Why do people leave ILX for good?

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i thought TWU was playing that for laughs nowadays tbh

smashong pumpgong (Noodle Vague), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:07 (six years ago) link

Can't thank y'all enough that all this old days style excitement kicked off the day the wife left the country for a week

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:07 (six years ago) link

omar and dayo otm

mh, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:07 (six years ago) link

"Hold on, there's more than one secret/invitation only board?

― Video reach stereo bog (Tom D.), Monday, February 26, 2018 2:05 PM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

AFAIK no there isn't. There are, however, other boards that ILX posters have started and brought posters with them but they're not hosted by ILX or hidden here.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:08 (six years ago) link

dayo i just rescreened that Johnnie To movie you sent me, it holds up.

― omar little, Monday, February 26, 2018 2:07 PM (forty-five seconds ago) Bookmark

sparrow? man did i send this to you or just make the rec? either way glad you liked it!

, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:09 (six years ago) link

Sez u xp

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:09 (six years ago) link

I have one at \ilx.xls but nobody else posts to it :(

Evan, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:10 (six years ago) link

like youtubers sending their armies on a raid

bald butte (∞), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:10 (six years ago) link

Can't thank y'all enough that all this old days style excitement kicked off the day the wife left the country for a week

― Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, February 26, 2018 7:07 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Shees mr. you could've given us a couple of days notice at least that it'll be deems week this week.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:10 (six years ago) link

Possibly 2 posters given I haven't seen someone else post since that incident but could just be coincidence xps

Colonel Poo, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:11 (six years ago) link

yeah Sparrow! you emailed me a download. i should show it to my w1fe, might be a good HK gateway drug, then she'll be into Bunman and Red to Kill before i know it.

omar little, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:11 (six years ago) link

party at dmacs lads

bald butte (∞), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:12 (six years ago) link

dyng at "w1fe" for some reason

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:12 (six years ago) link

hahahah same

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:13 (six years ago) link

the old Aim CHATZ run by roxy were fun

Algerian Goalkeeper (Odysseus), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:14 (six years ago) link

google w1fe and find omar little

, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:14 (six years ago) link

tbh I am amazed anyone from ilx interacts with me on twitter. I realized after doing some cleanup that apparently I only respond to people on there in a really haphazard way, or after a few drinks

sorry to everyone who's still here who got weird misspelled or incoherent messages on that site. I'm going to do better. not on ilx, though.

mh, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:15 (six years ago) link

I'm going to do better. not on ilx, though

― mh, Monday, February 26, 2018 11:15 AM (twenty-three seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

new board description

bald butte (∞), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:16 (six years ago) link

is brad really gone xp? i may be done with ILM if brad is done

yeah brad bounced iirc after being treated very shabbily by a regular

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:17 (six years ago) link

tbph i don't think brad left bc of that interaction. i mean maybe he did but it would be weird if a drive-by by a known troll and provocateur on one thread drove him off the rest of the site. maybe he's using it as an excuse to take a break in which case more power to him.

Mordy, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:19 (six years ago) link

Paranoid I typed "wife" now

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:20 (six years ago) link

join me on the dark web, where we say "p4rtner"

i remember the corned beef of my childhood (Karl Malone), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:23 (six years ago) link

actually if you google "ilxor" and "w1fe" you do find me, i fucked up

omar little, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:23 (six years ago) link

1LX 5P0U5E

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:25 (six years ago) link

i think for me, after 16+ years of reading and posting, i have really internalized a lot of the ILM / ILE discourse, to the point where i can generally predict what type of replies i will get if i post a thing or say a thing. so i'm content to sit back and not post, or maybe just to let other post it for me. because the other side of it is that a lot of what i have to say isn't that original anyway and not very interesting to many people. this is especially true on ILM. i like what i like and i have certain attitudes about music that i thnk are familiar to me and not that productive to endlessly rehash.

the late great, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:26 (six years ago) link

familiar to ILM i mean, not familiar to me

the late great, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:27 (six years ago) link

I feel that way sometimes, other times I hear some music that I should have known about and find out no one's ever mentioned it on ilm outside of voting for it in a year end poll!

mh, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:30 (six years ago) link

What I like most about ILX is that it’s basically a better version of mid-90s Usenet, somewhat anonymous, pretty consistent group of intelligent/eloquent regulars with good discussions, no upvotes or other shit that makes discussions into popularity contests, no avatars, no emojis, no bots, but also no gigantic unmoderated flamewars. Most of the internet is an unadulterated shitstorm in terms of discussions, especially Twitter. I’m not going to maintain a second anonymous Facebook identity for online discussions, too much work.

I read daily, post occasionally. I’ve been here since 2001, probably will never leave, still don’t feel like I’m truly part of it all as a non-Anglospheric dude.

I don’t want to play the role of tonedeaf overearnest Scandinavian/Dutch/Swiss/German curiosity but I guess I am that guy once in a while.

Siegbran, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:33 (six years ago) link

What I like most about ILX is that it’s basically a better version of mid-90s Usenet

It was a direct descendant of 90s alt.music.alternative in a way.

No purposes. Sounds. (Sund4r), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:35 (six years ago) link

I don’t want to play the role of tonedeaf overearnest Scandinavian/Dutch/Swiss/German curiosity but I guess I am that guy once in a while.

― Siegbran, Monday, February 26, 2018 7:33 PM (six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

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Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:40 (six years ago) link

Geir said last year in the ilx now playing group that he was thinking of delurking on ilx to post again.

I still remember when he turned up after being an ilx bogeyman initially and tom had to post verifying it was really him when he did arrive

Algerian Goalkeeper (Odysseus), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:41 (six years ago) link

I like the low amount of beef on ILX these days bcz I don't have time to keep up with it. *

Strongly miss the volume of female posters generally, and specific voices like JBR/JBL and Jenny and c# who've exodused in recent years; especially JBL as it was openly due to toxicity rather than busy life changes. It's :-/ that the more congenial atmosphere these days is largely being enjoyed by middle-aged white str8 dudes.

deems: one had to stop browsing at work and switch to zing, found it harder, "now I'm over a year behind and can't catch up"; the other claimed to still post, but I haven't seen them do so for years. (tbh I see 2-6 ex-posters a week IRL who still read threads to some degree)

Haribo Hancock (sic), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:43 (six years ago) link

“w1fe” is my new favorite thing

direct to consumer online mattress brand (silby), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:44 (six years ago) link

* wrote this on zing and it wouldn't post and by the time I got to keyboard, where I was up to was lost in the fold. one thing doesn't change: ilx loves talking about itself.

Haribo Hancock (sic), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:45 (six years ago) link

imo the best approach instead of catching up is removing all bookmarks and starting fresh

mh, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:46 (six years ago) link

If there were, say, a French equivalent to ILX (please point me in the right direction if you're aware of one, thx), I'd probably feel less inclined to spend time here. The Anglocentrism (in the broad sense) is kind of stifling sometimes, down to the overemphasis on ID politics.

pomenitul, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:47 (six years ago) link

ilx declined when I stopped lurking and started posting regularly

correlation is not causation :-)

the other claimed to still post, but I haven't seen them do so for years

verifiable through a Search on 'username' + 'posts' + 'most recent first'

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:48 (six years ago) link

Strongly miss the volume of female posters generally

yep. if there's anything "wrong" with ILX, it's this.

i remember the corned beef of my childhood (Karl Malone), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:48 (six years ago) link

overemphasis on ID politics lol

brimstead, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:49 (six years ago) link

Geir said last year in the ilx now playing group that he was thinking of delurking on ilx to post again.

I still remember when he turned up after being an ilx bogeyman initially and tom had to post verifying it was really him when he did arrive

― Algerian Goalkeeper (Odysseus), Monday, February 26, 2018 2:41 PM (six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

omg, Geir? I'm happy to hear he's still out there loving music.

how's life, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:49 (six years ago) link

sorry carry on

brimstead, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:49 (six years ago) link

roxy hasn't posted for a long time, she is missed.

omar little, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:50 (six years ago) link

overemphasis on ID politics lol

This is exactly what I'm talking about. For structural reasons, it's probably not as apparent if you live in the US/UK/Anglo Canada, etc.

pomenitul, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:50 (six years ago) link

surprised how many people here seem to know each other IRL. I spent a few hours with a fellow ILXor and it was a seriously surreal experience. especially since most of the conversation was about how the stars consistently kept aligning to integrate Ned Raggett into this guy's life

frogbs, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:51 (six years ago) link

I found Geir active again on RYM recently and very nearly added him as a friend

imago, Monday, 26 February 2018 19:52 (six years ago) link

geir still loves the same music he always did

you can join the group https://www.facebook.com/groups/ilxorsnowplaying/

Algerian Goalkeeper (Odysseus), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:53 (six years ago) link

personally I cannot imagine why there aren't more female posters

algorithm is a dancer (katherine), Monday, 26 February 2018 19:56 (six years ago) link

imo the best approach instead of catching up is removing all bookmarks and starting fresh

I believe it was more a general vibe than that the poster used bookmarks at all

verifiable through a Search on 'username' + 'posts' + 'most recent first'

I'm well aware, but search is not available on zing

Haribo Hancock (sic), Monday, 26 February 2018 20:01 (six years ago) link

why do people leave ILX for God?

piper at the gates of d'awwww (voodoo chili), Monday, 26 February 2018 20:03 (six years ago) link

(I had checked by the time I posted, and the last post for one username was March 2014, with the previous username stopping in November 2005, but I dunno if they had another more recently)

Haribo Hancock (sic), Monday, 26 February 2018 20:04 (six years ago) link


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