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As an ad, it doesn't give me a reason to buy Gillette products. As a PSA, I don't find it particularly informative or insightful and I agree with Mordy that it muddles together different issues that should not be muddled together. (And if your analysis IS that childhood bullying, boys fighting, catcalling, sexual assault, etc are all manifestations of a fundamental issue with patriarchy or 'toxic masculinity', then the solution should probably be something more systemic and large-scale than 'as individual men, we have to step up, be better men, and teach those around us". Why doesn't a large corporation advocate for some kind of systemic change, I wonder?)

Locked in silent monologue, in silent scream (Sund4r), Saturday, 19 January 2019 19:50 (five years ago) link

i think it was so they could go viral tbh

A-B-C. A-Always, B-Be, C-Chooglin (will), Saturday, 19 January 2019 19:51 (five years ago) link

no doubt

calumy (rip van wanko), Saturday, 19 January 2019 20:04 (five years ago) link

something went viral at home this week and i spent last night throwing up :(

Mordy, Saturday, 19 January 2019 20:07 (five years ago) link

As a PSA, I don't find it particularly informative or insightful


I mean have you seen one ever that like ~blows your mind~? Regardless of details (lol at this “well, actually...” about roughhousing) the message is mostly about being more aware of everyday stuff that’s actually pretty shitty. A lot of dudes don’t actively DO these things, but we see it and mostly ignore it. It’s helpful, even if a tiny bit.

circa1916, Saturday, 19 January 2019 20:18 (five years ago) link

Like it’s more enlightening than your standard “smoking is bad” or whatever the fuck else standard PSA thing is. As heavy handed as it is, the scene alone where dude condescends to the woman in a meeting is 100% happening all the time and most dudes aren’t even clocking it.

circa1916, Saturday, 19 January 2019 20:23 (five years ago) link

its good that ppl are being helped by this advert i spose

topical mlady (darraghmac), Saturday, 19 January 2019 21:19 (five years ago) link

Like it’s more enlightening than your standard “smoking is bad” or whatever the fuck else standard PSA thing

I'd probably go the other way bc I at least find anti-smoking PSA messages more coherent but I appreciate that you see it differently and get more out of this.

Locked in silent monologue, in silent scream (Sund4r), Saturday, 19 January 2019 21:43 (five years ago) link

This tune still pops in my head sometimes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7uaKCjjufs

Locked in silent monologue, in silent scream (Sund4r), Saturday, 19 January 2019 22:20 (five years ago) link

An ad that people are talking about = an ad that has done its job.

It's not about "selling more razors" per se, but about making sure that the next 20 times you think about shaving you think about Gillette. Mission accomplished.

Same goes for much of Coke/McDonald's /Microsoft advertising. Keep the brand top-of-mind and you don't need to work as hard on individual sales motions.

Gunther Gleiben (Ye Mad Puffin), Saturday, 19 January 2019 22:28 (five years ago) link

the most chud dude I know is so triggered by this ad, since he's a typical easy mark for whatever issues make people like him super-shook (AOC dancing, issues of sexual identity cf transgender politics and gay marriage or whatever, the "caravan", etc and on and on) and it's amazing to watch. it's not to say the right-wing doesn't have their shit which gets the left riled up a lot, but it's astonishing that a dumb ad has had this reaction. "oh no, i have to boycott them now" lol

omar little, Saturday, 19 January 2019 22:36 (five years ago) link

YMP, so basically it's exploiting feminist issues for the sake of subconscious manipulation in the service of profit? Can't imagine why that might rub someone the wrong way.

Locked in silent monologue, in silent scream (Sund4r), Saturday, 19 January 2019 23:27 (five years ago) link

hey theres no bad way to #nagallmen

topical mlady (darraghmac), Sunday, 20 January 2019 00:39 (five years ago) link

YMP, so basically it's exploiting feminist issues for the sake of subconscious manipulation in the service of profit? Can't imagine why that might rub someone the wrong way.


Advertising is dirty and garbage as a whole, yeah, but there are a billion worse ways to do it than through a positive PSA.

I’m not buying that most people super chuffed about this hate it because it’s ~co-opting a righteous movement, man~.

circa1916, Sunday, 20 January 2019 18:15 (five years ago) link

If you want to die, look at the YouTube comments.

circa1916, Sunday, 20 January 2019 18:16 (five years ago) link

Saturday Night Live last night had a weird parody of the Gillete commercial subbing in the Kool-Aid Man...Oh yeah.

Yerac, Sunday, 20 January 2019 18:19 (five years ago) link

Advertising is dirty and garbage as a whole, yeah, but there are a billion worse ways to do it than through a positive PSA.

I’m not buying that most people super chuffed about this hate it because it’s ~co-opting a righteous movement, man~.

I don't care that much about why some chud in the comments section is chuffed and didn't mean to claim that this is the reason. I guess I'm working out what I think; I'm less convinced of the message, or the form of it, than you are. If YMP is right, the point would be to troll more than to promote a positive message (although yeah, abuse and harassment are bad and if this gets people to stop doing those things, it's a good thing).

Locked in silent monologue, in silent scream (Sund4r), Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:27 (five years ago) link

wait what does 'chuffed' mean in american

kinder, Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:37 (five years ago) link

idk. i hate that word and also "chud."

Trϵϵship, Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:37 (five years ago) link

cos here it means someone is pleased with something

kinder, Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:38 (five years ago) link

Idk, I was just reusing circa's terms there. I never use either word tbh.

Locked in silent monologue, in silent scream (Sund4r), Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:44 (five years ago) link

I guess "chud" was omar's, actually.

Locked in silent monologue, in silent scream (Sund4r), Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:44 (five years ago) link

Apparently, 'chuffed' can mean both 'pleased' and its opposite, depending on the context.

pomenitul, Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:48 (five years ago) link

And it doesn't seem to be a UK/NA thing, although I'd wager Brits use it way more often than North Americans.

pomenitul, Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:48 (five years ago) link

love to chuff my chuds amirite guys

macropuente (map), Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:52 (five years ago) link

wait does chad = chud

calumy (rip van wanko), Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:54 (five years ago) link

'Chud' is a derogatory term for alt-righter. Most wish they were chads.

pomenitul, Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:55 (five years ago) link

"Chud" = derived from C.H.U.D., an acronym for Cannibalistic Humanoid Underground Dweller from the shitty 80s horror movie of the same name. In contemporary internet discourse, synonymous with "Neanderthal", "knuckle-walker", etc. - basically, a primitive/unevolved/subhuman creature.

grawlix (unperson), Sunday, 20 January 2019 22:58 (five years ago) link

Interestingly, it's never racialized - it always just means someone with shitty aggro right-wing beliefs.

grawlix (unperson), Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:00 (five years ago) link

you don’t have to be a right-winger to be a chud, but many are

mh, Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:07 (five years ago) link

I've only ever seen the term used on the left. But this is a recent development according to the prestigious Urban Dictionary.

pomenitul, Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:08 (five years ago) link

My earlier statement "all teenagers are chuds" was basically about the adolescent temperament - the stormy emotional landscape, generally poor impulse control, etc. - which crosses all political boundaries.

grawlix (unperson), Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:09 (five years ago) link

its actually a native american ritual iirc

topical mlady (darraghmac), Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:19 (five years ago) link

as far as i can tell "chud" exists solely to noun "maga"

The Elvis of Nationalism and Amoral Patriotism (rushomancy), Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:20 (five years ago) link

well anyway

omar little, Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:38 (five years ago) link

search function shows me “chud” was used in its common form, not referencing the movie itself, in 2004

mh, Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:42 (five years ago) link

like we’re not alone here, it was a term used among a bunch of internet and irl communities prior to trumpism. please don’t let trump ruin “chud”

mh, Sunday, 20 January 2019 23:43 (five years ago) link

Now that I think about it, The Simpsons is probably responsible for its return/rise - there was a throwaway gag about the sewers being full of CHUDs in the Simpsons-go-to-NYC episode (the one that never gets re-aired because it's got the World Trade Center in it).

grawlix (unperson), Monday, 21 January 2019 00:13 (five years ago) link

xp he is not ruining it he is revealing its essence

j., Monday, 21 January 2019 00:15 (five years ago) link

chud/chad/choad
none of them are good

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 21 January 2019 00:17 (five years ago) link

I use choad a lot these last several years. It really perfectly embraces a lot of men in the US.

Yerac, Monday, 21 January 2019 00:37 (five years ago) link

by "none of them are good" i meant the people referred to as chud/chad/choad are not good; the words themselves are fine!!

the word CHOAD itself brings me great satisfaction to use tbh

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 21 January 2019 00:40 (five years ago) link

Proto-Estonians are having their good name dragged through the mud: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chud

jmm, Monday, 21 January 2019 00:40 (five years ago) link

It's such a weird cognitive dissonance to see a choad make a derogatory comment about how a women looks. I will go off. Like, are there no mirrors in your basement? How dare you.

Yerac, Monday, 21 January 2019 00:41 (five years ago) link

what if the choad comments on how tedious the woman's opinions are

(ADVANCE) (320k vbr) (--V2) (aps) (diVX) (2CD) OST - SB (2019) (esby), Monday, 21 January 2019 00:53 (five years ago) link

same.

Yerac, Monday, 21 January 2019 00:58 (five years ago) link

consistent!

i dunno i just think it's super sw8 how every thread on ile sinks into the 'trump brexit chud men are stupid'x1000000 posts format after a while, great convos

(ADVANCE) (320k vbr) (--V2) (aps) (diVX) (2CD) OST - SB (2019) (esby), Monday, 21 January 2019 01:05 (five years ago) link

And yet here you are.

don't let's be beastly to the gammons (ultros ultros-ghali), Monday, 21 January 2019 01:08 (five years ago) link

offering a male point of view that is worthwhile. i am a man. i am strong.

(ADVANCE) (320k vbr) (--V2) (aps) (diVX) (2CD) OST - SB (2019) (esby), Monday, 21 January 2019 01:09 (five years ago) link

such will.

Yerac, Monday, 21 January 2019 01:13 (five years ago) link


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