh, Sunday, 10 May 2020 17:36 (three years ago) link
i am certain that she still has loyal nerdbro fans from her early Boston days that could hack his shit for her.
― sarahell, Sunday, 10 May 2020 17:37 (three years ago) link
MIT grads, Harvard grads -- C.S. degrees and fondness for RPGs -- Gaiman is going down
― sarahell, Sunday, 10 May 2020 17:39 (three years ago) link
Idk Amanda Palmer and Anonymous are two concepts that don’t jibe
― Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Sunday, 10 May 2020 18:01 (three years ago) link
lol
― sarahell, Sunday, 10 May 2020 18:06 (three years ago) link
i'm glad they're splitting, it means I can feel better about liking Gaiman now.
― akm, Sunday, 10 May 2020 19:57 (three years ago) link
same, but for ap
― mh, Sunday, 10 May 2020 21:09 (three years ago) link
https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/117915650.html
what a timeless love story this was
― reggae mike love (polyphonic), Sunday, 10 May 2020 22:44 (three years ago) link
lol at Neil and his request for privacy, if you want privacy then marrying and then breaking up with Amanda Palmer must be the worst possible way to go about it.
― Wuhan!! Got You All in Check (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Sunday, 10 May 2020 22:55 (three years ago) link
Gaimen leaving his child in the middle of a pandemic is really horrible
― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 11 May 2020 00:54 (three years ago) link
^^^ yeah, regardless of how this went down I keep coming back to that and feeling really sad for everyone involved
― DJP, Monday, 11 May 2020 13:06 (three years ago) link
otm x2
― methinks dababy doth bop shit too much (m bison), Monday, 11 May 2020 13:43 (three years ago) link
it makes sense if you’re rich. Maybe he felt like his other properties were feeling lonely.
― Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Monday, 11 May 2020 13:46 (three years ago) link
So anyway they haven't split up, end of drama* (*probably not)
http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2020/05/where-i-am-what-im-doing-how-im-doing.html
― zoom séance goes tits up (Matt #2), Friday, 15 May 2020 00:53 (three years ago) link
Glad the dickhead has gone to rural scotland where they definitely need international tourists rn during a pandemic lol
― COVID and the Gang (jim in vancouver), Friday, 15 May 2020 00:56 (three years ago) link
"I needed to be somewhere I could continue to isolate easily, which definitely isn't our house in Woodstock, currently at capacity with five families who have fled Manhattan and Brooklyn and Boston"
What a delightful treat for the people of Woodstock NY
― turn the jawhatthefuckever on (One Eye Open), Friday, 15 May 2020 01:36 (three years ago) link
Amanda and I wrote a letter together, for the curious and for the bits of the world that is wondering what's going on, and whether they should worry about it.
― kinder, Friday, 15 May 2020 13:36 (three years ago) link
my mind flat out rejects the existence of the thousands of people who presumably give an atom of shit about these nonentities. I’m even disgusted at myself for being irritated about it.
― an incoherent crustacean (MatthewK), Friday, 15 May 2020 13:44 (three years ago) link
to worry about ithttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BU1y9iYFLHw
― Louder Than Bach's Bottom (James Redd and the Blecchs), Friday, 15 May 2020 13:47 (three years ago) link
xp - idk i find their drama and annoyingness entertaining in the way that a lot of people do those reality shows about the kardashians -- it's like the idea of the charcuterie plate being lunchables for bougie educated ppl
― sarahell, Saturday, 16 May 2020 21:36 (three years ago) link
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-highlands-islands-52697289
― stirmonster, Sunday, 17 May 2020 11:40 (three years ago) link
aw i was hoping that would be a story about a pitchfork-wielding mob storming his house and burning it
― come out you melts and bams (Noodle Vague), Sunday, 17 May 2020 11:43 (three years ago) link
early days yet.
― stirmonster, Sunday, 17 May 2020 14:18 (three years ago) link
Amanda Palmer has a new podcast called The Art of Asking Everything and I read the press release real fast and thought it was called The Art of Asking *FOR* Everything and I think that actually works better.
― Loud guitars shit all over "Bette Davis Eyes" (NYCNative), Tuesday, 22 September 2020 21:44 (three years ago) link
The Art of Asking Everthing (to look at meeerrereeerrreee)
― Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Tuesday, 22 September 2020 23:50 (three years ago) link
more like The Arse of Asking Everything har de har har
― sarahell, Wednesday, 23 September 2020 02:08 (three years ago) link
off the cuff, it occurs to me that AP fandom is a lot like the MAGA cult - it's about "owning the squares" rather than "owning the libs", but it's a cult of personality just like Asshole's. I guess the saving grace is that it's pitiable rather than empowering a political party with a toxic agenda.
― assert (MatthewK), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 03:14 (three years ago) link
she’s very square as far as being part of an establishment goes imo and the fact she’s rallied so many people to her side actually troubles her when it comes to some avenues of appeal!
there’s an amanda palmer army out there. god bless them, the fact they exist makes her weaker and I hope she rectifies that, one way or the other
― mh, Wednesday, 23 September 2020 04:10 (three years ago) link
Aging theater kids need something to love.
― Donald Trump Also Sucks, Of Course (milo z), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 04:23 (three years ago) link
the fact they exist makes her weaker and I hope she rectifies that, one way or the other
― mh, Tuesday, September 22, 2020 11:10 PM (yesterday) bookmarkflaglink
haha major Irishman "It is what it is" vibes
― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 16:40 (three years ago) link
I managed to misread that just from reading the start of post about misreading it
― PaulTMA, Wednesday, 23 September 2020 18:00 (three years ago) link
Regardless of how "establishment" she actually is, there is definitely an aggressive "Look at how weird I am, does that freak you out?" vibe, and the community she cultivates is about collective identification as art-nerd misfits.
― jaymc, Wednesday, 23 September 2020 18:04 (three years ago) link
https://vimeo.com/137910781one thing you can learn from time lapse is how people centralize themselves to situations.That said, this is a process/prep video of a topless, pregnant, "visible woman" bodypainted Palmer readying for her "performance" standing in front of the New York Public Library, ostensibly as part of a book drive. Yes I'm serious.
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 19:48 (three years ago) link
appropriating hirst so that you have an excuse to stand naked in times square for "fifteen minutes" so that you can collect an average yard sale amount of used books on behalf of the biggest library in the united states is a level of attention thirst i can only barely comprehend, kudos
https://amandapalmer.net/truth-and-consequences/
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 19:51 (three years ago) link
― jaymc, Wednesday, September 23, 2020 1:04 PM (two hours ago
exactly! that vibe is kind of funny to me when the community is so damn big. I have no doubt that there are AP fans in the middle of nowhere, where they get funny looks from the people in their small town and people are jerks to them and her music and aesthetic are really a respite. I don’t want to take that from them. but when you’re AP, and you’re surrounded by fans, you absolutely do not freak out the people you’re in contact with
― mh, Wednesday, 23 September 2020 20:58 (three years ago) link
Exactly this. AP reminds me of the kids I'd see in college who would walk around wearing some homemade outfit or elaborate costume trying to provoke a reaction. Instead of just being confident in themselves and walking around doing their thing, there was a performative aspect to it where they'd be very forceful in trying to make eye contact and standing directly in your path, hoping to provoke some sort of reaction for the imagined "square" to be put off by the "freak".
― soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 21:21 (three years ago) link
https://vimeo.com/137910781one thing you can learn from time lapse is how people centralize themselves to situations.That said, this is a process/prep video of a topless, pregnant, "visible woman" bodypainted Palmer readying for her "performance" standing in front of the New York Public Library, ostensibly as part of a book drive.Yes I'm serious.
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Wednesday, September 23, 2020 3:48 PM (two hours ago) bookmarkflaglink
That was not nearly time-lapsed enough for my taste.
― peace, man, Wednesday, 23 September 2020 21:55 (three years ago) link
People like her can never just donate money to organizations that need it, they have to make it a whole deal
― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 22:01 (three years ago) link
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 23 September 2020 22:10 (three years ago) link
haha yeah i spose, but like a $5K check to the NY library would have done more good than this whole stupid ass naked statue stunt
― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 22:12 (three years ago) link
There were people in that clip who did a little m'lord bow presenting their book donation to her and jfc
― Donald Trump Also Sucks, Of Course (milo z), Wednesday, 23 September 2020 22:24 (three years ago) link
People who seem to think they have the power to SHOCK almost always merely just have the power to ANNOY.
― Tsar Bombadil (James Morrison), Thursday, 24 September 2020 00:48 (three years ago) link
^truth bomb!
― ABBA O RLY? (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 24 September 2020 00:50 (three years ago) link
i've gotten like 10 porn spams from an "evelyn evelyn" today and i can't stop laughing
― maura, Friday, 2 October 2020 22:31 (three years ago) link