You'll note I've started a tad fewer pointless fights on ILX these last few years.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:27 (four years ago) link
i do know what u meanconflict avoidance can backfirebut honestly sounds lovely!
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:33 (four years ago) link
Possibly controversial belief alert, but relationship fights, I think, are a useful tool in helping people better themselves.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:35 (four years ago) link
they take a huge toll on me, but admittedlysometimes they have made me grow(in a big way)currently reading "why buddhism is true"i like it!!!
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:20 (four years ago) link
i like to grow alone
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:22 (four years ago) link
lolyou can grow your own way!
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:30 (four years ago) link
Play the way you feel itBut listen carefully to the soundOf your loneliness
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:37 (four years ago) link
like a heartbeatdrives u madin the stillness of remembering...
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:40 (four years ago) link
hey, i haven't posted this in years!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoEJQ6ZDzIo
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:42 (four years ago) link
What a mixtape we could all make.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:43 (four years ago) link
Five songs in: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5HSbx72tmvR7QNK2233wcs?si=GcIkMYT-RlOmbuAEosXLPw
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Wednesday, 10 July 2019 13:54 (four years ago) link
excited!!! now if only spotify's web player would work
― surm, Wednesday, 10 July 2019 16:55 (four years ago) link
When it does, it's a collaborative playlist so add whatever gives you life this summer.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Wednesday, 10 July 2019 17:08 (four years ago) link
so amped, i will work on it from my phone too
― surm, Wednesday, 10 July 2019 17:15 (four years ago) link
can you add to it you're on free spotify? i stopped paying for it recently because i rarely used it.
anyway, someone add this on my behalf, please
https://open.spotify.com/track/7815vygbItI6iQg8DTkofq
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 15:37 (four years ago) link
I'll Do It Again gets such a wild response.
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 15:38 (four years ago) link
That's not the Steely Dan track right? (Link isn't working.)
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Thursday, 11 July 2019 16:31 (four years ago) link
https://open.spotify.com/track/7815vygbItI6iQg8DTkofq?si=DR8mu7jGTY6M_y9kCliM8g
I'll Do It Again by Omar S.
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 17:14 (four years ago) link
Added!
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Thursday, 11 July 2019 17:30 (four years ago) link
it's a good 'un!
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 20:56 (four years ago) link
Thanks Eric x
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 22:26 (four years ago) link
Not going to put it in the playlist, but this was the song I was listening to the most during pride month this year:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXmmWBzS-_o
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Friday, 12 July 2019 15:19 (four years ago) link
^^^ what a jam
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 12 July 2019 15:20 (four years ago) link
Not terribly queer tho, tbh.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Friday, 12 July 2019 21:21 (four years ago) link
Just added a slew
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 12:56 (four years ago) link
I need to get laid this weekend
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 13:02 (four years ago) link
Do u ever think about sex and it becomes really weird in your mind? Like you can't believe it exists? And you've been doing it for all this time?
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 13:13 (four years ago) link
"Somebody Else's Guy," perfect choice!
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Saturday, 13 July 2019 14:24 (four years ago) link
โ surm, Saturday, July 13, 2019
That's how I think about people generally.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 13 July 2019 14:59 (four years ago) link
I usually can't believe it exists while i'm doing it
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 13 July 2019 15:40 (four years ago) link
LolThank u Eric!!!!
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 17:08 (four years ago) link
I had gay sex this morning! It was terrific, highly recommend. We listened to "Erotica" afterward and danced around the kitchen in our underwear
Pose is so sad, I can't believe I'm watching it and crying the whole time. I must admit I generally avoid AIDS-centred books and movies and TV and plays (still haven't seen Angels Of America, i.e.) after I had nightmares for a month after reading The Line Of Beauty.
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 13 July 2019 19:26 (four years ago) link
No gay sex for me today, and I feel like I'm in the masturbatory equivalent of The Discreet Charm of the Bourgeoisie.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Saturday, 13 July 2019 19:43 (four years ago) link
my hair down there fell out during radiation, and tbh i kind of don't mind that it's coming back much thinner... fine with crown and some ball hair, but my shaft we pretty hair and now it's not, so...great!
― blue light or electric light (the table is the table), Sunday, 14 July 2019 22:07 (four years ago) link
you will have a gnarly renaissance, tabes
also the barren parts of my scalp are showing signs of hairy life, kinda like the Genesis planet at the end of Wrath of Khan
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 15 July 2019 00:49 (four years ago) link
my keyboard is obviously having trouble..."fine with crown and some ball hair, but my shaft was pretty hairy and now it's not, so...great!" was how that should have read lol.
― blue light or electric light (the table is the table), Monday, 15 July 2019 01:16 (four years ago) link
<3 u guys. you are both amazing men.
― surm, Tuesday, 16 July 2019 15:52 (four years ago) link
so i met someone on grindr who is like totally beautiful...we were sexting for like 8 hours yesterday. but he's kind of out of my league. i'm p nervous to meet him what if he thinks i'm a shmo? oh also he's bi!!!!!!!!!!!!
― surm, Tuesday, 16 July 2019 16:24 (four years ago) link
Hiiii. In recent news, my boof and I are splitting up after 18 years. In the famed words of Brenda Cushman, bye bye love, hello pop tarts.
― surm, Tuesday, 23 July 2019 13:16 (four years ago) link
Oh no! I mean, I'm sure it's a complex situation that can't really be answered in words like "oh no" but I'm sure it's not easy.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 July 2019 13:31 (four years ago) link
Wow!! Congratulations on such a long relationship! Hope you both adjust to singledom smoothly
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 23 July 2019 13:36 (four years ago) link
You don't sound sad, sure, so let me freshen your mug with a sparkling wine. We're hitting the town tonight.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 23 July 2019 13:53 (four years ago) link
in other news: seeing/quasi-dating a bi man has had few of the disadvantages I've been told. It helps that he lives on the west coast.
i think unless you own a Lear jet that's not really "dating"
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 July 2019 14:16 (four years ago) link
wishing u well surm
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 July 2019 14:17 (four years ago) link
๐๐๐๐งก๐๐ค
― surm, Tuesday, 23 July 2019 14:48 (four years ago) link
yeah, good luck surm! <3
― blue light or electric light (the table is the table), Tuesday, 23 July 2019 19:27 (four years ago) link
There are days where I palpably miss being single, more days than I would say I expected, but the upside is I may be getting a new Frenchie puppy soon!
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 July 2019 19:38 (four years ago) link
Cuuute
I love my boyfriend and love our dog
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 23 July 2019 22:08 (four years ago) link
My dog does this thing now where she hops into bed with me and sits on my computer and forces my hands off the keys with her muzzle when she is bored and wants to go for a walk. I guess this is cat behaviour? My dog weighs 90 pounds tho
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 23 July 2019 22:09 (four years ago) link