I’m happy as hell living in Jersey
― calstars, Saturday, 13 April 2019 02:53 (five years ago) link
xpost Nothing is permanent. Live in CT for 3 months, 6 months, 2 years. Regroup, get well. It will be a blip after it's over.
― Yerac, Saturday, 13 April 2019 03:10 (five years ago) link
it's hard for me to square my concern for morbs with my desire for him to learn how to drive
― mookieproof, Saturday, 13 April 2019 03:13 (five years ago) link
Full disclosure: i was lookin to leave this year but i started seeing someone who is incredible. That’s the only reason I’m sticking around for now.
Maybe if I took a job in a less trend-driven industry i wouldn’t feel as aggressively “in new york” as i do now and i could kinda relax about it. There is a sense in which nyc feels like the center of the action, and some people really thrive on that, but i haaaaaaaaaaate that aspect. I just want to be.
― Trϵϵship, Saturday, 13 April 2019 03:29 (five years ago) link
However, the universe conspired to bring me here, as it didnyears ago to bring me to ilx, and i’ve met amazing people in nyc and learned a lot of (sometimes painful) lessons and maybe i should just trust
― Trϵϵship, Saturday, 13 April 2019 03:33 (five years ago) link
morbs' birthday is coming up
let us fap
― mookieproof, Saturday, 13 April 2019 03:45 (five years ago) link
it's a lose-lose
I have been maladapted to New England for 14 years now, I still feel most at home and most comfortable in nyc and try to get down as often as possible, as I will next weekend, but I know I could probably no longer endure the kind of loneliness-in-a-crowd that it can impose when living there
― d'ILM for Murder (Hadrian VIII), Saturday, 13 April 2019 03:47 (five years ago) link
how there was less jaywalking in nyc than he'd remembered. but it was Because of the Phones
I wish they'd keep jaywalking, it would cull the herd.
mook if I learned to drive someone would die really quickly.
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 13 April 2019 06:21 (five years ago) link
my birthday falls on Easter Sunday this year, and it's amazing how many of my heathen NY friends are leaving town to eat ham or whatever
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 13 April 2019 06:32 (five years ago) link
i lived in indiana for a decade, depression is much deadlier than boredom
i can also personally attest that it's possible to be a very bad driver for a very long time and not kill anybody
it's been a long time since i've been to nyc, but i've felt that loneliness-in-a-crowd thing everywhere i've lived!
― Jaki Liebowitz (rushomancy), Saturday, 13 April 2019 10:19 (five years ago) link
Morbs I had forgotten this! Me
Me too! 4/21
― d'ILM for Murder (Hadrian VIII), Saturday, 13 April 2019 10:36 (five years ago) link
i will put in a vote for non-hipster brooklyn. i get the cemetery and prospect park and some old neighborhood shit and no bars. it's nice.morbs, you share a birthday with bridget everett!i would do an ilx hang; it's been a very long time.
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Saturday, 13 April 2019 14:49 (five years ago) link
https://brooklyneagle.com/articles/2019/07/18/have-you-seen-this-pedestrian-terror
― Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Friday, 19 July 2019 13:03 (four years ago) link
glad i lost my hair or i might've been pulled in for questioning
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 19 July 2019 14:25 (four years ago) link