Stonewall the QUEER SUMMER 2019

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lightweights are cute

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 22 August 2019 18:52 (one month ago) link

i’m a welterweight myself

donna rouge, Thursday, 22 August 2019 20:35 (one month ago) link

i'm glad you are boxing! i would be too if my bones weren't, you know, made of chalk.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 22 August 2019 20:48 (one month ago) link

ha, have not technically sparred yet, just glovework with classmates/instructor, but i really love doing it and i’m definitely improving! (also most of my classmates are queerz, which is pretty rad)

donna rouge, Friday, 23 August 2019 01:13 (one month ago) link

i really love my boyfriend, like a lot. the end.

cheese canopy (map), Monday, 26 August 2019 22:17 (one month ago) link

Yay

And same

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 26 August 2019 22:36 (one month ago) link

I think I'll keep him.

Pauline Male (Eric H.), Monday, 26 August 2019 22:41 (one month ago) link

i really love my boyfriend too but he's very far away from me. every day is excruciating.

"i'll be alright, it's just a thousand cuts" -- taylor swift

J0rdan S., Tuesday, 27 August 2019 04:41 (one month ago) link

it must be, u can't even answer emails

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:46 (one month ago) link

John Cameron Mitchell otm

You said in an interview that you don’t so much identity as gay any more or certainly not as strongly. Why not?

MITCHELL: Gay has become a marketing niche. Like “top” and “bottom,” “man” and “woman,” and “comedy” and “drama.” You slice and dice so you can sell or be sold to — or to decide what show belongs in which Emmy category. Life has no niches, it’s a complex continuum with nuance and surprising juxtapositions. I don’t like to be marketed to and told what I am or should like because of my gender or sexual preference.

You’ve talked a lot about empathy, queer folks’ special skills at it, empathy being the opposite of “cancel culture.” Can you explain?

MITCHELL: The gift of being “other” is having empathy for the downtrodden and oppressed. “Woke” without empathy is just another form of control. Here’s an example. If you believe in prison reform and rehabilitation then you can’t cancel people. We, as queer people, have been canceled for centuries. Let’s make folks accountable and safe but let’s not co-opt our oppressors’ bullying ways.

https://www.gaycitynews.nyc/stories/2019/18/john-cameron-mitchell-podcast-2019-08-12-gcn.html

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 27 August 2019 15:49 (one month ago) link

Very otm!

flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:41 (one month ago) link

Hello! Glad to hear all the updates. Morbz where r u looking to move?

Boof is packing up today and leaving by Friday, just had a good cry in his arms and banking on a few more. Hoping to figure out in what ways we will remain in each other's lives sooner rather than later. We'll seeee.

surm, Wednesday, 28 August 2019 21:02 (one month ago) link

anywhere that's cheap as possible, surm :/

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 August 2019 21:03 (one month ago) link

agh New York will not be the same without you!

surm, Friday, 30 August 2019 18:15 (one month ago) link

Where will you end up, though, Morbs?

Pauline Male (Eric H.), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 03:07 (one month ago) link

Regret to inform I'm still obsessed with "I Can't Tell You Why."

Pauline Male (Eric H.), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 03:08 (one month ago) link

where we all end up, Eric

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 05:21 (one month ago) link

Canada?

flamboyant goon tie included, Wednesday, 4 September 2019 05:31 (one month ago) link

:)

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 05:44 (one month ago) link

Regret to inform I'm still obsessed with "I Can't Tell You Why."

― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, September 3, 2019 11:08 PM (yesterday) bookmarkflaglink

where we all end up, Eric

― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius),

well, yeah

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 11:06 (one month ago) link

id say 'beyond salvation' if I knew what that was

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 11:58 (one month ago) link

"Beyond the clutches of Don Henley"

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 12:03 (one month ago) link

just feel the need to drop in here and say fuck straight people. can i get an amen?

cheese canopy (map), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 19:30 (one month ago) link

are you ordering us to fuck straight people

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 19:33 (one month ago) link

as soon as i posted that i thought 'alfred's going to make a joke about fucking straight people" so i'm cheers-ing you with my 32 oz iced coffee

cheese canopy (map), Wednesday, 4 September 2019 19:35 (one month ago) link

I mostly hang out w/ the str8s

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 September 2019 00:44 (one month ago) link

lol alfred

Dan S, Thursday, 5 September 2019 00:47 (one month ago) link

We all mostly hang out w/ the str8s tho

Pauline Male (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 September 2019 01:47 (one month ago) link

if anything the straights get their jollies these days by flirting with diffident us.

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 September 2019 01:50 (one month ago) link

Diffident, firm, yielding us.

Pauline Male (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 September 2019 02:01 (one month ago) link

thank God I can never tell when someone's flirting

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 September 2019 05:38 (one month ago) link

i'm debating whether or not to befriend more straight men
sometimes i like them
i dunno

surm, Thursday, 5 September 2019 15:33 (one month ago) link

happy almost fall!!!!!
I'm quite enjoying having a bachelor pad I mean, I can basically do whatever I want whenever I want it
IT'S NOT BAD

surm, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 06:51 (one month ago) link

This dude I dated for a few months before we decided to be friends instead, I love him so so much
Today I spoke to him on the phone, he was expressing some body image issues
And I told him that, in fact, he was so beautiful that it felt cruel
He liked that!

flamboyant goon tie included, Wednesday, 11 September 2019 02:29 (one month ago) link

aw that is so sweet
i think i would really like to hear that if i were in his shoes

surm, Wednesday, 11 September 2019 19:03 (one month ago) link

congrats on your move surm

cheese canopy (map), Wednesday, 11 September 2019 19:50 (one month ago) link

thank you!!! you know, i actually kept the apartment so while it wasn't a move, it really feels like a brand new home with just me there. i have to do a lot of redecorating soon....

surm, Wednesday, 11 September 2019 21:25 (one month ago) link

The new Azealia Banks mixtape has gotten a lot of weird ire online but I just listened to it twice through and it fucking rules

I don't know where else to put that statement

flamboyant goon tie included, Friday, 13 September 2019 04:52 (one month ago) link

<3
i can't stop listening to Kelly by Kelly Rowland
like over and over

surm, Friday, 13 September 2019 14:35 (one month ago) link

packed house at Lincoln Center last night to see Lily Tomlin & Jane Wagner

lots of women, gayz, couples

a line I'd forgotten from The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe is "What's the point of being a hedonist if you're not having a good time?"

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 13 September 2019 15:21 (one month ago) link

Oh yeah a friend of mine was at that thing and posted about it on Facebook
My bf saw the update and said "I do not understand a single word of this Facebook post"

flamboyant goon tie included, Friday, 13 September 2019 15:25 (one month ago) link

There were superfans rushing the stage for selfies with Lily at the end. What the hell is wrong with people?

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 13 September 2019 15:27 (one month ago) link

tbh i have a limited number of people i would want selfies with but lily tomlin is one of them

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Friday, 13 September 2019 16:27 (one month ago) link

i might too, but not in the middle of a scrum.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 13 September 2019 16:44 (one month ago) link

no, agreed; that's always a bad look up to and including the most famous of people

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Friday, 13 September 2019 18:20 (one month ago) link

I have a photo of myself with Lily but it wasn’t a selfie and I hadn’t planned on asking for it - on the rare occasions I meet Very Famous People I don’t usually ask for photos. But she was very nice about it.

donna rouge, Friday, 13 September 2019 22:23 (one month ago) link

so liiiiike
i'm getting together with a guy tonight who's super into this dom sub stuff
like i think he wants me to slap him around which don't get me wrong, i'm totally into
but it's been a hot minute sooo i just hope i haven't lost my touch
also i have a 4th date with a reallllly nice and handsome guy on Friday. he used to be a runway model so i have no idea what he's doing with me but I'LL TAKE IT

surm, Monday, 16 September 2019 20:07 (one month ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOMvs_1UFCk

cheese canopy (map), Monday, 16 September 2019 21:14 (one month ago) link

:P :D :D

surm, Monday, 16 September 2019 21:52 (one month ago) link


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