Why do people leave ILX for good?

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the writing and editing of posts improved when I joined imo

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 26 February 2018 13:53 (six years ago) link

here's my blueprint for triumph

- clandestine recruitment drive on other websites. candidates are discussed at length on 77. if they pass muster they are sent a PM on their own website simply reading 'you are ready for ilxor' like how bill bruford joined king crimson. you laugh but I actually recruited both ultros ultros-ghali and Spottie using this technique on Drowned In Sound, and I'm prepared to repeat the process on RYM and so forth
- restructuring of the boards (we can discuss this) that doesn't sacrifice the overall vibe. STRONGLY recommend separate 'I Love Politics' board for starters
- more proactive/comedy modding. it gets a bit moribund on that front these days
- 'guest artists' come and give interviews/do AMAs like on Reddit EXCEPT they're all kind of obscure/ilxor types like avalon emerson or that guy who directed horse money or w/e. if the site was run a little more like a culture blog this wouldn't be too hard to organise
- ilxor youtube channel
- some kind of social component I haven't calculated yet

basically, anything to make this place less of a waste of time for ppl, and more of an indispensable cultural nexus containing all the math, all the languages etc

imago, Monday, 26 February 2018 13:59 (six years ago) link

That posts needs more DJ Martian

xyzzzz__, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:02 (six years ago) link

been here 15 years and de subjectivisten remains a(n excellent) mystery

mookieproof, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:03 (six years ago) link

PLANK xyzzzz doesn't believe in SOCIAL NETWORKS

imago, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:03 (six years ago) link

I could see leaving ILX at least temporarily if I found myself in a new job which made it more difficult to toss out witty ripostes in the midst of 'doing work'. Or if I decided to devote time to being successful at something in life ever.

Here Comes The Brain Event (Old Lunch), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:07 (six years ago) link

- 'guest artists' come and give interviews/do AMAs like on Reddit EXCEPT they're all kind of obscure/ilxor types like avalon emerson or that guy who directed horse money or w/e. if the site was run a little more like a culture blog this wouldn't be too hard to organise

this is a cool idea actually

Well bissogled trotters (Michael B), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:08 (six years ago) link

Ha, yeah. 07-13 didn't really stand out as exceptional in my memory at first but there were some good polls and listening clubs then tbf.

― No purposes. Sounds. (Sund4r),

the listening clubs were indeed fun but they were never going to last

Algerian Goalkeeper (Odysseus), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:09 (six years ago) link

- clandestine recruitment drive on other websites. candidates are discussed at length on 77. if they pass muster they are sent a PM on their own website simply reading 'you are ready for ilxor' like how bill bruford joined king crimson. you laugh but I actually recruited both ultros ultros-ghali and Spottie using this technique on Drowned In Sound, and I'm prepared to repeat the process on RYM and so forth

How many people will leave ILX for good if this is introduced?

Video reach stereo bog (Tom D.), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:10 (six years ago) link

restructuring of the boards (we can discuss this) that doesn't sacrifice the overall vibe. STRONGLY recommend separate 'I Love Politics' board for starters

I second this, particularly part B.

how's life, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:11 (six years ago) link

everything is political tho and we already have an i love everything board

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:17 (six years ago) link

https://im-01.gifer.com/13N8.gif

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:18 (six years ago) link

U can't remove politics from anything iirc

Lol xp

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:18 (six years ago) link

Srs suggestion: everyone forced to join I live footy

The world cup threads are the bright counterweight to what used to be a similarly periodic shitfest of US elections but somewhere along the way a particularly clunky comparison of trump to something something face like a melting wax ass lololol tore through the unknown materials and rules that combine to dictate the strange gravity and orbit of these event threads and now we all live in the awful US election thread universe

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:22 (six years ago) link

If I no longer loved music I would quit this place bc the discussion of most other topics I care about isn’t strong here & I don’t care about movies or tv but I do love music so I’ll be around. It seems like older people stop loving music and turn to tv and movies instead or just turn away from social life on the internet. if you leave for Twitter well then you get what you deserve.

droit au butt (Euler), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:22 (six years ago) link

football is cancer

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:23 (six years ago) link

bc the discussion of most other topics I care about isn’t strong here

rude imo

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:24 (six years ago) link

I've never really thought of ILE as more or less than a secondary board that was created so music fans could also have a place to shoot the shit about other things.

No purposes. Sounds. (Sund4r), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:25 (six years ago) link

If I no longer loved music I would quit this place bc the discussion of most other topics I care about isn’t strong here & I don’t care about movies or tv

what else is there after art and politics and food?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:26 (six years ago) link

fucking for one

droit au butt (Euler), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:27 (six years ago) link

humping iirc

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:28 (six years ago) link

eyyyy

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:28 (six years ago) link

plus the weather

droit au butt (Euler), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:28 (six years ago) link

"Sex" and "food" are synonymous.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:31 (six years ago) link

I've never really thought of ILE as more or less than a secondary board that was created so music fans could also have a place to shoot the shit about other things.

I only come here when ILM slows down to a crawl. Like imago said, a separate 'I love (US) politics' board would make this neck of the woods more appealing (to me, at least).

pomenitul, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:31 (six years ago) link

then why am i so much better at eating than shagging xp

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:32 (six years ago) link

It's funny but I dont think I ever looked at ILE for it's first few years of existence. Pretty sure 2003 will be when I first posted there at the earliest. I remember DG setting it up though. I miss DG but he always comes back every few years

Algerian Goalkeeper (Odysseus), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:33 (six years ago) link

then why am i so much better at eating than shagging xp

― NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara),

using the wrong recipes

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:35 (six years ago) link

it's a poor workman that blames his tools

NEW CHIMP THREAT (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:37 (six years ago) link

Pl

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:37 (six years ago) link

surely it's the ten thousand hours thing

President Keyes, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:38 (six years ago) link

PLANK xyzzzz doesn't believe in SOCIAL NETWORKS

― imago, Monday, 26 February 2018 Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Your ideas are thrash and I'm the plank?

xyzzzz__, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:39 (six years ago) link

I've never really thought of ILE as more or less than a secondary board that was created so music fans could also have a place to shoot the shit about other things.

― No purposes. Sounds. (Sund4r), Monday, 26 February 2018 Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

This board got good around 2013 which is roughly around the time I started to take it seriously, as it happens.

xyzzzz__, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:41 (six years ago) link

I support LJ’s proposal and volunteer to do alumni interviews with prospective posters in the new york/new jersey region.

treeship 2, Monday, 26 February 2018 14:47 (six years ago) link

if they pass muster they are sent a PM on their own website simply reading 'you are ready for ilxor'

there was an episode of Lewis with some club like this it was not good and did not end well

smashong pumpgong (Noodle Vague), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:50 (six years ago) link

Oh well let's just give up so

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Monday, 26 February 2018 14:51 (six years ago) link

How many people will leave ILX for good if this is introduced?

― Video reach stereo bog (Tom D.)

i don't know. me, maybe? y'all want to be important and influential and popular and that's not me. i'm a long tail guy. the more this place becomes a Twitter Annex the less i care.

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:00 (six years ago) link

we turn the board into an interactive realtime mystery game where there's a clue in every poll

President Keyes, Monday, 26 February 2018 15:01 (six years ago) link

I haven't stopped posting but I post way less frequently than I used to and I think it really is because most of my favorite posters don't post anymore and it doesn't seem anywhere near as interesting or as funny. Also, and maybe I am wrong in thinking this, but it feels like there are far fewer women posting these days and I think that factors in somehow too.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:06 (six years ago) link

i love bees

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:07 (six years ago) link

also the whole idea of ilx as a Planned Community seems so pathetic to me, things have an organic lifecycle and if this community is heading for extinction i say embrace it

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:11 (six years ago) link

Amen.

There really are way, way fewer women posting these days. Unless they're doing so surreptitiously. It's a shame.

Here Comes The Brain Event (Old Lunch), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:18 (six years ago) link

if they pass muster they are sent a PM on their own website simply reading 'you are ready for ilxor' like how bill bruford joined king crimson.

Robert Fripp is such a fucking dickhead. Apropos of nothing.

Video reach stereo bog (Tom D.), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:20 (six years ago) link

i definitely read ilx more than i post to ilx these days. i don't really have any places to hang out anymore. i'll never unlock my gold Ned badge at this rate.

scott seward, Monday, 26 February 2018 15:21 (six years ago) link

xxpost - It is. :( I miss them and of course I dp realize that by not posting as much I myself am contributing to that trend. Come back women!

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:21 (six years ago) link

that guy who directed horse money or w/e

lol good to know that Portugal's most famous/only criterionized director is still seen as a dude who'd totally have the time and inclination to talk to randos on ILX (probably not far wrong tbh).

Early 00's ILM was super formative to me as a young rockist wannabe rock critic, opened so many doors not just for then contemporary Hip-Hop and Chartpop but also Jazz, Techno, House, Ska. Atmosphere was far from friendly but really I cherish the beatdowns I got from jess, Blount and the like - at 18 I really needed to be told to stfu and stop thinking I was a genius.

I do miss a ton of posters but on a selfish level I feel like the brain drain from this forum makes it possible for me to post mostly w/o ridicule so...

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 26 February 2018 15:22 (six years ago) link

jess and blount were a deadly duo. they trampled the weak and hurdled the dead.

scott seward, Monday, 26 February 2018 15:25 (six years ago) link

i don't miss the mean-spiritedness of old ilx at all, like 0%
i do miss some of the people who have left but mostly they are on facebook or twitter if we are hungry for their thoughts. one of the best things about ilx is the lack of quantification of how many people approve of your thoughts and the democratizing bland b/w landscape. it's a huge equalizer, which some people like and i guess others don't.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:34 (six years ago) link

Prolific women posters leaving is the most bummer ilx trend

direct to consumer online mattress brand (silby), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:41 (six years ago) link

x-post - I thought I should add that I'm glad you are still posting a lot LL because whenever I do read or post I'm glad to see you here.

Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Monday, 26 February 2018 15:43 (six years ago) link


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