Weddings

i mostly just don't like having plans - i spend a lot of time with friends or whatever but i tend to prefer deciding what to do 15 minutes before leaving the house. partly cos my health isn't always reliable so big hanging obligations can be stressful.

i'm sure i'll enjoy both of these, though i do have a ton of stuff to organise for my brother's. when i say organise i mean he asks me to find some alternatives to an idea he has - "you'll know better than me" - then he decides to go with the original idea. now we've settled into this arrangement it's working well.