Gay Marriage to Alfred: Your Thoughts

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I got so far into that article thinking it was Maggie Gyllenhaal.

Nurse Detrius (Eric H.), Tuesday, 14 April 2009 21:08 (fifteen years ago) link

And then I stopped reading.

Nurse Detrius (Eric H.), Tuesday, 14 April 2009 21:08 (fifteen years ago) link

Maggie Gyllenhaal probably has her own stories.

I'm crossing over into enterprise (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 April 2009 21:08 (fifteen years ago) link

Moran citied Utah Gov. Jon Huntsman, a Mormon Republican who has called for the adoption of civil unions,

??? wtf! can someone explain this to me

shit was shocking as fuck back then (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 16 April 2009 22:50 (fifteen years ago) link

Maggie Gyllenhaal probably has her own stories.

― I'm crossing over into enterprise (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn)

every time i read this woman's name for just a second i think it refers to the other one

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Thursday, 16 April 2009 22:54 (fifteen years ago) link

So uh what do you guys think about "opposite marriage"?

Alex in SF, Tuesday, 21 April 2009 02:29 (fourteen years ago) link

You know what, I think in my country, in my family, I think that I believe that an opposite marriage should be between a man and a ghost, which is I think I believe an "opposite man." No offense to anybody out there, but that's how I was raised. A ghost is an empty soul, where a man once lived.

asplundh tree expert co. (iiiijjjj), Tuesday, 21 April 2009 02:34 (fourteen years ago) link

Well I think it's great that Americans are able to choose one or the other.

Alex in SF, Tuesday, 21 April 2009 02:36 (fourteen years ago) link

would you ask tom petty that? (tipsy mothra), Tuesday, 21 April 2009 02:40 (fourteen years ago) link

oops...reading the headline and getting ahead of myself, but very close

The-Reverend (rev), Thursday, 30 April 2009 00:26 (fourteen years ago) link

Yeah, still a touch early but definitely advancing. It's entirely possible that by the end of May the only state in New England without it would be Rhode Island.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 30 April 2009 00:28 (fourteen years ago) link

Miss California to campaign against gay marriage.

From the comments section:

"A woman with died hair and fake boobs lecturing on what is natural is like unlicensed, tax dodging, food stamp collecting plumber talking about personal responsibility."

Le présent se dégrade, d'abord en histoire, puis en (Michael White), Thursday, 30 April 2009 17:33 (fourteen years ago) link

McCain (Cindy) / Prejean '12

Vaclav Havel mostly. (Matt P), Thursday, 30 April 2009 17:52 (fourteen years ago) link

I simply cannot understand why people would be opposed to gay marriage, and it's always the ones who are incessantly paying lip service to "family values."

I'm all for gay marriage, and also for gay divorce.

thirdalternative, Thursday, 30 April 2009 20:18 (fourteen years ago) link

thanks for taking that bold stand

rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Thursday, 30 April 2009 20:22 (fourteen years ago) link

Carrie Prejean is from Vista, CA, which is a Republican stronghold in northern San Diego County.

I hate that she's my state's representative in the Miss USA Pageant. Hate, hate, hate.

Two Will Get You Three (B.L.A.M.), Thursday, 30 April 2009 21:58 (fourteen years ago) link

Max is gay for me.

thirdalternative, Friday, 1 May 2009 19:28 (fourteen years ago) link

I hate that she's my state's representative in the Miss USA Pageant. Hate, hate, hate.

^I wouldn't lose too much sleep over this.

Bill Magill, Friday, 1 May 2009 19:34 (fourteen years ago) link

Yeah, c'mon, it's a beauty pageant ffs, hardly a repair of the most progressive sentiments.

Le présent se dégrade, d'abord en histoire, puis en (Michael White), Friday, 1 May 2009 19:55 (fourteen years ago) link

Maine is in.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:06 (fourteen years ago) link

Yeah Maine! I was born in Vermont and have lived in Maine for nine years. Nice to see both states change via the legislature as opposed to the courts. Can't say it isn't "the will of the people" or any of that BS.

EZ Snappin, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:11 (fourteen years ago) link

DC city council voted to recognize same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions.

Super Cub, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:25 (fourteen years ago) link

Can't say it isn't "the will of the people" or any of that BS

i would love to believe you on this but i fear that conservative campaigns for referenda are just around the corner

roman knockwell (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:29 (fourteen years ago) link

They'll have California's situation as a role model, sadly, but at the same time I think that game-changed things more than the anti-gay marriage folks ever guessed.

Meantime what is interesting about this is that this is the first situation where it was a straight up 'passed the state legislature, signed by the governor' situation without court decisions, overrides or the like, and the governor himself indicated his own change of heart on the matter. New Hampshire could potentially be next.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:42 (fourteen years ago) link

Another thing of interest too -- granted that it's Maine and not, say, New York (yet) but this is NOT turning into a major news story as yet. The Washington Post is highlighting it but the NY Times and LA Times and etc. barely at all. I almost read that as a sign that this is becoming more of a 'well yeah, duh' issue in some corners, obv. not all.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:45 (fourteen years ago) link

more likely it's "lol Maine, who cares"

It sometimes seems like newsmedia doesn't actually care about anything unless it happens in New York/California/DC/Chicago.

I'm gone (HI DERE), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:47 (fourteen years ago) link

AUGUSTA, Maine - Gov. John Baldacci on Wednesday signed a gay marriage bill passed just hours before by the Maine Legislature.

Baldacci made his announcement within an hour of the Maine Senate giving its final approval to LD 1020. The Senate voted 21-13 in favor of the measure after a short debate.

"In the past, I opposed gay marriage while supporting the idea of civil unions," Baldacci said in a written statement. "I have come to believe that this is a question of fairness and of equal protection under the law, and that a civil union is not equal to civil marriage."

Swat Valley High (goole), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:54 (fourteen years ago) link

http://www.bangordailynews.com/detail/105356.html

Swat Valley High (goole), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:54 (fourteen years ago) link

A little more from the NYT now:

Gov. John Baldacci of Maine on Wednesday signed the same-sex marriage bill passed by the State Legislature, saying he had reversed his position on such marriages after deciding it was a matter of equal protection under the state’s Constitution.

“It’s not the way I was raised and it’s not the way that I am,” the governor said in a telephone interview. “But at the same time I have a responsibility to uphold the Constitution. That’s my job, and you can’t allow discrimination to stand when it’s raised to your level.”

It further discusses the referenda option as elmo has noted, so we'll see how this plays out.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:56 (fourteen years ago) link

Can't say it isn't "the will of the people" or any of that BS

i would love to believe you on this but i fear that conservative campaigns for referenda are just around the corner

Oh, the nutters have been talking about a referendum before this passed, so I'm sure it will be on the ballot this fall. Baldacci hinted at that in his statement as well.

It was nice of him to point out this doesn't affect religions at all, which people don't point out often enough.

EZ Snappin, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 17:58 (fourteen years ago) link

i would love to believe you on this but i fear that conservative campaigns for referenda are just around the corner

Battles will likely still be lost here and there (or maybe even never attempted at a state-by-state level in some states), but the war definitely feels like it's easily winnable now.

neu hollywood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 18:03 (fourteen years ago) link

To further bolster my "lol Maine, who cares" hypothesis, here is the lead story on CNN.com, over coverage of the signing of this bill:

http://www.cnn.com/2009/US/05/06/florida.chinese.drywall.family/index.html

...Really? This is the most important story you have today?

I'm gone (HI DERE), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:11 (fourteen years ago) link

haha i love how often the word "chinese" is used in that article

rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:12 (fourteen years ago) link

gotta make sure we remember that the great drywall scare of '09 was caused by the yellow menace

rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:13 (fourteen years ago) link

i'm going to just look at that URL and make up my own story involving florida, chinese food, and drywall

Mr. Que, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:13 (fourteen years ago) link

meanwhile, the RI House just passed legislation prohibiting indoor prostitution (not just outdoor solicitation, as was previously the case) in a regressive response to (i'm guessing) the craigslist killer; i know that doesn't have anything to do gay marriage per se but taking that development as a social barometer, my hopes for RI gay marriage are pretty diminished

roman knockwell (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:19 (fourteen years ago) link

Theoretically that would still allow for indoor/outdoor gloryholes.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link

well--fewer prostitutes indoors means fewer deaths from the menace of chinee drywall

rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link

you can't get married through a gloryhole, ned.

roman knockwell (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:21 (fourteen years ago) link

lol ned

mark cl, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 19:23 (fourteen years ago) link

Building a bit on what I noted earlier in this almost starting to seem normal -- I had wondered if/when Sullivan would post anything about this, and he did but only after about a couple of hours (which for him and this issue is the equivalent of an eon), and briefly. I'm not surprised to see this as a follow-up with this introduction:

I'm sitting here, after renting a tux and grabbing a sandwich at Starbucks, and realize I just posted a brief note on the fifth state in the US to grant marriage equality. As if this were now routine. As if it were no big deal. As if what was only recently a pipe-dream hasn't become a reality.

Pity about the Starbucks sandwiches though.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 May 2009 20:05 (fourteen years ago) link

I love their toffee bars!

I'm crossing over into enterprise (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 6 May 2009 20:15 (fourteen years ago) link

http://www.slate.com/id/2218774/

makes sense to me, except for california?

I've never heard of a single one of those blogs. (Matt P), Thursday, 21 May 2009 22:13 (fourteen years ago) link

the religious right has never been a force in New England (I dunno about Iowa).

Wrinkles, I'll See You On the Other Side (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 21 May 2009 22:16 (fourteen years ago) link

no on 8 coalition just totally fucked it up/shot themselves in the foot didn't they. lol california

I've never heard of a single one of those blogs. (Matt P), Thursday, 21 May 2009 22:16 (fourteen years ago) link

yeah they didn't count on the strength of out-of-state organizers (thx Utah! fucking Mormons)

Wrinkles, I'll See You On the Other Side (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 21 May 2009 22:23 (fourteen years ago) link

beware the west, where people are still crazy and make $$$ from it

I've never heard of a single one of those blogs. (Matt P), Thursday, 21 May 2009 22:25 (fourteen years ago) link


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