Friend Infected With Right Wing Brain Worms - What to Do?

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I'm guessing a) with a little bit of b). In other words, an exaggeration of an exaggeration.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Sunday, 8 December 2019 07:27 (four years ago) link

tweeting is a symptom of brainworms

jesus is zing (symsymsym), Sunday, 8 December 2019 08:17 (four years ago) link

How bout d) Head of Program does not have brainworms, but wants to avoid awakwardness of telling Bluetick he's shit at his job/not what they're looking for and knows that getting him to feel like a victim of PC culture is a good way of deflecting.

Daniel_Rf, Sunday, 8 December 2019 11:41 (four years ago) link

Funny how the "Head of Progam" will reveal this information after 'a few drinks' but not how many people they've hired recently or the actual ratio of PoC and women. Maybe they need to be on 'a few grams' to get that far in the Q and A.

nashwan, Sunday, 8 December 2019 12:39 (four years ago) link

"FOR MORE INFORMATION, PLEASE INSERT DRUGS NOW"

peloton for the painfully alone (m bison), Sunday, 8 December 2019 12:42 (four years ago) link

tweeting is a symptom of brainworms

― jesus is zing (symsymsym)

tweeting is a cause of brainworms

Agnes Motörhead (rushomancy), Sunday, 8 December 2019 14:38 (four years ago) link

NEW YORK — Four days after pulling off the most high-profile mob killing in decades, Anthony Comello sat down with New York Police Department detectives and told them that the CIA had infiltrated the Mafia. And, he added, the government was spying on him.

He had put his phone in a copper bag to protect it from “satellites,” he told them, and Democratic operatives in Washington were doing business with Joaquín Guzmán Loera, the Mexican drug kingpin known as El Chapo.

In the nine months since that conversation, Comello, 25, has claimed to his lawyer that he killed Francesco “Franky Boy” Cali because the mob boss was part of “the deep state,” a member of a liberal cabal working to undermine President Donald Trump. At one court appearance, Comello scrawled on his hand a symbol and phrases associated with the far-right conspiracy theory “QAnon.”

Now, Comello’s paranoia is being a litigated in a Staten Island court, where he is charged with the murder of Cali. His lawyer has taken the first steps in a legal battle that hinges on a question made for the internet age: At what point does belief in a far-right conspiracy theory make you legally insane?

https://www.yahoo.com/news/does-belief-qanon-legally-insane-131615136.html

omar little, Sunday, 8 December 2019 22:24 (four years ago) link

tweeting is a symptom of brainworms

― jesus is zing (symsymsym)

tweeting is a cause of brainworms


why not both

maura, Tuesday, 10 December 2019 19:47 (four years ago) link

On the gambling angle, certainly billions have been made shorting GBP off Brexit. My personal benefit has been restricted to cheap region B blu-rays. On US brainworm nonsense, I'm aware of a handful of mining companies whose projects are a go/no-go based on the 2020 election outcome. Obviously private health insurers/hospital companies are in a similar situation. And for some, one can leverage one's bets to the hilt with options.

полезный инструмент (Sanpaku), Wednesday, 11 December 2019 03:11 (four years ago) link

i need to start buying more R2 stuff from Arrow

Nhex, Wednesday, 11 December 2019 16:46 (four years ago) link

On the gambling angle, certainly billions have been made shorting GBP off Brexit. My personal benefit has been restricted to cheap region B blu-rays. On US brainworm nonsense, I'm aware of a handful of mining companies whose projects are a go/no-go based on the 2020 election outcome. Obviously private health insurers/hospital companies are in a similar situation. And for some, one can leverage one's bets to the hilt with options.

― полезный инструмент (Sanpaku)

risk management is an important part of any healthcare entity these days but most of the people i know in the industry these days have concerns which are both more immediate and more far-reaching than who wins in 2020. maybe that's different in the c suites, i don't know!

Agnes Motörhead (rushomancy), Wednesday, 11 December 2019 20:36 (four years ago) link

At what point does belief in a far-right conspiracy theory make you legally insane?

This is like asking 'at what point does swallowing water become drinking?'

Welcome to the Sandwich Trough (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 11 December 2019 20:40 (four years ago) link

I drink and I disagree with your analogy

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 11 December 2019 20:53 (four years ago) link

i think it's a good analogy because listening to right-wing conspiracy theorists does in fact drive me to drink

Agnes Motörhead (rushomancy), Wednesday, 11 December 2019 20:59 (four years ago) link

I feel like the difference is much greater than that between avocation and career. Declaring insanity in a criminal trial is careerism at its highest, if you think about it.

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 11 December 2019 21:05 (four years ago) link

Okay then if you strike 'legally' then my analogism is rendered unimpeachable.

Welcome to the Sandwich Trough (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 11 December 2019 22:09 (four years ago) link

Regarding the guy who heard a guy say white males won't get hired. The fascinating/disturbing thing with that is, whatever actually happened, that one tweet will be taken as evidence of a real and widespread trend by people who already believe in it

Never changed username before (cardamon), Wednesday, 11 December 2019 22:15 (four years ago) link

I suppose an interpretive mistake we might be making is to see these things as claims, when they're more like mantras or rallying cries - I think that's what's going on with the Jeremy Corbyn IRA Terrorist stuff that gets posted to my local fb group. Time and again the post, time and again the refutation, same people keep posting it.

Never changed username before (cardamon), Wednesday, 11 December 2019 22:21 (four years ago) link

The fascinating/disturbing thing with that is, whatever actually happened, that one tweet will be taken as evidence of a real and widespread trend by people who already believe in it

― Never changed username before (cardamon)

i guess it's disturbing if you still assume that people are fundamentally motivated by logic or reason. that ship sailed so long ago for me.

i don't know. probably the implications of "you just have to assume a lot of people are being fundamentally intellectually dishonest and not just don't want to but are _incapable_ of being any other way" are disturbing, but i'm more disturbed at the increasingly desperate "moderates" trying to treat white bigots in "good faith" despite the mounds of evidence that doing so is, in fact, a bad idea

Agnes Motörhead (rushomancy), Thursday, 12 December 2019 00:18 (four years ago) link

one month passes...

My cousin went to a 'Brexit Party' last night. I haven't heard directly from him directly, but indirectly I have heard there were Churchill masks, people wearing Union Jack outfits, some comedy, and some singing of world war two songs.

My cousin is possibly now wise to my research and may not give up the details as readily as he would have a year ago

anvil, Saturday, 1 February 2020 17:11 (four years ago) link

Does your cousin have EU friends who aren't dual UK-EU citizens?

toilet-cleaning brain surgeon (pomenitul), Saturday, 1 February 2020 17:22 (four years ago) link

Its possible, but his life and connections are completely alien to me (he earns a lot of money in the city). There's not a great deal of empathy (in the practical sense rather than the moral sense per se). He has said his reason for voting leave is 'trade' but its difficult to get any further than that other than standard Conservative dislike of any form of regulation. I think the existential aspect is difficult for him to express (especially as I don't give him any kind of reaction to bounce off)

anvil, Saturday, 1 February 2020 17:32 (four years ago) link

I went to a party yesterday thrown by a dual citizen specifically so all of us non-brits could distract ourselves from the thing - like 75% EU citizens in the room - and apparently someone still brought someone who voted leave

Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 1 February 2020 19:09 (four years ago) link

oh, also, at the same party a french dude who works in finance told me his boss went around ascertaining everyone's nationalities, then had a big cake made with the flags of all those countries surrounding a giant Union Jack to celebrate Brexit Day (said boss voted leave + tory). Alien is right.

My cousin is possibly now wise to my research and may not give up the details as readily as he would have a year ago

Intrigued as to what makes you think he's aware that the game's afoot.

Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 1 February 2020 19:13 (four years ago) link

oh, also, at the same party a french dude who works in finance told me his boss went around ascertaining everyone's nationalities, then had a big cake made with the flags of all those countries surrounding a giant Union Jack to celebrate Brexit Day (said boss voted leave + tory). Alien is right.

jfc

toilet-cleaning brain surgeon (pomenitul), Saturday, 1 February 2020 19:49 (four years ago) link

That would've been a nice gesture actually if it was to commiserate Brexit day! And if the boss wasn't an arse.

kinder, Saturday, 1 February 2020 20:22 (four years ago) link

You know what would've been an even nicer gesture? Not voting Leave.

toilet-cleaning brain surgeon (pomenitul), Saturday, 1 February 2020 20:25 (four years ago) link

well yeah, I said if he wasn't an arse

kinder, Saturday, 1 February 2020 20:27 (four years ago) link

Intrigued as to what makes you think he's aware that the game's afoot.

― Daniel_Rf,

This starts to get back to the deeper, psychological question that the thread is about rather than any specific topic (which is only ever a vehicle). My cousin's lens of 'them and us' over any issue doesn't just invite kickback and reaction, it requires it. And if it doesn't get it...its like dropping a glass on the floor and it not smashing, something has gone wrong.

Its not that he is necessarily looking for a reaction, but reaction provides validation and reassurance (left wing people are supposed to splutter, get emotional, facts don't have feelings etc, or even just argue back). I don't provide my cousin with any of this, I just ask questions, the kind of questions a researcher might ask. For a while this was maybe ok but I think lacks the confidence of ideas if reaction to them isn't there to validate, so possibly feels undermined.

I could be imagining this - we don't really have any disagreements as such because he doesn't ask my opinion and I only ever give my opinion to someone who asks

I think he suspects some kind of trickery, that interactions involving open 'non-judgemental' questions, perversely are more threatening because the guardrail of reaction isn't being provided.

anvil, Saturday, 1 February 2020 21:35 (four years ago) link

the last two lines in that post are the wrong way around for some reason! I must have left and come back and started writing in the wrong place!

anvil, Saturday, 1 February 2020 21:36 (four years ago) link

Unfortunately this means I am now less likely to hear about the details of a Brexit party because without the promise of snowflake tears the lure of telling the story is less appealing. I had a pretty good run though before he twigged (if he has twigged).

You get so much more out of people by listening instead of rebutting but maybe eventually the well runs dry

anvil, Saturday, 1 February 2020 21:39 (four years ago) link

That would've been a nice gesture actually if it was to commiserate Brexit day!

Yes, though the little flags from around the world arranged around a hueg union jack would've still raised some eyebrows.

Daniel_Rf, Sunday, 2 February 2020 11:23 (four years ago) link

Feels like it's imposing a value of patriotism on people. "Look I included YOUR flag on the cake, I value you as a foreigner"

nashwan, Sunday, 2 February 2020 12:05 (four years ago) link

If it hadn't been specifically baked for 'Brexit day' and if the Union Jack was a spoke among many rather than an imperial circle drawn smack dab in the cake's middle, it could have been a nice gesture, maybe.

toilet-cleaning brain surgeon (pomenitul), Sunday, 2 February 2020 14:16 (four years ago) link

Nothing with a Union Jack on it is, er, getting anywhere near, er, my mouth.

(includes digression on farting) (Tom D.), Sunday, 2 February 2020 14:20 (four years ago) link

Dunno man, I just had a gammon steak and it was a warm feeling, devouring my enemy.

toilet-cleaning brain surgeon (pomenitul), Sunday, 2 February 2020 14:23 (four years ago) link

there was never very much audible political discussion in my home growing up, although it was evident to me that my dad was conservative and voted republican. my mom always had even less to say than my dad and something, i know not what, made me surmise for a while that she was less conservative than him.

my dad has been subsisting on a constant stream of talk radio and cable news for the past 20-30 years, and my mom's been right there beside him most of the time, reading when he was the one in charge of the remote.

they're not very online but as they've gotten a bit more used to facebook they've taken a little to meme-sharing, as boomers and retirees do. and as the trump presidency has gone on they've both inclined more toward 'we support our president', 'americans need to be united', 'take THAT haters of freedom!!' type junk.

but it has so dismayed me this past week to find that my mom recently shared an image circulating that purported to identify the ukraine whistleblower, with text about the suppression of the information and urging people to share before facebook deleted it. not only morally thoughtless but actively malicious.

this is not the sort of thing she ever would have undertaken to concern herself with, to voice an opinion about. she's a modest, commonsensical, warm-hearted, non-confrontational person.

i can't help but feel that the corruption is spreading.

j., Thursday, 6 February 2020 01:21 (four years ago) link

I mean. I don't like to use words like "corruption" but people change based on who they associate with. We adapt to our environment.

I'm sorry you're losing your mom.

you know my name, look up the number of the beast (rushomancy), Thursday, 6 February 2020 04:47 (four years ago) link

it's mild, it's just…

j., Thursday, 6 February 2020 05:03 (four years ago) link

It hasn't happened to my mother but I could see how it could. She is a mix of impressionable and open-minded. Its interesting to hear when speaking where her own thoughts end and are replaced by media created (usually when "I" is replaced by "people", but she mixes up what she thinks with what 'people' think and its easy to see how they get muddled. "electability" is the most obvious one in general

I can usually bring her back out just by asking questions or to explain. She's open minded so hasn't fallen into any of this but I wonder how long that would last if exposed to a steady right wing diet rather than a comparatively mild centrist one (though seeing how that works up close, its not as dissimilar as I might once have thought)

These narratives aren't beaten by challenging head on. They're given these worms in a particular way, with constant re-inforcement and if the only counter to that is recrimination then we lose. Effective constant communication can't be countered with periodic outrage and dismissal. That in itself is a reinforcement of worms, because they've been told to expect it. one some level doing that fulfils the role of the 'histrionic blue haired SJW" that's already been created for them by this machine

If they're hearing these guys x number of hours a day, and we're countering it with 1% of that time which we use to tell them they're flat out wrong and dumb, thats never going to work

anvil, Thursday, 6 February 2020 05:20 (four years ago) link

TLDR but the media machine spends a lot more time talking to our parents than we do and that gives them a hell of an advantage

anvil, Thursday, 6 February 2020 05:32 (four years ago) link

i've found since 2016 that staying in your room 362 days a year and going outside to feast on the living the other 3 is the only way to survive

ill fuckin put a paste on those (Neanderthal), Thursday, 6 February 2020 07:16 (four years ago) link

braains

woorms

j., Thursday, 6 February 2020 07:27 (four years ago) link

TLDR but the media machine spends a lot more time talking to our parents than we do and that gives them a hell of an advantage

― anvil

it's a lot easier for them, they don't actually fucking care about our parents, they don't have to listen to them, they don't have to deal with the consequences of seeing the people who taught you how to live right slowly turn into monsters because they were always fucking monsters, to them this is what is good in life

anvil you have the patience of a saint, i don't, i want to hurt the people who stole the minds of a generation, i want to make them suffer, i want to give back to them one billionth of a billionth of what they've done to us

you know my name, look up the number of the beast (rushomancy), Thursday, 6 February 2020 13:22 (four years ago) link

confusing and imprecise pronoun usage, what the fuck else is new, too tired to explain coherently

you know my name, look up the number of the beast (rushomancy), Thursday, 6 February 2020 13:23 (four years ago) link

Can't speak for anvil but yeah I get those feelings and they're not aimed at the poor saps that have absorbed the message, usually

GK Chessington's World of Adventure (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 6 February 2020 13:25 (four years ago) link

damn right, rush

Nhex, Thursday, 6 February 2020 13:55 (four years ago) link

in my darker moments i'm like yeah, take my parents' medicare away. they profess to hate it and everything the govt has ever done. so let's see how they, without a dime to their names (other than a minuscule STATE pension from my mom's years teaching in Mississippi PUBLIC schools and their SS checks), fare. let's see some reeeeeal bootstraps in action. obv my inclination to administer some tough love on my folks isn't worth the immiseration of hundreds of millions of ppl.

A-B-C. A-Always, B-Be, C-Chooglin (will), Thursday, 6 February 2020 13:58 (four years ago) link

but goddamn it's frustrating

A-B-C. A-Always, B-Be, C-Chooglin (will), Thursday, 6 February 2020 13:59 (four years ago) link

ok so to clarify starting with the "they were always fucking monsters" the "they" does in fact refer to the media machine and not to anybody's parents, unless i guess you're one of rush limbaugh's kids or something, the actively evil powerful and influential people. i don't even need to see them all suffer, really, though i sure as hell wouldn't mind were that somehow to happen. no, i'd settle for one. one murdoch, one limbaugh, one thiel, being held meaningfully responsible for what they've done.

i don't see that happening in any country i'm aware of today.

you know my name, look up the number of the beast (rushomancy), Thursday, 6 February 2020 14:02 (four years ago) link


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