Michael Jackson is "evil"

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Is being a murderer more unconscionable than being a child molester? Because I've been known to listen to music by a few of those tbh.

Wee boats wobble but they don't fall down (Tom D.), Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:44 (five years ago) link

i mean

i don't think ppl "shouldn't" enjoy the music

but

it promotes a different kind of relationship to the artist

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:45 (five years ago) link

and the musical "text"

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:46 (five years ago) link

dude

stop

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:46 (five years ago) link

we are embodied subjects. art of any kind is interesting to us because people made it. there isn't just "art" and "life" these things are co-implicated

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:47 (five years ago) link

soto, why should i stop?

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:47 (five years ago) link

it's just a reflex for you guys to get annoyed when i am engaging normally with the topic of discussion

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:48 (five years ago) link

Think to yourself.

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:48 (five years ago) link

it's just a reflex for you guys to get annoyed when i am engaging normally with the topic of discussion


Yes, the problem is clearly ... with us

ebro the letter (Whiney G. Weingarten), Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:49 (five years ago) link

i think it is

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:49 (five years ago) link

"Michael Jackson likely assaulted children and should I keep listening to his music?" is the question, and it doesn't require every tergiversation of thought on ILM.

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:49 (five years ago) link

it's an old question fair enough. i was just pushing back against the idea i saw implied that for some listeners the knowledge wouldn't matter--like you can make a neat separation

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 00:56 (five years ago) link

Treeship, I assure you that for some people it won’t matter.

ebro the letter (Whiney G. Weingarten), Sunday, 27 January 2019 01:01 (five years ago) link

and it doesn't require every turdferguson of thought on ILM.

ebro the letter (Whiney G. Weingarten), Sunday, 27 January 2019 01:03 (five years ago) link

required posts only. got it.

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 01:05 (five years ago) link

i hear you, treeship. i don't know that a "neat separation" is necessarily possible in any situation, since our minds are always active and moving from one thing to the next, even while listening to "billie jean."

but i do think humans have an incredible ability to compartmentalize, in a way that is at once necessary, useful and, often, extremely disturbing.

for ex., it disturbs me greatly that i spent most of my life able to eat meat without thinking about the sufferings of nonhuman animals (who experience emotions much as we do). but what makes that disturbing is not only the act itself, but because by eating meat i helped, indirectly, to perpetuate suffering. i don't know that i've heard a concing argument that by not "cancelling" thriller etc., we are helping perpetuate child abuse in any sense, although i recognize that some do make arguments of that nature.

affects breves telnet (Gummy Gummy), Sunday, 27 January 2019 01:06 (five years ago) link

uh, not "concing".. convincing.

affects breves telnet (Gummy Gummy), Sunday, 27 January 2019 01:07 (five years ago) link

I find that the tendency to think of the scruples of an artist as being somehow transferable with their genius is the root cause of why an individual like MJ's behaviour was enabled. Being able to enjoy MJ's music while acknowledging that he's a child predator becomes an act of defiance, consuming the man's work while vilifying the man. The ultimate expression of this idea I guess would be if somebody were to learn the moonwalk so they could dance on his grave

flamboyant goon tie included, Sunday, 27 January 2019 01:53 (five years ago) link

People also ask
Is Captain EO still open?

Is Captain EO still at Disney World?

How much did Captain EO cost?

Can you rent out Disneyland?

velko, Sunday, 27 January 2019 02:09 (five years ago) link

I think the reason people wanted to not believe wasn’t because they didn’t take it seriously, but because they did. The crimes are too reprehensible to square with the idea of the person eho made such great music. Not an “excuse” for overlooking the crimes but an explanation.

― Trϵϵship, Saturday, January 26, 2019 3:46 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i don't think people wanted to *not* believe, i just think that casual knowledge of the situation would lead one to think that the real story was he was a super strange, childlike, damaged man, and his hanging out with kids all the time was deeply misunderstood as a result, and since nothing ever came of the allegations years ago, it could have all just been some kind of misunderstanding.

for a long time i've personally really only had extremely casual knowledge of the situation and allegations from long ago, and as a casual observer i thought it really was a thing where he was completely fucked up and creepy but maybe not exactly creepy in *that* way.

omar little, Sunday, 27 January 2019 02:39 (five years ago) link

In a vacuum, without specific reference to Michael Jackson, at this point, I would consider “hanging out with kids all the time” to be indicative of someone likely to abuse kids.

Norm’s Superego (silby), Sunday, 27 January 2019 02:49 (five years ago) link

yeah that’s a good summation. i was less willing to believe the basic reporting, because it seemed like such a gleeful takedown. the deeper investigative reporting I read left me with the impression that he had spent so long messing with reporters that the ultimate media field day about his pedophilia was largely of his own doing. but at the time it also felt like the initial accusers were kids coached by cash-grabbing parents.

it’s not that i didn’t think it was possible he was a legit predator, it was more that I hadn’t found what was being reported at the time to be convincing/credible. I admit part of me didn’t want it to be true, and i had some confirmation bias for sure.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 27 January 2019 03:02 (five years ago) link

and since nothing ever came of the allegations years ago

Nothing except Jackson’s representatives paying tens of millions to his accusers, and corroborated testimony of him regularly plying his prepubescent same-bed sleepover pals with alcohol, and Jackson throwing massive publicity stunts to try and avoid testifying, and...

sans lep (sic), Sunday, 27 January 2019 05:37 (five years ago) link

"nothing ever came of the allegations" doesn't mean, imo, there wasn't smoke there. but for me all that's not a punishment or justice, that's just making a problem go away. it went away enough that he was still a star, primed for a massive comeback concert before he died, and the jokes about his issues turned him into a clown, not so much a monster.

VG is right that the casual observer who didn't pay much attention would think a lot of things based on the tone of the whole thing at the time, and maybe not so much that he was guilty.

omar little, Sunday, 27 January 2019 05:56 (five years ago) link

the reporting on him in the 80’s-90’s seemed like endless variations on WACKO JACKO themes so if you were any kind of fan you were kinda skeptical of the media’s take on him anyway. Or at least I was.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 27 January 2019 06:11 (five years ago) link

ime reporting on someone due in court who suddenly has health issues that preclude travel, or a previously unheralded condition, or injury, that lead to them arriving at court hours or days or years past their scheduled dates, clad in hospital attire or carrying oxygen tanks, in front of cameras, never ends up with that person being a sweet blameless angel*

(not trying to scold anyone for concluding differently, or not seeing the same reporting - just saying there totally was plenty of evidence all along for ppl to conclude that he 100% was a predator)


* Veg - eg from Skase to Pell

sans lep (sic), Sunday, 27 January 2019 08:04 (five years ago) link

There were bits from the police reports (iirc the boy describing accurately a birthmark on the underside of his penis for example) which should have been enough to give anyone pause.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Sunday, 27 January 2019 09:24 (five years ago) link

i'm just sorry I skipped that Woody Allen double feature last night

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 27 January 2019 09:53 (five years ago) link

I've never been a fan of his music ('Wanna Be Startin' Something' excepted) so I can't be suspected of exonerating him for personal reasons, but for the longest time – in part due to lack of interest – I merely thought of him as a broken eccentric whose insuperable frame of reference was childhood trauma. And yes, this excused many things (short of pedophilia, of course), which in retrospect seems selective and naïve (how many 'common' criminals get a free pass on account of deterministic psychosocial factors?). I never cared enough to look into the details of his alleged misdeeds, however (I had no idea about the birthmark episode, for instance), which explains why reading articles about this documentary is the first time I've ever felt positive that he was, indeed, a child predator. I'm just throwing this out there to corroborate what VG and omar little are saying about casual observers.

pomenitul, Sunday, 27 January 2019 10:44 (five years ago) link

Should be mentioned also that public perception was influenced by the amount of money he spent on lawyers for this very purpose.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Sunday, 27 January 2019 10:57 (five years ago) link

The crimes are too reprehensible to square with the idea of the person eho made such great music.

The idea of the person was the idea of a weirdo though, are there defenders of him saying "he's who I want to be?"

There's a great article by Cintra Wilson about him, as someone who's been sent explicit fan mail since he was 8, and told this is what fame and success was - that he should never have been let near kids, but fame gets whatever fame wants.

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 27 January 2019 11:10 (five years ago) link

tergiversation of thought

my.... look at the size of Alfred's
*tips shades*
vocabulary

Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Sunday, 27 January 2019 14:41 (five years ago) link

yet a date canceled on me last night *kicks dirt*

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 27 January 2019 14:49 (five years ago) link

That’s a Henry James word if ever I saw one

gray say nah to me (wins), Sunday, 27 January 2019 14:49 (five years ago) link

My vocabulary's more Sidney James tbh.

Wee boats wobble but they don't fall down (Tom D.), Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:14 (five years ago) link

An amazing word thank you Professor Alfred

flamboyant goon tie included, Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:25 (five years ago) link

Agree with the thoughts thread about how a less-famous / less-talented person wouldn't have been given a pass on the behavior but. Isn't it a little more complicated here?

His actions were directly related to his fame, and in a lot of ways his predation was enabled by it. He would not have had the same access to kids if he were not MJ.

Ignoring what we know now, imagine two scenarios: "hey mom, Creepy Frank from Radio shack wants me to stay over at his trailer tomorrow night. He says he's gonna get KFC and let me play Atari." Vs. "Hey mom, this fabulously wealthy, globally famous superstar has asked me - ME! - over to his mansion for a sleepover party! He has a private amusement park and a collection of exotic animals."

His fame was bound up with his music, and his predation was bound up with his fame.

Gunther Gleiben (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:28 (five years ago) link

Alfred and George Will dropping that word w in 24hrs of each other is lol

Οὖτις, Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:50 (five years ago) link

and we both write well about baseball

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:56 (five years ago) link

it's nice to learn a new word, even in this dreary context.

aside from the "birthmark" thing (gross), among the many, uh, bread crumbs suggesting that everything in the allegations was true was the cache of pornography (including a great deal of ponography featuring young-looking men--that is, men looking like boys--cavorting around nude) that was discovered in his closets after his death and reported on a number of years ago. all of the accusers explained he "groomed" them with precisely this sort of thing. so for quite a while i'd say it'd have been more surprising if he /wasn't/ an abuser than the other way around.

is it wrong to be grateful he died before he did this to other kids?

affects breves telnet (Gummy Gummy), Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:56 (five years ago) link

course not

david waster phallus (darraghmac), Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:58 (five years ago) link

90% of hoity-toity words in English are only mildly formal in French, if at all.

pomenitul, Sunday, 27 January 2019 15:59 (five years ago) link

I was reading Nixonland on my kindle the other day, and I came across a couple of words I didn't know. So my wife tells me, you know, the kindle has a dictionary! Just highlight the word and press or whatever and it pops up. So I did that ... and the words were not in the dictionary.

Josh in Chicago, Sunday, 27 January 2019 16:01 (five years ago) link

I would use that word but i find it a bit flasht

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 27 January 2019 16:03 (five years ago) link

how a less-famous / less-talented person wouldn't have been given a pass on the behavior

Many of these perpetrators hold so much power over their victims in even tragically standard, non-celebrity cases. I think in the case of MJ and his ilk, huge amounts of wealth expanded that power to influence several people around the victim as well, maybe more so than usual. Parents, friends, caretakers, all either under his sway, paid off, pressured to look the other way. In the case of R. Kelly, what's been stressed is how much further out of whack he maintained/designed the power imbalance. Not only did he prey on one of the most traditionally overlooked demographics - poor black girls - he reportedly avoided outwardly pretty girls as well, so he was intentionally exploiting their self-esteem as well, even more than these predators often do. Truly monstrous.

Josh in Chicago, Sunday, 27 January 2019 16:10 (five years ago) link

"hey mom, Creepy Frank from Radio shack wants me to stay over at his trailer tomorrow night. He says he's gonna get KFC and let me play Atari." Vs. "Hey mom, this fabulously wealthy, globally famous superstar has asked me - ME! - over to his mansion for a sleepover party! He has a private amusement park and a collection of exotic animals."

True enough, but I am frequently surprised at how close some of these incidents are to the Creepy Frank scenario.

nickn, Sunday, 27 January 2019 18:49 (five years ago) link

His actions were directly related to his fame, and in a lot of ways his predation was enabled by it. He would not have had the same access to kids if he were not MJ.

as opposed to run of the mill priests, scout leaders, teachers, sports coaches, party clowns ....

sarahell, Sunday, 27 January 2019 18:53 (five years ago) link

we are embodied subjects. art of any kind is interesting to us because people made it. there isn't just "art" and "life" these things are co-implicated

― Trϵϵship, Saturday, January 26, 2019 4:47 PM (yesterday)

this is a good point. Dunno why ppl were giving you shit about it ... though, there are some people who are "outliers" who do separate these things, or they do for certain artists/works ... like in general, I think this is true, but I don't think it's true of everyone and everything, but MJ tends to be someone who it is true of moreso than like, jazz dudes or classical composers, and I wonder how much the connection is fandom that began in childhood/youth, connecting this to the post upthread who commented that this was a childish mode of thought

sarahell, Sunday, 27 January 2019 19:15 (five years ago) link

otm. i think that the fandom starting in early childhood is def a big part of my experience & why it took longer for me to accept

and sure, childhood fandoms fade & some ppl don’t hold onto shit for that long & can accept facts etc but that wasn’t me.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 27 January 2019 19:26 (five years ago) link


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