― Maria :D, Tuesday, 15 May 2007 23:47 (seventeen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Tuesday, 15 May 2007 23:54 (seventeen years ago) link
― scott seward, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:05 (sixteen years ago) link
― Trayce, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:07 (sixteen years ago) link
― scott seward, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:07 (sixteen years ago) link
― Trayce, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:12 (sixteen years ago) link
― Curt1s Stephens, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:13 (sixteen years ago) link
― Aimless, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:15 (sixteen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:19 (sixteen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:20 (sixteen years ago) link
― Abbott, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:20 (sixteen years ago) link
― Abbott, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:21 (sixteen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:26 (sixteen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:27 (sixteen years ago) link
― moley, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:30 (sixteen years ago) link
― Trayce, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:32 (sixteen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:35 (sixteen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:36 (sixteen years ago) link
― Trayce, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:36 (sixteen years ago) link
― Maria, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:46 (sixteen years ago) link
― Maria, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:47 (sixteen years ago) link
― get bent, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:48 (sixteen years ago) link
― moley, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 00:57 (sixteen years ago) link
― jhøshea, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 01:50 (sixteen years ago) link
― rrrobyn, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 01:53 (sixteen years ago) link
― jhøshea, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 01:55 (sixteen years ago) link
― Trayce, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 01:59 (sixteen years ago) link
― latebloomer, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 02:02 (sixteen years ago) link
― latebloomer, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 02:03 (sixteen years ago) link
― max, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 02:32 (sixteen years ago) link
i even flew across the country and hung out with ned!
― Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 02:38 (sixteen years ago) link
― moley, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 03:10 (sixteen years ago) link
― s1ocki, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 03:46 (sixteen years ago) link
― latebloomer, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 04:29 (sixteen years ago) link
― moley, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 04:31 (sixteen years ago) link
― s1ocki, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 04:42 (sixteen years ago) link
― latebloomer, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 05:08 (sixteen years ago) link
Sorry I didn't visit you in LA - for some reason I thought you were a New Yorker.
― Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 05:12 (sixteen years ago) link
― Trayce, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 05:13 (sixteen years ago) link
― kenan, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 05:21 (sixteen years ago) link
― kenan, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 05:23 (sixteen years ago) link
― Abbott, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 05:24 (sixteen years ago) link
― moley, Wednesday, 16 May 2007 05:31 (sixteen years ago) link
i just wanna say, once again, that dave q. is a genius & that his description of extraverts is dead-on.
thank you. :-)
― Eisbaer, Saturday, 2 June 2007 08:43 (sixteen years ago) link
[Self-defense tip though - always pay ludicrously exxaggerated attention to them - for like TWO MINUTES. Keep mental note of EVERYTHING they said, like you're a detective. This gives you enough of their 'material'. Then as they go on, ask them some question referring to what they've said in that inital two minutes, or better yet, expose some discrepancy between THAT statement and current one. Do this repeatedly, and (cf Milgram experiment) ask question repeatedly and more insistently each time, sometimes rephrasing (this can be dragged out indefinitely, as person will usually have no answer whatever). Since the ext. usually a)has no reason to say anything they say, and b)usually can't remember what they've said anyway, they will become vaguely anxious, then completely unhinged as the cognitive dissonance overcomes them, as they're forced to stare into that void within themselves that no amount of self-generated verbal pollution (think of it as aural skunk-spray or other yecchy Discovery Channel shit) will cover up. Remember how Hannibal Lecter disposed of that spunk-throwin' guy in 'Silence of the Lambs'? Like that. (Umm...of course anybody who reads excepted, like if I see you in a pub or something)
hahaha awesome
― latebloomer, Saturday, 2 June 2007 08:49 (sixteen years ago) link
sigh. it seems like every day since i started my new job, i've had someone remark about how "quiet" i am. and it's true in that situation -- i'm there to get my work done and my top priority isn't socializing. but i'm starting to resent people making a thing of it, like they're putting the onus on me to be a fucking social butterfly when i really have nothing much to add to the watercooler conversation. want me to talk? i can talk at length about experimental music, urban policy and infrastructure, design, ambitious cooking projects, literature... but i just don't have very much to say about your kids, your SUV, or your diet. sorry i'm not part of the special breeders' club. i apologize on behalf of my withered old uterus.
― hipsters jump up to get run off (get bent), Tuesday, 25 January 2011 08:01 (thirteen years ago) link
:)
I spend as much time at work avoiding my colleagues as I do actually working.
― Cars and Freedom (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 25 January 2011 08:02 (thirteen years ago) link
i think the next time someone says "you're so quiet" i'll respond with "you're so loud!"
― hipsters jump up to get run off (get bent), Tuesday, 25 January 2011 08:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm getting better at knowing when to shut the hell up. I doubt I'll ever be very good at it.
― I am Woolen Man. The scarf and I are one. (kenan), Tuesday, 25 January 2011 08:21 (thirteen years ago) link