Tea With the Flames: A QUEER New Year to Keep You Warm in WINTER 2020

so liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiike i'm going to the gym tonight you know to lift a few weights, but i've decided that i can't be the type of person who does cardio at the gym. like i would feel ridiculous. i'll just keep playing tennis against the wall.

The overheard conversations at MoMA before the Fred Halsted arty '70s p0rn films were quite something...

"Hi, Daddy."

"I was hooking up on gay.com when I was 15, but those guys, including the local cop, knew what they were doing..."

"He's hot for a 22-year-old dom."

Eric, i've been away from the gym since 1985 and never looked back.

there is a guy at every gym who is petite but jacked, around 50, wears bootie shorts and an american eagle/abercrombie shirt, trails a cloud of noxious cologne, who is always trying to make eye contact with me. sorry but i don't care that you exist and please go away because i literally cannot breathe when you're within twenty feet of me

people at the gym who are aggressively not minding their own business make me want to kill or be killed. so i'm just going to share my bitchy psa here with absolutely no particular person in mind: please focus on your workout and don't spray yourself with cologne, thank u.

ok so i had a new idea

i'm going to start using the ROWING MACHINE at the gym

!!!!!!!!!!!!!

also i would like to tell you that my topping lesson last night went real bad
at least i was able to have a chuckle with the guy after but like
i don't think i'm into penetration anymore, it's just not my thing

i mean there is some similarity between topping and using the rowing machine so maybe you still have hope ;)

LOL

i don't think i'm into penetration anymore, it's just not my thing

stop b4 you turn into me

lol i think we have more in common than you may realize
what's on tap for the weekend y'all

the remastered version of the queen - as in mother flawless superior, not the british lady - is on netflix
https://www.netflix.com/title/81220949

What are our thoughts on Queen Latifah?

I made penne-and-cheese at 1am from scratch last night because bf was like "I am craving Kraft dinner".

I made penne from scratch and threw a clomp of grana padano in a saucepan with some butter and cheese, and sliced the rind up finely and let it gooeify the proceedings. The whole affair took 20 minutes.

He was very moved by the fact that I was able to do this for him, just produce the food he wanted with a snap of his fingers.

Today: the fragrancy of the flatulent effects of late-night dairy consumption.

the recipe you describe (minus the rind) is one of my fav things to eat in the world

the fragrancy of the flatulent effects of late-night dairy consumption.

best thing on earth

i ORDERED penna a la vodka last night at 1am! great minds!

What are our thoughts on Queen Latifah?

excellent in Set It Off

I probably should see Last Holiday.

The ALEC GUINNESS version? (also queer)

the flatulent effects of late-night dairy consumption

my new screenname in a nutshell

did i tell u guys that i noticed a new line on my body? yes. during my bimonthly physical evaluation of myself in my 80" tall mirror, i noticed something. at first i thought it was fat and I was looking pudgy, but then i looked closer and it was A LINE. like A MUSCLE. i was shocked. it seems to be a pectoral muscle, and it's barely visible to the naked eye, but it's there. this is shaking my world.

put some pesto on it!!

honey, i said pectoral muscle, not pestoral muscle

i need a pecture of yr pectoral

oh no
i am definitely not a picture pec
what a beautiful day of rain here in NY today

Met a dude last night after I blasted a karaoke crowd into submission with my cover of Blondie's "Atomic." The hair in the back was rather long for my taste, but we chatted at the bar, bought each other beers, and tongued quietly.

Overheard: Girl to boyfriend: "They're having more fun than we are."

:) i just discovered the Blondie Autoamerican album on my own and i'm really into it

did you make out at the bar? i always wonder if people are judging me when i do that. i wouldn't judge you. been there plenty and it does sound fun :P

A gin and tonic and two beers and I'm ready to make out gladly with Elizabeth Warren.

lol. i just found out that apparently red lighting makes you look really good, which is probably why i always wind up in somebody's arms at the local bar.

three-drink slut eh

i'll keep red light in mind if i make it to Nowhere tnite

i am talking to this guy online who likes to be "obedient"
you know, i really can get into this thing of like ordering people around and being really mean lol
it's not really in line with my brand but i find it super fun in the BR

Send him down to scrub my stall.

lol. i also...like to smack people sometimes and get really rough with them! who knew! i mean, OBV if that's what they want.

have we already talked about what are our thoughts on w/s in here

we dont use I Love TMI anymore, eh?

omg sorry lol

i don't really care, but it depends what ppl think of their employers' monitoring

totally. :P eek! my lifestyle is too much for people to handle!

I bet not!

Morbzy are you seeing anything at BAM this season?

Every dollar I spend that isn't rent or medical bills is... debt

so no

feel you <3
STILL adjusting to paying double the rent ever since my life partner of 18 years left the nest
sorry just feel the need sometimes to spell it out to remind myself that i'm like going thru some shit and i'm allowed to take a minute with it

i've been taking almost two years with it

(not intentionally)

i know and i certainly don't mean to compare my empty nest with your battle. i'm glad you've been posting here for at least a diversion.

well, i need to kill time while doctors and social workers aren't calling me

(btw the medical shit has been going on 7.5 years; my accelerating poverty just the last two)

ugh. you're so strong my dear. we love you.

well, you know, my week really sucks so if anyone wants to tell me about how their week sucks it would be appreciated