POLL: the daddest song on the Now That's What I Call Dad Rock! compilation

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It's hard for me to not vote for "Sweet Home Alabama" no matter what the poll.

turn it up!

nicky lo-fi, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 12:50 (five years ago) link

My dad likes old folk music records. the Limelighters, the Weavers, etc. Everything on here would be a bit too much for him.

As a dad myself, I voted for Avril Lavigne. Probably the best thing on here other than Stooges and Motorhead, but I don't know what any of it is doing here.

I went to my daughter's friend's birthday party a few weeks ago and after the Moana soundtrack was done the dad-in-charge just played 3 straight hours of Dave Matthews Band, which no other dad there seemed to mind.

how's life, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 12:52 (five years ago) link

To those in the overnight crew taking the fun out of this thread —

“I’m very disappointed in you, son”

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 13:34 (five years ago) link

I am a dad. There are 23 songs on the list I would listen to all the way through on purpose. There are I think 15 that would make me change the channel. There are I think 11 I have literally never heard of.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 13:48 (five years ago) link

To those in the overnight crew taking the fun out of this thread —

to be fair taking the fun out of things is classic dad

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 13:53 (five years ago) link

Puns are classic dad. Taking the puns out is classic bad.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 13:58 (five years ago) link

Havent completed reading commentary but there are some weird momrock interpositions in here that dads would only allow to be played to keep mom happy or maybe get with mom.

Hunt3r, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:04 (five years ago) link

Of course in 1988 "dads" to me meant "my dad, and the dads of my peers." Thirty years later, it's silly for "dads" to still mean "my dad, and the dads of my age-peers." The guys who might plausibly have avoided the brown acid at Woodstock are granddads and their rock is only "dad rock" if you're in Generation Dad yourself.

I had a friend (and fellow dad) who recently made the assertion that indie-rock in 2018 is dad rock, and he's not too far off.

I'd love to see a US version of this comp (wilco, jack white related stuff, walkmen, vampire weekend). Ahhh, just the thought of it makes me want to put a record on my vintage turntable, slip off my casual brown loafers, kick back on the couch with a locally-sourced microbrew, and lecture the kids about how great the pixies used to be.

enochroot, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:06 (five years ago) link

Havent completed reading commentary but there are some weird momrock interpositions in here that dads would only allow to be played to keep mom happy or maybe get with mom.

― Hunt3r, Wednesday, July 11, 2018 10:04 AM (eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

at least with stacy's mom

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:13 (five years ago) link

maybe it's just me but a song about being a kid and lusting over someone's mom is immune to ever being dad rock just by nature

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:13 (five years ago) link

to be fair, she's got it going on.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:16 (five years ago) link

^Dad joke.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:17 (five years ago) link

The question implied by some of this discussion is does all music automatically becomes dad rock with the passage of time. I don't think that's true.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:18 (five years ago) link

The papas of peak dadrock liked sentimental swing for slow dancing and country ballads. Skrillex will be dadEDM of the 2028.

Mungolian Jerryset (bendy), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:27 (five years ago) link

i'm a dad, my recently played on spotify is
Genesis - Duke
Drake - Scorpion
Lungish - The Unanimous Hour
Ace - How Long (song radio)
Rap Caviar playlist
Gold School
John Coltrane - Both Directions at Once
Black Flag - My War

so anyway that's what dad rock is, please feel free to ask any questions.

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:28 (five years ago) link

Skrillex will be dadEDM of the 2028.

It may be already here. No bullshit, my 73-year old father is a big fan of "deep house" (his words) and exclusively listens to The Pulse, one of the electronic channels on Sirius XM satellite radio. He even has a favorite DJ, Armin van Buuren. In the 80s I remember him playing the proto techno stations on long car rides. I couldn't stand it but it was all he listened to.

kornrulez6969, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:35 (five years ago) link

may be a father but sure ain't a dad

Mungolian Jerryset (bendy), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:37 (five years ago) link

has anyone brought up this whole concept as kinda racist? or at least very exclusionary

desus and mero were talking about outkast "the way you move" as "uncle music" so maybe that's what dad rap is

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:43 (five years ago) link

There is maybe something inherently “dad–ish” about techno — solitary dudes making functional music.

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:44 (five years ago) link

also, at least here in the midwest, I would say that at least like in the suburbs my sis and bro in law live in, dad rock is actually big country stuff like kenny chesney, luke bryan, garth brooks, miranda lambert, faith hill/tim mcgraw etc etc

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:46 (five years ago) link

ums what did u think my “white dads” post was referring to xp

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:50 (five years ago) link

That ain’t rock, dude! (xp)

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:50 (five years ago) link

Current country radio sounds more like 80s rock radio than it does 80s country radio

President Keyes, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:54 (five years ago) link

ums what did u think my “white dads” post was referring to xp

― Οὖτις, Wednesday, July 11, 2018 9:50 AM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

didn't see it!

That ain’t rock, dude! (xp)

― i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, July 11, 2018 9:50 AM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

the difference between a lot of modern country and mid-80s heartland "dad rock" is like...hatwear basically....plus i know tons of dudes that went straight from 80s hard rock to loving country (word to xhuxk e.)

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:56 (five years ago) link

actually tho seems like new guys are even just wearing baseball hats like springsteen not even cowboy hats!

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 14:56 (five years ago) link

well yeah it's very apparent that country radio exists to present a version of pop radio with no rap influence

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:00 (five years ago) link

there's pretty big rap influence on a lot of country songs--rap from like 1987.

President Keyes, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:03 (five years ago) link

For the people I grew up with, those who didn't really explore music (or much culture at all, really) beyond their early 20s, dad rock would be Weller, Oasis, Ocean Colour Scene etc. It's a moveable feast, isn't it?

The shard-borne beetle with his drowsy hums (Chinaski), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:06 (five years ago) link

A moveable feast of meat and potatoes.

The shard-borne beetle with his drowsy hums (Chinaski), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:07 (five years ago) link

For the people I grew up with, those who didn't really explore music (or much culture at all, really) beyond their early 20s, dad rock would be Weller, Oasis, Ocean Colour Scene etc. It's a moveable feast, isn't it?

― The shard-borne beetle with his drowsy hums (Chinaski), Wednesday, July 11, 2018 10:06 AM (seven minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I think this is what really defines "dad rock": the (probably) popular music of the last section of your life before you had family responsibilities and the music is essentially enshrine in amber as the pinnacle of music ever and all other music is total garbage because it doesn't instantly transport you to a time when you could have a cig and a beer in the shower.

In this case the correct answer to this poll is of course, "Two Princes"

chr1sb3singer, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:18 (five years ago) link

^^^ I think of it as part this, and part "Here's a newish band that I've heard on the radio and will pay for expensive tickets for a night out: i.e. Coldplay.

Get aboard the flappy bird, departing gate 19 (Dan Peterson), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:23 (five years ago) link

Or, "whoo hoo, let's go out and wear a silly hat and have too many beers" music: Jimmy Buffett.

Get aboard the flappy bird, departing gate 19 (Dan Peterson), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:25 (five years ago) link

Cant decide if buffet is dadrock or pathetic old bachelor/divorcedold rock. There’s an added level woo/sadparty/desperate need in that library. Im not even sure it’s in the music as much as the fanbase

Hunt3r, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:28 (five years ago) link

currently listening to Thin Lizzy and wondering why they aren't on here (probably the grandad-rock factor)

Colonel Poo, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:31 (five years ago) link

Currently going over electrical stuff at work, and the 60ish project foreman noticed a bike in the office and made a quick quip about Disraeli Gears and glanced at me to see if I got it.

Mungolian Jerryset (bendy), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:36 (five years ago) link

Cant decide if buffet is dadrock or pathetic old bachelor/divorcedold rock.

is there a difference

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:43 (five years ago) link

Genesis - Duke

hell yeah, dadprog

princess of hell (BradNelson), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 15:54 (five years ago) link

is there a difference

not taking the bait (that's the difference)

Hunt3r, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 16:00 (five years ago) link

man! I'm a fairly new dad, presently sitting in the home of my own father for a family visit to Louisville KY for a week. And I cannot tell you how grateful I am that he, a 79 year old man, only listens to show tunes and John Philip Sousa and has very little to do with any popular culture whatsoever. makes enjoying every variety of music other than what he likes super easy, unconflicted etc etc…

veronica moser, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 16:10 (five years ago) link

There's this whole subset of I assume younger people rock that to me epitomizes dad rock. Like The Head and the Heart, Lumineers, The Revivalists, Mumford & Sons et al., these random bands I hear sometimes with names like the Record Company. Or, you know, the Black Keys, shit like that. Basically music for people so far removed from peak hipness that they just don't realize it's the least hip music in the world. Middle of the Dial.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 18:50 (five years ago) link

Wilco would be in there, but I think like Pearl Jam they just pull in so many different types of (white) fans, from dads to white cap bros to jam band fans to hipsters to weirdos ("Woo, Nels Cline, yeah!") to NPR listeners.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 18:53 (five years ago) link

War on Drugs

President Keyes, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 18:58 (five years ago) link

xp
I think Paul Rudd's character in This Is 40, and the boutique-y record label he runs, exemplifies what you're talking about. Or maybe even Apatow soundtracking in general.

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 19:00 (five years ago) link

Aging Gen X guy into rootsy realness, earnest ballads, etc.

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 19:01 (five years ago) link

My dad saw Charles Mingus' group (the lineup with Eric Dolphy) two nights running at the Five Spot in late 1963. He generally didn't/doesn't listen to "rock," and would likely find much on that list underwhelming.

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 19:03 (five years ago) link

(xp) Paul Rust (a young guy) jamming on McCartney's "Jet" with the guy from Eels, in a house party scene from the Apatow-produced series Love, is very dad-rock.

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 19:04 (five years ago) link

(Just realized Paul Rudd & Paul Rust are only two letters apart, and it's making me question both names)

i’m still stanning (morrisp), Wednesday, 11 July 2018 19:05 (five years ago) link

"Start Me Up" was made by actual 40ish dads and a big hit showing dads still got it. Does that make it daddest, or is recalling the songs of wild youth more dad?

This was my approximate reasoning in voting for it. The guitar riff and lyric both sound like an actual middle-aged dad trying to get going in the morning, or in the bedroom, whichever.

Eh, the line "you make a dead man come" is not very dad rock. (But maybe "You make a dad man ... ").

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 19:44 (five years ago) link

I preferred dadrock when it was a way to take the piss out of bad music rather then a way to take the piss out of middle aged men enjoying stuff.

29 facepalms, Wednesday, 11 July 2018 19:52 (five years ago) link


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