now onto solving the world’s problems through engineering: “you have to find a prototype that works and reproduce it!”
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 25 December 2019 23:03 (four years ago) link
Perhaps only annoying to me after decades of sensitization.
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 25 December 2019 23:04 (four years ago) link
Nah
I'm having a relatively good time. People seem to have slotted into roles which don't involve critique of myself and we went for a walk where we agreed about things.
It has not always been thus.
― Never changed username before (cardamon), Wednesday, 25 December 2019 23:09 (four years ago) link
AA I can only guess what yr situation must be like. Have you got enjoyable alternatives to the family Xmas?
― Never changed username before (cardamon), Wednesday, 25 December 2019 23:10 (four years ago) link
there are, but the problem is the incredible anger and resentment when i don’t go to something. so i really am in a lose-lose situation.
― times 牛肉麵 (Autumn Almanac), Wednesday, 25 December 2019 23:17 (four years ago) link
Hang on in there. How many days does it have to last before you can escape? Having the exits clearly marked can be helpful
― Never changed username before (cardamon), Wednesday, 25 December 2019 23:20 (four years ago) link
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 25 December 2019 23:31 (four years ago) link
xp yeah, i just need to work out what the exits are. there’s another family thing next week with even more of the same people and i can’t really get out of it.
― times 牛肉麵 (Autumn Almanac), Thursday, 26 December 2019 00:06 (four years ago) link
Negronis at my place for everyone.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 December 2019 00:15 (four years ago) link
oh done, see you in 15 mins
― times 牛肉麵 (Autumn Almanac), Thursday, 26 December 2019 00:35 (four years ago) link
likewise
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 00:36 (four years ago) link
Just let me finish the dishes, and I'll join you.
― Anne Hedonia (j.lu), Thursday, 26 December 2019 00:50 (four years ago) link
just found a parking spot
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 01:15 (four years ago) link
Cubed ice is ready!
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 December 2019 01:18 (four years ago) link
Walking it off 🚶♀️. You can go ahead and start without me.
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 01:40 (four years ago) link
actually my friend Jesús made me a mojito.
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:03 (four years ago) link
I had lots of wine. I watched Spike Jones dvds with my dad.
the entire fam went to my bro's g/f's fam's house. it was a nice time.
― looking for Mon in Alderaan places (Neanderthal), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:04 (four years ago) link
and now some kind of literary cocktail 🍹
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:05 (four years ago) link
Jesús walks!
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:08 (four years ago) link
Indeed. My personal savior and bartender. Um Añejo Daquiri.
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:09 (four years ago) link
he’s Cuban like you, Alfred, although I think he has a girlfriend now.
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:10 (four years ago) link
he’s probably read as much as you and James Morrison combined
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:11 (four years ago) link
lol you're setting up the final b-boy battle in You Got Served only with books
― looking for Mon in Alderaan places (Neanderthal), Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:12 (four years ago) link
My secret Santa prez was a book on Japanese Graphic Design which is insanely specific and prescient and I'm told whoever it was, they didn't get a steer from my other half, so now I'm worried someone has cameras in my house.
― Maresn3st, Thursday, 26 December 2019 02:45 (four years ago) link
*phew* What I dream I had last night.
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 26 December 2019 13:15 (four years ago) link
My Trumpy in-laws had a car accident on the way here - no one injured, but a hassle with paperwork, trying to get insurance estimates and find a rental car, all on Christmas Eve. Shortened their visit from three days to one and a half.
It's a strange feeling, trying to put on a somber look of disappointment when inside I was dancing with joy.
― Hereward the Woke (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 26 December 2019 14:00 (four years ago) link
Seasonal whine:
Thanksgiving: My wife and I showed up at my parents' house to host Thanksgiving for fourteen of *their* guests. My parents refused all help, even to clear out a shelf in the fridge. They actually forbade us from using the kitchen until after they'd prepared their mid-morning snack. Because my wife and didn't get started cooking until ten-ish, I asked a cousin to drive over and assist. He agreed, as long as he could bring his LEGITIMATE THERAPY ANIMAL, and keep it dog-pen in my parents' yard since he'd be volunteering for a whole day. My parents – who have not used the pen in over a decade - refused to allow its use, because "he's so entitled for asking," and therefore my cousin could not help. During the meal, my father made fun of me for the amusement of the table. Notably, my sibling showed up ten minutes before the meal with a brand-new boyfriend. They'd been together for four weeks. However, we didn't have to spend a lot of time with them, because disappeared into the bathroom together for twenty minutes mid-meal, and left right after food was served. My wife and I spent hours cleaning and putting the house back afterward long after my parents after my parents had gone to sleep. Later, I received a brief 'thanks' email from my dad, inc. a 'did you borrow a Tupperware please return it A.S.A.P.' P.S.
Christmas: Burnt out, my wife and I spent the holiday in our own home. My sibling showed up at my parents' house with a regifted pot roast from the local food pantry, and my parents called to tell me how wonderful and thoughtful and caring a child they have. In exchange for the pot-roast, they wrote my sibling a big check, and extended the free rental agreement they're providing on their beach house.
NYE: I called to check in and see how/what my parents were doing, and my mother answered. She told me that my father, eighty, had purchased a brand new car after totaling his old one. Mom asked if we'd be around next weekend to drive them to a party at my aunt's house. I said maybe, but they should ask my sibling, who lives closer, and has done nothing for them in a year (save for regifting them a pot roast). "Oh, you know, it's you who helps us out with things," she said. I pretty much hung up the phone.
I just ... I don't understand why people who are consistently badly-behaved are rewarded when they evince even the tiniest bit of decency, and people who are consistently generous are punished for taking. breather from their responsibilities.
― rb (soda), Monday, 30 December 2019 16:29 (four years ago) link
Yeah, funny how that works
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 30 December 2019 17:01 (four years ago) link
Ugh, that sounds awful.
― DJI, Monday, 30 December 2019 17:01 (four years ago) link
Being the better person is its own reward, right?
― DJI, Monday, 30 December 2019 17:03 (four years ago) link
I watched Spike Jones dvds with my dad
for 3 seconds, with that spelling, i assumed it was the 1940s comedy band guy
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 December 2019 17:18 (four years ago) link
― The Soundtrack of Burl Ives (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 30 December 2019 18:34 (four years ago) link