Why do people leave ILX for good?

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it did, and I got off at the Buchanan exit, and I think the ILX continued east on I-80 towards Sacramento

sarahell, Friday, 9 August 2019 16:18 (four years ago) link

lock thread tbh

president of deluded fruitcakes anonymous (silby), Friday, 9 August 2019 16:31 (four years ago) link

one month passes...

it doesn't really have anything to do w/ toni morrison specifically but more the general notion that, say, a black woman who made art mostly about and for other black women isn't really being talked about on this board primarily because we have no black women who actively post on this board

― marcos, Thursday, August 8, 2019 5:05 PM (one month ago) bookmarkflaglink

There is this, but there's also the effect (which I don't know if it's better or worse) where we'll talk about something that has an aspect (possibly a total aspect) relevant to an experience outside of our own, and, ignoring that aspect entirely, conclude that we've nailed it.

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 4 October 2019 17:58 (four years ago) link

two months pass...

bump, just in case we've had any recent leavers who may want to share their stories.

Banáná hÉireann (darraghmac), Wednesday, 18 December 2019 23:39 (four years ago) link

ah but they left

Suggest Banshee (Hadrian VIII), Wednesday, 18 December 2019 23:40 (four years ago) link

I left

I want to change my display name (dan m), Wednesday, 18 December 2019 23:41 (four years ago) link

but you were ijrc fake, dan

yes i know they have left but they all of em still read, we know this

Banáná hÉireann (darraghmac), Wednesday, 18 December 2019 23:43 (four years ago) link

You not retiring yet are you Darragh?

xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 18 December 2019 23:46 (four years ago) link

He's never been retiring.

Soup on my lanyard (Tom D.), Wednesday, 18 December 2019 23:49 (four years ago) link

every 2nd post of his seems like fuzzy, oblique bitching about lefties these days, at least before it used every 4th post!

calzino, Wednesday, 18 December 2019 23:53 (four years ago) link

lads please, please.

ye have yr thread, dont ye?

Banáná hÉireann (darraghmac), Thursday, 19 December 2019 00:04 (four years ago) link

too many threads for the remainers

mh, Thursday, 19 December 2019 00:32 (four years ago) link

one month passes...

every time a poll with a lot of options is bumped now I can only think "specific user such as imago"

Swilling Ambergris, Esq. (silby), Thursday, 13 February 2020 22:54 (four years ago) link

Which specific ILX user has the best discography?

romanesque architect (pomenitul), Thursday, 13 February 2020 22:57 (four years ago) link

Best Buy

sarahell, Thursday, 13 February 2020 23:02 (four years ago) link

Come for the pie. Stay for the clusterfucks. Leave when you've had your fill.

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 14 February 2020 02:02 (four years ago) link

Bloomberg's got a babby

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Friday, 14 February 2020 03:15 (four years ago) link

LOL, I just saw upthread that back in August 2019 a proposal was made to pay women and minorities a certain rate to participate in this forum. So when do I start looking for any back pay? Should someone alert fellow "twofer" Geeta to this proposal?

We Live as We Dee, Alone (deethelurker), Sunday, 23 February 2020 14:41 (four years ago) link

i forget the thread for this but:

* Why do people leave ILX for good?
* people dancing to Phish

Kate (rushomancy), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:22 (four years ago) link

Which specific ILX user has the best discography?

― romanesque architect (pomenitul), 13. februar 2020 23:57 (one week ago) bookmarkflaglink

We all know the answer to this, right? It's no contest! Or am I forgetting someone?

Frederik B, Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:24 (four years ago) link

there are in fact several contenders

imago, Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:26 (four years ago) link

What I really want to know is which specific ILX lurker has the best discography.

romanesque architect (pomenitul), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:27 (four years ago) link

there’s your truth, and then there’s my softer, pinker one

mh, Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:27 (four years ago) link

this isn't something we should discuss imo

lurkers otoh

imago, Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:27 (four years ago) link

this isn't something we should discuss imo

Indeed. My initial question was facetious and likely a parody of some other post/thread I've already forgotten about.

romanesque architect (pomenitul), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:28 (four years ago) link

Imago otm. Let's just say it's a tie and move on

Frederik B, Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:29 (four years ago) link

mariah carey is poster "bee ok" iirc

mark s, Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:33 (four years ago) link

Fred B is Lars Ulrich.

romanesque architect (pomenitul), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:34 (four years ago) link

i'm kali malone

*drones on and on about something*

But guess what? Nobody gives a toot!😂 (Karl Malone), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:37 (four years ago) link

Not to start shit again, but your posts are wayyyyyyyyy better than Kali Malone's music.

romanesque architect (pomenitul), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:38 (four years ago) link

Thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaank
Yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooou
:)

(I do like her music though!)

But guess what? Nobody gives a toot!😂 (Karl Malone), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:43 (four years ago) link

also your jump shot is amazing

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Sunday, 23 February 2020 16:47 (four years ago) link

I had an international smash hit single when I was still going by the name Jordy so let's not be too quick to declare a winner here, is alls I'm sayin

Expart of Languidge (Old Lunch), Sunday, 23 February 2020 17:06 (four years ago) link

Has it gotten any easier now that you're no longer a, you know?

romanesque architect (pomenitul), Sunday, 23 February 2020 17:10 (four years ago) link

Sadly, it's all been downhill since my diaper days.

Expart of Languidge (Old Lunch), Sunday, 23 February 2020 17:31 (four years ago) link

I had an international smash hit single when I was still going by the name Jordy so let's not be too quick to declare a winner here, is alls I'm sayin

― Expart of Languidge (Old Lunch)

dur dur d'etre old lunch

Kate (rushomancy), Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:03 (four years ago) link

Should someone alert fellow "twofer" Geeta to this proposal?

whenever I mention ilx to her, she has warm things to say about a lot of old school ilxors, but expresses no interest in returning to regular posting/reading.

sarahell, Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:12 (four years ago) link

she does have great taste in food/bevs, so if she happens to be visiting your locale, you should definitely buy her drinks and/or dinner, esp. if you are an affluent white dude.

sarahell, Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:13 (four years ago) link

unless you're "that one guy" .... he knows who he is.

sarahell, Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:14 (four years ago) link

I would definitely... oh wait, never mind

mh, Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:16 (four years ago) link

not you, mh

sarahell, Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:18 (four years ago) link

jokes

mh, Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:19 (four years ago) link

DM-ed you

sarahell, Sunday, 23 February 2020 19:19 (four years ago) link

she does have great taste in food/bevs, so if she happens to be visiting your locale, you should definitely buy her drinks and/or dinner, esp. if you are an affluent white dude.

Would it be ok if I'm just a regular middle class brown woman?

We Live as We Dee, Alone (deethelurker), Sunday, 23 February 2020 21:00 (four years ago) link

I think the implication was that the people complaining about a lack of diverse voices earlier in this thread are largely cisgender white straight men

mh, Sunday, 23 February 2020 22:40 (four years ago) link

well, fuck it, i've done my part to increase the number of women _and_ decrease the number of men posting here

of course offering money to posters is a fairly clueless solution - first off y'all can't afford my rates, second off i guarantee you spend enough time even talking about the idea and some asshole will jump out of the woodwork with some bullshit argument about how i "shouldn't count".

Kate (rushomancy), Monday, 24 February 2020 01:27 (four years ago) link

well, fuck it, i've done my part to increase the number of women _and_ decrease the number of men posting here

A+ :D

I'm always completely... fine with people leaving? Like "kudos to you, you managed to get out of here." I don't desire this myself, but I can see why one would, for so many reasons.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 24 February 2020 08:58 (four years ago) link

Trying my best to call out the bullshit. Also doing it for free too. Aren't you all lucky?

xyzzzz__, Monday, 24 February 2020 12:04 (four years ago) link

i prefer to refer to it as privileged

sarahell, Monday, 24 February 2020 16:39 (four years ago) link

two months pass...

Hi all,

I’m out.

I found ilx in ‘03 and have since been a daily lurker and occasional poster. I’ve learned so much here from ilxors like Milton Parker, dylannn, John D4rni3lle, Sund4r, Scott Seward, momus, Ta-Nehisi Coates, and even deej.

Where have they all gone?

Maybe I’m old or too sensitive but I feel increasingly at odds with nearly everyone here. I don’t want to be unkind to anyone so I’ll stay quiet.

My best to all.

... (Yelploaf), Sunday, 10 May 2020 22:55 (three years ago) link


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