I'm Also in the Library and It's Raining: WINTER 2018/2019 GAY THREAD

it says you are gay

otm

so my boyf is the exec director of Boston's lgbt film festival (it's called W1ckeed Qu33r lol) and he was telling me about all of the movies and how excited he is abt them

I'm going to Boston for the tail end of it so I'll get to see him in "film festival" mode which I am excited about!!

i have never done that

xxp

That's cool, Stevie!

is that in June?

That’s awesome Stevie

My bf and I had a fight about how liberally he was chasing side dick but it’s over now

Not the relationship, the fight is over

I think he wants to introduce a regular piece into the mix and happily I really like the guy— am not personally attracted to him—but would happily cook dinner for them both while they do their thing

xp it's late March/early April

My bf and I had a fight about how liberally he was chasing side dick but it’s over now

Any arguments I'd have with my dude on this issue would probably stem from differences in libido. But that's a best-case scenario. It's never an easy conversation.

I mean, Esther Perel has become my new gay diva as of late.

I had to look her up.

To clarify, she's not gay (that I know of) and doesn't talk terribly often about gay couples. It's just: I'm gay, and I like her, hence she becomes a diva.

Yep, that checks out

I'm gay and I'm at the library, therefore

I'm trying to think of funny things to say to the staff while I have radiation therapy the next two weeks... They had to lay warm mesh on my face to "map" my head, and I sassed "This is the weirdest barbershop ever."

Patch Addams

oh i forgot my clown nose

wait, he was a doctor

Morbs <3

I am hungover and my boyfriend and I have been together two years and he made a nice Instagram post about it and I cried when I read it

surm do you have any feelings abt The Dixie Chicks? I was listening to "Wide Open Spaces" today and thought of you

Watched 1985 this weekend and it reduced me to a puddle.

oh, i want to see that. the trailer was giving me massive "parting glances" vibes.

told you!

they're screening that at Philly's gay film festival, maybe I should go see it

yes you should – and it's short.

I just checked and it's at 5pm, which is when I get done work across town, wtf? I'll just get the screener from my boo

it's on Amazon too

surm do you have any feelings abt The Dixie Chicks? I was listening to "Wide Open Spaces" today and thought of you

― vision joanna newsom (Stevie D(eux)), Sunday, March 24, 2019 11:38 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i LOVE this song. i really don't know their catalog but some of their songs are just so well-written.

so ummm i may need to talk to someone whose been through it about ... arthritis

yup i said it

IT'S OUT THERE

I spent Sunday morning appreciating the physique of dirtbag Adonis actor McCaul Lombardi in last year's Sollers Point.

https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:McCaul_Lombardi_-_Sollers_Point_Movie_Set_DSCN5860_(2)_(29038594006).jpg

he cuuuute

Like you said Morbs, tattoos are pathetic.

https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5CdRJk5EykA/WZSyxfZNytI/AAAAAAADZCY/RUaIy7oF6yUjA4T4GIMhTbQw5uUcCHjBACEwYBhgL/s1600/McCaul%2BLombardi%2Bunderwear.png

He's beyond basic. You can find that on sale at the 99 cent store, kinda basic.

he'd be better w/out em, E

all his modeling shots are p godawful in fact

Oh I was thinking actually of getting my first tattoo this year. Some bumblebees on my shoulder that's all

I don't care for that sultry-faced wet man's tattoos, but I do enjoy the creases of his lower belly and wish my belly still did something similar

i'm also thinking about my first tattoo this year, a raven on my shoulder

Perhaps off topic, but the past three weeks I've been involved in a dispute with my former landlord about the state in which I left the unit. We resolved our dispute today and I am gaily heaving sighs of relief about it.

I'm Cancer and avoid conflict to a hysterical extent. I can relate to the almost spiritual relief I feel whenever a conflict is resolved.

xp oh that's great news, congrats!

i'm also a cancer and hate conflict.

Oh, same... I don't avoid conflict so much, I'm happy to engage, but I get physically ill when things become acrimonious and/or are left unresolved. I really like my former landlord, like, a lot, but he wanted to withhold an immense amount of my deposit for stuff like "the oven stopped working" and when I pointed out that it wasn't my responsibility to fix appliances (legally) it got really ugly really fast. I don't know what caused him to suddenly have a change of heart today but it went from me expecting a process server at my door to me waiting on the cheque he has now said is in the mail in a blink-of-an-eye. Hooray for resolution, feels good

fgti, I got tickets to see Jeremy Dutcher in Glasgow next month - a concert and a lecture (about Wolastoq culture and language). Veeeeery much looking forward to that!

I have cancer and love conflict!

I thought you beat the cancer! I am sorry to hear you are in conflict with it once again

And that’s awesome, Jeremy is so so great

I hadn't hear of him until today.

and all the best to you, morbs. <3

Sorry to hear, Morbs.

Hugs, Morbs.

I'm in the library. Let's grab lunch.

I'm doing fine (under the circumstances), the cusp of financial ruin caused by the illness is 50x more terrifying right now. If anyone has a salaried job w/ benefits for me LMK.