I'm Also in the Library and It's Raining: WINTER 2018/2019 GAY THREAD

You are going to LOVE Robyn! I was having a miserable Tuesday and she turned it the fuck around.

Also, I gave up alcohol for Lent (not for religious reasons, I just think Jesus would want my body to look as good as his), and damn it's been sobering in more than the obvious way.

omg i'm going tonight! (to Robyn)

I"m, like, a medium Robyn fan? She's OK. I'm sure the show will be fun but I am not like zomg so hype so stoked

Eric what's the most illuminating thing about not drinking?

I haven't had a drink in 2 weeks, but bcz i have been a mucus factory.

I've considered a month-long detox for the hell of it but I'm in the best shape of my life now. My yearly checkup's on Monday, so we'll see.

how can you tell? up to 6 martinis/day?

Those martinis keep burning fat and leaving muscle + bone.

Breakfast of champions!

Eric what's the most illuminating thing about not drinking?

Well, I'm only my third day in and it's felt like a week. So that's a reality check.

Also, I've never been in worse shape than I am in now.

I'm not a major, major Robyn stan either, but when "Dancing On My Own" kicked in, it was a jolt.

ugh i don't think i can hear that song tonight i'll be a messss

this morning ended well

not over yet!

not to every drug store has sold its last pill

Do tell, Alfred

I'm one light fixture away from being set up in my new apartment with my boyfriend, the dog loves it here, we love it here. Last night I sat down on my new rug in my new library next to the teak bookcases we got for $200 and lit a bunch of candles and listened to records with my friend M and ate blueberries and small cubes of cheddar cheese.

I suspect what did it for us was dancing to "Silent Morning."

dancing, ugh

so my long-distance partner (A) whom i haven't seen in about 5 years is coming up to visit today and meeting my boyfriend whom i live with (E) for the first time ever apart from online interactions. he'll be staying with us for a few days so we finally all get to be in the same room. i really want us all to be together like a big gay ferret pile so i'm excited and nervous!!

At the faculty clinic this morning for my yearly checkup a medical student conducted the preliminaries. I was pretty sure he's gay, confirmed by the quickest of glances in my direction when I answered the question about my sexual partners' genders. When the doctor came in, he hovered behind her in assistance; we kept exchanging glances. "Very nice to meet you," he said without my prompting as I excited.

He's quite cute. I found on him Instagram and Facebook. Would it be odd to friend or message him?

Yes

Yes, definitely a bad idea.

Just last night a doctor friend was telling us about how frequent he gets people hitting on him and how frustrating it is. It's not that he doesn't find it flattering (he usually doesn't), it's that there is no easy way for him to negotiate the professionalism he's required to maintain

I don't have any STIs FYIs. Got my results today.

congrats, jed!

I met this guy for coffee. I'm texting from his bed.

j/k. Thanks for the advice, y'all.

i got new shelves too goon tie! now i'm destined for a dresser.

i had a very good weekend but i am firmly TAKING IT SLOW

I love my new apartment. It sounds so affectatious and Portlandia but there is a disconnected room with a cast-brass chandelier and candles everywhere and the record player and books and a big nice rug and the dog and a couch and a filled-in fireplace and the wifi doesn't reach it and a bay window and I am extremely very happy

as I excited

I'm in the library, it's not raining.

i had a very good weekend but i am firmly TAKING IT SLOW

― macropuente (map), Tuesday, March 12, 2019 3:58 AM (two days ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

YESSSSS tell us more when u get a chance

hey goon i think we have similar lives, sometimes i just sit and look around my apartment and breathe deeply

Alfred i am jealous of how academic your life is

we're trading travel weekends, getting to know each other, sending gooey texts

i gave him a willa cather novel. he likes georgia o'keefe. i introduced him to agnes martin. i want to do a santa fe / taos trip with him.

he gave me an eckhart tolle audio book to listen to on my drive and i really liked it, agreed with it all. i have no idea how uncool that is and i don't care very much.

map, you're unexpectedly sweet in this mode!

map these posts are lovely

thanks guys. i'm truly a puddle lately.

yeah, I'm not sure how I'd respond if a guy I liked gave me an Eckhart Tolle "book" after I gave him Willa Cather.

congrats!

I'm basically married at this point, and there are still days where I am a puddle.

I just awoke from a salmon carpaccio nap and am reading The Sacred Fount.

i'm trying to arrange a foursome for this summer

I won't be there before August, sorry

Currently celebrating our two year anniversary with a trip to NYC

We are drinking sake and eating scoopy tofu

Really, NYC is such a nice place to visit

:-)
i'm so glad people are puddles and traveling and stuff!
spring is hitting here, it's gorgeous out
i'm getting serious about some personal business today
self care levels are about to hit the ceiling

It's raining!