i have a question. when i post comments on other pages, or peoples pages, i am getting people i know 'liking' my comments. thing is, i want to post these comments anonymously. is there a way to adjust my settings so they are no longer visible to my fbk friends?
― StillAdvance, Monday, 18 July 2016 10:45 (six years ago) link
It depends on the privacy settings of the post you are commenting on. Your FB friends will be able to read your comments on posts that are set to be readable by "Public" or "Friends of Friends." The icon next to the time stamp shows you the post's privacy settings.
― based stress reduction (crüt), Monday, 18 July 2016 11:43 (six years ago) link
This is a feature of facebook I really dislike. There should at least be a way to make it so that your comments to "public" pages don't show up in your friend's feeds.
― socka flocka-jones (man alive), Tuesday, 19 July 2016 01:26 (six years ago) link
*nothing* you do should show up in anyone else's feeds except for ones own damn posts. And yet replying to a public, or friend of friends post, shows up all over the place. Heck, if you make a public post about a trending topic be prepared to show up in the trending list for all to see.
I have frieds who love to get into endless online comment stoushes on things like the Guardian/the Age/feminist pages which fills my feed with shit I'm not otherwise following. Nothing I can do short of hiding them, or the site (neither of which I really wish to do).
― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 19 July 2016 01:46 (six years ago) link
I really try not to comment on public pages for this reason, although occasionally I slip. But then there are times when you comment on a friend's page and just don't realize it's set to public or friends of friends.
― socka flocka-jones (man alive), Tuesday, 19 July 2016 01:51 (six years ago) link
ugh man i do not like this new thing where i see postings by friends-of-friends. rando rich dumbass talking shit about san francisco.. i don't think he wants strangers like me to see this, i certainly don't want to see it, but i have to see it because a friend of mine replied to him.
― brimstead, Tuesday, 19 July 2016 02:35 (six years ago) link
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― am0n, Thursday, 21 July 2016 14:01 (six years ago) link
A not quite as terrible but still weird corollary to this is when you get curious about random people you don't know who either like your comments or make comments on the same threads as you, click their names, and they don't have any privacy settings, and you start looking at their photos and suddenly get the icky feeling like you've snuck into someone's home and are going through their stuff.
― socka flocka-jones (man alive), Monday, 25 July 2016 19:42 (six years ago) link
I've got a friend who 'likes' his own posts - more often than not he's the only person who likes them - is that weird or what? I don't know enough about Facebook but I assume it's why, when I open up Facebook, his posts are invariably right at the top of the page? For instance, this morning, a quick count showed he had 22 out of the first 24 posts on my page.
― Eats like Elvis, shits like De Niro (Tom D.), Wednesday, 11 January 2017 12:58 (six years ago) link
... he is, of course, nuts... but not in a bad way.
― Eats like Elvis, shits like De Niro (Tom D.), Wednesday, 11 January 2017 12:59 (six years ago) link
― am0n, Wednesday, 11 January 2017 21:33 (six years ago) link
Ugh. Fuck a Facebook.
― Eats like Elvis, shits like De Niro (Tom D.), Thursday, 12 January 2017 10:09 (six years ago) link
managed to stumble across a video of a 12-year-old girl fatally hanging herself last night after idly wondering why 'cedartown, ga' was trending
i immediately reported it and this morning i got a notice from facebook thanking me for bringing it to their attention and that they would now ensure the video was rated only for those aged 18 and above. so i guess they're cool with people sharing snuff videos on their platform
fuck fuck fuck facebook
― hunk of poo, big fart, girlfriend, and Dove soap (bizarro gazzara), Friday, 13 January 2017 11:55 (six years ago) link
Luckily, my complaint/question isn't comparable to the shit BG said up here.
Are there any people here who also mod a business/work FB page? My posts on there consistently reach 3 or 4k people, according to FB. Today, a post hasn't gone further than 106 people. It says. Not only do I find that hard to believe, the number of ads from FB asking me to 'boost' the post (meaning I have to pay for it to be seen more) have doubled today.
Can they just flip a switch and bury my post to try to get me to pay for 'boosting' it? Doesn't sound unlikely to me, but I don't know. FB sucks balls, that I know.
― Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 7 February 2017 18:20 (six years ago) link
I often hear abt FB "changing the algorithms" which has more or less the effect you describe
― niels, Tuesday, 7 February 2017 18:23 (six years ago) link
Yeah. Despite all my rage I'm still just a rat in the FB cage right?
God I hate FB so much.
― Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 7 February 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link
― ilxor-com-dog-meat-drawer-7-840-x-600.jpg (unregistered), Monday, 3 September 2018 21:11 (four years ago) link
did it die?
― Karl Malone, Monday, 3 September 2018 21:12 (four years ago) link
is it in trouble somewhere in the woods
― Karl Malone, Monday, 3 September 2018 21:13 (four years ago) link
i uh missed this story?? wtf
― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 3 March 2019 01:38 (three years ago) link
Also read something recently (a twitter thread I think) that notes that if you gave FB your phone number, you can no longer set it to"only me" and they will now hand it over to Instagram, Whatsapp and advertisers.
I feel utter vindication that I ignored their increasingly aggravating "add phone number! 2FA! You neeeeed to do this!" BS.
― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Monday, 4 March 2019 00:19 (three years ago) link
Pretty sure they have my number anyway, given that they included it in the prompt about adding 2FA. Like "Do your want to add this number?" I always say no but when has that ever stopped them.
― reggae mike love (polyphonic), Monday, 4 March 2019 00:39 (three years ago) link
Yeah if they mention it, you've had it elswhere (it can grab it from the phone app I think? I also stopped using that because it scraped my fucking address contacts and started recommending I add workmates who know NOTHING about my FB)
― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Monday, 4 March 2019 00:49 (three years ago) link
I saw some weird thing recently where some guy I barely know but am FB friends with got hacked. The hacker took over his account but created a new name and added a few new pictures to go with the new identity but is still friends with all the original guy’s friends. Not sure what the point of all this is, but it’s a bit creepy.
― Ramones Leave the Capitol (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 18 April 2022 00:53 (nine months ago) link
Happened to my uncle. The endgame is trying to scam money out of you on Facebook messenger.
― DAMAGED by Black Flat (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 18 April 2022 01:14 (nine months ago) link
Oh wait I misunderstood you. Never mind. In my case it was a cloned profile with a subtly different (no middle initial) name!
― DAMAGED by Black Flat (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 18 April 2022 01:16 (nine months ago) link
Seems like this scenario would only be used to keep tabs on the inherited friends.
― Ramones Leave the Capitol (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 18 April 2022 01:38 (nine months ago) link