Why do people leave ILX for good?

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ILX provides an agora for the agoraphobic.

oh, for sure. i've come around to that. it's amazing to be able to bump a relatively minor topic (like the raspberry pi thread) with a handful of weird questions about a project, and then get really thoughtful advice soon afterward from people that i know, and that i know will still be there in a few weeks and might be interested in how the project is coming along.

i remember the corned beef of my childhood (Karl Malone), Monday, 26 February 2018 17:45 (six years ago) link

My first OP was an inadvertent duplicate thread for Mad Men season 4 which enraged lag8n and he image bombed my thread, so a mod locked his thread in response

Now we’re best buds

direct to consumer online mattress brand (silby), Monday, 26 February 2018 17:46 (six years ago) link

man i wish jbr would come back

Lockhorn. Lockhorn breed-uh (Jon not Jon), Monday, 26 February 2018 17:46 (six years ago) link

FTR, I'm not so thin-skinned that I can't deal with ribbing or criticism. sleeve, eg, has been vocal about his lack of appreciation for my Trump posts but I have no beef with sleeve even though I can't understand why anyone would ever object to anything I've ever posted because it's all kind of amazing tbh.

Ages ago, I wrote what was easily my most vitriolic post on the board in response to a shitty attack post by someone I subsequently spent ages thinking was a total dick and who I now think is a pretty cool dude and poster. ILX clearly demonstrates that bridges can be mended if one posts from a place of openness and love. Namaste.

Here Comes The Brain Event (Old Lunch), Monday, 26 February 2018 17:53 (six years ago) link

Tone policing valid criticism nagl my man

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 17:54 (six years ago) link

Also link plz

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 17:55 (six years ago) link

Ages ago, I wrote what was easily my most vitriolic post on the board in response to a shitty attack post by someone I subsequently spent ages thinking was a total dick and who I now think is a pretty cool dude and poster. ILX clearly demonstrates that bridges can be mended if one posts from a place of openness and love. Namaste.

Same and otm.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 26 February 2018 17:55 (six years ago) link

yeah, that's happened to me more than once too. and a lot of the times it goes the other way, too, where i was being a complete dick to someone for no reason and then gradually realized that the other person was a human being who was actually really interesting

i remember the corned beef of my childhood (Karl Malone), Monday, 26 February 2018 17:57 (six years ago) link

I still hate everyone I ever hated ftr.

No purposes. Sounds. (Sund4r), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:02 (six years ago) link

my posting has slowed down a lot, or it feels like it has. i peaked years ago! i don't really have much to talk about on here these days nor much to contribute. i'm not disinterested, but i'm beginning to feel like i want to hang on for one last big poll and then get out. like a heist movie. except I'm heisting music recommendations.

omar little, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:02 (six years ago) link

lots of the posters i was pals with back in the day i don't really talk to anymore, but that's maybe bc I'm not one who's ever met anyone IRL (except JBR for about a minute, and she's great!)

omar little, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:04 (six years ago) link

I do believe that every ILXor I've met IRL has been gone from the board for a decade+ at this point.

Here Comes The Brain Event (Old Lunch), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:06 (six years ago) link

now i just post GIFs to watch their fuckin' expression change etc

omar little, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:06 (six years ago) link

I keep misreading this thread titles as "Why do good people leave ILX?"

President Keyes, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:17 (six years ago) link

dear god, why does ilx happen to good people?

Lockhorn. Lockhorn breed-uh (Jon not Jon), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:17 (six years ago) link

there's people you thought left years ago but are still around in a new username that everyone but me knows who it is

Algerian Goalkeeper (Odysseus), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:21 (six years ago) link

Sund4r hates people? A new facet haha

imago, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:22 (six years ago) link

02-03 were fun years for me

w/r/t recruitment, i have done my part by both speaking with people in person and virtually

have successfully gotten a handful of people on board but they all give me the same feedback

also i think these are good but different times

people get nostalgic for the past or for what can't be had

bald butte (∞), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:23 (six years ago) link

Who was infinity symbol

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:23 (six years ago) link

meanwhile, i still don't have the slightest idea who the infinity symbol is

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:24 (six years ago) link

dmac u and i will never agree on socks just tellin u rn bud

bald butte (∞), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:24 (six years ago) link

I mean is that a clue I mean

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:25 (six years ago) link

Way I'm feeling rn I'm just gonna disappear and come back as '?'

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:25 (six years ago) link

what are your positions on socks?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:25 (six years ago) link

Mine?

Hmm we could extrapolate I spose

Just thought I can't come back as ? because jay batman would kick my ass

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:26 (six years ago) link

I'm against socks I think it's a silly business.

Online like.

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:27 (six years ago) link

One of my favourite genres of ilxor is people who have been here for like 15 years, always with the same username, and yet are subtle enough to slip under the radar

NZ's own 'etc' being one of the finest exponents of this

imago, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:27 (six years ago) link

xp i certainly can't read either of your minds! and i did ask.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:28 (six years ago) link

Sund4r hates people? A new facet haha

Sometimes yes, but I was joking there tbc.

No purposes. Sounds. (Sund4r), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:28 (six years ago) link

i have no desire to connect my various usernames to previous ones bc i don't treat this message board the same way others do, and never have, if people want an explanation

i do think i've gotten old too and am much less profane than before

just livin for the moment and chilin in lyfe now

bald butte (∞), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:30 (six years ago) link

other: when they tore the statscock down

how's life, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:30 (six years ago) link

Ok guys

Who was infinity

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:32 (six years ago) link

Srs now

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:32 (six years ago) link

chexy obv

imago, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:32 (six years ago) link

who?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:33 (six years ago) link

c21m50nh3x460n, but that doesn't explain who he was back in 02-03

how's life, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:34 (six years ago) link

but like he says, now chillin in lyfe.

how's life, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:35 (six years ago) link

oh come on he's not crimso

Lockhorn. Lockhorn breed-uh (Jon not Jon), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:36 (six years ago) link

who the fuck is crimso?

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:37 (six years ago) link

not him that's for sure

Evan, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:38 (six years ago) link

jaymc to thread plz

Here Comes The Brain Event (Old Lunch), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:39 (six years ago) link

I'd be surprised if chexy wasn't new as chexy tbh

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:40 (six years ago) link

Who is the sockpuppetmaster of ilx

TWU what's happening to me

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:40 (six years ago) link

He Do the Posters in Different Voices

President Keyes, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:41 (six years ago) link

the seemingly decline in big cultural tentpole moments is a factor for me. a lot of what made ilx fun for me was participating in those threads. although i guess a new star wars can be relied upon to come out every year. i think this is especially apparent on the music side. i mean just look at what was #1 for the tracks poll! a song nobody loved.

maybe that's another way of saying lots of good discussion can be found somewhere else, and also maybe that i'm less interested in engaging with the 'culture' nowadays. i will say ilx is nice though in that it's often a refuge from the hysteria present on other social media like twitter, the politics thread is often a good splash of cold water from trump fear.

also unfortunate is the number of shitty posts blanketing the board from posters like infinity symbol which makes finding the good stuff that much harder.

anyway! ilx is dead, long live ilx.

, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:43 (six years ago) link

Who is the sockpuppetmaster of ilx

― Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, February 26, 2018 1:40 PM (five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Like online or on our own time?

Evan, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:46 (six years ago) link

Dyao so help me

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:48 (six years ago) link

Who is the sockpuppetmaster of ilx

it's these two kids:

https://i.imgur.com/cX2mKYS.jpg

i remember the corned beef of my childhood (Karl Malone), Monday, 26 February 2018 18:49 (six years ago) link

Johnny Mathis and Mark Cuban

omar little, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:50 (six years ago) link

Write in vote for I save my best comments for secret ilx chat room bc tbph the ppl there are cooler sors

Mordy, Monday, 26 February 2018 18:53 (six years ago) link


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