are you an atheist?

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Perhaps yr right there.

Trayce, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:11 (fifteen years ago) link

i'm not an atheist, but 75% of my friends are atheist. all quite nice, moral people. hell, a few of my atheist friends are bigger prudes than me. (and i'm a beer drinkin, noise rockin Deacon... don't ask me how on earth i got asked for that job in my church. the joke is certainly on me.) at least, for the most part, there's this larger cultural split that exists and so just as a believer here in ilx, i'm in the vast minority, that same thing carries over to the circles i know offline. for whatever reason, me and atheists have more in common than me and your average church goin fool.

i dislike fundies more than you guys do i would imagine. for me, way too much energy is wasted on fingerpointing. if christians collectively stopped oppressing eachother and everybody else, we could EASILY stop world hunger, put a major dent in world poverty, etc etc etc. but no...

it's enough to make you not believe. it really is.

msp, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:21 (fifteen years ago) link

DO IT. DO IT.

Autumn Almanac, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:25 (fifteen years ago) link

:( That's not what I want to see at all.

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:25 (fifteen years ago) link

If more religious leaders were like msp...

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:26 (fifteen years ago) link

Went with "atheist", though I'm more of a committed agnostic. Push comes to shove, though, the "there is no god" position seems just as silly & unjustifiable to me as the "God is LOVE!" position.

contenderizer, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:26 (fifteen years ago) link

Really? Refusing to accept that there's an invisible man in the sky who watches you all the time is as silly believing there is one?

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:28 (fifteen years ago) link

(simplified and pissed on for comic effect, obv.)

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:28 (fifteen years ago) link

x-post to AA... ha! nice! wow, sunday mornings free...yeah... no more cheesy hymns...yeah... ah but the free donuts. nah. gonna stick with it for a while.

msp, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:29 (fifteen years ago) link

Difficult to prove that something doesn't exist, but slightly easier than trying to prove something does exist when there is no proof.

Still, that's why they call it a belief innit.

Autumn Almanac, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:35 (fifteen years ago) link

I ahte to quote Bill Hicks, and i apologize, but I do love that he said "A belief is just that. It's just what you believe. Doesn't make it true." Because that's kind of, wow, truthbomb.

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:39 (fifteen years ago) link

(zillions of x-posts) I would not have said athiesm agruments are silly or unjustified. The arguments put forward by atheists such as Dawkins are logically quite simple and sound, and all based on variations of the point that interpolating a deity presupposes all the mysteries the interpolation is supposed to explain.

For example, the argument for the existence of a creative deity aims to explain the creation of the universe; but, in so doing, it creates a new problem of the same nature, viz, how the creation of the deity took place.

The soundness of the arguments against deism are what incline former agnostics towards atheism, when they look further into the matter. It appears that, on elementary logical grounds alone (see Dawkins - you may not like his tone, but that is another matter) deities are both unnecessary and useless when trying to explain the universe.

Therefore, atheism rather than agnosticism is to be preferred. But a gentle atheism. I wouldn't want people constantly pointing out to me that I really know almost nothing about music for example. On a basic level, that is certainly true, but I don't want to be constantly ridiculed about it. It may be that many deeply religious people are touchy for the same reason. Deep down, they know their beliefs are untenable, but aren't yet prepared to make a terrifying leap into the lap of their former enemies.

moley, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:39 (fifteen years ago) link

But science's is not a way of making assumptions and declarations about the world, it's a way of examining it. A scientist knows that we don't know shit. That's what gets you into that game! You want to know more.

in theory, at least. but i'm not arguing with this, my quarrel is not with science. earth is round, gravity is a fact, etc. etc.

my problem is with those who confuse their interpretation of what those those facts mean as equivalent to those facts.

latebloomer, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:49 (fifteen years ago) link

(xp)

Some definitely fall into that category.

It would be terrifying, though, when you think about it: A belief you have held all your life; a family who keeps up the pressure to stay in the fold; friends and peers who would look at you differently if you abandoned them; an overwhelming sense of guilt for even entertaining the notion; in some cases, an entire racial/cultural group ready to disown you if you dare to step off the wagon.

I've never been religious so I can't directly empathise, but bugger me if it wouldn't be a ballsy move.

Autumn Almanac, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:51 (fifteen years ago) link

(x-x-post) One last thought - it appears that many atheists want to say to religious people that, becuase they hold irrational and delusional beliefs, that they are mentally ill in the clinical sense - and, indeed, many of them are. It is seriously questionable, however, that ridicule is the most effective response. maybe it is, maybe it isn't. As for logical argument, it's demonstably clear that people who hold delusional beliefs aren't so amenable to logical demonstration. The treatment of delusional beliefs is no simple matter.

It's just not clear or obvious how an atheist should respond to crazy world views. Ridicule? Argument? Pacification? Ignoring?

Ignoring people with extreme beliefs can turn out to be very dangerous in the long term, it need hardly be pointed out.

moley, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:53 (fifteen years ago) link

Deep down, they know their beliefs are untenable

That's assuming too much, I think. Maybe that's true for some for some, maybe even for many, but deep down or not, if enough people started thinking that their beliefs were untenable, they would talk amongst themselves, some kind of critical mass would be reached, and soon *every* church door would have a notice nailed to it. History does not provide evidence that humans always tend toward rationality.

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:53 (fifteen years ago) link

It's a risky stategy, fomenting discontent within a community. I think for many people (myself included), it's usually a better strategy to lie low and keep one's sketicism to one's self rather than incur the wrath of the community. Though I do take your point that I may be assuming too much.

moley, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:56 (fifteen years ago) link

Well, on the other side of the argument, maybe your assumptions are supported by the extreme measures churches have historically taken to prevent people sowing the seeds of doubt. You know, like, killing lots and lots of people. Of totally inventing the idea of hell.

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:58 (fifteen years ago) link

oR totally inventing, etc

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 05:59 (fifteen years ago) link

I have to accept that I Don't Know Shit about why people remain religious. ;)

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:01 (fifteen years ago) link

"I get what Trayce is saying, tho, because when someone says "I'm an atheist" there's a terrible moment where you just KNOW their next words will be "and Ayn Rand is a great thinker.""

and so is the pope

stevienixed, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:09 (fifteen years ago) link

you know, much as i hate religious bullshit it's fucking silly to think of religion as simply a disease to be cured or treated. even if you could eliminate religion, people would kill and fight over other things. religion is just one of many excuses people use to be terrible to one another.

latebloomer, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:13 (fifteen years ago) link

it's probably not even the primary one.

latebloomer, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:16 (fifteen years ago) link

But religion as an institution, especially as a political institution, is a major boulder in the road to the long overdue War on Being A Dumbass.

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:19 (fifteen years ago) link

^ truth bomb

Autumn Almanac, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:22 (fifteen years ago) link

Yeah but one less excuse would be nice.

Stone Monkey, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:22 (fifteen years ago) link

well yeah. it's not like i need a lesson in how shitty religion can be. i live in south carolina fer chrissakes.

latebloomer, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:30 (fifteen years ago) link

*hugs*

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:31 (fifteen years ago) link

awww

latebloomer, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:32 (fifteen years ago) link

I grew up in Texas, which at least has the advantage of being a bit edgy. In either direction.

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:34 (fifteen years ago) link

(for "a bit edgy" red "completely over the edge and mired in piles of its own batshittedness")

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:37 (fifteen years ago) link

reAd, not red

time for bed!

kenan, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 06:37 (fifteen years ago) link

I think the difference between militant atheists and militant religous types is that I never see an atheist standing in the street with a fucking loudhailer every fucking saturday while i'm trying to have a pleasant stroll around town telling me that if i don't change my ways i'm going to hell.

Ned Trifle II, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 07:41 (fifteen years ago) link

With diagrams.

Ned Trifle II, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 07:42 (fifteen years ago) link

"Excuse me, Sir, will you be going to this Hell place with your loudhailer?"

"Well, of course not. But you are."

"If there is no asshole with a loudhailer, place just might be Heaven."

suzy, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 08:21 (fifteen years ago) link

Also I never get militant atheists knocking on my door suggesting that I might want to look further into the non-existence of a higher being and perhaps take away some literature.

Ned Trifle II, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 08:52 (fifteen years ago) link

They don't know where you live

Tom D., Wednesday, 21 May 2008 08:56 (fifteen years ago) link

NOTE: if the JWs come, best way to get rid is to say you've left the church. They are duty bound to shun you.

I had Xtians at the door one Sunday, dude asked me if I would like a copy of a 'tract'. They then asked me if I knew the world was getting worse, scarier and I disagreed to put a spike in the rapture-ready narrative (my SOP for this is 'it's narcissism/wrong to think the world ends with idiots like you'). There's a huge sign on the door of my building that says NO SOLICITING and I love how they come in here thinking for some reason they're not doing that.

suzy, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 09:15 (fifteen years ago) link

I am an atheist and I would give Ayn Rand a great plonking.

edwardo, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 09:19 (fifteen years ago) link

I was raised in a Methodist/Presbyterian congregation and stopped believing in God somewhere between ages 4 and 6, which made me pretty obnoxious to attend Sunday School with. In college or late high school, I reconciled myself to agnosticism.

In the last year or so, I've really been opening up to faith in God, however. It's the beginning of a journey and I'm still shaky on a lot of it, but it's there. Just to clarify my "no" vote as not being agnostic.

kingkongvsgodzilla, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 09:39 (fifteen years ago) link

Most scientists I know think it's better science to be an agnostic than an atheist due to the nature of absolutes and the not-knowing.

suzy, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 10:17 (fifteen years ago) link

it can only end it tears sur!

Flailing

Kiwi, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 10:52 (fifteen years ago) link

Most scientists I know think it's better science to be an agnostic than an atheist

sadly it's more of a philosophical question, and most scientists are rubbish at philosophy.

ledge, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 10:58 (fifteen years ago) link

I'm a scientist, (I suck at philosophy because it's an inherently flawed enterprise) and I'm an agnostic. So write-in: maybe.

caek, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 11:00 (fifteen years ago) link

i think i might be an infidel.

Upt0eleven, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 11:05 (fifteen years ago) link

My dad's a scientist and is a Christian. I also work for a scientific organization, and plenty of scientists are big church- and synagogue-goers. That doesn't exactly get into the heart of their personal beliefs though.

There are enough good reasons to go to church even if you aren't a die-hard believer. Plenty of worshippers are sharp enough to realize that their religious text might not be a reliable source, but they believe anyway or go to church for social or activist reasons.

kingkongvsgodzilla, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 11:53 (fifteen years ago) link

Also I never get militant atheists knocking on my door suggesting that I might want to look further into the non-existence of a higher being and perhaps take away some literature.

-- Ned Trifle II, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 18:52 (3 hours ago) Bookmark Link

John Safran did that on telly, went to that mormon-rich place in the US and door-knocked selling atheism. Got loads of doors slammed in his face.

Autumn Almanac, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 11:54 (fifteen years ago) link

Came up in conversation with friend's ancient mad scientist dad (invented teasmade, also medical ultrasound guy) who pulled out the etymology (a gnosis) and pointed out that it was wisest to say you didn't know one way or the other, because until dead not sure and it's not like you can send an email at that point.

Friend's husband has a MD dad also, but this guy's a mega-Xtian and it's funny to listen to agnostic scientist say that belief in Xtianity is root of all his in-law's problems.

suzy, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 11:57 (fifteen years ago) link

Psacal's Wager innit. Agnosticism's a cop-out though ultimately, have some damn convictions I say! Although I suppose you could have conviction that you just don't know.

I look at it this way. I live my life to the best of my abilities, I'm a pretty nice person (I like to think but really it's not up to me to judge - that's up to tombot - hoho I jest of course!). I try not to do evil (just like google!) and if there turns out to be a god and that wasn't enough, and instead of all that I could have just been a shit and sought salvation on my deathbed then I'm afraid that's no god that I want to believe in anyway. So, I'm an athiest not an agnostic.

Ned Trifle II, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 12:10 (fifteen years ago) link

I think the difference between militant atheists and militant religous types is that I never see an atheist standing in the street with a fucking loudhailer every fucking saturday while i'm trying to have a pleasant stroll around town telling me that if i don't change my ways i'm going to hell.

So true.

I stopped benig militant (about my atheism) cause everyone (including myself) considered me to be somewhat of a jerk when I kept saying there is no god.Of course all the others remain jerks cause they continue defending god but at least I can laugh about it now (mostly inwardly). ;-)

Honestly I don't give a shit anymore what anyone thinks. As long as we're happy and try to be "good" that's all that matters.

stevienixed, Wednesday, 21 May 2008 12:23 (fifteen years ago) link


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