Stonewall the QUEER SUMMER 2019

:P he let me top and now I want a burger

Horror movies, topping and burgers?! Keep that one!

Omg right

hooked up with a dude at a wedding I attended -- Brooklyn's good for that sort of thing

Lol Brooklyn is so slutty. What did he look like?! Give us the deets

I don't get nuthin in Brooklyn

I feel lost that I haven't had my fill of Manhattan gays ever
Am I missing much?
This guy I was seeing recently gave me a dispassionate goodbye and I figured we came to parting ways but he texted last night
I'm gonna make him wait a few days before I respond.

I shaved my balls while listening to The Hidden Cameras this morning. Don't really care for the song that much but I really like the lyrics:

Hunting hair to find emotional grace
I am scared you'll see my body and know
That removing hair has taken over my life
And I don't know how to stop

I want another enema, nema, nema
Good waste is an oxymoron, moron, moron
My body is an exit wound, oh my wounds, oh my wounds
I want another enema, nema, nema

hairless balls make me sad

they also make you itch

I flip-flop on whether or not I'm a man who is crotch-hairy or crotch-shaven but usually it's just a once-a-year thing when it gets hot. I am rollerblading a lot these days, speaking of gay. I went 13 km yesterday, with my shirt off.

video or it didn't happen

when I had my stem-cell transplant my crotch hair fell out and frankly it was traumatic

Omg
That so is
I had a traumatic incident with hair removal last summer so this year I'm committed to being a total caveman beard and all

It doesn't need to be shaved to the skin for me, but I am no fan of a briar patch down there.

Ok admittedly I did trim yesterday

But like just the essentials

but Eric, it adds so much mystery

Save that bush for Jessica Fletcher.

Baahhhahhahhahahahhhhahahahahaha
She was (obv) just on my TV today

I find that pouring gin over the pubes causes them to gasp and self-immolate.

I love my boyfriend so much! We watched the pilot for Pose over dinner at his suggestion and it was weird and sad and beautiful and cheesy and I kissed him after dinner and it was so nice

We are going to Berlin for a vacation at the end of the month, what should we do? A friend is putting us up in Mitte

Yesss we have been watching pose too
It's a v strong show

you guys
i did not feel strong about my sensual encounter yesterday

Last night I watched the Press Your Luck reboot with my BF and it seemed like the right thing to be doing.

how long have you guys been together?

More than 3 years, somehow! (We were friends for 7+ years before that though.)

<3 :+) :+)

The real bummer about this set-up, and one which has set up a fairly big potential landmine up for us both, is that we respect each other too much as friends to actually go through with some of the fights that I think it's necessary to have with a significant other. (Not all of them; we have fought. Just not with the id fully unsheathed.)

necessary fights = why i have avoided having a S.O.

No Drama Morbama

You'll note I've started a tad fewer pointless fights on ILX these last few years.

i do know what u mean
conflict avoidance can backfire
but honestly sounds lovely!

Possibly controversial belief alert, but relationship fights, I think, are a useful tool in helping people better themselves.

they take a huge toll on me,
but admittedly
sometimes they have made me grow
(in a big way)
currently reading "why buddhism is true"
i like it!!!

i like to grow alone

lol
you can grow your own way!

Play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness

like a heartbeat
drives u mad
in the stillness of remembering...

hey, i haven't posted this in years!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoEJQ6ZDzIo

What a mixtape we could all make.

Five songs in: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5HSbx72tmvR7QNK2233wcs?si=GcIkMYT-RlOmbuAEosXLPw

excited!!! now if only spotify's web player would work

When it does, it's a collaborative playlist so add whatever gives you life this summer.

so amped, i will work on it from my phone too

can you add to it you're on free spotify? i stopped paying for it recently because i rarely used it.

anyway, someone add this on my behalf, please

https://open.spotify.com/track/7815vygbItI6iQg8DTkofq

I'll Do It Again gets such a wild response.

That's not the Steely Dan track right? (Link isn't working.)

https://open.spotify.com/track/7815vygbItI6iQg8DTkofq?si=DR8mu7jGTY6M_y9kCliM8g

I'll Do It Again by Omar S.

Added!

it's a good 'un!

Thanks Eric x

Hurry up and make the thread I have sumthin to say

https://66.media.tumblr.com/d1b2b986c8e1ef88e9f1f57f29725a01/tumblr_p542ecSrAK1tstd16o2_250.gif

Oh no, I was posting that in a Jazmine Masters voice

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Canceling Ellen and the NFL: QUEER FALL of 2019