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Feels like Reddit is the real supervillain on this front.
― Greta Van Show Feets BB (milo z), Sunday, January 19, 2020 7:00 PM

Really? I know reddit isn't always the MRA stereotype but I didn't really notice people going to there specifically. It is a forum and I did consider going there because other forums were dying but it just wasn't active enough in my interests to justify that.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Sunday, 19 January 2020 19:07 (four years ago) link

Reddit covering every possible topic ate away at bbs-style forums pretty hard but it has all the terrible qualities of Twitter - the liking/upvoting rush of getting good Twitter numbers but no topic really lasts more than a few hours. ILX has conversations spanning decades now, nothing like that can ever exist on Reddit because of the system.

Greta Van Show Feets BB (milo z), Sunday, 19 January 2020 19:11 (four years ago) link

instagram is p great

Facebook is terrible

Twitter seems to give people trauma and/or brain damage but also it has da Share Z0ne

brimstead, Sunday, 19 January 2020 19:26 (four years ago) link

I mean I don’t know anything about Instagram, I just like posting my photos there and looking at pics of synths and old ads and new releases from my local record stores

brimstead, Sunday, 19 January 2020 19:27 (four years ago) link

I hate twitter for the way it turns people into cliquish shits trying to be super-cool all the time.


ILX used to be bad like this but those people mostly left (for Twitter I imagine) and this place is better now.

juntos pedemos (Euler), Sunday, 19 January 2020 19:42 (four years ago) link

Instagram bores me now. Might change. I go from Insta to FB and back again. I quit FB for a long time but decided to return. Lemmy’s breeder told me she posted pics of her puppies. So I decided to come back.

Twitter is vile. Just pure cesspool.

nathom, Sunday, 19 January 2020 23:56 (four years ago) link

twitter and instagram both still pretty great. facebook plumbing new depths

flopson, Monday, 20 January 2020 00:54 (four years ago) link

PEOPLE YOU CAN FILTER POLITICAL TWEETS AND SOCIAL ISSUES TWEETS (well mostly)

I have not yet begun to fart (rip van wanko), Monday, 20 January 2020 01:02 (four years ago) link

That would leave like three people to follow, though. Four if you count dril as more comedy than politics.

Greta Van Show Feets BB (milo z), Monday, 20 January 2020 01:04 (four years ago) link

nonsense

I have not yet begun to fart (rip van wanko), Monday, 20 January 2020 01:11 (four years ago) link

twitter is the most easily curatable and therefore the most usable

ciderpress, Monday, 20 January 2020 03:05 (four years ago) link

feel like people who say that are usually 1-2 years away from abandoning the site

american bradass (BradNelson), Monday, 20 January 2020 03:11 (four years ago) link

I use Twitter like a message board; I only follow about 200 accounts, many of which just post images, or are linked to magazines and websites I read regularly. The few actual people I follow are people I can have interesting (to me) conversations with.

On Instagram, I hardly follow anybody; I post pictures of CDs I'm listening to, or live shows I go to, and that's pretty much it.

I use Facebook more like LinkedIn, in a way. Almost all my Facebook friends are actually professional contacts. Musicians, other writers, publicists, record industry people, etc.

If I was to keep just one, it'd be Twitter. Facebook is the worst of the three, but I don't feel like it's actually harming my brain (yet).

shared unit of analysis (unperson), Monday, 20 January 2020 03:20 (four years ago) link

i use twitter like the back half the local news: traffic and weather together! your local sports teams!

very rarely do i bump into the horror twitter can be. the only downside is i follow so few accts twitter always tries to get me to use ‘home’ instead of ‘latest tweets.’

chet san telmo (alomar lines), Monday, 20 January 2020 03:28 (four years ago) link

ive been using twitter for 12 years i doubt im gonna suddenly abandon it unless they make changes that make it not usable in the way i want

ciderpress, Monday, 20 January 2020 04:12 (four years ago) link

PEOPLE YOU CAN FILTER POLITICAL TWEETS AND SOCIAL ISSUES TWEETS (well mostly)

― I have not yet begun to fart (rip van wanko)

PEOPLE YOU CAN USE TECHNOLOGY TO PRETEND ALL OF THE TERRIBLE STUFF THAT IS MAKING LIFE IN 2020 UNBEARABLE DOESN'T EXIST

i'm going to go "twitter" because nobody i talk to ever tries to seriously defend facebook

youtube probably worse than all of the options above, though

revenge of the jawn (rushomancy), Monday, 20 January 2020 04:22 (four years ago) link

came here to post more or less what wanko, ciderpress and unperson have posted. if your twitter feed is a cesspool just unfollow the cess

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 10:59 (four years ago) link

I mean it is still kind of dreadful but it has a slightly substantial purpose when used well

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 10:59 (four years ago) link

otoh it annoys me that I have to maintain a skeleton presence on fb to touch base with ilxors offboard. let's start our own private messaging platform and we can all leave for good

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:03 (four years ago) link

otm (although I’m really just there for meme pages)

steer karma (gyac), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:04 (four years ago) link

^^ otm

[a]Ilxbook
[b]Ilxtagram
[c]ilx0r

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 20 January 2020 11:12 (four years ago) link

a live chat with various rooms wouldn't be too hard to implement to the ilx site surely

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:19 (four years ago) link

same login, same username

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:19 (four years ago) link

or... an ilx discord lol

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:21 (four years ago) link

not the worst idea I’ve ever heard

but wouldn’t here just die?

steer karma (gyac), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:22 (four years ago) link

instagram's badness is more insidious. i have a dumb idea about the insidious nature of google image search and other image search engines - the "algorithm" (uh oh - i learned on twitter recently that i'm a piece of shit for using that word in a vague way!) results in pristine, glossy catalog platonic ideals of even mundane objects. when you google image search for Living Room, you won't see what a living room typically looks like. you will an infinite series of perfect living rooms that will always be beyond your reach. your own living room does not belong with these living rooms. it's like that with pretty much anything you search for. you will only see beautiful advertisement people, model home furniture and accessories, things that are for sale, and then a bunch of low-resolution 3D model assets that some company is selling. what does all that have to do with instagram? i'm not sure, but it feels like the people and places i see on instagram are being sucked into the same weird thing. we all post the best version of our lives, and as we see each other irl less and less, these selective images are what's left to form mental pictures of each other. the third image down is an advertisement, and it's related to something you bought using a credit card last week. how did they know that? children have thousands of published images of them before they hit kindergarten, and embedded in each of those images is psychographic data that is then sold to other companies.

anyway, i vote for instagram but i understand it's more of an "up-and-comer" in this rivalry

I've been doing a social media campaign for a fostering organisation to get more people into fostering. Of course, for security reasons we couldn't use real images of foster families, but trying to get suitable stock images was nigh impossible. All these photos of squeaky-clean kids in backwards baseball caps in picture-postcard familial settings were unrealistic and would have idealised the fostering experience. It ended up being a serious headache for us and our client.

doorstep jetski (dog latin), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:33 (four years ago) link

Reddit is good but not good not bad.

pomenitul, Monday, 20 January 2020 11:34 (four years ago) link

I only really use Facebook. I know it's terrible, but it's one of the only ways I can keep in touch with friends, promote my events, find out what's going on in my locale. It also works as a nice extension of ILX to discuss current affairs and culture with people I only know through the internet.

I have Instagram and Twitter accounts, but rarely use them.

I find Twitter bewildering and never got used to the idea of how threads and replies work. I hate the character limit. I hate the 'Now I am going to say something important and you are going to listen because I am a very smart person' tone of a lot of the posts. I'm also concerned about how open and public it all is.

Having little to no interest in what famous people are tweeting about, I have even less interest in what they're promoting for breakfast. Instagram just feels like a big promotional platform (and yes I know that goes for all social platforms, but still). Why anyone would willingly want to follow an influencer who's paid to pose with various products is just bizarre to me. As for photos, yeah I get people like to take photos of their holidays - but why would I be interested in looking at these on a tiny square-shaped screen? I think I'm missing the point of it perhaps as many of my friends are super invested.

doorstep jetski (dog latin), Monday, 20 January 2020 11:45 (four years ago) link

I hate the character limit. I hate the 'Now I am going to say something important and you are going to listen because I am a very smart person' tone of a lot of the posts.

Combined, these two factors result in smarmy 'threads' that read like cramped manifestos. Burn it all down.

pomenitul, Monday, 20 January 2020 11:50 (four years ago) link

There's been talk of ILK moving to platforms over the years*, but part of the secret of ILX's success cockroach-like tenacity over the years is that a plain black-on-white site doesn't obviously look like not working.

*Arguably LiveJournal worked!

Andrew Farrell, Monday, 20 January 2020 12:01 (four years ago) link

*ILX - I Love the Klukluxklan was eventually moved off to become Spiked

Andrew Farrell, Monday, 20 January 2020 12:08 (four years ago) link

Yeah I loved Livejournal for years but then it fell off massively. I have a dreamwidth now but it’s not the same.

steer karma (gyac), Monday, 20 January 2020 12:11 (four years ago) link

I don't think an ilx discord would kill ilx

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 12:18 (four years ago) link

Amended - might kill some of the participants. I’m part of two servers and have both muted for a good reason most of the time.

steer karma (gyac), Monday, 20 January 2020 12:21 (four years ago) link

(genuinely surprised that a whole 15 seconds of research indicates that Dom never wrote for Spiked)

Andrew Farrell, Monday, 20 January 2020 12:24 (four years ago) link

Discord's relative instantaneousness strikes me as less of a blessing than a curse. I, for one, appreciate the delay in posting to ILX, as it helps mitigate some of the more extreme consequences of procrastination.

pomenitul, Monday, 20 January 2020 12:25 (four years ago) link

I hate facebook as much as I have done for years, unfortunately it's my only channel of communication to lots of friends around the world.

I have made peace with twitter by using selective following, blocks and muted words, I like it more than I did

Cannot get to grips with instagram, it looks better than facebook but i hate how it walls off its own content and won't let me link anything

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Monday, 20 January 2020 12:26 (four years ago) link

Discord's relative instantaneousness strikes me as less of a blessing than a curse. I, for one, appreciate the delay in posting to ILX, as it helps mitigate some of the more extreme consequences of procrastination.

― pomenitul, Monday, January 20, 2020 1:25 PM (five minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

Absolutely otm. Discord might not 'kill ilx', but I can't see what it would add, or rather what need it would fulfill.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 20 January 2020 12:33 (four years ago) link

one *particularly* wrong and wrongheaded post itt, the rest is noise

Catherine, Boner of JP Sweeney & Co (darraghmac), Monday, 20 January 2020 12:48 (four years ago) link

If I nuke my FB, does it kill/otherwise fuck with my Messenger acct? I have FB deactivated and I'd love to just get rid of it but I still use Messenger a lot.

bold caucasian eroticism (Simon H.), Monday, 20 January 2020 12:59 (four years ago) link

Yeah it should (and messenger is awful, what’s the appeal)?

steer karma (gyac), Monday, 20 January 2020 13:00 (four years ago) link

Twitter is the most fun, but that also means it's the worst for my mental health. I've been taking a break from it since the beginning of the year, and I feel like I just have more space to think and to do other things that aren't compulsively looking at Twitter whenever I have a spare moment.

jaymc, Monday, 20 January 2020 13:01 (four years ago) link

Yeah it should (and messenger is awful, what’s the appeal)?

I just have ppl on there it would be a pain to migrate over to Whatsapp/Telegram/whatever.

bold caucasian eroticism (Simon H.), Monday, 20 January 2020 13:05 (four years ago) link

what if I said I loved them all

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 20 January 2020 13:11 (four years ago) link

This is why reddit is good btw:

https://www.reddit.com/r/awfuleverything/comments/er6p9d/worst_hold_music_ever/

pomenitul, Monday, 20 January 2020 13:16 (four years ago) link

reddit is better than facebook but worse than everything else

ciderpress, Monday, 20 January 2020 13:36 (four years ago) link

If I nuke my FB, does it kill/otherwise fuck with my Messenger acct? I have FB deactivated and I'd love to just get rid of it but I still use Messenger a lot.

― bold caucasian eroticism (Simon H.), Monday, January 20, 2020 12:59 PM (forty-six minutes ago)

When I last deactivated my FB account, I couldnt log into Spotify as it was in tandem with my FB. I couldnt find any way around it either

Saxophone Of Futility (Michael B), Monday, 20 January 2020 13:48 (four years ago) link

That's how they get ya.

bold caucasian eroticism (Simon H.), Monday, 20 January 2020 13:50 (four years ago) link

Absolutely otm. Discord might not 'kill ilx', but I can't see what it would add, or rather what need it would fulfill.

otm - all ilx content must be archived here on the borad in perpeuity so that i can dig up people's bad takes 15 years later and clown them

I think Discord archives in perpetuity too? You just need to do a lot of scrolling

opden gnash (imago), Monday, 20 January 2020 14:00 (four years ago) link

interesting correction to my "virality originated in messaging media" claim that I just remembered: https://viraltexts.org/

rob, Friday, 28 October 2022 16:57 (one year ago) link

Genuinely had no idea WhatsApp wasn’t popular in America. My account dates back to 2009/2010(?), when I had a blackberry (lol) and WhatsApp was the only app that allowed you to talk cross platform with friends on iPhone and Android.

barry sito (gyac), Friday, 28 October 2022 17:07 (one year ago) link

i use whatsapp for chats with my husband and no one else. i have absolutely no idea or recollection as to how that happened, and i don't care. thanks for listening.

ꙮ (map), Friday, 28 October 2022 17:12 (one year ago) link

I also use WhatsApp for family chats to include family living overseas.

o. nate, Friday, 28 October 2022 17:19 (one year ago) link

I have a bunch of different groups on Whatsapp (basically the only social I'm still on if it even counts): family, teacher mates, a group of old-school friends (some of whom are abroad), a bunch of people into cricket, a group specifically for soul music shares, etc. They're all active, some daily, some weekly.

Shard-borne Beatles with their drowsy hums (Chinaski), Friday, 28 October 2022 21:20 (one year ago) link

First got WhatsApp when I had a baby and it was a good way of keeping in touch with my NCT group... so nearly 8 years ago. Like kettles, I had no idea Americans don't use it...

kinder, Friday, 28 October 2022 22:07 (one year ago) link

it was "sold" to me as phone messaging you can do on Wifi instead of using/ paying for SMS. Something like Facebook messenger has never been as widely used or simple to use imo.

kinder, Friday, 28 October 2022 22:09 (one year ago) link

People pay per text???????

Lord Pickles (Boring, Maryland), Saturday, 29 October 2022 01:06 (one year ago) link

PS I am an ignorant American

Lord Pickles (Boring, Maryland), Saturday, 29 October 2022 01:06 (one year ago) link

A long time ago you paid for phone minutes and texts. Now iirc it's more common to have a contract with a set number of minutes and texts allowed and charged per if you go over - but that still might be outdated, I dunno, I think I have unlimited texts now and possibly unlimited minutes - who even texts any more? Things have changed a lot in the last 8 years but WhatsApp still covers most bases.

When I lived in the US you had to pay to RECEIVE a text as well - if you had a pay-as-you-go plan. Never had that in the UK!

kinder, Saturday, 29 October 2022 10:29 (one year ago) link

I like texting because there is no read receipt functionality, unlike WhatsApp. I like the idea of sending a message out there into the ether and not knowing when or even if it will be picked up and read. Also I turn my 4G off when I'm out of the house so I've trained my family to text me if they want to contact me when I'm out.

lord of the rongs (anagram), Saturday, 29 October 2022 11:27 (one year ago) link

otm. Can't believe that "last seen" online business with whatsapp. You can turn that off but not the read receipts.

Text and call minute limits are a not so distant memory in Canada, to the point where every single current plan by every provider boasts "unlimited calling and texting!".. Other than some lower tier ones that might still have a very limited $15 a month rate. It's generally all about the gigos now, $50 a month for 6gb and whatnot on the website rates, with more reasonable prices traded in whispers at kiosks.

I'm picking up a new sim card today. God bless.

maf you one two (maffew12), Saturday, 29 October 2022 11:49 (one year ago) link

You can turn read receipts off in WhatsApp, it's right there in privacy settings. On my version at least.

lord of the rongs (anagram), Saturday, 29 October 2022 12:19 (one year ago) link

so there is! done. cheers

maf you one two (maffew12), Saturday, 29 October 2022 13:24 (one year ago) link

I like the idea of sending a message out there into the ether and not knowing when or even if it will be picked up and read.


Let me tell you how this works out when the recipient is injured and in hospital and you’re worried if something has happened to them: not great!

barry sito (gyac), Saturday, 29 October 2022 14:08 (one year ago) link

I've actually just bought a house phone... which will function as a landline pretty much, but without the line rental I refuse to pay. I'll put a PAYG sim in it and just remember to use it twice a year or so so it doesn't expire. Thought it might be useful to have something the kids can use in an emergency etc. It's like an office phone and it receives SMS!

kinder, Saturday, 29 October 2022 17:55 (one year ago) link

$50 a month for 6GB

Is that a contract where you're also paying for your phone?

Because I pay £8 a month for 20GB and unlimited calls & tets

groovypanda, Sunday, 30 October 2022 06:05 (one year ago) link

yep mine is £10 for 30gb, unlimited calls and texts

kinder, Sunday, 30 October 2022 10:03 (one year ago) link

nope, no contract or phone subsidy

maf you one two (maffew12), Sunday, 30 October 2022 11:20 (one year ago) link

$50 for me for unlimited data, calls and texts. (They apparently throttle you at the 60 gig mark, but I've never used more than 20 in a month.)

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 30 October 2022 12:52 (one year ago) link

US 5-10x more expensive than most of Europe

https://www.cable.co.uk/mobiles/worldwide-data-pricing/

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Sunday, 30 October 2022 21:29 (one year ago) link

Yeah, gotta love our phone cartels. U-S-A!

Nhex, Monday, 31 October 2022 12:29 (one year ago) link

four months pass...

Mark Zuckerberg Quietly Buries the Metaverse

There will be no press release, no big announcement, as he would have to acknowledge that he was wrong.

But make no mistake: Mark Zuckerberg just buried the metaverse. The metaverse is dead.

The metaverse was supposed to be the Next Big Thing for the social-media tycoon, who in 2021 went so far as to rename his empire -- created from Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp -- as Meta Platforms.

Simply put, the metaverse is an immersive virtual world in which we are supposed to interact with each other using specialized glasses and virtual-reality headsets.

It was the future of technology, according to Zuckerberg, whom Tesla CEO Elon Musk dubbed "Zuck the Fourteenth" in an apparent nod to the French king Louis the XIV, famous for his hubris and excess.

...

Zuckerberg has just held the funeral by turning to the next big shiny thing, namely artificial intelligence.

"We're creating a new top-level product group at Meta focused on generative AI to turbocharge our work in this area," Zuckerberg said in a Feb. 27 post on Facebook.

"We're starting by pulling together a lot of the teams working on generative AI across the company into one group focused on building delightful experiences around this technology. ...

"In the short term, we'll focus on building creative and expressive tools," he wrote. "Over the longer term, we'll focus on developing AI personas that can help people in a variety of ways."

The legacy of the metaverse remains because Meta will continue to develop remnants of this virtual world, such as headsets, but it will be more for a target audience, such as videogamers and the crypto world.

but also fuck you (unperson), Friday, 3 March 2023 16:45 (one year ago) link

Meta will continue to develop remnants of this virtual world, such as headsets, but it will be more for a target audience, such as videogamers and the crypto world.

makes sense for the games - i don't have a VR unit but i think the new gran turismo 7 looks pretty incredible; i think VR games are here to stay.

what is the metaverse use case for crypto, though?

z_tbd, Friday, 3 March 2023 16:52 (one year ago) link

swimming in a virtual money bin a la Uncle Scrooge

The Terroir of Tiny Town (WmC), Friday, 3 March 2023 16:53 (one year ago) link

it's skins

difficult listening hour, Friday, 3 March 2023 16:57 (one year ago) link

Fun little read but I don't see much to actually support the headline. No real indication that new "top-level product group" is taking resources from metaverse.

maf you one two (maffew12), Friday, 3 March 2023 17:05 (one year ago) link

what is the metaverse use case for crypto, though?

nfts originated as part of a virtual world game, so they could try to monetize that approach by running their own roulette crypto table.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Friday, 3 March 2023 18:24 (one year ago) link

seven months pass...

yikes: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2023/oct/20/instagram-palestinian-user-profile-bios-terrorist-added-translation-meta-apology

almost impressed at the baldfacedness of claiming this was a bug

rob, Friday, 20 October 2023 12:51 (five months ago) link

"sometime last night, the core software Instagram runs on became racist"

real warm grandpa (Neanderthal), Friday, 20 October 2023 15:16 (five months ago) link


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