Stonewall the QUEER SUMMER 2019

Hello! Glad to hear all the updates. Morbz where r u looking to move?

Boof is packing up today and leaving by Friday, just had a good cry in his arms and banking on a few more. Hoping to figure out in what ways we will remain in each other's lives sooner rather than later. We'll seeee.

anywhere that's cheap as possible, surm :/

agh New York will not be the same without you!

Where will you end up, though, Morbs?

Regret to inform I'm still obsessed with "I Can't Tell You Why."

where we all end up, Eric

Canada?

:)

Regret to inform I'm still obsessed with "I Can't Tell You Why."

― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, September 3, 2019 11:08 PM (yesterday) bookmarkflaglink

where we all end up, Eric

― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius),

well, yeah

id say 'beyond salvation' if I knew what that was

"Beyond the clutches of Don Henley"

just feel the need to drop in here and say fuck straight people. can i get an amen?

are you ordering us to fuck straight people

as soon as i posted that i thought 'alfred's going to make a joke about fucking straight people" so i'm cheers-ing you with my 32 oz iced coffee

https://media.giphy.com/media/QOguDFeEaJxw4w07sT/giphy.gif

I mostly hang out w/ the str8s

lol alfred

We all mostly hang out w/ the str8s tho

if anything the straights get their jollies these days by flirting with diffident us.

Diffident, firm, yielding us.

thank God I can never tell when someone's flirting

i'm debating whether or not to befriend more straight men
sometimes i like them
i dunno

happy almost fall!!!!!
I'm quite enjoying having a bachelor pad I mean, I can basically do whatever I want whenever I want it
IT'S NOT BAD

This dude I dated for a few months before we decided to be friends instead, I love him so so much
Today I spoke to him on the phone, he was expressing some body image issues
And I told him that, in fact, he was so beautiful that it felt cruel
He liked that!

aw that is so sweet
i think i would really like to hear that if i were in his shoes

congrats on your move surm

thank you!!! you know, i actually kept the apartment so while it wasn't a move, it really feels like a brand new home with just me there. i have to do a lot of redecorating soon....

The new Azealia Banks mixtape has gotten a lot of weird ire online but I just listened to it twice through and it fucking rules

I don't know where else to put that statement

<3
i can't stop listening to Kelly by Kelly Rowland
like over and over

packed house at Lincoln Center last night to see Lily Tomlin & Jane Wagner

lots of women, gayz, couples

a line I'd forgotten from The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe is "What's the point of being a hedonist if you're not having a good time?"

Oh yeah a friend of mine was at that thing and posted about it on Facebook
My bf saw the update and said "I do not understand a single word of this Facebook post"

There were superfans rushing the stage for selfies with Lily at the end. What the hell is wrong with people?

tbh i have a limited number of people i would want selfies with but lily tomlin is one of them

i might too, but not in the middle of a scrum.

no, agreed; that's always a bad look up to and including the most famous of people

I have a photo of myself with Lily but it wasn’t a selfie and I hadn’t planned on asking for it - on the rare occasions I meet Very Famous People I don’t usually ask for photos. But she was very nice about it.

so liiiiike
i'm getting together with a guy tonight who's super into this dom sub stuff
like i think he wants me to slap him around which don't get me wrong, i'm totally into
but it's been a hot minute sooo i just hope i haven't lost my touch
also i have a 4th date with a reallllly nice and handsome guy on Friday. he used to be a runway model so i have no idea what he's doing with me but I'LL TAKE IT

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOMvs_1UFCk

:P :D :D

I
Just
Took advantage of the "open" nature of my relationship for the first time in a year-and-a-half. It was a total surprise! A friend came over for lunch, he lingered, it was clear he was interested, I offered, he pretended to act surprised, etc.

I wasn't especially attracted to the guy? But I like him a lot personally? But it was weirdly, still, the best O I've had in a long, long time. It was really hot and the dude was clearly very happy about it too.

But then, of course, after he left, I became Lady Macbeth, scrubbing the condom smell from my hands, laundering literally everything in the house, showering shaving making dinner basically had an extended domestic explosion in response to this

I get it but I don't get it, really. Monogamous Sex That Is Just Fine is so perfect, problem free, reliable, easy, I am still so confused by this dynamic.

well, that is a very domestic goddess dynamic

“I learned to cook this good because I was always cheating on my boyfriend”

yeah p much

it's also like a primitive thing tho
sex with strangers, in terms of evolution speaking, is not as safe as the one you know
it makes sense that after he leaves you would want to expound upon the safety and tranquility of your home

not that your friend is a stranger but you kwim

Pro-tip: if you're gonna have sex with one of your closest friends, be sure it's at least good sex and not mediocre sex like I endured Sat night/Sunday morning.

mediocre is often good enough.

not ready to start a fall thread yet (maybe cuz it's 89 F in NYC today) but i can't think of a good title.

fuck. so ready for 65 degrees.

ummm also Alfred that's a really good tip

xp from my own post in the "nobody goes to the theater" thread but i love this musical and wish everyone would give it a listen so:

The OST for the outrageously good and crazy wordy "A Strange Loop" came out today - described by the Liz Phair loving playwright/composer as a musical about a black, fat, queer, effeminate theater nerd searching for meaning by writing a musical about a black, fat, queer, effeminate theater nerd who writes a musical about a black, fat, queer, effeminate theater nerd searching for meaning - and it's great.

Author is Michael (r) Jackson, so he names the lead of his roman a clef "Usher" and he's an usher at a Disney show. Highly recommended!
https://open.spotify.com/album/7vlAmEdZEOVdRUsB4fgrvC?si=1MkKwKxrSPKsLgS_qkobmg