Words, usages, and phrases that annoy the shit out of you...

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"trash" in almost all contexts now

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 March 2018 05:19 (six years ago) link

p sure sapiosexual is latin for "superior person"

Fedora Dostoyevsky (man alive), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:23 (six years ago) link

lol

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:24 (six years ago) link

I think the intended meaning is "I want to actually talk to people and connect and not just have sex" but half the people using it mean "I don't think people find me physically attractive, but I am deluded and think I have a sparkling intellect"

mh, Friday, 9 March 2018 21:27 (six years ago) link

I think the intended meaning is "I want to have sex with your brain and vocabulary."

omar little, Friday, 9 March 2018 21:30 (six years ago) link

I think that whatever the intended meaning, it's mostly a load of bullshit.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:34 (six years ago) link

I hate when films are advertised with:

"FROM THE GUYS WHO BROUGHT YOU..."

omar little, Friday, 9 March 2018 21:34 (six years ago) link

x-post Not to offend the saps out there, mind. I don't think that's a thing but it is now.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:35 (six years ago) link

it seems kind of like the "nerd" (in the post tech boom era sense) of the dating world

Fedora Dostoyevsky (man alive), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:35 (six years ago) link

the actual meaning is "I think girls are vapid"

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:36 (six years ago) link

Also "mic drop" when it's used in a news story regarding some zing that owned someone til they died. Like I guess according to the Yahoo, Hillary just did a mic drop tweet on Trump that ended his life.

omar little, Friday, 9 March 2018 21:36 (six years ago) link

like gtfo, incredibly objectively physically attractive but non-brilliant person comes onto you and you say "sorry I'm a sapiosexual so I'm not attracted to you"?

Fedora Dostoyevsky (man alive), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:36 (six years ago) link

"you wanna buy me a drink? First finish this NY Times Friday Crossword"

Fedora Dostoyevsky (man alive), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:37 (six years ago) link

always thought sapiosexual sounded like you really wanna get out there in the spring and "tap" some maple trees yknow

flippy bard (Will M.), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:38 (six years ago) link

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:39 (six years ago) link

wait lol "your"

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:39 (six years ago) link

taking bets on whether his maximum age is 29

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 9 March 2018 21:53 (six years ago) link

Apparently he thinks it means 'desperate to have sex with anyone posessing a vagina and a dictionary'

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Saturday, 10 March 2018 00:37 (six years ago) link

The use of sapiosexual to describe oneself, is not in any way limited to the makes of the species. I basically take it to mean this person is going to make a big show of demonstrating how clever they think they are. In other words, steer clear.

This probably belongs more in the IE thread, but conversations that revolve around someone showing off their knowledge of this or that subject make me feel deeply uncomfortable.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Saturday, 10 March 2018 02:15 (six years ago) link

*males of the species

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Saturday, 10 March 2018 02:15 (six years ago) link

counterpoint: girls who self-describe as such also think (other) girls are vapid

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Saturday, 10 March 2018 03:44 (six years ago) link

there are a handful of dating profiles I've run across where that's not the case and it's just a woman who is trying to communicate that she's tired of dudes dating her until they have sex and then ghosting :/

mh, Saturday, 10 March 2018 18:01 (six years ago) link

patrick swayze really oversold the tactic theres no doubt

the clodding of the american mind (darraghmac), Saturday, 10 March 2018 18:28 (six years ago) link

I hate when films are advertised with:

"FROM THE GUYS WHO BROUGHT YOU..."

Especially since the 'guys' are usually the producers, not the creatives.

Hideous Lump, Saturday, 10 March 2018 22:33 (six years ago) link

Wow perfect time bc “creatives” is my #1 most hated phrase of the last ~3 years

flappy bird, Saturday, 10 March 2018 23:08 (six years ago) link

“Creatives” is the tech synonym for “artists” that no one asked for

flappy bird, Saturday, 10 March 2018 23:09 (six years ago) link

I think the "guys" part just feels like they don't want to be betas and say "producers" or "filmmakers" or "from the director of" or w/e.

omar little, Saturday, 10 March 2018 23:22 (six years ago) link

'score the basketball'

mookieproof, Sunday, 11 March 2018 01:10 (six years ago) link

at the end of the day, you have to score the basketball or take the L

Dan I., Monday, 12 March 2018 21:53 (six years ago) link

hubby

Louis Jägermeister (jim in vancouver), Monday, 12 March 2018 21:55 (six years ago) link

^ my #1 most hated

Dan I., Monday, 12 March 2018 21:56 (six years ago) link

not worse than "the wife" though

Rhine Jive Click Bait (Hadrian VIII), Monday, 12 March 2018 21:59 (six years ago) link

"it's a brave new world"

thots and players (rip van wanko), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 00:06 (six years ago) link

thank god the wife never says hubby

the clodding of the american mind (darraghmac), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 00:19 (six years ago) link

Wow, I never realized how many people use good faith and bad faith until this board. But yeah those are both super annoying.

Yerac, Tuesday, 13 March 2018 11:32 (six years ago) link

I don't think I've used either until the past year but they're both better than "concern trolling" which irritates me to no end

mh, Tuesday, 13 March 2018 13:42 (six years ago) link

I don't think I've used either until the past year but they're both better than "concern trolling" which irritates me to no end


What about just “disingenuous”

There’s already a word for it

flappy bird, Tuesday, 13 March 2018 15:32 (six years ago) link

"concern trolling" only irritates me when it's used outside its actual meaning (which is all the time)

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 15:33 (six years ago) link

goddam that Sartre dude and his jargon

Finnegans woke (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 15:34 (six years ago) link

I'm old and think half the problem is people who enjoy provoking reactions but have no actual stance or investment in anything they're saying

mh, Tuesday, 13 March 2018 15:40 (six years ago) link

guilty

valorous wokelord (silby), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 15:48 (six years ago) link

i think most people who enjoy provoking reactions have no investment, hence the enjoyment

in fact you could say that such people acted in bad faith

Finnegans woke (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 15:50 (six years ago) link

hubby

― Louis Jägermeister (jim in vancouver), Monday, March 12, 2018 2:55 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I'm prescient (apologies for daily mail link)

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article.../Radio-4-listeners-reveal-phrases-STAND.html

Louis Jägermeister (jim in vancouver), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 16:32 (six years ago) link

i think most people who enjoy provoking reactions have no investment, hence the enjoyment

in fact you could say that such people acted in bad faith

― Finnegans woke (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, March 13, 2018 11:50 AM (forty-two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

in another word, disingenuous

flappy bird, Tuesday, 13 March 2018 16:34 (six years ago) link

I'm old and think half the problem is people who enjoy provoking reactions but have no actual stance or investment in anything they're saying

― mh, Tuesday, 13 March 2018 15:40 (fifty-four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i dont think you actually believe that tbh

the clodding of the american mind (darraghmac), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 16:36 (six years ago) link

"There's already a word for it" makes it seem like you think the very common and old phrase "bad faith" is some sort of faddish neologism?

scotti pruitti (wins), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 16:37 (six years ago) link

it's certainly spiked in use recently

flappy bird, Tuesday, 13 March 2018 16:38 (six years ago) link

Ah so if more people had started saying the word disingenuous recently would you be complaining and telling them to use the perfectly good synonym "bad faith" the

scotti pruitti (wins), Tuesday, 13 March 2018 16:40 (six years ago) link


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