OmgThat so isI had a traumatic incident with hair removal last summer so this year I'm committed to being a total caveman beard and all
― surm, Monday, 8 July 2019 02:15 (four years ago) link
It doesn't need to be shaved to the skin for me, but I am no fan of a briar patch down there.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Monday, 8 July 2019 02:36 (four years ago) link
Ok admittedly I did trim yesterday
― surm, Monday, 8 July 2019 02:39 (four years ago) link
But like just the essentials
― surm, Monday, 8 July 2019 02:40 (four years ago) link
but Eric, it adds so much mystery
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 8 July 2019 02:41 (four years ago) link
Save that bush for Jessica Fletcher.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Monday, 8 July 2019 02:45 (four years ago) link
BaahhhahhahhahahahhhhahahahahahaShe was (obv) just on my TV today
― surm, Monday, 8 July 2019 02:46 (four years ago) link
I find that pouring gin over the pubes causes them to gasp and self-immolate.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 8 July 2019 02:54 (four years ago) link
I love my boyfriend so much! We watched the pilot for Pose over dinner at his suggestion and it was weird and sad and beautiful and cheesy and I kissed him after dinner and it was so nice
We are going to Berlin for a vacation at the end of the month, what should we do? A friend is putting us up in Mitte
― flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 8 July 2019 03:05 (four years ago) link
Yesss we have been watching pose tooIt's a v strong show
― surm, Monday, 8 July 2019 03:32 (four years ago) link
you guysi did not feel strong about my sensual encounter yesterday
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 15:08 (four years ago) link
Last night I watched the Press Your Luck reboot with my BF and it seemed like the right thing to be doing.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 15:31 (four years ago) link
how long have you guys been together?
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 16:55 (four years ago) link
More than 3 years, somehow! (We were friends for 7+ years before that though.)
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 16:59 (four years ago) link
<3 :+) :+)
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:02 (four years ago) link
The real bummer about this set-up, and one which has set up a fairly big potential landmine up for us both, is that we respect each other too much as friends to actually go through with some of the fights that I think it's necessary to have with a significant other. (Not all of them; we have fought. Just not with the id fully unsheathed.)
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:24 (four years ago) link
necessary fights = why i have avoided having a S.O.
No Drama Morbama
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:26 (four years ago) link
You'll note I've started a tad fewer pointless fights on ILX these last few years.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:27 (four years ago) link
i do know what u meanconflict avoidance can backfirebut honestly sounds lovely!
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:33 (four years ago) link
Possibly controversial belief alert, but relationship fights, I think, are a useful tool in helping people better themselves.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 17:35 (four years ago) link
they take a huge toll on me, but admittedlysometimes they have made me grow(in a big way)currently reading "why buddhism is true"i like it!!!
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:20 (four years ago) link
i like to grow alone
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:22 (four years ago) link
lolyou can grow your own way!
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:30 (four years ago) link
Play the way you feel itBut listen carefully to the soundOf your loneliness
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:37 (four years ago) link
like a heartbeatdrives u madin the stillness of remembering...
― surm, Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:40 (four years ago) link
hey, i haven't posted this in years!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoEJQ6ZDzIo
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:42 (four years ago) link
What a mixtape we could all make.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Tuesday, 9 July 2019 19:43 (four years ago) link
Five songs in: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5HSbx72tmvR7QNK2233wcs?si=GcIkMYT-RlOmbuAEosXLPw
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Wednesday, 10 July 2019 13:54 (four years ago) link
excited!!! now if only spotify's web player would work
― surm, Wednesday, 10 July 2019 16:55 (four years ago) link
When it does, it's a collaborative playlist so add whatever gives you life this summer.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Wednesday, 10 July 2019 17:08 (four years ago) link
so amped, i will work on it from my phone too
― surm, Wednesday, 10 July 2019 17:15 (four years ago) link
can you add to it you're on free spotify? i stopped paying for it recently because i rarely used it.
anyway, someone add this on my behalf, please
https://open.spotify.com/track/7815vygbItI6iQg8DTkofq
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 15:37 (four years ago) link
I'll Do It Again gets such a wild response.
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 15:38 (four years ago) link
That's not the Steely Dan track right? (Link isn't working.)
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Thursday, 11 July 2019 16:31 (four years ago) link
https://open.spotify.com/track/7815vygbItI6iQg8DTkofq?si=DR8mu7jGTY6M_y9kCliM8g
I'll Do It Again by Omar S.
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 17:14 (four years ago) link
Added!
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Thursday, 11 July 2019 17:30 (four years ago) link
it's a good 'un!
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 20:56 (four years ago) link
Thanks Eric x
― Funky Isolations (jed_), Thursday, 11 July 2019 22:26 (four years ago) link
Not going to put it in the playlist, but this was the song I was listening to the most during pride month this year:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXmmWBzS-_o
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Friday, 12 July 2019 15:19 (four years ago) link
^^^ what a jam
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 12 July 2019 15:20 (four years ago) link
Not terribly queer tho, tbh.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Friday, 12 July 2019 21:21 (four years ago) link
Just added a slew
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 12:56 (four years ago) link
I need to get laid this weekend
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 13:02 (four years ago) link
Do u ever think about sex and it becomes really weird in your mind? Like you can't believe it exists? And you've been doing it for all this time?
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 13:13 (four years ago) link
"Somebody Else's Guy," perfect choice!
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Saturday, 13 July 2019 14:24 (four years ago) link
― surm, Saturday, July 13, 2019
That's how I think about people generally.
― TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 13 July 2019 14:59 (four years ago) link
I usually can't believe it exists while i'm doing it
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 13 July 2019 15:40 (four years ago) link
LolThank u Eric!!!!
― surm, Saturday, 13 July 2019 17:08 (four years ago) link
I had gay sex this morning! It was terrific, highly recommend. We listened to "Erotica" afterward and danced around the kitchen in our underwear
Pose is so sad, I can't believe I'm watching it and crying the whole time. I must admit I generally avoid AIDS-centred books and movies and TV and plays (still haven't seen Angels Of America, i.e.) after I had nightmares for a month after reading The Line Of Beauty.
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 13 July 2019 19:26 (four years ago) link
No gay sex for me today, and I feel like I'm in the masturbatory equivalent of The Discreet Charm of the Bourgeoisie.
― Pauline Male (Eric H.), Saturday, 13 July 2019 19:43 (four years ago) link