good song
― welltris (crüt), Sunday, 6 December 2015 14:38 (eight years ago) link
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― on entre O.K. on sort K.O. (man alive), Sunday, 6 December 2015 16:35 (eight years ago) link
Rape Sloth | Know Your Memeknowyourmeme.com/memes/rape-slothKnow Your MemeRape Sloth is an advice animal image macro series featuring a photograph of a sloth that appears to be whispering in a woman’s ear. The captions often contain creepy sexual innuendo, pick up lines and alarming threats that are meant to disturb the reader, in a similar vein to ...
― scarlett bohansson (unregistered), Sunday, 6 December 2015 16:42 (eight years ago) link
The updated version (now non-rapey!)
http://www.cnn.com/2016/12/02/us/baby-its-cold-outside-cover-trnd/index.html
― nickn, Saturday, 3 December 2016 08:11 (seven years ago) link
" I really can't stay/Baby I'm fine with that" opens the song,
― though she denies it to the press, (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Saturday, 3 December 2016 12:11 (seven years ago) link
a) Is it still "rapey" if Rufus Wainwright sings the male lead?
b) Bubl'e doesn't have the definitive version of ANY song.
c) Women who smoke are generally accepted as "loose" so feel free to liquor them up and ply you wares;)
d) Listen to the interplay on the version from Jimmy Smith & Wes Montgomery and call it day, or, shitcan the whole deal and listen to Billie Holiday have a go at it on "I´ve Got My Love To Keep Me Warm".
― bodacious ignoramus, Saturday, 3 December 2016 14:55 (seven years ago) link
i really love this song !! but i always feel bad for listening to it for all the lore
― surm, Saturday, 3 December 2016 16:25 (seven years ago) link
the Jimmy Smith & Wes Montgomery version is the only one I've got, it doesn't sound very seasonal but it absolutely smokes.
― calzino, Saturday, 3 December 2016 16:36 (seven years ago) link
... i especially love how coming out of the vamp and back into the chorus, Montgomery misses a string and Jimmy comes right back a does the same thing in response on his Hammond.
― bodacious ignoramus, Saturday, 3 December 2016 18:58 (seven years ago) link
there's an everydayfeminism thinkpiece just begging to be written about how this song is surprisingly sex-positive by jazz age standards and how it's patronizing to assume that the woman is acting under coercion when she makes the empowering choice to define her sexuality on her own terms by accepting the man's advances in spite of conventional morality and received wisdom advising her to the contrary.
― memories of a cruller (unregistered), Sunday, 4 December 2016 02:52 (seven years ago) link
"4 Reasons Why 'Baby It's Cold Outside' Isn't As Rapey As You Think"
― memories of a cruller (unregistered), Sunday, 4 December 2016 02:53 (seven years ago) link
I think the fact that the girl at the end cheerfully says "baby it's cold outside," (i.e. "ok, I'll stay,") makes it pretty obvious that the song is not "rapey," not to mention that most of her protests are like "what will the neighbors think" kind of stuff. Even having to read it this closely to make the point makes me die inside a little.― signed, J.P. Morgan CEO (Hurting 2), Tuesday, December 24, 2013 12:31 PM (two years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― signed, J.P. Morgan CEO (Hurting 2), Tuesday, December 24, 2013 12:31 PM (two years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
ahead of his time
― Treeship, Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:05 (seven years ago) link
can we drop the use of the word "rapey"? It's annoying as hell.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:09 (seven years ago) link
resolution to ban the word rapey and michael buble
all in favor
― Flamenco Drop (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:28 (seven years ago) link
https://www.sysoon.com/deceased/theodore-rapey-37
― velko, Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:41 (seven years ago) link
We haven't had that spirit here since 1984.
― nickn, Sunday, 4 December 2016 08:03 (seven years ago) link
"rapish" more grammatically correct
― xiphoid beetlebum (rushomancy), Sunday, 4 December 2016 15:38 (seven years ago) link
I think it was linked earlier on the thread: http://persephonemagazine.com/2010/12/listening-while-feminist-in-defense-of-baby-its-cold-outside/
― Spiritual Hat Minimalism (Sund4r), Sunday, 4 December 2016 15:59 (seven years ago) link
oh, Christ
― Supercreditor (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 December 2016 22:30 (seven years ago) link
NPR took notice
gonna do this every year huh
― k3vin k., Tuesday, 20 December 2016 22:47 (seven years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiCstfC9FfM
― AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 6 January 2017 05:56 (seven years ago) link
http://bigbutterandeggman.tumblr.com/post/154013148291/teachingwithcoffee-its-time-to-bring-an-end-to
― Fred Klinkenberg (Eric H.), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 21:10 (six years ago) link
Still not a Christmas song, tho.
I like that explanation, but what are some other examples of this stock joke? I asked this upthread and nothing specific came up.
I can think of one possible example in The Rules of the Game (Christine: "I drank way too much; I don't know what I'm doing," right before going off with St. Aubin).
― jmm, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link
In The Rules of the Game is every exception. It is life itself.
― Fred Klinkenberg (Eric H.), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link
trans-era humorlessness is a helluva drug
― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link
(i mean "across eras" there, to be clear)
― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:29 (six years ago) link
Post flagged.
― Fred Klinkenberg (Eric H.), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 18:08 (six years ago) link
what're those New Puritan membership dues?
― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link
Now I want a Neil Young Trans-era Baby It's Cold Outside.
https://images.eil.com/large_image/NEIL_YOUNG_TRANS%2B-%2BQUIEX%2BII-77882.jpg
― how's life, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link
This is happening: https://www.cbc.ca/news/entertainment/canadian-radio-stations-baby-it-s-cold-outside-1.4931867
I'm cool with this being a poll/discussion on a message board; less so with this kind of action. I just don't see how anyone who argues strongly on one side or the other of this issue is going to come out looking good.
― Timothée Charalambides (cryptosicko), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:08 (five years ago) link
I don't think I have ever heard this song
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:25 (five years ago) link
I don't know if the point is raised on this long thread; but I think it's interesting that in the original movie, Neptune's Daughter, the song is performed twice -- first, by Esther Williams and Ricardo Montalbán (with the familiar dynamic); and then again later, in a "role-reversal" twist, in which Betty Garrett is trying to convince Red Skelton to let her stay. Both versions are in this clip:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MFJ7ie_yGU
― underqualified backing vocalist (morrisp), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:31 (five years ago) link
I hated this song before it wasn't okay to hate it. Except my hatred is real, because I literally don't care if he's going to take advantage of her. I just fucking hate this heinous piece of aural dreck.
― Totally different head. Totally. (Austin), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:33 (five years ago) link
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, December 4, 2018 2:25 PM (eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
i always think this, but i have, it’s just incredibly unmemorable
― jolene club remix (BradNelson), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:34 (five years ago) link
It's also interesting (to me) that the song was recorded & released eight times in 1949 alone (the year the film came out), producing multiple hit records; including by heavy hitters like Ella Fitzgerald, Dinah Shore, etc.: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baby,_It%27s_Cold_Outside#1949_recordings
― underqualified backing vocalist (morrisp), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:35 (five years ago) link
That's what I miss about old pop music: the covers of contemporary songs. Don't like the Beatles version of 'Hey Jude'? More of an r+b fan?
I got you.
I'm being deadly seriously when I say that I'd love to hear Julia Holter's take on something like, I don't know. . . 'Call Me Maybe'. I guess publishing isn't what it used to be, in this regard.
― Totally different head. Totally. (Austin), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:42 (five years ago) link
I only ever became conscious of this songs existence via hearing the Wes Montgomery & Jimmy Smith version on a Wes Montgomery compilation in 2006. It just coincidentally happened to be around Christmas time.
― MarkoP, Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:43 (five years ago) link
How do you avoid this song? I hear it all the time in public this time of year.
― jmm, Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:44 (five years ago) link
Sorry, I'm finding the Wikipedia entry fascinating:
During the 1940s, when Hollywood celebrities attended parties, they were expected to perform. In 1944, Frank Loesser wrote "Baby, It's Cold Outside" for his wife, Lynn Garland, and himself to sing at a housewarming party in New York City at the Navarro Hotel. They sang the song to indicate to guests that it was time to leave. Loesser often introduced himself as the "evil of two Loessers" because of the role he played in the song.Garland wrote that after the first performance, "We become instant parlor room stars. We got invited to all the best parties for years on the basis of 'Baby.' It was our ticket to caviar and truffles. Parties were built around our being the closing act." In 1948, after years of performing the song, Loesser sold it to MGM for the 1949 romantic comedy Neptune's Daughter. Garland was furious, and wrote, "I felt as betrayed as if I'd caught him in bed with another woman."
Garland wrote that after the first performance, "We become instant parlor room stars. We got invited to all the best parties for years on the basis of 'Baby.' It was our ticket to caviar and truffles. Parties were built around our being the closing act." In 1948, after years of performing the song, Loesser sold it to MGM for the 1949 romantic comedy Neptune's Daughter. Garland was furious, and wrote, "I felt as betrayed as if I'd caught him in bed with another woman."
― underqualified backing vocalist (morrisp), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:51 (five years ago) link
I mean I hear it more often now, but it's one of those standards that would have flown by if I was not paying attention.
It's like how it was only a few years ago I was made aware of the Christmas song "Marshmallow World".
― MarkoP, Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:51 (five years ago) link
xp They actually did divorce! (though not until 1957)
Loesser also wrote, among other things, the songs from Guys and Dolls ("Luck Be a Lady Tonight," "A Bushel and a Peck," etc.).
― underqualified backing vocalist (morrisp), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:55 (five years ago) link
I likely would've never known this song if it wasnt for the creepy shower scene from elf
― Spottie, Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:56 (five years ago) link
I just don't see how anyone who argues strongly on one side or the other of this issue is going to come out looking good.
A conundrum that could've so easily been avoided if people had only realized the whole time that there's nothing remotely holiday-ish about this song.
― I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 22:43 (five years ago) link
xp. I've heard it twice in public thus far this "holiday season"
― ( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 23:08 (five years ago) link
― I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Tuesday, December 4, 2018 2:43 PM (twenty-six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
this is a weird horse to flog. jingle bells has nothing to do with christmas but here we are
― ( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 23:10 (five years ago) link
One side won’t look good bc they’re denying obvious reality and the other bc in 2018 an argument that something isn’t rapey will always be suspect as general rape apologetics.
― Mordy, Tuesday, 4 December 2018 23:11 (five years ago) link
Another example of a "holiday standard" that has nothing to do w/Xmas, just wintry timez -- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I%27ve_Got_My_Love_to_Keep_Me_Warm
― underqualified backing vocalist (morrisp), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 23:11 (five years ago) link
i quite like Jen Kirkman’s thread on this from the other day - which basically reinforces kate78’s post wayyyyy upthread that this song is a foreplay song(kirkman links to the Persephone piece too)
I’m so tired of this. The song seems odd now not cuz it’s about coercing sex but about a woman who knows her reputation is ruined if she stays. “Say what’s in this drink” is an old movie line from the 30’s that means “I’m telling the truth.” She wanted to get down and stay over. https://t.co/3TaQbUSoB1— JEN KIRKMAN (@JenKirkman) December 1, 2018
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 5 December 2018 00:07 (five years ago) link