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Lol

That is definitely a controp

I by no means even get a half chub by looking at dicks

I’ve heard some dudes say they can get a hard on even if a guy is sucking them off and they consider themselves not gay

Well more power to them but that is not the case with me

Whoops, I meant queer as a term to capture all non-straight people.

Oh okay

But thanks for your personal insight into looking at dicks.

there is also a subset of people who do not have sex unless an emotional connection is forged over time - that totally makes sense to me, there is a term but i forget it atm

demisexual

Xp

For science

Boys measure their dicks and compete to see whose is bigger, not like i looked at them now for this convo btw

there is also a subset of people who do not have sex unless an emotional connection is forged over time - that totally makes sense to me, there is a term but i forget it atm

I by no means even get a half chub by looking at dicks

me neither! what a ridiculous piece of flessshhhh, as Robin Williams once said. I like what they're attached to, and at that point they're fun to do stuff with.

gay p0rn w/ endless closeups of dicks is even more boring than soccer

Gay male porn is a thousand times better than straight porn.

I’m into women only and I don’t really watch straight porn, i guess a lot has to do with never finding one i like

some people shouldn't be giving dating advice

asexuality is very real and otm does not get recognition (or is lumped in w incel). one of the downsides of the sex positive movement is the ignoring of this subset.

― Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, July 31, 2018 5:16 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I have a married friend who fears he may be asexual and he brought it up while we were out one night. it was clear others at the table didn't have much experience or knowledge regarding the subject (which tbf, I don't either) as they tried to reassure him that he was probably experiencing a temporary weakened libido, rather than trying to understand why he felt that he was asexual. so he changed subjects when he realized nobody at the table understood what he was saying.

some people shouldn't be giving dating advice

― mookieproof, Wednesday, 1 August 2018 05:30 (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

always up to the advice seeker to run through the advisor's available cv and judge imo

i've thought about hanging out with "ace" folks from time to time but i don't feel much of a drive to join a group where the only commonality is a shared personal disinterest in a certain activity.

On another topic, for any crime greater than simple assault and less than public mass murder, the US justice system gets the wrong result far more often than it gets the right one. This is true for everything from apprehending and convicting the correct perpetrator to proper sentencing.

Do you have objective evidence for that or is it just *waves hand in direction of prison system*

well a great deal of those cases are resolved via plea bargain resulting in a lesser sentence

This ain't the "defend your thesis" thread, it's the "controversial opinions" thread.

The US justice system was built for white men only. We all know this.

Probably most people who are charged with crimes they did ought not be convicted of them, both by the letter of the law and as a matter of justice.

Re: asexuality/queerness, people need to get over the idea that penetrative sex is the only type of intimacy that matters.

otm.

Ya but asexuality is one thing most people care the least about unless a sexually incompatible couple have to deal with their partner’s asexuality

Western civilization was built by white men for white men, and its attendant systems of 'justice' are simply a means of alleviating the need for constant force in maintaining those parameters.</trenchant>

(By complete coincidence, 'The Funky Western Civilization' just popped up on my iPod while I was typing. Resonant.)

at the same time its not had a bad run of success in a crul world up until idk liberal arts degrees became popular n'est pas

Peeing pants is ok sometimes

yerac otm

Neanderthal otm if a bit conservative

Never letting u sit on my couch

Exceedingly sound policy, that.

my buddy said pissing ones pants at music festivals was the american dream. kinda felt weird hearing that

I mean not an on purpose thing but my bladder failed me in Times Square once

well it feels weirder knowing we'll never get a pension of pay off our houses so deal with it xp

I don't care who anyone else is fucking. Or not fucking.

There was one year where every time I sneezed I kind of peed a little. I thought I hit menopause way early or something.

I have questions better left unposted

gesundheit

'Beyond a reasonable doubt' is weird.

it is, but what could replace it that would be less weird and say what is required to convict? Doubts can be manufactured out of spider silk and a puff of smoke, but they are on such an attenuated basis that they are not reasonable. You could say "plausible", but that word is too abstruse for most jurors to understand and would not really add any value not contained in "reasonable".

You think that's weird? Try Not Proven.

arthur brown's kingdom come were a way better space rock band than hawkwind

Lots of asexuals, really. It's a not uncommon long-term side effect of antidepressants, even after discontinuation. Fortunately for the pharma co's, we'll never get out of our murk to start a class action.

Yeah, I kind of consider myself asexual. Lots of that is antidepressants for 15yrs, but even before that I was never really a sexual person. It's not something I'd describe myself as, but if pushed, I guess.

Most people have nothing to say. They beak off about random bullshit but it ends up as nothing. If you’re saying something to effect change for a group that needs it, good for you. But most people I’ve heard spit up vile banalities and wait for friends to go “ok”. We are out of touch in the western world, even a 30 K salary a year trumps the wages of someone in the east. Yet we bitch endlessly about how our peanut butter farfait wasn’t big enough or there was two few croutons in our kale salad from whole foods for 20
Bucks. We’re lost. Insert witty Ilx comeback here
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No wonder so many of you hate yourself going to sleep at
Night - you hate yourself
But your wealth shows you got
No reason to

adam bruneau lives on in our hearts (and posts)

Ah fuck that was an embarrassment post. Swear my assholery is done. Live n learn

oh man is Adam gone??